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NohopeSeriously



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: The Christian Right-Wing Educational Republic of Korea

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 5:35 am    Post subject: Am I the worst example? Reply with quote

There has been a handful of members here who said that my grammar sucks. One bombarded me with a borderline trollish insult today. I don't think my grammar sucks. I think I use a rather different way of expressing things that everybody could comprehend. They're not too different from the generic English speakers. I may born in Korea but I lived in the USA and Canada for 75% of my life. My first words were in English. I've thought English is my first language of my whole life. There were several times that I had to learn other languages and temporary ditch English.

Should I give up becoming a NET because of my poor grammar and a harsh decision made by few people about me? Or should I become an epic loser in the English-teaching scene?

This long-term insecurity from this peer pressure is unpleasant, I should say.
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 5:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honest answer: you don't necessarily need perfect grammar to be an NET (depending on what level you're teaching), but if the above is representative of how you usually write, your written grammar is pretty bad.

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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 5:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't let others get you down. My grammar sucked too when I first went to Korea. Not sure that it has improved much, esp. now that I quit teaching and am back in Canada, but I found lots of useful grammar books and resources to help me while I was there.

If a student stumps you with some grammar point, don't sweat it.

Just tell them to wait till next class and you will bring them the explanation.

You can then look it up in your Grammar in Use - Murphy or one of the many other good grammar resources available to you. Study it up and then think about ways of presenting it to your students that will make sense to them.

As for the grammar nazis on this board, don't get too offended by them.
If they offer sound advice take it, if they are just trying to insult you..

Well then you know that they aren't worth paying attention to.

Enjoy your time in Korea and don't let a few boneheads ruin it for you.

Cheers
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NohopeSeriously



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: The Christian Right-Wing Educational Republic of Korea

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 5:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

northway wrote:
Honest answer: you don't necessarily need perfect grammar to be an NET (depending on what level you're teaching), but if the above how you usually write, your written grammar is pretty bad.


That's how I write. It's not that bad.
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Zanniati



Joined: 04 Apr 2011

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

northway wrote:
Honest answer: you don't necessarily need perfect grammar to be an NET (depending on what level you're teaching), but if the above how you usually write, your written grammar is pretty bad.


Look who's talking. If you're going to accuse someone of having poor grammar, you should probably make sure yours is good first.
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NohopeSeriously



Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: The Christian Right-Wing Educational Republic of Korea

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 6:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

some waygug-in wrote:
Don't let others get you down. My grammar sucked too when I first went to Korea. Not sure that it has improved much, esp. now that I quit teaching and am back in Canada, but I found lots of useful grammar books and resources to help me while I was there.

If a student stumps you with some grammar point, don't sweat it.

Just tell them to wait till next class and you will bring them the explanation.

You can then look it up in your Grammar in Use - Murphy or one of the many other good grammar resources available to you. Study it up and then think about ways of presenting it to your students that will make sense to them.

As for the grammar nazis on this board, don't get too offended by them.
If they offer sound advice take it, if they are just trying to insult you..

Well then you know that they aren't worth paying attention to.

Enjoy your time in Korea and don't let a few boneheads ruin it for you.

Cheers


I never had any problem with any conversation.

It's a good thing I can explain the grammar parts very well. After all, I was a ling major (usually an essay-less major).

I only suck at writing. Writing is not my strong point and this is the source of this "your grammar sucks" mishaps. Maybe I just don't know how to express things well in writings. (Ok I think I'm digging my own grave here,)
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 6:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zanniati wrote:
northway wrote:
Honest answer: you don't necessarily need perfect grammar to be an NET (depending on what level you're teaching), but if the above how you usually write, your written grammar is pretty bad.


Look who's talking. If you're going to accuse someone of having poor grammar, you should probably make sure yours is good first.


Typo fixed.
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jonpurdy



Joined: 08 Jan 2009
Location: Ulsan

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 6:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

NohopeSeriously wrote:
(Ok I think I'm digging my own grave here,)

Just proofread what you write and you'll probably catch some silly mistakes. That stray comma, for example. Smile
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 6:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jonpurdy wrote:
NohopeSeriously wrote:
(Ok I think I'm digging my own grave here,)

Just proofread what you write and you'll probably catch some silly mistakes. That stray comma, for example. Smile


Which highlights the difference between lazy writing and poor grammar.
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iggyb



Joined: 29 Oct 2003

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 6:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just don't go to a Korean high school.

