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BigBuds
Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Location: Changwon
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Have you ever heard of paragraphs?
It would have made reading that a lot easier. |
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creeper1
Joined: 30 Jan 2007
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| Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 10:35 pm Post subject: |
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| I too had a Chinese girl that cheated on me. It could be that Chinese girls tend to have a couple of guys on the go. I'm not sure if Ishould avoid them in the future. |
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The Floating World
Joined: 01 Oct 2011
Location: Here
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 12:25 am Post subject: |
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| cj1976 wrote: |
| The OP is down with OPP, haha! |
Maybe in Korea he can become an OPPAH! |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 1:45 am Post subject: |
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It is not about going to Korea or Japan. It's about you. While none of us here are perfect, it's clear from how you write with no focus at all, that you don't discipline yourself adequately when it comes to your emotions and don't reflect on what you're doing. Most of us have been there in some shape or form. It's time to take a good look at yourself and make positive changes in your life.
This woman was married. She was cheating on her husband behind her back. You thought you were somehow more special. She emotionally toyed with you more than one time. She thought over and over of her needs above yours making you into a door-mat. You took it. It happens. Don't let it happen again. If she was willing to cheat on him for so long without telling him, what makes her trustworthy? |
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nukeday
Joined: 13 May 2010
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 5:33 am Post subject: |
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Adventurer commenting on unfocused or poor writing? The world has come to an end.
Anyway, these are problems that can be fixed with a bottle of scotch and a download of Gram Parsons's Grievous Angel |
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Plume D'ella Plumeria
Joined: 10 Jan 2005
Location: The Lost Horizon
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 5:52 am Post subject: |
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The OP's writing style and topic choice seem very familiar, going back a few years. Troll, people.
A sock upon a sock upon a sock. He's called himself many names and has changed a few details in how he puts forth his posts in terms of graphics. But I'm fairly sure it's the same person.
And did anyone notice that he hasn't responded beyond his OP? His heart is always getting broken. He's loveless. He's a handsome boy by his own description. He's also full of it, but mildly entertaining. And he sure does get responses.
Credit where credit is due, I suppose ... |
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recessiontime
Joined: 21 Jun 2010
Location: Got avatar privileges nyahahaha
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 3:11 pm Post subject: |
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| The underlying problem is that OP has no game and is desperate, why else would he bother with a person in a marriage. There are so many women in China and yet he kills himself to be a one that is clearly leading him on and taunting him. |
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ajosshi
Joined: 17 Jan 2011
Location: ajosshi.com
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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| D.D. wrote: |
| you cant have a long term relationship with a cheater because that person will also end up cheating on you. you also lack character for cheating with another guys wife so you reap what you sow. |
+1
amores perros! |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 6:38 pm Post subject: |
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| nukeday wrote: |
Adventurer commenting on unfocused or poor writing? The world has come to an end.
Anyway, these are problems that can be fixed with a bottle of scotch and a download of Gram Parsons's Grievous Angel |
Sorry, lad, but the OP's post seems like one long boo hoo letter with someone spewing all kinds of emotions everywhere. Way too much drama. It's either a nice act, or he's currently feeling like a basket case.
Telling him to drown his troubles in scotch won't make him any better. It will just make 'im drunk! |
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MollyBloom
Joined: 21 Jul 2006
Location: James Joyce's pants
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| Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:33 am Post subject: |
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| Plume D'ella Plumeria wrote: |
The OP's writing style and topic choice seem very familiar, going back a few years. Troll, people.
A sock upon a sock upon a sock. He's called himself many names and has changed a few details in how he puts forth his posts in terms of graphics. But I'm fairly sure it's the same person.
And did anyone notice that he hasn't responded beyond his OP? His heart is always getting broken. He's loveless. He's a handsome boy by his own description. He's also full of it, but mildly entertaining. And he sure does get responses.
