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BananaBan
Joined: 16 Nov 2011
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 12:42 pm Post subject: Would i be discriminated against in Korea? |
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I am Caucasian, however, i am not the typical pale looking type. I was born in Canada, but my ethnic background is of a darker European type. I have an olive skin colour complexion, i guess you could say its similar to this guy's colour: (think Mediterranean, Italian-ish)
http://img.perezhilton.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/joe-manganiello-naked-true-blood__oPt.jpg
http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/4OAaTm9WNRZ/PUMA+Social+Club+LA+Launch+Event+Arrivals/4OF_3-Clq2F/Joe+Manganiello
I have read stuff like English teachers being looked down upon for a variety of reasons, but specifically due to how they look. Would a parent tell my boss they dont want me teaching their kids? Do hogwon bosses dislike darker caucasions?
Will people on the street give me dirty looks/stir up controversy with me on a more frequent basis?
and of course, will i be at a disadvantage when looking for a date with the local girls? (keep in mind, im not into the club/bar type girls or the one-night stand types)
I am also over 6 feet tall, slim body type and i dont dress like the stereotyped college student (t-shirt, worn out jeans, non-clean shaven etc) |
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Kimchifart
Joined: 15 Sep 2010
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 1:35 pm Post subject: |
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| You'll be ostracized. Life will be hell here, think South Africa in the 60's. |
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chrisinkorea2011
Joined: 16 Jan 2011
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 3:40 pm Post subject: |
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you should be fine considering that ive seen some UGLY @$$ people here teaching and they still survive lol
one of the most important rules of korea is that you MUST MUST develop a thick skin to take any and all comments. If you are even remotely fat be prepared to be called fat EVEN by little kids. it happens here, people are a product of their environment. NOW thats not to say they are not sweet good kids, because there are plenty of those too.
Just be prepared for words and comments of any nature and you will be fine |
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northway
Joined: 05 Jul 2010
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Giving you the benefit of the doubt and treating this like a serious question: not at all. |
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BananaBan
Joined: 16 Nov 2011
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 4:47 pm Post subject: |
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| northway wrote: |
| Giving you the benefit of the doubt and treating this like a serious question: not at all. |
i just graduated, i want a change of pace and to add a mix to my routine life. after reading alot of stuff on discrimination/not too pleasant things across many websites, you cant blame me for wanting to make sure i wont have a sucky time half the world away. |
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sirius black
Joined: 04 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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You'll be fine. I've befriended non white NETs here, hung with them and the vast majority have no issues or very little issues. Yes, things can and do happen as they do everywhere including Canada but that affects whites as well. My friends date Korean girls as well. A few quite successfully and more than the vast majority of teachers.
You'll be fine. Your stay here is largely up to you. If you're a well adjusted, normal guy, you'll do fine. Even the weird ones amongst us do well. The bar is low. |
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northway
Joined: 05 Jul 2010
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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| BananaBan wrote: |
| northway wrote: |
| Giving you the benefit of the doubt and treating this like a serious question: not at all. |
i just graduated, i want a change of pace and to add a mix to my routine life. after reading alot of stuff on discrimination/not too pleasant things across many websites, you cant blame me for wanting to make sure i wont have a sucky time half the world away. |
While there is a hagwon preference for blonde with blue eyes, if you look white you're not going to have any problems. This reminds me of the time some white-looking Mexican-American girl came on here crying racism because her boss said she was white.
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You'll be fine. I've befriended non white NETs here, hung with them and the vast majority have no issues or very little issues. Yes, things can and do happen as they do everywhere including Canada but that affects whites as well. My friends date Korean girls as well. A few quite successfully and more than the vast majority of teachers.
You'll be fine. Your stay here is largely up to you. If you're a well adjusted, normal guy, you'll do fine. Even the weird ones amongst us do well. The bar is low. |
It's a moot point considering that the vast majority of Koreans will consider the OP white if he has the looks he claims he does, whether his actual ethnic background be Caucasian, Latino, or Middle Eastern. |
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smithy
Joined: 17 Aug 2009
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 7:15 pm Post subject: Re: Would i be discriminated against in Korea? |
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TLDR, but
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| Would i be discriminated against in Korea? |
Yes. |
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TellyRules986
Joined: 09 Nov 2009 Location: Korea
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 9:58 pm Post subject: |
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OP: You are freaking out for no reason. You won't be discriminated against more than anyone else is. You won't be stared at more than anyone else. As for dating the local women: Generally speaking, Asian women love white men. It doesn't matter what you look like. So relax
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Jane

Joined: 01 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2011 12:55 am Post subject: |
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OP, you'll be fine, but here is the advice I give anyone thinking of coming to Korea.
Can you deal with being an albino in Canadian society? That is sideways glances, back of the head stares, a group of people stop talking when you enter a room? Non-Korean-looking people get similar attention in Korea, so you do need thick skin to exist here happily.
Imagine showing up to a party where when you walk in the music cuts out and everyone turns to look at you. Unfortunately non-Koreans intrisically are outsiders and always will be; the degree of your 'whiteness' plays less of a factor, although sometimes the darker your skin is, even less respect you'll receive. |
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Enigma
Joined: 20 Mar 2008
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2011 4:01 am Post subject: |
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I'm also Canadian and I'm darker than that dude in the picture you linked to. I've been in Korea about 3.5 years, and never once has it been an issue for me.
As others have noted, you will stand out regardless. Kids will occasionally point out that you're a foreigner. Some will say hello to you, some of them because they just want to say hi, and some because they're trying to impress their friends.
But to be honest, I rarely notice people looking at me anymore. I wouldn't let it keep you from making the trip over. |
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