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Kaypea



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
An example of what DD is talking about can be found right here in Korea - among English teachers.... A good looking, white western female teaching English in Korea will almost certianly go for the army officer over the English teacher (in a bar anyway) that can get her on base to do some shopping 99/100 times. I've seen it happen so many times - and not to me because I was w/my wife!

But yeah, it's true. Very Happy


Army guys have better arms, too. Smile
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leftx47



Joined: 12 Aug 2011

PostPosted: Wed Sep 21, 2011 9:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kaypea wrote:
Army guys have better arms, too. Smile


Very Happy

Died By Bear wrote:
An example of what DD is talking about can be found right here in Korea - among English teachers.... A good looking, white western female teaching English in Korea will almost certianly go for the army officer over the English teacher (in a bar anyway) that can get her on base to do some shopping 99/100 times. I've seen it happen so many times - and not to me because I was w/my wife!

But yeah, it's true. Very Happy


Okay. If we're talking about people who go to bars to meet members of the opposite sex, I'll agree they're probably shallow. Smile
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Draz



Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam

PostPosted: Wed Sep 21, 2011 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kaypea wrote:

Army guys have better arms, too. Smile


If you can find an officer they are usually smarter than the English teachers too.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 1:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Draz wrote:
Kaypea wrote:

Army guys have better arms, too. Smile


If you can find an officer they are usually smarter than the English teachers too.



They have great self control as well.

Except for this really smart guy.

http://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory?id=11906953
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radcon



Joined: 23 May 2011

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 2:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Draz wrote:
Kaypea wrote:

Army guys have better arms, too. Smile


If you can find an officer they are usually smarter than the English teachers too.


And they are mid level managers for an organization whose goal is to kill people, some who are innocent.
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swashbuckler



Joined: 20 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 5:33 am    Post subject: Re: what women really look at Reply with quote

sadguy wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdIAa6gnaco

ladies, can you confirm or deny this?


That looked kind of like an introduction to one of those amateur porn movies.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
Location: Earth, Solar System

PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2011 7:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
An example of what DD is talking about can be found right here in Korea - among English teachers.... A good looking, white western female teaching English in Korea will almost certianly go for the army officer over the English teacher (in a bar anyway) that can get her on base to do some shopping 99/100 times. I've seen it happen so many times - and not to me because I was w/my wife!

But yeah, it's true. Very Happy


Ahh, but the real question is who would do better: PFC vs. Army Doctor?
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ATM SPIDERTAO



Joined: 05 Jul 2009
Location: seoul, south korea

PostPosted: Mon Sep 26, 2011 11:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LOL that kind of wasn't fair, the guy was BUILT
it'd be like... getting arnold back in his prime doing this. EVERYONE would look at his crazy biceps and his crotch which sticks out like crazy

maybe if you didn't have such noticeable qualities, it'll be more interesting
i would say that girls look at whatever sticks out in a guy they meet for the first few times. it could be his arms, his face, his chest, in both positive and negative ways

i can remember when i got a huge pimple on my chin, EVERY person i met would casually glance at it once or twice... and i'd catch them and call them out on it. just whatever sticks out. and this guy was BUFF
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rainism



Joined: 13 Apr 2011

PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

let's not go overboard.

He doesn't have bodybuilder arms/ biceps.

but he IS definitely buff and in a way most women would probably prefer over Arnold in his prime Smile

I suppose it's fair in an overall sense.. if he's buff overall, where will they look.

it's only "unfair" to his eyes/face.. but they will not those aspects when speaking to him, then sneak their peeks elsewhere when they're not Wink
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pegasus64128



Joined: 20 Aug 2011

PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

D.D. wrote:
fill a room with a bunch of ugly guys with money and a bunch of poor good looking guys and I am sorry to the politically correct angry women types but the rich ugly guys would do better.

if you had a third group with rich good looking guys it would be the most popular group.

women in western culture who are more masculine or gender neutral get offended when they hear women are after money. truth is really feminine women are interested in being taken care of and mostly will choose money over looks.

women who dont need money because of secure finances tend to get pickier about a guys looks.

that why so many guys go to asia when they lose their looks as asian women tend to be more feminine and are after money, power, security ect.



Some wild general assumptions here. It all depends on the person. Most Korean women select a partner along the lines of a) money b) education c) family background, in no particular order, just whichever one they need most. They're always thinking about their lineage. If all of the above are not needed i.e. the woman is already well educated and wealthy and from a good family background, she will focus more on looks, not that those criteria wouldn't matter anymore, they would just be less of a priority. For short-term relationships and flings, obviously the attributes shown in the youtube video come into play.
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weso1



Joined: 26 Aug 2010

PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

radcon wrote:
Draz wrote:
Kaypea wrote:

Army guys have better arms, too. Smile


If you can find an officer they are usually smarter than the English teachers too.


And they are mid level managers for an organization whose goal is to kill people, some who are innocent.


You know nothing about the military. So shut it.
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