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AbbeFaria
Joined: 17 May 2005 Location: Gangnam
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:05 am Post subject: Becoming a lifer. |
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After putting in another 2 1/2 year stint in Korea, I'm back in the U.S. and back in school trying to make myself more marketable in this crap economy. However, I'm wondering if it's all worth it. I'm considering relocating to Korea permanently. There is a girl involved and if I returned, we would almost certainly be married and I would no longer need to work with the E2 collar around my neck, but my primary concern is long-term. Can one work and retire in Korea as an ESL teacher? If we can assume that there will always be a market for teachers, can anyone tell me what long-term prospects are? Up until recently I've never thought much about it. Korea was always a go-between for me. But now that I've met a girl that I think I want to settle down with, I'm forced to reevaluate things.
I'm back in school to be a chef and I'm trying to decide if I should finish up the degree and then return or just scrap it and hop a plane. The purpose of finishing the degree being to potentially open up a restaurant there so I'm not only teaching, but have another source of income.
I'd like to hear from others who've perhaps married and settled in Korea while teaching. How does life change and how does your future look as a teacher? Would you recommend I finish up the culinary degree and pursue that in my spare time so as not to be relying solely on teaching jobs? My biggest fear is that I relocate but for some reason can't continue to teach. Either the market dries up or I have to move back to the U.S. for some unforeseen reason and all I have for the last several years on the resume is teaching overseas.
Thoughts?
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The Floating World
Joined: 01 Oct 2011 Location: Here
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:13 am Post subject: |
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The biggest question you need to ask yourself is 'Do I really want to spend all my energy and talnets to teach in Korea for the rest of my life?'
My answer would be 'hell no, that would turn me into a shell of a man who had died inside.' |
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AbbeFaria
Joined: 17 May 2005 Location: Gangnam
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:16 am Post subject: |
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The Floating World wrote: |
The biggest question you need to ask yourself is 'Do I really want to spend all my energy and talnets to teach in Korea for the rest of my life?'
My answer would be 'hell no, that would turn me into a shell of a man who had died inside.' |
Teaching can get repetitive, but that's any job anywhere. But it's also why I'm trying to decide if I should stick around in the states and tough it out to finish the culinary degree. It's a two year program minimum and that's a long time away from my girlfriend. I was kind of hoping she'd move here but it's too much for her to give up. She's got her own business there and her English is almost nonexistent. If we're going to stay together, I have to go to her.
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kingplaya4
Joined: 14 May 2006
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 12:09 pm Post subject: |
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You can make good money with a culinary degree, my uncle has one, so unless you hate cooking, I'd stick with it. I don't think being a lifer here is really going to even be an option anymore with all the cuts being done to the english programs and declining birth rates to boot.
I think the only way people will be able to be lifers is to either be insanely qualified so that they can maintain a university job or be willing to work for insanely low wages for long hours. Inflation will eventually kill the basic 2 million a month salary which seems unlikely to up anytime soon.
Do as you please of course, but I don't see how being a lifer here is possibly viable unless you're willing to risk opening your own business. Why not finish the degree and open a western restaurant here? Ashley's is awful... |
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Weigookin74
Joined: 26 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 12:35 pm Post subject: |
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Yes, I think EPIK and universities can encourage lifers more. Maybe married foriegners with an F2 or F5 too. But, is it possible to be one in the hakwon industry which will constitute the majority of employers in the future if EPIK downsizes? I'm approaching mid 30's but will prob be late 30's when the debt is gone. How I sometimes admire those who got over here and defaulted on their debts. But, at least I'll have the credit rating if I ever go back and they won't. Ha ha.
That said, the flood of younger teachers has encouraged me to stay in shape and try to look younger. Most say I look anywhere's from 5 to 10 years younger. So, don't know what age discrimination I'd face in a couple of years if EPIK pulls the plug. |
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Kimchifart
Joined: 15 Sep 2010
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 1:11 pm Post subject: |
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The Floating World wrote: |
The biggest question you need to ask yourself is 'Do I really want to spend all my energy and talnets to teach in Korea for the rest of my life?'
My answer would be 'hell no, that would turn me into a shell of a man who had died inside.' |
Flip side: You've also got to ask yourself: 'Can I live with 5 1/2 + national holidays months paid vacation, 10 hours work a week, a 4 day week, no money worries (but mediocore/slightly poor money) but saving a reasonable amount?' |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 2:05 pm Post subject: |
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On an F visa, you won't be pinned to teaching. Sure, "most" of the time, companies may view you with the "if we hire him, he can also teach our staff English" slant, but you could possible get into a company with a direction.
As you said, if you've got that E2 off of your back, the options open up.