Credit where credit is due, I suppose ... |
But he omitted the multi-colored writing this time. |
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Feloria
Joined: 02 Sep 2006
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| Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:29 am Post subject: |
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| Troll or not, anyone who has knowingly has an affair with a married person deserves whatever crap they get--be it a broken heart or a bad case of VD! |
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hogwonguy1979
Joined: 22 Dec 2003
Location: the racoon den
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| Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 3:16 am Post subject: |
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| well it seems wackers is back with his sanitized penthouse forum writing |
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hojucandy
Joined: 03 Feb 2003
Location: In a better place
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| Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 3:34 am Post subject: Re: broken heart... |
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| Hey...I don't know if this applies to this forum, but thought I'd post about it anyway...two years ago I was in China for a teaching job and I met this girl who hid the fact that she was married from me until two weeks later...I didn't want the affair to end and so we continued until I went back home...the plan was she was going to get a divorce and then I'd be back in six months...she then told me that she wanted to leave the marriage and so I waited a little longer...the nov. '09 she said that she changed her mind and decided to stay...I was crushed then in dec. she contacted me again saying she missed me and then I made plans to come back the next summer...as it got closer I didnt feel right with coming back while she was still married so I backed out...then we contacted each other again and kept in touch...I was planning to come back this summer...then she tells me she didnt love me...which was in May...in June she said she was sorry and that she thought about things seriously and said she wanted to be with me. At that time I thought things were finally moving in some direction and so we kept in touch...I told her I was coming back and that we needed to trust each other and it was important. So this August I called her a couple days after her birthday...and during the whole time she's saying she misses me and thinks about me. Sept. 1 she tells me she has a boyfriend...screwing someone behind my back which breaks my heart again. So I don't talk with her and she sends me these little messages saying she is sorry and worries about me and wants to be happy...I break down this week and call her and tell her how I feel...then she tells me to call her the next day...so when I do...shes laughing on the phone like she's drunk and keeps passing her phone around then proceeds to tell me she has something "important" to do and that shes staying with her bf...likes she's taunting me throwing this in my face. I sent her a nasty message on her phone... So that day I finally deleted her number and msn...all that stuff....I dont understand how someone can be so cruel and just say "I want to be with you" and do something like that. So, I'm still trying to heal. I know shes bad for me and I want to get past it and find someone else. But it's hard sometimes. it's hard caring for someone that doesnt care. She kept saying things like it was too hard to be with me. and i think "well, if other chinese girls have foreign boyfriends, and make it work, why shouldn't we?" It was like she was making excuses. So, I'm hoping to get a fresh start and go to some other place like Korea or Japan. I know China is a big place and I could go back there but the memories are too much. I know bad girls exist everywhere but I know one thing is for sure. I'm gonna make sure the girl is single and unattached before I date them. Anyway just wanted to share my experience with you guys. Feels good to vent sometimes. |
Hi Wackers! |
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zappadelta
Joined: 31 Aug 2004
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| Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 3:44 am Post subject: Re: broken heart... |
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| asianfan wrote: |
| Hey...I don't know if this applies to this forum, but thought I'd post about it anyway...two years ago I was in China for a teaching job and I met this girl who hid the fact that she was married from me until two weeks later...I didn't want the affair to end and so we continued until I went back home...the plan was she was going to get a divorce and then I'd be back in six months...she then told me that she wanted to leave the marriage and so I waited a little longer...the nov. '09 she said that she changed her mind and decided to stay...I was crushed then in dec. she contacted me again saying she missed me and then I made plans to come back the next summer...as it got closer I didnt feel right with coming back while she was still married so I backed out...then we contacted each other again and kept in touch...I was planning to come back this summer...then she tells me she didnt love me...which was in May...in June she said she was sorry and that she thought about things seriously and said she wanted to be with me. At that time I thought things were finally moving in some direction and so we kept in touch...I told her I was coming back and that we needed to trust each other and it was important. So this August I called her a couple days after her birthday...and during the whole time she's saying she misses me and thinks about me. Sept. 1 she tells me she has a boyfriend...screwing someone behind my back which breaks my heart again. So I don't talk with her and she sends me these little messages saying she is sorry and worries about me and wants to be happy...I break down this week and call her and tell her how I feel...then she tells me to call her the next day...so when I do...shes laughing on the phone like she's drunk and keeps passing her phone around then proceeds to tell me she has something "important" to do and that shes staying with her bf...likes she's taunting me throwing this in my face. I sent her a nasty message on her phone... So that day I finally deleted her number and msn...all that stuff....I dont understand how someone can be so cruel and just say "I want to be with you" and do something like that. So, I'm still trying to heal. I know shes bad for me and I want to get past it and find someone else. But it's hard sometimes. it's hard caring for someone that doesnt care. She kept saying things like it was too hard to be with me. and i think "well, if other chinese girls have foreign boyfriends, and make it work, why shouldn't we?" It was like she was making excuses. So, I'm hoping to get a fresh start and go to some other place like Korea or Japan. I know China is a big place and I could go back there but the memories are too much. I know bad girls exist everywhere but I know one thing is for sure. I'm gonna make sure the girl is single and unattached before I date them. Anyway just wanted to share my experience with you guys. Feels good to vent sometimes. |
Hi Wackers! |
haha wackers |
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wishfullthinkng
Joined: 05 Mar 2010
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| Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 5:07 am Post subject: |
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i don't entirely agree with the people who say that you are making a mistake if you have a relationship with someone who is already in a relationship.
while the op doesn't fall into the following category and it takes a very rare type of person, it can be done, someone similar to tomas in kundera's "the unbearable lightness of being". it's definitely not everyone's cup of tea though. |
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