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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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chungbukdo wrote: |
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Nonsense. Rarely in the real world in most places do people intervene in violent altercations. People have been killed while other people just stood by and did nothing or watched.
And if you had bothered to read you would have seen that Korean bystanders DID attempt to restrain the person. |
Dude, men intervene all the time when a woman is involved, ESPECIALLY when it is a black man white woman situation. They did a show on this.
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A show is different from real life.
Ever hear of Kitty Genovese? She was stabbed in view of several people. One of the witnesses (a man) shouted at the attacker (from the safety of his apartment window) to leave the girl alone but did nothing else...didn't even apparently bother calling the police.
Or Sandra Zahler who was beaten to death? Witnesses said they heard screams and "fierce struggles" but did nothing.
Both women lost their lives within eyeshot/earshot of multiple witnesses including men. Nothing was done to help them...until it was too late.
A Google search will give you other similar cases.
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Mix1
Joined: 08 May 2007
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 5:58 pm Post subject: |
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tator wrote: |
Truly a revolting display of human nature. |
+1
The guy has issues. Yelling is one thing, but physically threatening a woman and then punching a skinny old man in the face who is sitting down is just disgusting. Can't get much lower than that.
Too bad there weren't a team of Korean Tae kwon do or Judo black belts on that bus to show that guy what he can do with his "rocks."
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whitestboyalive
Joined: 09 Dec 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:02 pm Post subject: |
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jvalmer wrote: |
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nyw1aCbgm8g
According to one of the posts in the comments:
"According to the news report, the black man was talking loudly on bus. So for the comfort of all passengers, the middle aged Korean man told the black man to shut up. The gangsta-wannabe then obviously flipped the *beep* out. What made the black man angry was the phrase "Ne gah yeogi anja" (You, sit over here) and the black boy understood ne gah as nigga..." |
Wow, you are much more observant than I was... I think that's definitely the misunderstanding. "Ne gah" may have been misinterpreted as "niggah"... that's crazy.
Oh well, that American guy definitely has to go. Public behavior like that ought to get you deported.
I mean, that's such an ugly scene. Sadly, too, it's all too common in America, and somewhat common in Canada. Makes me glad I'm in Korea, actually. |
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ForeverWanderlust
Joined: 27 Jun 2011
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:04 pm Post subject: |
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Urban Myth
you must come from a pretty feminist pacifist country.
no way in hell a guy will be allowed to yell and hit a women def not an old women within plain sight of men in America.
if a dude punches a chick and other dudes are right there thats an immediate ass kicking. |
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whitestboyalive
Joined: 09 Dec 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:09 pm Post subject: |
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ForeverWanderlust wrote: |
Urban Myth
you must come from a pretty feminist pacifist country.
no way in hell a guy will be allowed to yell and hit a women def not an old women within plain sight of men in America.
if a dude punches a chick and other dudes are right there thats an immediate ass kicking. |
Oh yeah I wasn't talking about the lack of doing anything, just the guy all getting 'in yo face' over (seemingly) nothing. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:11 pm Post subject: |
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whitestboyalive wrote: |
jvalmer wrote: |
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nyw1aCbgm8g
According to one of the posts in the comments:
"According to the news report, the black man was talking loudly on bus. So for the comfort of all passengers, the middle aged Korean man told the black man to shut up. The gangsta-wannabe then obviously flipped the *beep* out. What made the black man angry was the phrase "Ne gah yeogi anja" (You, sit over here) and the black boy understood ne gah as nigga..." |
Wow, you are much more observant than I was... I think that's definitely the misunderstanding. "Ne gah" may have been misinterpreted as "niggah"... that's crazy.
Oh well, that American guy definitely has to go. Public behavior like that ought to get you deported.
I mean, that's such an ugly scene. Sadly, too, it's all too common in America, and somewhat common in Canada. Makes me glad I'm in Korea, actually. |
And supposedly the girl is the black guy's girlfriend. And judging from her reaction, looks like she knows he's in the wrong and her English probably isn't good enough to explain the translation on the fly. But it's all speculation without being there.
