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Chokse
Joined: 22 May 2009
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 4:58 pm Post subject: |
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The one issue I have with the Korean education system, and it seems to be something TJ is ignoring or not mentioning out of convenience, is that the focus is ENTIRELY on math and science test scores. There is little to no teaching of humanities, and the knowledge they do get in math and science is often not practical.
Yes, they can answer the hell out of test questions, but when asked to perform real world math and science skills, they come up very short. Has anyone else noticed that we have not seen any Nobel Prize winners in any math or science related fields coming from Korea. These folks have some of the best scores in the world on math/science aptitude tests, yet they are not able to turn that knowledge into practical uses of the subject.
The lack of any focus on humanities and the inability to use math/science knowledge for anything other than passing a test are reasons enough to view the Korean education system as being less than stellar. If you really want a kid to have a well-rounded education in Korea, it means sending him/her to an international school and that equals big $$$. |
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carleverson
Joined: 04 Dec 2009
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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Chokse wrote: |
The one issue I have with the Korean education system, and it seems to be something TJ is ignoring or not mentioning out of convenience, is that the focus is ENTIRELY on math and science test scores. There is little to no teaching of humanities, and the knowledge they do get in math and science is often not practical.
Yes, they can answer the hell out of test questions, but when asked to perform real world math and science skills, they come up very short. Has anyone else noticed that we have not seen any Nobel Prize winners in any math or science related fields coming from Korea. These folks have some of the best scores in the world on math/science aptitude tests, yet they are not able to turn that knowledge into practical uses of the subject.
The lack of any focus on humanities and the inability to use math/science knowledge for anything other than passing a test are reasons enough to view the Korean education system as being less than stellar. If you really want a kid to have a well-rounded education in Korea, it means sending him/her to an international school and that equals big $$$. |
Yeah, I agree with you. I teach at a university here and see the results of what the Korean Education System produces. Most of my students are good at rote memorization and copying stuff from a source (Internet, classmate) and claiming at as their own. Personally, this simply isn't good enough for my daughter.
Also, if the Korean Education system was so wonderful, why are Korean parents bending over backwards to send their kids to school in the west? |
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Chokse
Joined: 22 May 2009
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:24 pm Post subject: |
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"Also, if the Korean Education system was so wonderful, why are Korean parents bending over backwards to send their kids to school in the west?"
This quote kind of sums up education in Korea.
If you are deciding which country to raise your kids in, education has to be at the top of your priority list.
Also, not all schools in the US have massive drug or violence problems. This really comes down to due diligence and the choices you make. If you do your research, you can find good school districts that experience very few problems, but that usually means being in the "good" suburbs or in smaller communities. It also means that you might have to settle for a smaller house in a better (school district) neighborhood versus a bigger house in a worse neighborhood.
In Korea, if you can get a job at a foreign company that gives you good overseas benefits and sends your kids to an international school, then Korea might be an OK place to raise a family. However, on an average teacher's salary/benefits, it is not a great place to raise and educate kids. |
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definitely maybe
Joined: 16 Feb 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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carleverson wrote: |
Chokse wrote: |
The one issue I have with the Korean education system, and it seems to be something TJ is ignoring or not mentioning out of convenience, is that the focus is ENTIRELY on math and science test scores. There is little to no teaching of humanities, and the knowledge they do get in math and science is often not practical.
Yes, they can answer the hell out of test questions, but when asked to perform real world math and science skills, they come up very short. Has anyone else noticed that we have not seen any Nobel Prize winners in any math or science related fields coming from Korea. These folks have some of the best scores in the world on math/science aptitude tests, yet they are not able to turn that knowledge into practical uses of the subject.
The lack of any focus on humanities and the inability to use math/science knowledge for anything other than passing a test are reasons enough to view the Korean education system as being less than stellar. If you really want a kid to have a well-rounded education in Korea, it means sending him/her to an international school and that equals big $$$. |
Yeah, I agree with you. I teach at a university here and see the results of what the Korean Education System produces. Most of my students are good at rote memorization and copying stuff from a source (Internet, classmate) and claiming at as their own. Personally, this simply isn't good enough for my daughter.
