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Are Korean Emigrants Happier in Other Countries?
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 5:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yaya wrote:
rabidcake wrote:
pkang0202 wrote:
In the US my parents have a big 4 bedroom house with 1.5 acres of land. A condo in DC. They can eat Korean food everyday. The air is clean, they take road trips to the beach, mountains, etc... Playing with their grandkids.

As opposed to:

living in a concrete box. road trip means being stuck in traffic for 10 hours to visit relatives. yellow dust. Having to buy homes for their sons/daughter, and playing with their singular grandchild because Koreans don't have more than 1 kid.



I would say they are pretty happy living overseas.


Yep, exactly. That's why immigrants that come to America are very happy to enjoy the greatness of America, because we all know it's the best country. Only America would you be able to eat Korean food everyday, which would not be the case in places like Korea.

I'm so glad that America lets us drive to places and not have to worry about the traffic except during usual rush hour. Obviously walking anywhere is out of the question, we can just drive there.

Here are the best things about America:

1) Fast Food drive throughs are the norm.
2) You can do drive throughs to get your car washed.
3) You can even do a drive through with the bank, you don't even have to leave.

Now that's efficiency!


Rolling Eyes


Seconded. Quite amusing, considering you're gyopo and I'm pretty sure pkang is as well.
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Mix1



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 9:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

crisdean wrote:

Yeah I've had a lot of Koreans tell me Canada is boring. Then I ask them "what you do in Korea that's sooooo exciting?" and they usually don't have an answer.

Sit in coffee shops. Eat. Drink.
Same as anywhere else.
If anything, they get frustrated at the lack of norebangs.

Also, to many of them, quiet and peaceful = "boring"
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Weigookin74



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 4:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Happiness is when you have the money to enjoy the finer things in life. If you have a good income to live a good life in Korea then life is good. If you have a good income or setup to live in the west, then life is better there. If an ESL teacher lives in Seoul, he will prob enjoy himself. If he lives in NYC on a similiar income, he will probably hate life. I assume these are some of the factors for Koreans too.
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Captain Corea



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 6:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've been here long enough to have many of my students move overseas...and then return a few years later. Those that returned often didn't like it all that much (as opposed to this e who stayed), and would complain about the boredom. When asked to give more details about it, they would explain things like "my coworkers never went out after work together. They would always just go home." they often expected it to be like Korea in that forced outing culture.
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motiontodismiss



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 7:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Captain Corea wrote:
When asked to give more details about it, they would explain things like "my coworkers never went out after work together. They would always just go home." they often expected it to be like Korea in that forced outing culture.


I hate that forced outing culture. What a novel idea.....GO HOME after work and spend time with people you actually LIKE. And have something called a "life". If you're so dependent on other people that you're incapable of having any fun alone, that's ALSO an indication that you have no social skills. I'm sick and tired of thinking that only loners have no social skills. Social retardation is a two-way street.
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earthquakez



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 8:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Edited because a double post.

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earthquakez



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yaya wrote:


Hmm, I wouldn't say Australia is the best place to leave Korea for given the racism there, bad job market and the like.

Nah, there are plenty of Koreans who've lived abroad who end up coming back, not to mention many expats who swore THEY'D never come back to Korea but did just that.


I should make it clear I'm a Brit (mixed racial heritage tho I look white - it gives me access and insight to Black culture with my Black relatives and I am also familiar with every kind of ethnic/racial background from my less than middle class London upbringing, schooling etc). I've lived and worked in France, Germany, Taiwan, Japan, Australia and now Korea, and have travelled most countries in the world including a very long travel stint in both the US and Canada.

I stayed longer in Australia than I am sure you have and both working and travelling in what is a very big country where cities are very far from each other gives me a good idea of how racist Australia is. I've stayed for fairly lengthy periods in Australia in the 90s as well as the 2,000s and Australians are no more racist than any other people and in fact their whole way of life is far less racist than the great majority of countries I've lived in/worked in/travelled in.

Whenever I've been back I have noticed that their good life is disappearing under the weight of too much immigration (the projected figure for population growth was determined to be around 23 million in terms of sustainability in one of the driest places in the world and is now 28 million).

