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Sam Ryan's owner acting disgracefully again...
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 7:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TSE wrote:
Anyone else find it weird that someone would give you a hard time for wanting to "nurse" a beer for a long time? I mean, I don't see any distinction between finishing it in 2 hours versus 5 seconds. That's the way it goes for pubs, you're allowed to take as long as you want. If someone ever gave me a hard time for not drinking fast enough/a large enough amount I'd never go back, it's just stupid, rude, and bad business.


If you're talking about me, I'd say no - not giving anyone a hard time about 'nursing a beer for a couple of hours' - just find it fascinating that anyone would go into a bar with just enough for a small beer and nothing else. It's just strange. I'm used to going into a bar and having a few beers, and maybe something to eat as well. It would be a horrible tease to me to sit there with a beer I can't drink too fast because then I'd have nothing to hold in my hand because I didn't have enough money. I'd rather stay home and go to the pub when I did have the money.
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hostness



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 8:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
TSE wrote:
Anyone else find it weird that someone would give you a hard time for wanting to "nurse" a beer for a long time? I mean, I don't see any distinction between finishing it in 2 hours versus 5 seconds. That's the way it goes for pubs, you're allowed to take as long as you want. If someone ever gave me a hard time for not drinking fast enough/a large enough amount I'd never go back, it's just stupid, rude, and bad business.


If you're talking about me, I'd say no - not giving anyone a hard time about 'nursing a beer for a couple of hours' - just find it fascinating that anyone would go into a bar with just enough for a small beer and nothing else. It's just strange. I'm used to going into a bar and having a few beers, and maybe something to eat as well. It would be a horrible tease to me to sit there with a beer I can't drink too fast because then I'd have nothing to hold in my hand because I didn't have enough money. I'd rather stay home and go to the pub when I did have the money.



Weird, yes.

But weird enough to kick that person out or even give them a hard time about it?
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Menino80



Joined: 10 Jun 2007
Location: Hodor?

PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shooters is terrible about forcing people out. I spent a night there from 8-1, drinking pitchers and being one of the only tables in the bar, and drinking like an English teacher with a 2pm start time. Once we decided to wait on a round, one of the waitresses said "Time to go, OK?"

Never went back.
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rchristo10



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 6:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cj1976 wrote:
The chicken wings are pretty good there and they do those cheap tacos, so I'll keep going. I don't care who owns the place.
Apple is owned by a complete ballbag but people still buy Ipods...


Apple isn't a part of the service industry. Did someone say comparing "Apples" and oranges?...lol

Anyways, people should care a bit about service at places that serve.

After what I saw on the video, I'd say a boycott is in order.
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Died By Bear



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hostness wrote:
Died By Bear wrote:
TSE wrote:
Anyone else find it weird that someone would give you a hard time for wanting to "nurse" a beer for a long time? I mean, I don't see any distinction between finishing it in 2 hours versus 5 seconds. That's the way it goes for pubs, you're allowed to take as long as you want. If someone ever gave me a hard time for not drinking fast enough/a large enough amount I'd never go back, it's just stupid, rude, and bad business.


If you're talking about me, I'd say no - not giving anyone a hard time about 'nursing a beer for a couple of hours' - just find it fascinating that anyone would go into a bar with just enough for a small beer and nothing else. It's just strange. I'm used to going into a bar and having a few beers, and maybe something to eat as well. It would be a horrible tease to me to sit there with a beer I can't drink too fast because then I'd have nothing to hold in my hand because I didn't have enough money. I'd rather stay home and go to the pub when I did have the money.



Weird, yes.

But weird enough to kick that person out or even give them a hard time about it?



Absolutely not, in my bar I'd actually feel sorry for you and spot you a couple of pints for old times sake. Very Happy
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nukeday



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'll keep going. Never had or heard of a problem. I guess the owner is the overweight, balding guy, right? Like I said, I've been there maybe 40 times and I barely even notice the fellow.

