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Mankind



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2004 9:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Such newbies need their @ss kicked for the brown-noser, ratting-out, superior attitudes they take because such low-lifes wouldn't get away with that kind of crap in Britain, Australia, America, Canada, South Africa, New Zealand...


Have you ever worked in an office back home? It happens and works back there too.

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the eye



Joined: 29 Jan 2004

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 1:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mankind...

how do you know i didn't do my research? I did everything possible to ensure my satisfaction. I checked out the gig before i went on a little vacation. and i did my own footwork as far as reputations and blacklists are concerned. finding my own housing was not necessary because i 'saw' what i was getting.
it all changed when i arrived back from my vacation.

thats how the contract was broken. i wasn't aware that the law had changed in my province with regards to firing=release. i suppose now you are going to call me an idiot for not knowing that too. i thought that i could get out of the contract just by being fired.

as for crying for sympathy...learn to read shithead, i never asked for anything from you or anyone for anything other than advice. take your misjudgments and shove them.

and the reason i chose to change schools, is because i was didn't want to work at a university anymore, not because i was greedy.

your hypocritical attitude cracks me up...

i crossed paths with you three years ago on this board, where you attacked an english teacher for the irony of not being able to spell properly. i wrote to you because your own post was riddled with mistakes as well. we argued back and forth for pages. in the end, some guy quoted a modern philosopher in a post that made a fool of you, and your argument. in your profound ignorance, you thought he was commending your position and thanked him for his 'compliment'.

this may seem minor to you, but let me continue...

i also remember YOU, crying a river because of the poor treatment You received from an employer. i was just considering korea at that time, and i learned a lot from your mistakes....

how do i remember all this?
i ALWAYS remember the asshole s i cross paths with.

why do i bring it up now?
because you are so hypocritical, and clueless about your own arrogance that you make completely retarded assumptions on my character and intelligence.

in my op, i only wanted to know if it was possible to get out of my visa SOMEHOW. i don't recall asking for sypathy, being arrogant, or rude.

But thanks for offering me the arrogance and rudeness from your own shining personality.

i guess i should be expecting another flaming retort...right?

come on, mankind, make sure all the readers here see your profound brilliance....you haven't changed a bit.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 6:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

EYE: just goes to show that you can be careful here but still be blindsided.. could happen to anyone actually, although they won't admit it. All it takes is that you stand up for your rights and try to enforce whats in the contract, and..BANG.. they can totally wreck you. korean management is never able to see anyone elses point of view. They just f**k you up the moment you disagree with them.
Keep us updated...
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Mankind



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 7:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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as for crying for sympathy...learn to read *beep*, i never asked for anything from you or anyone for anything other than advice. take your misjudgments and shove them.



No you don't have an attitude problem.

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i crossed paths with you three years ago on this board, where you attacked an english teacher for the irony of not being able to spell properly.


I doubt that. Since I don't care much about spelling errors on here, as I have dyslexia and spelling is a bitch for me. I have never 'attacked' a poster over spelling.


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i also remember YOU, crying a river because of the poor treatment You received from an employer. i was just considering korea at that time, and i learned a lot from your mistakes....


I find that odd since the only bad job I ever had was over 7 years ago, before you could actually check things out and sites like this were pipe dreams. That lasted 3 months and immigration terminated the job for me.

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how do i remember all this?
i ALWAYS remember the *beep* s i cross paths with.


Again, you don't have any attitude problem. But you best check your memory. Maybe you took a good whack on the head? I have a photo graphic memory which is quite annoying for others. I'm sure I'd remember your little fantasies if they were real. But alas. What I do know is that you're hotheaded, rude and a cry baby. You take no responsibility for your own life and situation. So as far as I'm concerned you deserve what you get.

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how do you know i didn't do my research? I did everything possible to ensure my satisfaction. I checked out the gig before i went on a little vacation. and i did my own footwork as far as reputations and blacklists are concerned. finding my own housing was not necessary because i 'saw' what i was getting.



Any of these look familiar?
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my boss tricked me into coming here and living inside the hogwan. i refused, and it has taken him a week to get me the slum i have now.


What you were tricked into coming here? I thought you'd been here for 3 years. This is the big problem you keep pissing about, your housing. Ever think of moving in before you left for 3 weeks? I mean you 'saw' your place. Or did you?