Also, if the Korean Education system was so wonderful, why are Korean parents bending over backwards to send their kids to school in the west? |
I intend to return to the US with my wife and son in less than two years and also dislike many aspects of the Korean education system, but I'm also down on public education in America. My kid is on his way to becoming a "fac brat" and growing up on a boarding school campus somewhere in the northeast.
Nonetheless, I think it's shortsighted to paint everyone into the same corner. I have seen the same lack of creativity at the university level here, but I also teach at a less than stellar school. I also realize there have been some damning statistics regarding the difficulty some Korean students have in adjusting to a western system, but that does not mean that everyone is mired in one single set of circumstances upon graduation from high school here. Can you honestly say that parents aren't supplementing their children's educations in different ways and preparing them for different educational paths? Something tells me that Captain Corea and TJ, just to name two, will see their kids along just fine if they choose to keep their kids in Korea through high school and beyond.
As for the transition, sound advice that I appreciate. We have a concrete plan and my wife has lived in the US before, so it's not quite as daunting for her. I'm certainly nervous though. I guess I'll have a better idea in a few years! |
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brento1138
Joined: 17 Nov 2004
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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To the OP. I agree that moving to the US might be a better option for you and your wife, and I agree with others here that your wife better be 100% into the idea before you do that. But it takes some convincing.
Many Koreans have this myth floating around that if they moved to Canada or America, that they couldn't get a job. This is just so plain absolutely untrue. I am constantly hearing about / seeing / knowing people from other countries who have found a ton of success. I'm from Vancouver, and if you go to any large corporation, it is full of foreigners who turned into Canadians.
I remember very clearly my 4th grade elementary school teacher was from Hong Kong. I had a dentist from Scotland. My friend is married to a Korean nurse. She's going to be making at least three or four times more in Canada than she could in Korea. Sure, she needs a little bit of education, but that's doable. And the amount of money she pays to re-educate herself is going to pay itself off anyways.
I know several guys in your position (they want to go home, but the wife doesn't). But I also know a few who have gone back. Those guys all had plans and big chunks of change saved up. In fact, back in Vancouver, my next-door neighbor (a cool guy named James) actually moved from Korea to Canada with his pregnant wife. He had saved up for his house through renting it out when he was living in Korea and teaching ESL in Busan. A possibility for you would be to buy a house out in the USA (or get your parents to, with your money), get your parents to rent it out to people (helping pay off whatever mortgage you have left) so that when you move to the USA you've got a place ready to move into, and no worries about paying it off. I agree you must show her pictures of houses you could live in.
You also should explain the "Pie" theory to your wife. That the USA has a fantastic amount of resources and land (pieces of pie) to divide amongst its people (the eaters of the pie). But in Korea, there isn't much "pie" to go around, so the people are going to be hungrier. Being American makes you automatically richer than a Korean. I've always thought, a poor Canadian, is in many ways, richer than a rich Korean. And it is based on my "pie" theory.
Plus, Korea is surrounded by two giant economies: China & Japan. Yes Korea has done well economically, but can it keep competition up against China? What will it be like 20or 50 years from now? Will the world be stable in 20 years? Will alliances still exist to protect South Korea from North Korea? What if North Korea collapses and chaos ensues?
The debt problem of America pales in comparison to the problems Korea faces, in my opinion.
I think you better explain to your wife that a little more work, effort, etc, to move to the USA could provide a much better future for your daughter. I'm not saying SK is a bad place to live (it isn't) but I definitely think a child has much more to gain in North America than in South Korea, especially when considering the future. |
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litebear
Joined: 12 Sep 2009 Location: Holland
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 10:37 pm Post subject: |
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brento1138 wrote: |
To the OP. I agree that moving to the US might be a better option for you and your wife, and I agree with others here that your wife better be 100% into the idea before you do that. But it takes some convincing.
Many Koreans have this myth floating around that if they moved to Canada or America, that they couldn't get a job. This is just so plain absolutely untrue. I am constantly hearing about / seeing / knowing people from other countries who have found a ton of success. I'm from Vancouver, and if you go to any large corporation, it is full of foreigners who turned into Canadians.
I remember very clearly my 4th grade elementary school teacher was from Hong Kong. I had a dentist from Scotland. My friend is married to a Korean nurse. She's going to be making at least three or four times more in Canada than she could in Korea. Sure, she needs a little bit of education, but that's doable. And the amount of money she pays to re-educate herself is going to pay itself off anyways.
