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[just because]

I have a similar situation to Gollum at present. I teach a class of 14 middle school 3rd. grade girls. They are very good students and particpate well but 2 really are a bit of a problem.

This is just yesterday.

Situation One: Do you think student X is a sexy girl?? She can show you on the weekend how sexy she is when we go to the noraebang together.

Sitaution Two: Teacher, help me please. I go over. She asks me in a very loud voice to touch her brea sts. She takes my hand and said to me "please touch my ����(Breasts), i want you too". Then she tries to put my hand on her breast. I just said No way.

Situation Three: Do you want to see my body. I'll take off my clothes if you want, we are all girls here so it doesn't matter. I told her don't even think about it.


So, yesterday was a bit abnormal but this happens every week. The girls have told me that these 2 girls are in love with me. They are super advanced for their age and sexually active and to be honest, while this is a porno movie makers fantasy, in real life, it is very worrying.

[Mr. Pink]

Reason #508320-48920568048234 why I wouldn't want to work in a girls only school.

I have 1 golden rule: Don't put yourself into situations you can't handle.

You might be able to handle that, but what if going to a singing room the girl drops her skirt and bingo...she's flying commando.

Those are situations where even the strongest guy is gonna fight hard to get out of.

Advice? Make you get get regular sex so the thought of some porn fantasy stays just that!

[Corporal]

Um, tell the director, or talk to the girls' parents, or get the director to talk to the girls' parents, or get a female teacher to talk to the girls and explain appropriate classroom behaviour, or for that matter just to tell the director that the girls need to be taken out of your classroom because they are making inappropriate sexually-related suggestions?

It hasn't occurred to you to do any of these things?

[just because]

Yes, corporal it has occured to me.

Told the director...he said don't worry about it.

Rang the parents(I did it in Korean)... both come from broken homes, one mum is a barber shop girl, the other a nighttime factory worker(don't assume that all students here come from happy families).

Told the teacher....she told me too ignore them and she'll talk to them(big lot of good that did).

Not much point asking the director, except saying that i won't teach them(except for this however, i love the class).

Please don't be so condescending in future.

[Corporal]

I'm not being condescending. I just wanted to make sure you'd already done the obvious things. You might have specified that in your original post.

[FUBAR]

[just because]

I'm sorry for my catty tone Corporal...i took it the wrong way and I thank you for your input as yes, I should have stated that. .

While some male members of the board might see this as a fantasy, it really isn't. I am still very young so i can see why these girls might like me but honestly to even think of the implications is enought to even put the thought out of my mind.

[Goro-chan]

Sounds disturbing!

I used to have problems with 3rd grade boys at my middle school (I'm a female!!) who would say and do the same sorts of things to me. I just laughed it off and would always say that they weren't my type, then point to the least popular boy in the class and say that it was him that I wanted. The kids really believed me and it made the unpopular boys get a bit of respect, and the boys who were bugging me backed off when they realised that I wouldn't react the way they'd expected.

Girls on the other hand are less likely to back off. And being a guy you probably can't get away with joking around too much either. Can't you get the other girls in the class to back you up?

[peppermint]

Well, at least by raising alarm bells, you've got your arse covered.

Don't think of this as a come on so much as a test. These girls want to see how much they can get away with in your class. So far, apparently they get away with alot.

Next time they ask if they are sexy say "NO- cute!" (My students seem to interpret that as pretty but untouchable) Tell them you are married and your wife is both beautiful and very jealous. Simply ingore those kinds of questions, or worse- write the question on the board, and correct the grammar for the class. If all else fails, perhaps asking the director to transfer a few guys into the class will help?

Now for Mr. Pink- the OP seems to view the girls as Lolita types, out to seduce him, but he's plainly not interested. Why would he put himself in a position where one of them could show her comando status?

[The Man known as The Man]

[just because]

I've done all you said peppermint, i said i don't think they are sexy(hence the let me show you my body and noraebang comments) and my g/f is very beautiful,etc(which she is ). I can't get boys in because it is just for middle-school 3 girls.

They are not normal middle-schoolers, they are definantly sexually active and the other gilrs just fall into line behind them(or risk being the wangta i suppose).

They will get over it eventually, its only 50 minutes a week.

[J.B. Clamence]

3rd grade of middle school: What age are we talking about here?

[just because]

15 y.o.

[J.B. Clamence]

Well, I woundn't think of it as a porn fantasy. Unless of course you're into kiddie porn.

[just because]

They don't look 15y.o. They look like university students.