And as for living here long term, there are a number of people that have done it/are doing it. 2 years is a bit short to judge, but eventually, you just live here. |
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alongway
Joined: 02 Jan 2012
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 3:05 pm Post subject: |
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There is lots of potential here depending what skills you have and how hard you want to work.
You need to make yourself a career map, but there are plenty of things you can do. Married to a Korean you could take citizenship and become a real professor at a university. You can open a business far easier it seems here. Whether you want to transition to owning a hagwon rather than simply working for it or do something else.
You might have some luck with companies doing international work, especially if you can speak Korean.
For me the key is this:
In Korea it's possible to be a 1 income family, back home I couldn't even joke about it. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 3:07 pm Post subject: |
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If you're a good cook (and just graduating from culinary school won't make you one, it takes years of experience, in my opinion), you could perhaps set up your own bistro or something in Korea. Quite a few expats run joints like that, and so could you so long as you don't try to compete in a saturated field like Italian, Japanese or other cuisines. |
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Dave Chance
Joined: 30 May 2011
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 3:46 pm Post subject: |
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I wouldn't dictate my life plans based upon a Korean girl who can't really converse in English, unless I was really sure she was the one, and had met/feel comfortable with her parents...married life to a Korean in Korea = not something to take lightly |
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:32 pm Post subject: Re: Becoming a lifer. |
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AbbeFaria wrote: |
After putting in another 2 1/2 year stint in Korea, I'm back in the U.S. and back in school trying to make myself more marketable in this crap economy. However, I'm wondering if it's all worth it. I'm considering relocating to Korea permanently. There is a girl involved and if I returned, we would almost certainly be married and I would no longer need to work with the E2 collar around my neck, but my primary concern is long-term. Can one work and retire in Korea as an ESL teacher? If we can assume that there will always be a market for teachers, can anyone tell me what long-term prospects are? Up until recently I've never thought much about it. Korea was always a go-between for me. But now that I've met a girl that I think I want to settle down with, I'm forced to reevaluate things.
I'm back in school to be a chef and I'm trying to decide if I should finish up the degree and then return or just scrap it and hop a plane. The purpose of finishing the degree being to potentially open up a restaurant there so I'm not only teaching, but have another source of income.
I'd like to hear from others who've perhaps married and settled in Korea while teaching. How does life change and how does your future look as a teacher? Would you recommend I finish up the culinary degree and pursue that in my spare time so as not to be relying solely on teaching jobs? My biggest fear is that I relocate but for some reason can't continue to teach. Either the market dries up or I have to move back to the U.S. for some unforeseen reason and all I have for the last several years on the resume is teaching overseas.
Thoughts?
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As said above.... what do YOU want to do.
Teaching (in spite of the crud you see here) really is a profession.
You will never get rich. Teaching is firmly planted in the middle class.
Bad news is all that you remember from your time in the classroom and teacher's room.
Good news is that it will always be a growth industry somewhere (at least until people quit having babies).
If you continue your professional development as you work there IS an upward ladder (and not always into academia) as well as lateral options: mainstream teaching (in English), applied or theoretical research, curriculum development, writing and publishing.
Where you go is up to you.
You can certainly make a career out of ESL/EFL or as a cross-over into mainstream teaching (in Korea or elsewhere in Asia if the travel bug bites your and your future Mrs.).
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Chet Wautlands

Joined: 11 Oct 2008
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:55 pm Post subject: Re: Becoming a lifer. |
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ttompatz wrote: |
AbbeFaria wrote: |
After putting in another 2 1/2 year stint in Korea, I'm back in the U.S. and back in school trying to make myself more marketable in this crap economy. However, I'm wondering if it's all worth it. I'm considering relocating to Korea permanently. There is a girl involved and if I returned, we would almost certainly be married and I would no longer need to work with the E2 collar around my neck, but my primary concern is long-term. Can one work and retire in Korea as an ESL teacher? If we can assume that there will always be a market for teachers, can anyone tell me what long-term prospects are? Up until recently I've never thought much about it. Korea was always a go-between for me. But now that I've met a girl that I think I want to settle down with, I'm forced to reevaluate things.
I'm back in school to be a chef and I'm trying to decide if I should finish up the degree and then return or just scrap it and hop a plane. The purpose of finishing the degree being to potentially open up a restaurant there so I'm not only teaching, but have another source of income.
I'd like to hear from others who've perhaps married and settled in Korea while teaching. How does life change and how does your future look as a teacher? Would you recommend I finish up the culinary degree and pursue that in my spare time so as not to be relying solely on teaching jobs? My biggest fear is that I relocate but for some reason can't continue to teach. Either the market dries up or I have to move back to the U.S. for some unforeseen reason and all I have for the last several years on the resume is teaching overseas.