Sydney and Melbourne are expanding in a disorganised way because of the influx of people over the past 7 years and Aussies are watching their famous lifestyle disappear. Traffic congestion, more pollution, sprawling urban areas eating up nature, investors of the wrong sort as in fake educational 'institutes' being set up by Chinese and Indian companies that simply serve as defacto immigration - ways to get around the laws - as well as other dubious investment and their welfare system being expanded more and more for unemployed migrants and refugees who compete for housing, health care etc but don't pay tax has pizzed off the host population.

I don't blame them. They never wanted the kind of loose controls the UK had under Blair and Brown whereby masses of people have not been properly IDed and checked to see if they're really refugees or just economic migrants, ex warlords or criminals quick to make use of lax borders and laws. I went to Australia in 2010 for a break and the people weren't happy with the centre left govt there for allowing people who destroy their IDs and burn down Immigration centres to stay and receive money.

More are still coming and I have heard firsthand about the strain this puts on services for those who pay for the services. I come from London and I love its multiculturalism but I well understand why people are pizzed off when finite resources are directed away from those who have to pay to those who don't.

Koreans, Japanese and other Asians get better treatment in countries like the UK, Australia and Canada than foreigners in their countries. Generous systems which allow foreigners to get a pension in their old age without paying into the system at all (the UK and Australia tho there are differences in the system) are origin-blind, hardly racist. If anything these policies discriminate against those who support the system by their money for years.

Unlike in the US white flight is not a phenomenon in Australia. Australians are not segregated like people in the US. Sydney's Muslim population mostly chooses to segregate itself.

You can have one Aboriginal ancestor and still be defined as Aboriginal for your sense of identity which is why the majority of Aboriginal people in Australia have a fair few ancestors/grandparents/parents who are non Aboriginal in terms of completely native Aboriginal ancestry. Aboriginal people receive special benefits that acknowledge their history of being discriminated against - when UN reps or other people go in and say that Australians need to give more money, self determination etc you can see decent Australians' frustration. Billions of dollars have been given in benefits and special measures for health programs, education, living expenses etc. My observations on the issue are that you can't think people who have been impoverished before are going to magically become self determining and use resources in the best way.

I also know those who slag Australians about this issue are ignorant of the fact that the Aboriginal people who go through higher education and become professionals often do not return home to help their communities and in a way that's understandable - they enjoy the new experiences and opportunities they have and in some cases want to stay away from dysfunctional communities they grew up in.

At the same time when non Aboriginals go to those communities to take up positions of professionals then they are in the no-win situation where they look like patronising whiteys telling Aboriginals what to do. Aboriginal doctors and health care professionals, counsellors etc are badly needed in the non city communities but try getting Aboriginal professionals up there or in the case of those who grew up there back to their hometowns. It's difficult and then non Aboriginal Australians get slagged off for 'not allowing self determination.'

Koreans and Japanese especially are free of the harping reminders of the collective who show disapproval at different lifestyles in their home countries. If you want to do your own thing, Australia, Canada, the UK and some European countries are the freest places on earth.

Yes, we know of the 'Asians go home' racist mentality but it's present in Korea and Japan - just substitute Asians for wayguk and gaijin. Ultra right wing groups dressed in military gear from the 2nd World War do not jump on the subway or drive around in trucks with loudspeakers telling Asians in Australia to go home, nor do Australians spit on Asian people passing by their demonstrations and threaten them the way morons threatened white foreigners during the 'Crazy Cow' hysteria.

I also know foreign women in Jeollanam who were told to go home not a few times during their time in cities like Mokpo as well as having their mothers regularly insulted by groups of school students or called seki by older Koreans. I know foreign women who have been told to go home by older Korean men in more developed cities with policemen idly watching. Do that in Australia to a Korean and the police will take you down to the station on charges of racial harassment.

I wish I had an Australian passport. Koreans are lucky to live and stay there.


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Moondoggy



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 1:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't speak for other countries except for USA.
Immigration from Korea has drastically been reduced in the past few years.
Actually more Koreans moved back to Korea in 2011.

It means that Koreans no longer emigrate to USA just to get out of poverty or any other desperation.
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northway



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

White flight isn't a phenomenon in the States either; it's not 1968.
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Julius



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mix1 wrote:

Also, to many of them, quiet and peaceful = "boring"


Yes I've heard several Koreans say that the west was boring because it was too quiet.

Koreans seem to thrive on a certain level of background noise, whereas I need ear plugs to live in this country.
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PatrickGHBusan



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife is what you would call a Korean expat. She is pretty happy in Canada but she has commented on a few issues.