Maybe you guys are legitimately annoying to the owner. I'd like to see you on youtube. As for the video, hell, looks like they were leaning against the register!
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Koreadays



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

problem is, Itaewon doesn't have enough bars really when you think about it. so until we see 10 more bars similar in size and menu as 3 alley the owners will keep walking around the joint with a chip on their shoulder with the attitude if you don't like it here F O I couldn't care less. my bar is full so there...
but one day when new bars open up and younger generation get a bit older they won't stand for that crap and the owners will start going back to CUSTOMER SERVICE! at the moment most bars have no idea of the concept here. back home a bar like that would be dead and people would have moved on to places where they get treated with some respect.
then again.. it's 3 alley pub! I mean come on.. look at the people in there.
it's not a place you would take a girl for a drink! christ I wouldn't even take a friend there who is visiting seoul.
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nukeday



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 8:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Koreadays wrote:
it's 3 alley pub! I mean come on.. look at the people in there.
it's not a place you would take a girl for a drink! christ I wouldn't even take a friend there who is visiting seoul.


I've taken a girl to Sam Ryan's. She loved the ribs. Took a friend visiting Korea to 3 Alley. He found the reasonably priced imports (I've yet to see better prices on beers like Sam Adams and Newcastle) a welcome relief after a few days of Cass. Oh yeah, and he's a dark-skinned Mexican-American.

The thing is, we aren't a bunch of uppity recent college grads who demand to be pampered at a bar, then act pouty when we are not amused.

I'll agree the service hasn't been perfect, but that's usually because it seems I'm always dealing with a new Korean waiter/waitress who hasn't memorized the prices yet. Who knows, though, maybe I'll have a bad night and swear it off like others here.
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bigpun



Joined: 16 May 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 4:13 am    Post subject: Would you call this racist? Reply with quote

To clarify, these Korean guys weren't leaning over the bar near the register - they were facing the big screen, with their backs to the bar, they just happened to be in front of the order pick-up area. For what it is worth, when a white customer did this later on, the owner simply asked him politely to move (he explained he was waiting to pick up a beer, and there was no problem.)

To those who suggested that I go elsewhere, and don't give any support to this business, that's exactly what I am doing. I am not telling anyone that they should do the same thing. The reason I brought this up is to make people aware of the kind of situations that occur in this bar, because this kind of thing should be a consideration when you consider where you spend your money, shouldn't it? I don't expect to change people's minds, because obviously if something doesn't directly affect you then you may not be as inclined to act on it. That's the case even with my Korean friends who were with me that night.

I have seen and heard about other incidents like this, and I'm aware of the fact that this kind of reaction from the owner hasn't been limited to non-white customers. But the majority of the incidents I have heard about have been. This is from discussion with the conveners of the Pool and Darts Leagues, to name a few.

To jrock, the reason I call him a racist is because of a policy he has of not allowing Africans into his bar. Sure there is a mixed crowd there, including people of African descent. But I'm referring specifically to him barring people who "look African". Look around if you go in there again, and see for yourself. In the apartheid that already exists in Itaewon, Africans as well as South Asians are discriminated against at several places. It's not as bad as Thailand, but as someone who is not white, I'm speaking from personal experience when I say that these kind of incidents occur more often than you realize.

The incident I mentioned at the end of my first message, about the Trinidadian diplomats who were refused service at Sam Ryan's, is something that was going around a few months ago. They were told by the owner to leave, and when they asked why, his reponse was that he doesn't want drugs or prostitution in his establishment. There is a Facebook group, but that was based on heresay, and received mostly skepticism, kind of like the response here. I have been in contact with the newspapers and other sources back in Trinidad who confirmed that it did happen. I am trying to get in contact with the people who were involved, to confirm it firsthand. Is this racism? I mean, as a business owner, you have the right to refuse service to anyone, assuming that they have done something wrong and given you a good reason. I hate to say this, but the Africans don't have the best reputation in Itaewon (witness the removal of the pool table from Gecko's, but they aren't barred from that bar - as a group I mean.) Maybe something did happen, possibly repeatedly, at Sam Ryan's. But to ban an entire group of people, on the basis of their appearance and skin colour, is racist. I don't see how anyone can justify this.

