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nukeday



Joined: 13 May 2010

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, Koreans are convinced everyone in England is very gentle. I suppose they'd assume chavs were quaint gentlemen.
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alistaircandlin



Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe that the issue here is something that I also experienced after traveling abroad for a long time.

In 1995, when I was 21, I spend a few months in India, and experienced a kind of reverse culture shock on returning to England. Similar to the O.P., I felt like people were rude, wouldn't even make polite conversation, and many were clearly depressed. I felt like nobody had any energy, no-one could motivate themselves to do anything. Admittedly, this was mostly just the people I was hanging around with at the time.

It was as if being in another country gave me a new frame of reference, or a new lens through which to view England. So for the first time in my life I started to see England differently, and felt rather disillusioned with it.

I've been back and forth from Korea to England since I was 30, in 2004. I have to say that I don't experience the same thing anymore. Honestly, there are lots of things to appreciate about both countries, and I really feel it's better to take advantage of those things, rather than focusing on any perceived deficiencies.

For example, my wife and I lived in Peterborough from 2007- August 2010. It's not the most exciting place in the world. We did like going for walks in the Cambridgeshire countryside though - and we both realised that when we returned to Seoul, we would miss this about England - the parks, the greenery, and the open spaces. Also, I agree with the previous posters about food. We could eat a wider variety of things in England - we decided not to skimp on food, and we ate really well. Another big thing i miss is the libraries.

Seoul has a lot of positives too. Teaching here is far less stressful than teaching in the UK. My colleagues look happier and far less stressed out. There is good food available in Seoul: I think that often our problem as foreigners is of not knowing how to prepare and cook the different kinds of vegetables and produce that are available. I walk round the local market in Isu sometimes, and think: god, if those guys of masterchef were here, they'd be experimenting with all these different flavours.

The way you can walk to the mountains from Seoul is unique, in my experience. In the UK, we'd have to drive two hours, to get up to the lake district - I'm originally from Lancashire. I can be in the mountains within twenty minutes walk from my doorstep here.

My point is: logically speaking you are shooting yourself in the foot, if you insist on seeing places in a negative light. For our own benefit, at least, it's better to focus on the benefits of where we presently live. This is not to say, of course, that I don't want to move somewhere better!
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Yaya



Joined: 25 Feb 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yet another reason to love England.

The ultimate NHS indignity: Body of hospital patient left to die in corridor is ignored for hours... before staff simply drag him away

'He went to them for help and they left him out in the corridor to die', says Peter Thompson's daughter

Senior nurse claims it was 'the appropriate method of handling the situation'

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2000824/NHS-indignity-Peter-Thompsons-body-ignored-hours-corridor-Edale-House-unit.html
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superbloke



Joined: 24 Jan 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

NohopeSeriously wrote:
cj1976 wrote:
violent anti-social chavs


I'm curious. What are chavs?


chav = cheap housing and violence
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alistaircandlin



Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

edwardcatflap wrote:
I'd be very surprised if there were any working class British people contributing to Daves ESL cafe as you need a degree to work in Korea for starters


That's really offensive, to be honest. Are you suggesting that nobody from a working class background gets a degree, in the UK? What are you talking about? Think before you speak, and before you write, please. If you don't just open you mouth, or move your fingers, and let random gibberish spill out, you will be a better person for it. Wink

Seriously, I was winding you up a bit there, but that's just ill-thought out nonsense. Sorry, nothing personal, but I'm not even from a working class background, and I find it offensive.

I agree with the poster about London - it's great city to live in, and I wouldn't complain about living there. The cost of it is off-putting though - we wanted to live in London, but the cost makes it a struggle just to survive. I do remember taking the train back to London, from Bath, after living in Hackney - of all places- for a year, and thinking, as I pulled into Liverpool Street station, that it felt like returning to civilisation. I'd love to live there, if I was rich.
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alistaircandlin



Joined: 24 Sep 2004
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 8:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Edward - I apologise, I've just gone back and bothered to read the rest of your post, and you do make a distinction between people who are working class, and people from working class backgrounds.

However, there are still shades of snobbery about your post, don't you think? You talk about working class people in your first paragraph, but then your refer to characteristics of the underclasses, or the 'non-working,'classes in your second paragraph. The implication here is that you taint the working class with the same brush - as idiots who eat junk food, enjoy crap culture, spend all their money in the pub, and don't care about their children.

There are hints of a superior and condescending attitude here, which I take exception to. As we are all teachers here, I'll mention that this links to a endemic problem in British schools. Many British teachers, and English teachers in particular, systematically put down the white working classes, especially white working class boys, who have been alienated from our education system since it began. We consistently praise the attributes of the middle classes, and put down the working classes - we make them look stupid. Many white working class males have been turned off education for generations because of the patronising attitudes of pedagogues. This is a kind of cultural imperialism, and I think the thoughts implied in your post are nothing but a symptom of this.

If anyone has a genuine interest in education, I would suggest watching this programme on white underachievment, it is really quite eye-opening:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fU6uvKixSro
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bigclanger3



Joined: 25 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

the OP still hasn't bothered to tell us why they're complaining on this board.
does anyone else sniff a troll?

also...a LOT of the complaints being levelled at the UK right now...if being held in direct comparison to Korea are just silly!

and yes. the class system is stupid. and it's not as clear cut as it used to be but it's there and we all know it and we all feel it.

and chavss aren't necessarily poor people per se. I know plenty of low income families who aren't chavs.
but chavs are those who favour sportswear and cheap gold jewellery and SHIT hair. and swear and vandalise and hang around estates causing trouble and go to Yates'. in the venn diagram there will be some crossover between poor people and chavs...for sure. but chav is a lifestyle choice!
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alistaircandlin



Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bigclanger3 wrote:
. but chav is a lifestyle choice!