Thoughts?
-S- |
As said above.... what do YOU want to do.
Teaching (in spite of the crud you see here) really is a profession.
You will never get rich. Teaching is firmly planted in the middle class.
Bad news is all that you remember from your time in the classroom and teacher's room.
Good news is that it will always be a growth industry somewhere (at least until people quit having babies).
If you continue your professional development as you work there IS an upward ladder (and not always into academia) as well as lateral options: mainstream teaching (in English), applied or theoretical research, curriculum development, writing and publishing.
Where you go is up to you.
You can certainly make a career out of ESL/EFL or as a cross-over into mainstream teaching (in Korea or elsewhere in Asia if the travel bug bites your and your future Mrs.).
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Here's a question which I realize invites broad answers: what sort of professional development would you recommend to someone (me) who has almost finished his MA (TESOL) while working here. I've got myself a university job (starting in March). What're some of the most popular moves?
I'm learning Korean... should I take the TOPIK? Get a TESOL cert? CELTA? Try and do a Ph.D in Korea? Learn the piano?
Hopefully those in the know will have some fun ideas. |
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whiteshoes
Joined: 14 Apr 2009
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 6:50 pm Post subject: Re: Becoming a lifer. |
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Chet Wautlands wrote: |
Here's a question which I realize invites broad answers: what sort of professional development would you recommend to someone (me) who has almost finished his MA (TESOL) while working here. I've got myself a university job (starting in March). What're some of the most popular moves?
I'm learning Korean... should I take the TOPIK? Get a TESOL cert? CELTA? Try and do a Ph.D in Korea? Learn the piano?
Hopefully those in the know will have some fun ideas. |
I have nearly the same situation as you. I'm working some publishing some of my MA papers, and building a top notch portfolio. I'm also studying for the TOPIK, just beginner, so that I don't become a guy who's been here 6 years and can't understand what's happening around him. My next professional step, won't be until next year, will be starting a DELTA module. |
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The Floating World
Joined: 01 Oct 2011 Location: Here
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:09 pm Post subject: |
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Kimchifart wrote: |
The Floating World wrote: |
The biggest question you need to ask yourself is 'Do I really want to spend all my energy and talnets to teach in Korea for the rest of my life?'
My answer would be 'hell no, that would turn me into a shell of a man who had died inside.' |
Flip side: You've also got to ask yourself: 'Can I live with 5 1/2 + national holidays months paid vacation, 10 hours work a week, a 4 day week, no money worries (but mediocore/slightly poor money) but saving a reasonable amount?' |
If you REALLY feel fullfilled with that and with life in Korea, sure. And you may well be and good for you.
My answer would still be 'no' and I just gave up a private high school in downtown Seoul with simmilar benefits to what you mentioned to go work in China. Life long term in SK just aint for me and my own fullfilment is more imprtant right now than going through the motions just because I have a comfy life. I've been here 7.5 yrs though and it has just got old for me. |
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Modernist
Joined: 23 Mar 2011 Location: The 90s
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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What's interesting about this OP is that it really all boils down to the 2 things that I have repeatedly noted as the only reasons people consider the 'lifer' idea: money and women. Does he care about the supposed beauty or culture or education system? The shopping, the galbi places, the efficient public transport? The cost of living or tax structure? No. The only issue is the girl. Of course.
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Can one work and retire in Korea as an ESL teacher? |
If one can stand the idea of literally decades in this sorry excuse for a pit of mediocrity; and acknowledge that you will NEVER, NEVER be considered anything but 'foreigner' by everyone you meet, every day; and recognize that your 'job' will consist, at best, repeating the same basic concepts and instructions over and over again to students who generally don't care in the slightest--and it will receive little to no respect from Koreans; and understand that the food will always be disgusting.
Then, sure.
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My biggest fear is that I relocate but for some reason can't continue to teach. Either the market dries up or I have to move back to the U.S. for some unforeseen reason and all I have for the last several years on the resume is teaching overseas. |
In other words, utterly worthless. You'd have nothing to fall back on. ALWAYS get the backup.
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It's a two year program minimum and that's a long time away from my girlfriend. |
Ah, the heart of the matter. If you don't do the responsible thing and get the degree while you can, you will have no one to blame but yourself for your future misery. A very wise advice columnist once wrote, 'if the relationship can't survive time apart, there's not much of a relationship to speak of.'
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her English is almost nonexistent |
Really? How's your Korean? I certainly hope you're high on the fluency scale if you are talking this girl as the one -- not using hand signals or Google Translate or something, you know. Like Dave Chance says, living here with Korean in-laws is a MAJOR thing, and almost certainly you will NEVER get away from it except following divorce. Are you that sure about this girl? |
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