I know several guys in your position (they want to go home, but the wife doesn't). But I also know a few who have gone back. Those guys all had plans and big chunks of change saved up. In fact, back in Vancouver, my next-door neighbor (a cool guy named James) actually moved from Korea to Canada with his pregnant wife. He had saved up for his house through renting it out when he was living in Korea and teaching ESL in Busan. A possibility for you would be to buy a house out in the USA (or get your parents to, with your money), get your parents to rent it out to people (helping pay off whatever mortgage you have left) so that when you move to the USA you've got a place ready to move into, and no worries about paying it off. I agree you must show her pictures of houses you could live in.
You also should explain the "Pie" theory to your wife. That the USA has a fantastic amount of resources and land (pieces of pie) to divide amongst its people (the eaters of the pie). But in Korea, there isn't much "pie" to go around, so the people are going to be hungrier. Being American makes you automatically richer than a Korean. I've always thought, a poor Canadian, is in many ways, richer than a rich Korean. And it is based on my "pie" theory.
Plus, Korea is surrounded by two giant economies: China & Japan. Yes Korea has done well economically, but can it keep competition up against China? What will it be like 20or 50 years from now? Will the world be stable in 20 years? Will alliances still exist to protect South Korea from North Korea? What if North Korea collapses and chaos ensues?
The debt problem of America pales in comparison to the problems Korea faces, in my opinion.
I think you better explain to your wife that a little more work, effort, etc, to move to the USA could provide a much better future for your daughter. I'm not saying SK is a bad place to live (it isn't) but I definitely think a child has much more to gain in North America than in South Korea, especially when considering the future. |
America, F*ck yeah! |
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madoka

Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 11:30 pm Post subject: |
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Chokse wrote: |
Right now, my car needs new brake rotors, a very easy fix involving only a couple of hours time and some very basic tools (wrenches, pliers, etc.). Here in Korea, each brake rotor will cost over $700 from BMW or $400 each from an aftermarket seller. In the US, I can get a better than OEM quality rotor for $160. That is a very substantial savings. |
I won't dissect all the flaws with your post again, but I will point this out: You have this tendency to point to expensive things in Korea and compare them to cheap things in the U.S. That's not an apples-to-apples comparison.
Personally, I don't think your parents are able to do $200 for ALL of their utilities. Here's a guy in Dallas with a much smaller townhome who is complaining about an $860 electricity bill:
http://www.city-data.com/forum/dallas/54021-high-electric-bills-dallas.html
IMHO, it's generally accepted that transportation, housing, insurance and utility (especially internet) costs are cheaper in Korea. Sure, if you want to live in Podunk Nowhere, I'm sure it might be cheaper in the U.S. But what Korean wife is going to want to live there? She's going to want to be near a sizable Korean community and that means it's likely going to be on one of the coasts. You can live in the middle class on a NET's salary in Korea. You will live like a pauper in U.S. suburbia with a similar salary.
And to CC, here's an article on the rising costs of health care insurance in the U.S.: $13,375 for an average family of four back in 2009
http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/health/2009-09-15-insurance-costs_N.htm |
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Chokse
Joined: 22 May 2009
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 12:19 am Post subject: |
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Newer house with zoned A/C, R-30 insulation in the walls and attic, Pella or Anderson windows, all make low electricity bills more than possible.
Sure, if you live in a 30 year old house with single pane windows, non-zoned A/C, and 30 year old insulation, you are likely to see huge energy bills.
Again, this comes down to choice. You need to do due diligence on the house you are going to purchase and not rush into anything. Patience. There are plenty of houses for sale with good insulation, zoned A/C, and energy efficient doors and windows.
I am making apples to apples comparisons as they apply to my life in Korea. I live in an overpriced apartment (all in Seoul are) that has no insulation whatsoever, thus resulting in enormous energy bills.
I'm not a fan of Korean food. Most of it I find unappealing, and the foods I do like are astronomically expensive here. At the Asian supermarkets in Dallas, most Korean food products are only marked up 10%-20% over what they cost here, and some are even the same price. Overall, our food costs will be cheaper.