So, as I said before, maybe you should consider all this when you consider where you spend your money. Or go back to the good ole' days where you could pick and choose who you want in your place of business.
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Died By Bear



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know where I heard this, but thought it was pretty common for bars in Itaewon to bar Africans from entering. Something about them harassing the female customers. If they have such a policy, then it would be difficult for them to distinguish between diplomats and pimps in suits. Especially if they are racist. It's easy to assume we know the reasons behind the decisions these bar owners make either individually or collectively, but the end of the day, you can always take your money to someone who appreciates getting your business.

It's a good thing that people are exposing this guy though. But if you think it's going to make an impact on his business, you probably need to re-examine that one. Still, his rep needs to be exposed a bit. Maybe he will make a youtube video of his own Very Happy Very Happy Then this thread could really get interesting.
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West Coast Tatterdemalion



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 6:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wonder what would happen if a few members of Nuestra Familia entered his fine establishment. I'd really like to see what he'd do in that situation Laughing
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Stout



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 7:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He'd probably sniff out that they weren't pushovers and kiss their behinds.
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Died By Bear



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 7:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I definitely don't think Koreans are pushovers - dad told me about these Korean guys in Vietnam that would make the Mexican gangs cringe or smile. Koreans can be as nasty and ruthless as anyone else. Very Happy My oldest uncle served during the Korean war and he said it was where he learned just how cheap life can be in this messed up world.

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It's easy to forget that we live in massively different world than our fathers and grandfathers did. There was a huge loss of life on this peninsula in the last 100 years.


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Stout



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 7:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If he tried to pull the same stuff on the locals in Italy he'd be six deep.
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hostness



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 7:54 am    Post subject: Re: Would you call this racist? Reply with quote

bigpun wrote:
To clarify, these Korean guys weren't leaning over the bar near the register - they were facing the big screen, with their backs to the bar, they just happened to be in front of the order pick-up area. For what it is worth, when a white customer did this later on, the owner simply asked him politely to move (he explained he was waiting to pick up a beer, and there was no problem.)

To those who suggested that I go elsewhere, and don't give any support to this business, that's exactly what I am doing. I am not telling anyone that they should do the same thing. The reason I brought this up is to make people aware of the kind of situations that occur in this bar, because this kind of thing should be a consideration when you consider where you spend your money, shouldn't it? I don't expect to change people's minds, because obviously if something doesn't directly affect you then you may not be as inclined to act on it. That's the case even with my Korean friends who were with me that night.

I have seen and heard about other incidents like this, and I'm aware of the fact that this kind of reaction from the owner hasn't been limited to non-white customers. But the majority of the incidents I have heard about have been. This is from discussion with the conveners of the Pool and Darts Leagues, to name a few.

To jrock, the reason I call him a racist is because of a policy he has of not allowing Africans into his bar. Sure there is a mixed crowd there, including people of African descent. But I'm referring specifically to him barring people who "look African". Look around if you go in there again, and see for yourself. In the apartheid that already exists in Itaewon, Africans as well as South Asians are discriminated against at several places. It's not as bad as Thailand, but as someone who is not white, I'm speaking from personal experience when I say that these kind of incidents occur more often than you realize.

The incident I mentioned at the end of my first message, about the Trinidadian diplomats who were refused service at Sam Ryan's, is something that was going around a few months ago. They were told by the owner to leave, and when they asked why, his reponse was that he doesn't want drugs or prostitution in his establishment. There is a Facebook group, but that was based on heresay, and received mostly skepticism, kind of like the response here. I have been in contact with the newspapers and other sources back in Trinidad who confirmed that it did happen. I am trying to get in contact with the people who were involved, to confirm it firsthand. Is this racism? I mean, as a business owner, you have the right to refuse service to anyone, assuming that they have done something wrong and given you a good reason. I hate to say this, but the Africans don't have the best reputation in Itaewon (witness the removal of the pool table from Gecko's, but they aren't barred from that bar - as a group I mean.) Maybe something did happen, possibly repeatedly, at Sam Ryan's. But to ban an entire group of people, on the basis of their appearance and skin colour, is racist. I don't see how anyone can justify this.

So, as I said before, maybe you should consider all this when you consider where you spend your money. Or go back to the good ole' days where you could pick and choose who you want in your place of business.


I agree with you almost completely...but really, don't use Itaewon and apartheid in the same sentence.
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