ForeverWanderlust wrote: |
Urban Myth
you must come from a pretty feminist pacifist country.
no way in hell a guy will be allowed to yell and hit a women def not an old women within plain sight of men in America.
if a dude punches a chick and other dudes are right there thats an immediate ass kicking. |
I think your over-romanticizing reactions back home. I've got to lean with TUM on this one. Although I think if one person intervenes you'll get a group that would follow in the intervention. The problem is getting that one person to step forward. It does take a lot of courage.
I've only seen two situations in public where a guy is beating on a girl in Canada, after last-call incidentally, and in both cases nobody intervened physically. Although some did call 911. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:14 pm Post subject: |
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ForeverWanderlust wrote: |
Urban Myth
you must come from a pretty feminist pacifist country.
no way in hell a guy will be allowed to yell and hit a women def not an old women within plain sight of men in America.
if a dude punches a chick and other dudes are right there thats an immediate ass kicking. |
Both Kitty Genovese and Sandra Zahler were American. And the American men who were present stood by and did nothing to prevent their deaths.
Oh wait...one guy opened his apartment window and yelled at the attacker of Kitty Genovese "Leave that girl alone."
But he didn't intervene between the two, he didn't go over and make sure she was all right...he didn't even call the police. |
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Squire

Joined: 26 Sep 2010 Location: Jeollanam-do
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:15 pm Post subject: |
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Why do Americans always have to shout down the phone? It's infuriating to listen to |
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ForeverWanderlust
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:16 pm Post subject: |
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UrbanMyth
your trying to compare someone using a deadly weapon to a common argument / fight.
smh
lol |
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ForeverWanderlust
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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On a bus in America with men on board, if a guy starts yelling at a female and hits her he will be restrained and get his ass kicked EVERYTIME. |
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Squire

Joined: 26 Sep 2010 Location: Jeollanam-do
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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ForeverWanderlust wrote: |
On a bus in America with men on board, if a guy starts yelling at a female and hits her he will be restrained and get his ass kicked EVERYTIME. |
Nonsense. Partially because there are often no men between the ages of 18-65 on a bus. You'll see school kids, women and the elderly most of the time |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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ForeverWanderlust wrote: |
UrbanMyth
your trying to compare someone using a deadly weapon to a common argument / fight.
smh
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No, I'm pointing out that people are more likely not to get involved even if a woman is being attacked. And of the people who actually saw Kitty Genovese being attacked...apparently none of them realized she was being stabbed...it was dark out and at a distance. So they didn't know he had a deadly weapon...so it wasn't that restraining them.
As for Sandra people only heard a woman screaming and the sounds of a violent struggle. But no one even bothered looking. |
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jamesd
Joined: 15 Aug 2011 Location: Korea
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:29 pm Post subject: |
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I hear the audio but the screen is just green. I don't think he's an American as he doesn't speak like one. |
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warmachinenkorea
Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:31 pm Post subject: |
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I have to agree with the ForeverWanderlust. He said a person would get whipped where he's from. Same thing here. Where I'm from if a guy started to get physical with a woman or older person, for whatever reason, he would have more than a few people on his back. It is changing though.
Sadly to say if this situation happened where I'm from with a black male involved talking and being dressed like he is he would have never gotten on a bus full of non-black folks because he would have people on his back. |
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isisaredead
Joined: 18 May 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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jamesd wrote: |
I hear the audio but the screen is just green. I don't think he's an American as he doesn't speak like one. |
judging by the accent, i'd argue strongly that he's american. he doesn't seem drunk, or anything, either, which is troubling.
and guys, let's get this straight - HE WASN'T WEARING ANY RINGS. he was referring to his knuckles.
i just find it astounding that not one person told the bus driver to stop, open the door, grabbed him, and threw his violent butt out on to the street. we all know how much koreans avoid confrontation, but honestly, that was just weird. |
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