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He assured me that everything would be peachy. I even reiterated my concerns to the recruiter who nabbed me. The apartment details were not on the contract


What I thought you said your boss tricked you? Now its a recruiter? Which is it? Oh I know, they both screwed like the labour board, immigration and everyone else. See a theme in your crying? And for someone who worked out all the details and checked everything why is there nothing about your apartment in the contract? Oh wait?
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The contract states that my apartment be furnished with certain things, and it still is not


You're a complete liar. Its in the contract? It's not? Which is it?

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Look dude! The hakwan just opened. Who am i gonna call? I did check the blacklists and put a question on this board about his previous hakwan. No flags.


Again you did your research? On a new place. I read your little post to Pink and he was bang on. They closed their first place after 4 years to travel? Ya, nothing to think about there, that sounds normal. I have a successful business so I'll just close down and *beep* around for a year. Good business model. Ever think maybe they were avoiding creditors????? Really some people are just too stupid to live.
Remember step chew step chew step chew.

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Gord



Joined: 25 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 7:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mankind wrote:
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You're going to make "the eye" cry by pointing out his contradictions and inability to accept blame for anything.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 7:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mankind made some good points.

If you did your homework it was pretty poor. I always ask to see where I will be living as it will make or break your contract. If you were living here why didn't you check it out???

I know you are having a rough time and I'm sorry but it looks like you didn't look too hard at all.

I knocked back 9 jobs after interviews until i got the one I got now(granted my middle school situation isn't the best) but other than that it has worked out. Learn for the future and always ask to see the housing.
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humanuspneumos



Joined: 08 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 7:31 am    Post subject: Well Reply with quote

Though your wit Gord is quite funny I can't give credit to the assumption that: experienced teacher = not getting screwed. That's really flawed logic. It has EYE kicking and swearing and why wouldn't his response be anger? The bottom line assumption is that experienced teacher has X-ray vision, long-distance-esp, omniscience.... Not a reachable goal.


My own experience is that there isn't enough experience in the universe to keep an oldie from getting broad-sided at the intersection shortly after the lights change colors and the oldie steps into the new school.

Pragmatically- there's hardly any value in standing around swearing- just move onto point B.

Socially- as social creatures we negotiate what just happened in the intesection of life and get stuck on the fact that somebody wrongly blew a red light and smashed our new job- injustice doesn't always allow us to move on from the crash that easily.

Those of you who are implying that The Eye is a cry-baby- what exactly are you implying- that you have GOD power and everone else should too? Isn't there a label for that kind of thinking in psychology?


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the eye



Joined: 29 Jan 2004

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 7:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mankind...

your photographic memory probably comes in real handy remembering what you write on a message board....i can just imagine all those sentences flashing before your eyes. it was you, because you STILL sign your posts with that annoying HAND crap.

yeah, i'm a liar.... Rolling Eyes

everything i wrote was true. i have no reason to lie about anything.

as for the attitude problem, shits like you bring out the best in me i guess. funny how that photographic memory doesn't recall who began flaming away in the first place.......photographic memory, good one!

my boss did trick me, he showed me one place, and put me in another...what's so difficult to understand about that? The contract specified furnishings but not location...don't twist things to suit your argument.
I never said that the recruiter tricked me you fool...as i said before....read....maybe you might need to go over it twice.

you know, i don't know why i even bother replying to your garbage. we did the same thing three years ago, and you managed to look like the fool without my help.

over and out.... make sure you photograph THIS with that memory of yours.


and gord,
i can accept blame for my own shortfalls, but i think i did what was necessary. I don't except how the system protects hakwans and gives them almost omnipotent power.

maybe someday i can be as perfect as you and mankind......someday.
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Mankind



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 8:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You really answered nothing in that post. Except for what we already knew.
You can't deal with people disagreeing with you and a lot of *beep* come-up when you post to them. I'm hardly the first, just look through your past threads about this. We can deduce you lack manners.
You avoid your responsiblity for the problem. We can deduce that you lack maturity.
You constantly contradict yourself. We can deduce that much of the truth is being hidden.