I've no real evidence to back this up, but isn't the idea of a 'chav,' simply another way that the middle-classes put down one aspect of working class culture?

This was certainly the case with my students in Cambridgeshire, over the last couple of years - I'd sometimes hear the middle-class kids dismissing their working-class peers, as 'just a bunch of chavs.' Whenever I hear this sort of bigotry from the mouths of children, I'm aware of the attitudes of the parents coming through - it's like you can hear their voices. It's just another aspect of human idiocy that deserves to be assigned to the dustbin of history: racism, sexism, homophobia, class snobbery. S.O.S. It's 2011 now, aren't you tired of this, yet?
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edwardcatflap



Joined: 22 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
However, there are still shades of snobbery about your post, don't you think?


Yes, I was partly winding up the guy accusing me of coming from Kent and eating hummus



Quote:
You talk about working class people in your first paragraph, but then your refer to characteristics of the underclasses, or the 'non-working,'classes in your second paragraph. The implication here is that you taint the working class with the same brush - as idiots who eat junk food, enjoy crap culture, spend all their money in the pub, and don't care about their children.


I was trying to say that, what we used to think of as the working classes, since the manufacturing industries have all but disappeared, are now mostly working in service industries, white collar jobs or are long term unemployed. Those in work are becoming more 'middle class' in their outlook, partly due to more disposable income and better education, and those long term unemployed are becoming a separate 'underclass'. Yes I think people who eat and feed their kids junk food all the time and spend all their money in the pub are idiots, whatever class you label them with. In the past, working class people might have been forgiven for behaving like this due to a lack of education and a 'living for the present' mentality, but there really isn't any excuse nowadays - once people reach a certain age. I also think, whatever the Guardian says to the contrary, that there are lots of people in the UK who would rather be on the dole than do a boring job for the minimum wage.
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alistaircandlin



Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 12:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

edwardcatflap wrote:
Quote:
However, there are still shades of snobbery about your post, don't you think?


Yes, I was partly winding up the guy accusing me of coming from Kent and eating hummus

Laughing

Quote:
You talk about working class people in your first paragraph, but then your refer to characteristics of the underclasses, or the 'non-working,'classes in your second paragraph. The implication here is that you taint the working class with the same brush - as idiots who eat junk food, enjoy crap culture, spend all their money in the pub, and don't care about their children.


Well, yes - fair play.

I also think, whatever the Guardian says to the contrary, that there are lots of people in the UK who would rather be on the dole than do a boring job for the minimum wage.


Lol! So, how did you know I read the Guardian then? Confused

Actually, I've read it since I was a kid - my dad got the daily edition - and still check it out online, first thing every morning. Now, I'm worried that my opinions are shaped by a bunch of ex-Oxbridge liberals. Good God! - maybe I'll start reading the Mail! Wink
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Eddy24



Joined: 13 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Sun Jun 12, 2011 7:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks you posters for this entertaining read.

I've just got to Korea 3 weeks ago from the UK. I think for a lot of people it's only natural when you go abroad somewhere else that you open your eyes to the good things that are different about the new country and then you see your home country with a new set of eyes. There are many things about the UK I don't miss. It's one of the great things about travelling. I think it really can broaden the mind. However, Korea has its own problems just as the UK does. I think it's sometimes easy to ignore that as when living an ex-pat over here. But i don't want to dwell on that.

Nonetheless, I think my last visit here was a huge eye-opener and one of things that convinced me I would love to come to work in korea. I'm half Korean so I've visited Korea before to see family. The way I was treated by my family, their friends and people in general - the warmth and hospitality - was something that I would never have gotten back in the UK. I could pull out a ton of other reasons why i love Korea. The food, the weather (hey i'd been living in Edinburgh for the last 6 years), lowe taxes, amongst many other things.
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jun 12, 2011 10:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mariella713 wrote:
I love London. I lived in South London since I was 11 . .


Sure, London is great. I spent a year there at age 25 and loved it. Its a city for the young though I think. I wouldn't want to live there permanently.

AlistairCandlin wrote:
there are lots of things to appreciate about both countries, and I really feel it's better to take advantage of those things, rather than focusing on any perceived deficiencies.


This.
Everywhere has some unique quality about it to enjoy. Its only the experience of int. travel that teaches you this.

I was in UK for a couple months recently. Its different spending a few school years there, and visiting there as an adult years later.

What can I say? i enjoyed seeing old friends, hanging out in the pub, the historic buildings, the foxes in the garden, the small talk with the shopkeeper, the gossip, the regional accents... etc.

But I was still happy to get out of there. I was well ready to leave by the end. And ultimately I prefer Korea.
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hwa jang shil



Joined: 20 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sun Jun 12, 2011 7:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

edwardcatflap wrote:
I'd be very surprised if there were any working class British people contributing to Daves ESL cafe as you need a degree to work in Korea for starters and a wide enough perspective to know that teaching English abroad would even be a possibility.


Surprise!!! I'm working class.
As you've stated I was completely unaware that I could teach English abroad. Similarly, I left school at 16 completely unaware that I could have gone to university, ignorantly I thought only rich people went to university and that it wasn't for the likes of me.
20 years of crap jobs but spending everything I earnt on travel opened my eyes to the possibilty of teaching English. Went to uni at 34, the labour government kindly paid my tuition fees and gave me a 1000 quid grant every year (more holidays) and I finally got here in 2007.
Maybe as a teacher I have moved into the middle class, but I'd still have anything away if it weren't nailed down!
There's a lot of kids here dropping their Hs and speaking with a rich west London accent. Ya know prop-ah like!
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