I got my MA in teaching in a department in the US with several profs who were "anti-grammar". They drilled it into our heads that focusing overtly on grammar is a terrible way to teach literature and writing and other aspects of English language arts in secondary schools. The vast majority of us already agreed with them. Focusing on actually writing and reading will do wonders for improving grammar instead of a largely wasted time and effort in teaching grammar rules.

If you read around in TESOL books and journals, you'll also read about studies that have found a primary focus on grammar rules is an inefficient use of classroom time. Students learn the use of the language faster through other means, and by learning, I also mean they get better at making fewer mistakes.

Korean secondary teachers do not buy this at all. Many elementary teachers don't.

But high school, where they are obsessed with the Korean SAT, is where you'd get into trouble making frequent grammar mistakes. The Korean teachers and many of the students would decide you didn't know "real" English well enough or were a horrible teacher.

In elementary school, not so much.
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litebear



Joined: 12 Sep 2009
Location: Holland

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 7:08 am    Post subject: Re: Am I the worst example? Reply with quote

NohopeSeriously wrote:
I don't think my grammar sucks.


I'm suprised you say that considering that you sent me a PM saying.

NohopeSeriously wrote:
Sure, my English sucks. It's not gonna stop me from getting a teaching job.
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yoja



Joined: 30 May 2008

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 7:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, you probably (hopefully) won't be able to get a job teaching SAT test prep, editing anything, or essay writing, but if you're just teaching kindergarten or lower-level elementary school students, you'll probably be fine.

But honestly, just quickly reading through your first post, I would not have guessed that you are a native English speaker. Too many basic mistakes.

How's your reading comprehension? You may want to look for a job that emphasizes speaking or reading comprehension skills instead of writing.

There's a whole big range of opportunities out there. Find one that is a good fit with your particular skills and don't worry so much about feeling like an epic loser.
(BTW +2 points for not spelling it 'looser' like so many native speakers do)


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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 7:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some people should learn to differentiate between a CASUAL online discussion board and a more FORMAL educational setting when judging a persons' grammar and spelling.
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yoja



Joined: 30 May 2008

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 7:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PatrickGHBusan wrote:
Some people should learn to differentiate between a CASUAL online discussion board and a more FORMAL educational setting when judging a persons' [SIC] grammar and spelling.


Yes, and some people should just take a little more time and effort to double-check their grammar and spelling and avoid mistakes before posting their atrocities online for the whole world to see, and then getting upset when someone decides to correct them.

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 7:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yoja wrote:
PatrickGHBusan wrote:
Some people should learn to differentiate between a CASUAL online discussion board and a more FORMAL educational setting when judging a persons' [SIC] grammar and spelling.


Yes, and some people should just take a little more time and effort to double-check their grammar and spelling and avoid mistakes before posting their atrocities online for the whole world to see, and then getting upset when someone decides to correct.

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.


Well some people have a compelling urge to correct whatever mistakes they see when it comes to English on here. Some have a compelling urge to bash people who make spelling or grammar mistakes here.

Now personally, I could not care less if a person who writes here makes mistakes. I would certainly not then assume they cannot write well in real life or as a part of their teaching job.

To me the same logic applies for casual emails or chat. It is not a formal communication setting so some people do not double check before hitting submit or send. Not a big deal.

A lot of my work is about writing. This takes the form of formal reports, internal policy, offers to clients, training workshop plans and so on.
Do you actually think that how I write here is any indication of how I write in a professional setting?

I personally never double check my posts here, I truly do not care if some mistakes creep in or if a particular post of mine has more errors or holes in it that a piece of swiss cheese. To me this is a casual online discussion forum. when I write for work, I triple check everything because the setting demands it. This is a lot like how you speak in a formal presentation vs how you speak in a casual setting around a pint of beer.

To each his own however.....
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