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sadguy



Joined: 13 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 1:47 am    Post subject: 2 foreigners ask for directions-1 white, the other is Reply with quote

southeast asian.... can you predict the results?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Ave6yOWKlj4
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TellyRules986



Joined: 09 Nov 2009
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 1:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, *I* for one am shocked!! Shocked Shocked
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tigershark



Joined: 13 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Poor southeast Asian, the sad music really did it for me and you whites thought YOU had it bad
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BigBuds



Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 2:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

After ten years of living here, that result is no surprise at all.
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weso1



Joined: 26 Aug 2010

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 2:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lol at some of the comments on youtube.

"That's not fair because the white guy is totally hot...." Laughing Laughing Laughing

Him? Hot? I mean, I don't know. I guess he can be kind of cute in that Doogie Howser sort of way. I wouldn't really know though. I'm more into tuna and not sausage.
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DIsbell



Joined: 15 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Appears to be a little crosstalk potentially hurting the SEA guy, but it's obvious that race is the dominant factor in this situation. Really a shame.

To elaborate on the crosstalk: the method the SEA guy is using to get to his goal might be clashing with what passerbys might expect from the interaction. The SEA guy is using more formal and polite language ("Excuse me sir, could you please help me find some information?") compared to the white guy ("Uh hi, can you tell me where Coex is?"). This may be because he felt he should be really humble and courteous to strangers that he's asking for help. But he was also less direct, which may have been a small factor in getting blown off by everyone. There's little perceived commitment to the interaction if all you have to do is give a quick set of directions, but "information" is quite vague.

PSA: Yes, stuff like this happens in America too. We know. You don't need to tell us.
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sadguy



Joined: 13 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 4:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'm an asian and when i was in korea, i had mixed results when asking for directions. but, some people were really friendly. had a girl walk me to the right place even though she didn't speak much english, and a couple asked if i needed help when i was looking at a map.

although, some people did just straight up ignore me. but i also had that in nyc. so...

but the white guy sure did have it easy. maybe if the SEA guy was taller and better dressed he would've gotten more help.
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The Floating World



Joined: 01 Oct 2011
Location: Here

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 6:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The adjoishi riding his moped on the pavement at 3.30 = ha ha.

Man, that was rough watching the SE Asian guy. I totally have the same reaction as the first guy and always have. Maybe white foriegners are more assertive and on a subconscious level that makes the Koreans more likely to respond. It's almost as if the westerner was grabbing their attention and time from them, engaging them, which is what I do as I see passers by are busy, so I make a big push for it, whereas the 2nd guy was asking for it first thus giving them the option to engage or not. On an animalistic level these two factors are huge and shouldn't be under estimated.


I wish they had have done it so both foriegners approached in the exact same way with the exact same wording, only then will it be a conclusive study.

I wonder if it were 2 white western foriegners, with one acting the way foriegner 1 did and the other acting the way foriegner 2 did - if the results would be the same?

Essentially I have to conclude that the test's control parameters were too loose here - and their lack of making sure the same style of human interaction was used in the apporach - to point to any conclusive result.

EBS - you failed freshman sociology / psychology 101 with this video.

You get a grade d.
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kimchikowboy



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 6:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

On a related note, from what at the time was my favorite show:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZoOfQGKjZU
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No_hite_pls



Joined: 05 Mar 2007
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 6:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Koreans are smart. They know that a Southeast Asian on street that stops you is usually trying forcefully sell you something. I have experienced this my own travels many many times. I feel sorry for the guy but until many cultures in Southeast Asian stop harassing people on the street this perception is not going to change. Sorry to say but I would have ignored him too.
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fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 7:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lol what. How many southeast Asians in Korea stop you in the street to sell you something. I have encountered zero. But I've had lots of Koreans (sometimes even whites) from cults and churches trying to convert me on the street. Maybe I should ignore every Korean and white person trying to get directions in case they may be trying to convert me.
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kabrams



Joined: 15 Mar 2008
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

No_hite_pls wrote:
Koreans are smart. They know that a Southeast Asian on street that stops you is usually trying forcefully sell you something. I have experienced this my own travels many many times. I feel sorry for the guy but until many cultures in Southeast Asian stop harassing people on the street this perception is not going to change. Sorry to say but I would have ignored him too.


He's trying to sell them a tourist backpack and a map?
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No_hite_pls



Joined: 05 Mar 2007
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 7:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fermentation wrote:
Lol what. How many southeast Asians in Korea stop you in the street to sell you something. I have encountered zero. But I've had lots of Koreans (sometimes even whites) from cults and churches trying to convert me on the street. Maybe I should ignore every Korean and white person trying to get directions in case they may be trying to convert me.


In Seoul (Itaewon) , and in Hong Kong I was pratically chased down and cornerd on the street by SEA's to buy a tailor made suit.
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TellyRules986



Joined: 09 Nov 2009
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 7:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kabrams wrote:
No_hite_pls wrote:
Koreans are smart. They know that a Southeast Asian on street that stops you is usually trying forcefully sell you something. I have experienced this my own travels many many times. I feel sorry for the guy but until many cultures in Southeast Asian stop harassing people on the street this perception is not going to change. Sorry to say but I would have ignored him too.


He's trying to sell them a tourist backpack and a map?


Haha, exactly. I've loving the excuses so far:

1) The white guy is hot Laughing Laughing Laughing

2) Koreans *don't* like it if you're formal and indirect

3) He's totally trying to sell them something with a map asking for directions

Keep them coming!

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I just find it amusing when people begin scrambling to find unlikely reasons for something like this to happen -- anything but the obvious reason of course.

Off topic, but good Avatar!
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DIsbell



Joined: 15 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 8:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I said that race seemed to be the overwhelmingly dominant factor in what happened, but added that there was some other little thing I noticed that might've played a small role.

No room for nuance around these parts.
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