First she does find it "boring" here. That's not to say she finds nothing to do, what she misses is the action from our neighborhood in Busan where everything was open all the time.

Second, she had to adapt to the absence or lesser presence of that community dynamic that is so prevalent in Korea. As a simple example, in Busan we knew most of our neighbors, where we live now, we do not. Its not the same and it took some getting used to.

Finally, professionally, she has had a tough time finding equivalent status in Canada. She has encountered the "immigrant applicant" wall more than once. While in Korea that wall is solid brick and there for all to see, in Canada it is a transparent membrane wrapped in PC politeness and in procedures that make employement difficult in many cases. If it was just her I would not consider it an issue but in our group of friends there are many mixed families and the trend is common.

Living in another country always comes with its share of good points and bad points.
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earthquakez



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 7:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting post Patrick. Big countries like Canada, Australia, and the US have an enviable lifestyle in many ways including in housing with those vast suburban areas of houses with gardens and room for recreation, quality of living absent from cramped, no privacy Asian housing. However, living in Korea it's easy to understand why this would not suit many Koreans who enjoy the comforting presence of others and can go out their front door and find services and facilities a few minutes away. The Asian 'nosiness' also makes a safer environment.

Sorry to hear about the invisible but very much existent barriers against your Korean wife's desire to work in certain jobs. I've travelled a lot in Canada and I'm wondering if some of this has to do with the norms of Korean immigrants in Canada.

There seem to be a higher than usual number of Koreans in Canada (esp Vancouver) with obvious priorities of keeping to their own and with chips on the shoulder about whites. I am not at all suggesting your wife is the same - what I mean is possibly the defensive attitude of Koreans there might mean less non Koreans esp whites are willing to employ people who clearly want to live in their Canadian version of Korea and have their own Korean everything to avoid mixing with whitey. Your wife's experiences might be a by-product of this Korean insularity along the lines of 'The Koreans want to live on their own, they can employ their own.' I dunno, what do you think?
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 10:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You make a valid point about ethnic regrouping when emigrating somewhere. That is a trend you see in "multi-cultural" Canada. It is diverse but in a lot of ways it is NOT integrated.

Chinese immgrants are a good example of this as they join their own support communities. This works for first generation immigrants but second gens tend to break away and perhaps integrate more. However, this is not part of this debate!

Your comments about Korean communities in Canada are interesting and some of what you say is true. Korean immigrants do tend to gravitate towards Korean communities and that to me is perfectly normal for 1st generation immigrants. In fact, it makes perfect sense to do so, much like you gravited towards the expat community when you arrived in Korea as a foreign worker.

On the "mixing with whitey" thing, your take reads somewhat one sided and the reality seems far more complex and full of nuances.

Finally, mixing in your community is not as easy as it sounds! Heck people here talk a good game when it comes to multi-culturalism but when the reality of this pops up, the reaction tends not to match the words spoken.

Multi-culturalism flows two ways: acceptance of host culture but also adaptable of host culture when immigration (not foreign workers) starts to represent a significant part of your demographics as is the case in Canada.

As for my wife, she had no problems "mixing with whithey" or "mixing with brownie" or whatever else....she did have culture shock and issues with adapting much like I did when I arrived in Korea.
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Soldier



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:46 am    Post subject: Dig This.... Reply with quote

Who's Your Daddy? wrote:
I've known the opposite, Koreans that were bored in Canada. The wide-open spaces were boring.



Silence is deafening!!

I know that Canada can be quite a quiet rural place as much as it can be a noisy urban place to live and party.
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TheUrbanMyth



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 3:40 pm    Post subject: Re: Are Korean Emigrants Happier in Other Countries? Reply with quote

FDNY wrote:
I'm just wondering if Koreans are happier after they emigrate. They seem to be so proud of being Korean and stalwartly defensive of their culture. How do they feel about being absorbed into another culture? Does the cleaner air, open spaces, profusion of parks, beaches, forests etc. offset this? Also many westerners here chafe at the population density, but I have seen Koreans get edgy at the lack of throngs of people.

It would be nice if some Gyopos chimed in here.


I'm fairly sure that most emigrants are happier...there's a reason or reasons why people immigrate. And that goes for every nationality or culture.
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