Not everyone has or wants a Hyundai. I have a BMW and I'm not going to apologize for that. It will cost much less to operate and insure it in the US than it does here.
School will also be cheaper (paid by taxes) in the US.
I have several relatives with kids living in the US and all of them spend less each month than we do, if their mortgages are taken out of the equation, and since we already own a house in the US, that is an apples to apples comparison.
This doesn't even begin to include quality of life issues, which are priceless. |
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madoka

Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 12:51 am Post subject: |
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Chokse wrote: |
Of course you can always get a car at the dealer price, but it takes a lot more time and effort to get there if you are paying with credit. It often requires going to multiple dealerships, trying to negotiate the deal with each one, and it usually means settling for a car that is on the lot versus a custom order. With cash in hand, they are often willing to "work" with you. Also, with cash, you can take advantage of OSD deals (so long as you are buying a European car), which gets you a pretty spectacular discount on the car and free airline tickets to Europe and a car to drive while you are there. It makes for a nice little trip on the cheap. |
This is just so spectacularly wrong, that as a car enthusiast I feel it must be addressed. My father tried pulling that, "I'll buy it in cash" move too the last time we went car shopping. It's a common misconception. As I explained, it is to your detriment to tell the dealer you are paying in cash. But you don't have to take my word for it:
http://www.autoadvice.com/aaguide/negotiate.html
"If you can pay cash for a new car, God bless you. But do yourself a favor, don't ask for a special deal, you may end up paying more. That's right, *more*. The fact is that dealers make money when you finance through them and they *hate* cash deals. (Sorry if I burst your bubble.) When you announce that 'This will be a cash sale,' all it will do is compel the sales manager to try to make more money on the sale since they won't make any on the 'backend'. Keep it to yourself until after you've agreed on a price."
I've spent around $250,000 on my cars in the past three years. Not to mention all my friends and family that come to me to help them buy their cars. I LOVE shopping for cars. And like I said before, I know that telling dealers you are paying cash is just asking them to jack up the price. Also, for the majority of cars, that European delivery means that you are trading a larger discount for a trip to Germany, so in effect, you are paying for that trip. |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 1:07 am Post subject: |
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definitely maybe wrote: |
Nonetheless, I think it's shortsighted to paint everyone into the same corner. I have seen the same lack of creativity at the university level here, but I also teach at a less than stellar school. I also realize there have been some damning statistics regarding the difficulty some Korean students have in adjusting to a western system, but that does not mean that everyone is mired in one single set of circumstances upon graduation from high school here. Can you honestly say that parents aren't supplementing their children's educations in different ways and preparing them for different educational paths? Something tells me that Captain Corea and TJ, just to name two, will see their kids along just fine if they choose to keep their kids in Korea through high school and beyond. |
I agree with so much of this. TJ and I don't get along, but I'd never say that he's failed as a parent for making the choice tom raise his kids here. If I recall, he said he made roughly 5 times the salary of an average teacher. Taking a guess, I'd put that at 10 mill a month. 120,000,000 per year. And I have no idea if his wife even works. But just alone pretty much guarantees that he's going to be able to afford a decent lifestyle for his family. He said he tried it in the US, and it works better for him here in Korea.
Makes sense.
But we've all got different situations and we're all just trying our best.
For me, I'm aiming to raise my girl in Canada. NOT for financial reasons, but for things that are important to me: safety and "normalcy" (regarding race relations). That's my aim, and I have no idea if it's the best one. I'm going in that direction, but am willing to entertain other options. If Korea, by whatever means, takes the lead position in my option list, we'll gladly stay here, enjoy it, and make the best of it.
Madoka...thanks for that link. I've got to ask the Americans here... Does Health insurance costs back home ever deter you from considering the move? |
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Brooks
Joined: 08 Apr 2003
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 2:08 am Post subject: |
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No. I could get a job and my wife could get health coverage. I am thinking about moving to Oregon.
Better quality of life. Plus Oregon has no state tax.
With propert taxes some states are brutal. New York is number 1 in the country, which is why my brother wants to sell his house. He lives in Delaware and it is cheaper there and the winters are not bad at all.
In upstate New York, in the winter the electric bill is about 500 bucks. |
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Chokse
Joined: 22 May 2009
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 3:19 am Post subject: |
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Current OSD price for a BMW 5 series is 11% off the retail price. That's better than the drop to "dealer" price from sticker price. For Mercedes, it is currently averaging 9% and Volvo is 10%.
