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DBXD
Joined: 16 May 2011
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Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2011 11:56 pm Post subject: You ever overhear Koreans talking bad about you? |
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What's the worst you've heard from strangers perhaps as they walked past you on the street, or on the bus, waiting in lines, etc. My Korean is definitely beginner, but I do understand some.
What kinds of negative things have you heard? |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:01 am Post subject: |
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Koreans talk bad about everyone. I've been in cars with 2+ Koreans and they start talking trash about random people crossing the street in front of them.
But I guess I do the same when I am with my buddies, even back home.  |
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Vix
Joined: 18 Jun 2010 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:58 am Post subject: |
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My Korean's at maybe the intermediate level so I get most of what I hear when I'm out and about. Most of it's pretty positive honestly, they usually say I'm pretty . Although on my way back from a hiking trip I was in Lotte Mart and overheard two way overly dressed up Korean girls talking about how dirty I was ( I was a little dusty). Or another time I heard some older lady talking about how rude I was not giving my seat up on the train. She was only mid 40ish so why should I have given her mine, if she was a pensioner I would have given it up. I just called my bf and talked to him in Korean about how I felt a bit sick that day for a bit then looked at her  |
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cheolsu
Joined: 16 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 3:15 am Post subject: |
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I speak at least intermediate-level Korean, but I haven't heard anyone speak about me in public more than a few times, and none of it was bad.
As has often been discussed here, it's people who speak beginner-level Korean who think people talk about them all the time. |
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tankdizzle
Joined: 17 Aug 2009
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 4:20 am Post subject: |
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to the original poster, u r about as ignorant as the koreans who talk about you are...tired of hearin ppl complain about koreans doing this doing that - u experience the same thing back home...go cry to mom
u pansy |
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tomstar86
Joined: 09 May 2009 Location: Daegu, South Korea
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 4:22 am Post subject: |
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I've had a middle aged Korean man stare me in the face on the subway and call me an American bastard once.
The look on his face when I replied that I'm a Brit (in Korean) was priceless haha!
Also, had a pizza shop owner and a customer talking about how stupid foreigners like me can't understand Korean. Whilst they were talking I just stared, the customer's kid noticed, whispered something in her dad's ear, and the conversation stopped.
Oh well, such is life.
Tom
http://waegook-tom.com |
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cert43
Joined: 17 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 4:41 am Post subject: |
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How you gonna post up on here man?  |
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Feloria
Joined: 02 Sep 2006
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 8:10 am Post subject: |
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I don't know why anyone would really care what some random Korean has to say about them, especially if it's negative! I mean geez--look at the source !
Now if it's a Korean co-worker, or your boss--that could be cause for concern. |
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myenglishisno
Joined: 08 Mar 2011 Location: Geumchon
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 8:38 am Post subject: |
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Happens everywhere, I honestly wouldn't blame this one on the Koreans.
Where I come from, people loiter around and yell "faggot" at strangers all day. I'm glad that doesn't happen here, with the exception of soldiers... |
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authoritar
Joined: 15 May 2011
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 9:49 am Post subject: |
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I wouldn't worry, and it is also possible you are misunderstanding. The Korean words for shoes (shinbal), 18 (ship-pal) and f**k you ) Sh*-bal) are very similar and to a beginner it is easy to get confused. I did when I was new to Korea, I punished a kid when all he was doing was commenting on my shoes.
http://teachorient.blogspot.com/ |
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cert43
Joined: 17 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 11:42 am Post subject: |
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Why is it that other 'people' like to make other people out to look bad..
For example, not letting you post publictly on twitter or picking up only parts of what you say and think and then making someone else look better then you.. :shock:or like saying someones gf went to fla with someone else that you were thinking of using a condom with 3 hours earlier...
All part of "knowing" what is being said |
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cert43
Joined: 17 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 11:48 am Post subject: |
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Sorry, but not the night before  |
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madoka

Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:58 pm Post subject: |
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cheolsu wrote: |
As has often been discussed here, it's people who speak beginner-level Korean who think people talk about them all the time. |
authoritar wrote: |
I wouldn't worry, and it is also possible you are misunderstanding. The Korean words for shoes (shinbal), 18 (ship-pal) and f**k you ) Sh*-bal) are very similar and to a beginner it is easy to get confused. I did when I was new to Korea, I punished a kid when all he was doing was commenting on my shoes. |
That's an interesting observation. I suppose people naturally first gravitate towards swear words. If those are the only words you know, then you could think you hear them all the time because they are what you are tuned into.
I remember once leaving a tip at a restaurant. One waitress took the money and started complaining to another waitress. If I didn't know any better, I could think that they were expecting a bigger tip. She sounded and acted a bit upset. But listening to them, they were complaining about how Koreans never tip and how nice it would be if they worked in the West.
As an intermediate speaker, I've yet to hear anything negative about me or my family. 99.9% of the conversations I overhear are really just normal conversations. |
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joelove
Joined: 12 May 2011
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 1:52 pm Post subject: |
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I suppose there are a few reasons people seem to be, or may indeed be talking about you. You are different. They assume you won't understand. You may be a little paranoid. People like to gossip. They may be bored and have little else to talk about. Everywhere you go seemingly vapid conversations abound.
I like an old story I read once about an Australian woman in a meeting in Korea. At some point there was talking in Korean about her big nose or something. Just before she left the meeting she said some pleasant things in Korean to everybody, demonstrating her awareness of the language. There was embarrassment. I like stories like that. |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 2:53 pm Post subject: |
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My Korean is quite good and I hear negative comments at least once a week. It happens on buses and subways, in restaurants and shops.
But, I live in Daegu. People tend to have bigger sticks in their asses here.
For the most part the negative comments are directed at foreigners in general, but sometimes I hear comments about my appearance (which is impeccable ).
The most recent example was Friday. Two older men on the subway talking about the 'good-old days' when they didn't see any foreigners.
But, I've also noticed Koreans talk about each other just as negatively, or worse. |
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