Unlike you I'll actually answer you.
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your photographic memory probably comes in real handy remembering what you write on a message board


Actually it comes in handy quite often. As for a message board, I've had about 10 'arguements' in the last 5 years on Dave's. It's actaully quite easy to remember what they were about. I never post on spelling so that makes it real easy. People like you make me laugh. You think everyone is the same. Well guess what each person has different gifts. Mineis my memory, my curse is bpd.


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funny how that photographic memory doesn't recall who began flaming away in the first place.......photographic memory, good one!


I simply asked why anyone had sympathy for you. Your problems are self created. You come across as a loser. Nothing has changed.

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my boss did trick me, he showed me one place, and put me in another...what's so difficult to understand about that? The contract specified furnishings but not location...don't twist things to suit your argument.


You have so many contradictions in your posts that it's scary. The fact that couldn't see your own ambiguity is really just kinda sad.

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I never said that the recruiter tricked me you fool...as i said before....read....maybe you might need to go over it twice.


You said 'the recruiter who nabbed me'. Nabbed isn't exactly a positive word. The point was that a recruiter was involved. You talk about how much you know, and you did. Well it looks like not much at all. If your job is crap and you talked to your recruiter about it, than obviously they put you there and must share some of the blame for your tough life. People who do a lot of research generally don't use recruiters.

You still just keep coming across as a rude cry baby. You made your bed. You have opened at least 3 different threads on this same topic. Yet you claim you aren't looking for sympathy. LOL You are so desperate for attention its sad. Your like a 5 year old. The problem is you only want people to say 'Oh poor you'. When someone tells you the true. It's your fault!!!!!!!!! You start swearing and cursing and avoiding responsiblity. I'm not the first one to point this out to you and likely won't be the last. I'm sure you'll start a new thread soon, to get 'advise'. You are in your situation because of you. You can decide what lead you there. Stupidity, lazyness, ignorance (after 3 years?) or the whole world is out to get just you.

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TECO



Joined: 20 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 12:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey, when I taught in Japan, foreign supervisors at language schools screwing over other foreigners was the norm.

A lot p ricks out there teaching EFL who cannot do anything else back home and aren't worried about making friends in Seoul.
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the eye



Joined: 29 Jan 2004

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 1:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah, this is what happned last time we argued....your hypocracy overwhelmed you. and your ego swallowed your judgement. and you say I am immature.

i can take disagreement, i just cant stomach your oral mastur.bation.

you flame me, call me names, make snap judgements without knowing the full story...then you call me rude for defending myself....then you deduce that i have no manners. - what, rude? Good reasoning! Philosophy major, were you? argh!
and now, you deny flaming me in the first place! -what, contradiction?

as for all the shit that comes up, it doesn't mean that i can't take the disagreement, it means I object to your tone. check your photographic memory AGAIN...i only shitt-ed on those who shat on me. you obviously can't take it either, or we wouldn't still be talking about it.

as for contradicting myself...well, when you pick apart every word i say over many posts and tweak your own literal meanings from them...you could deduce anything you want...the fact that you have actually done that is quite scary. are you applying for a job with the korean police...you will make captain in no time!

and, wow...of course i am in a situation because of ME, you moron! I know what choices i made. i didn't, however, ask to be tricked , and have absolutley no legal recourse or defense.

all i wanted to know from the very start, was how i could minimize the damage. i wasn't asking for sypathy, i was asking what i could do at that point in the deal.
isn't that what this forum is for?...or are you the new god here?

yes, i probably will ask for more advice...and i expect you to stay in character and flame me in all your self proclaimed brilliance.

now, i'll give you a couple of hours to come up with some more snappy comebacks, and you can try and impress your wife and friends...everyone will pat you on the head, and chant you are da'man....and everything is right in mankind's world again.

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TECO



Joined: 20 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 2:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is my experience working in big 'chain' schools in Asia.

Everyone has a different experience it seems and your's is different than mine.
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 2:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think a visa to live and work in another country is a human right at all. It is a privledge. Some people are not qualified or deserving.
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TECO



Joined: 20 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 2:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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...It is a privledge. Some people are not qualified or deserving.


And how are you qualified to teach EFL in this world?
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2004 5:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TECO wrote:
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...It is a privledge. Some people are not qualified or deserving.


And how are you qualified to teach EFL in this world?

A bachelor's degree in linguistics, two teaching licenses in TESL and nine years of experience teaching English to children.
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