All of those come in under the "dealer" price according to Edmunds.
Also, these manufacturers drop the destination charge and pay all import taxes on the car. It's actually a great way to get a car and to get a nice little vacation since you can drive the car around Europe (they give you 30 days of free insurance in Europe) rather than rent a car.
So, add an average drop of 10% off the price and $2,000 worth of airline tickets + hotel and it's not a bad deal.
That being said, only fool would buy a new car today. It's much more economical to buy a one or two year old low mileage car than it is to buy new. The price will drop substantially, it will still be under warranty, and the insurance will be cheaper than a new one. Huge savings buying a slightly used car versus a new car. |
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Chokse
Joined: 22 May 2009
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 3:26 am Post subject: |
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For those asking about health insurance costs, it really all depends on your job. If you work for a private company, it can be hit or miss. It depends on what plan they have and how many employees they have enrolled in it. It can be cheap and it can be horribly expensive (maybe ranging from $300 per month to $1500 per month and often does not include dental and vision).
If you are running your own business or do not get health insurance through your company, it will be expensive, no doubt. Probably close to $2000 per month for a family of 4 or 5 (including dental and vision).
If you work for the government (local, state, or national), or if you are in education (university or K-12), insurance is pretty reasonable and ranges from $100 per month to $500 per month at the extreme for a family (including dental, vision and disability). Government and education jobs also usually come with pretty good pension programs as well. While the yearly salary is not great, these jobs do come with some good benefits (listed above) and a good amount of vacation. |
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PatrickGHBusan
Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 3:37 am Post subject: |
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carleverson wrote: |
I see alot of post defending the low cost of living in Korea. I'm fairly certain Korea can be quite a bit cheaper than your western home country.
But, I'm also fairly certain the quality of life is much better in the west. The west has better public schools for your kids, more personal space, being close to family and people speak English! No amount of monetary savings is worth sacrificing these things for me. |
Quite applicable to YOU. But for someone with a Korean spouse a lot of what you say is actually a drawback (ex: family and being far from it, English as the official language).
Another point made by CC: this is not a Korea is better or worse than Canada/US/other western nation thread. Lets steer clear of that nonsense.
This thread should remain informative so that people can get useful information if they need to.
For a person like TJ Korea wins hands down. No one can dispute that because that is his choice.
For me, each place has its merits, advantages and drawbacks. We are happy living in either place and do not feel we are missing out on something or shortchanging ourselves.
Chokse is providing valuable insight into the US option for Americans and that is something I enjoy reading.
I am trying to provide information on the Canadian option as we lived in Korea and now live in Canada. Again, I ain't preaching or converting anyone. Everyone makes choices according to their needs, preferences and desires.
We were content and happy in Korea and we are also happy and content in Canada.
As for kids, they thrive when they have srong family support, not based on where they are.
I too am sure TJ's children are happy and thriving in Korea. I am willing to bet Captain's daughter is also happy in Korea.
Our kids were happy and thrived in Korea and are doing just as well in Canada. |
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PatrickGHBusan
Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -
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Posted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 3:43 am Post subject: |
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Madoka makes a GREAT point about using actual comparables. Chokse is kind of warping the data as some of his comparisons are indeed apple/oranges.
Another key point needs to be made here...say your Korean spouse is from Seoul, Busan or some other major urban centre in Korea. She or he has lived in that busy city with all it has to offer (advantages and drawbacks).
Taking your spouse to the US or Canada and settling in a tiny small town is not a smart move. She or he will have to deal with culture shock and will be completely cut off from Korean goods and some form of K community (something as simple as a Korean grocery store for foods he or she likes).
My wife is an example of this, she was born in Seoul and moved to Busan when she was 10. She is a city gal through and through.
When we decided to settle in Canada in 2008, I would not have marooned her in some tiny Ontario town! Holy crap she would have refused.
We moved in a large city where she had access to a Korean community and some Korean goods (stores, groceries). We do not go there all the time but we do go there once per week and our kids have access to a Korean community that offers Korean courses for example.
So while Chokse makes valid points, I would not have taken my city gal to a small Ontario town just to save money! |
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