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brandt



Joined: 04 May 2011

PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2011 7:59 pm    Post subject: FREE CAT Reply with quote

+ 14 month old male
+ litterbox trained
+ neutered

i will also include:
+ litter box
+ whatever is left of my Costco cat litter (about 15lbs worth right now)
+ whatever is left of his food (2 bags right now)
+ cat brush
+ 2 small food/water dishes
+ Burberry pet carrying case

He's a good guy, he just needs a new home.
email me: [email protected]
located near Seoul Nat'l University.
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itistime



Joined: 23 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2011 9:26 pm    Post subject: Re: FREE CAT Reply with quote

brandt wrote:
+ 14 month old male
+ litterbox trained
+ neutered

i will also include:
+ litter box
+ whatever is left of my Costco cat litter (about 15lbs worth right now)
+ whatever is left of his food (2 bags right now)
+ cat brush
+ 2 small food/water dishes
+ Burberry pet carrying case

He's a good guy, he just needs a new home.
email me: [email protected]
located near Seoul Nat'l University.


Why are you giving him away?
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brandt



Joined: 04 May 2011

PostPosted: Fri May 06, 2011 12:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He just can't live with me anymore. It was temporary anyway, the deadline has just been pushed up.
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RMNC



Joined: 21 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Fri May 06, 2011 5:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Can he not live with you anymore because of tenant or landlord issues? Allergies? Or is he a horrible monster who claws your neck every morning like my cat?
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brandt



Joined: 04 May 2011

PostPosted: Tue May 10, 2011 9:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

still looking for a new home.
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lille



Joined: 27 Jan 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue May 10, 2011 10:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why are you giving him away?
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brandt



Joined: 04 May 2011

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 2:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't really understand why everyone is so concerned with why I'm giving him away. There's various personal reasons, and he just needs a new home. He's not sick or disabled and you're certainly not going to show up only to be handed a dead cat.
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West Coast Tatterdemalion



Joined: 31 Aug 2010

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 4:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lemme guess...you are one of these foreigners that got lonely here and decided that a cat would be the perfect cure...for one year. Now, after all the love and everything this cat has given you, you just want to dump it onto the next foreigner to relieve you of that commitment. You adopt an animal, hey, you make a commitment. Why can't you take the cat back home with you? If you work here, then you make more than enough to pay for its transport home. For god's sake, just don't release it outside(big time bad karma for you). People, do NOT adopt an animal here in Korea unless you are willing to take care of it for life. It is a commitment for life, not one year.
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murmanjake



Joined: 21 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 4:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

cause no home at all is better than a temporary one...
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Bibbitybop



Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 5:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

murmanjake wrote:
cause no home at all is better than a temporary one...


Exactly. It's a cat, not a human child.
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brandt



Joined: 04 May 2011

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 4:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

West Coast Tatterdemalion wrote:
Lemme guess...you are one of these foreigners that got lonely here and decided that a cat would be the perfect cure...for one year. Now, after all the love and everything this cat has given you, you just want to dump it onto the next foreigner to relieve you of that commitment. You adopt an animal, hey, you make a commitment. Why can't you take the cat back home with you? If you work here, then you make more than enough to pay for its transport home. For god's sake, just don't release it outside(big time bad karma for you). People, do NOT adopt an animal here in Korea unless you are willing to take care of it for life. It is a commitment for life, not one year.


your assumptions, ignorance, self-righteousness, and general douchebaggery have all been noted. thanks!
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madtownhustl



Joined: 04 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

brandt wrote:
West Coast Tatterdemalion wrote:
Lemme guess...you are one of these foreigners that got lonely here and decided that a cat would be the perfect cure...for one year. Now, after all the love and everything this cat has given you, you just want to dump it onto the next foreigner to relieve you of that commitment. You adopt an animal, hey, you make a commitment. Why can't you take the cat back home with you? If you work here, then you make more than enough to pay for its transport home. For god's sake, just don't release it outside(big time bad karma for you). People, do NOT adopt an animal here in Korea unless you are willing to take care of it for life. It is a commitment for life, not one year.


your assumptions, ignorance, self-righteousness, and general douchebaggery have all been noted. thanks!


you may not like what he wrote, but it's true.
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murmanjake



Joined: 21 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 6:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't get this mentality. Regardless of the OP's actual situation, I think this debate needs to be had.

Why does one need to adopt an animal forever? Aren't many of them going to be euthanized anyways? Or just let out on the streets? Isn't a temporary home better than no home at all? So I take a cat for one year and then try to find it a better home once my situation changes. I'm a horrible person? For fostering an animal that would have been homeless otherwise? It's not like there's a lack of animals to adopt and a surplus of caregivers. I'm not depriving the animal of a long-term home by taking it in. A stable life in a loving home, for however short a period of time, is better than the pound or the streets any day.
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ajosshi



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: ajosshi.com

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 7:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fostering and adopting/buying are not the same.

Fostering is agreeing to take care of an animal with the intent and agreement with relinquishing it when a permanent home is found or when the agreed upon time has expired. This is something that one set-ups with an animal shelter such as shindogs.org or koreananimals.or.kr

Buying or adopting is for the life of the animal. It is your promise, as a decent human being, to the animal and society, to provide food, shelter, medical care, and love for its entire life, and not for the life of the Englishee contract.

If OP took this animal in on his/her own accord with the intent of finding it a home, but has not in the time, then we need to cut her/him some slack.


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murmanjake



Joined: 21 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2011 7:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

brandt wrote:
He just can't live with me anymore. It was temporary anyway, the deadline has just been pushed up.


So by your definition people need to chill out...

I think the only difference is how you call it, anyways. What if I don't go through an adoption agency? What if some guy on an internet forum needs to find a home for his cat and I step up and offer to take it for a few months and work on finding a better home in the meantime? Of course it's best to find a permanent home, but hell people, why discourage those who want to care for an animal that needs a home, for however short a period of time?

What if these shelters loosened up their adoption guidelines? A one or two year adoption should be fine. The argument for a permanent home or none at all is fine for buying an animal, but for adoption? It still doesn't quite make sense to me...
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