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Korea's utter lack of a child safety culture
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Smithington



Joined: 14 Dec 2011

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 6:33 pm    Post subject: Korea's utter lack of a child safety culture Reply with quote

I'm currently teaching at an elementary school. I've just come from my classroom. I went to move a fan to the front of the room. I went over to it, bent down to unplug the fan from the power cable and got the most powerful electric shock of my life. I yelled out louder than I've ever yelled in my life. They must have heard me across town. The shock was so powerful that forty minutes later my hand is still semi-numb. This is at a public school. After I recovered from my shock I became angry. What if I had asked one of my students to unplug the fan? I'm a large man, and the shock hit me hard. What if instead of me one of my students had taken the hit? What if the child had a heart condition.

Every day I find some child safety issue that really bothers me. From parents teaching their childen unsafe road-crossing habits, failing to put children in safety seats, motorcycles on the sidewalk, people flying through red lights in front of my public school, jagged shards of concrete jagging out through the sand in children's playgrounds,...even friggin barbed wire wrapped around the fence at children's playgrounds.

This country has absolutely no child safety culture and it's pissing me off.

But of course we are the threat to their children's safety. Shocked


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jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 6:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How old are you?
Can't expect a country to change it's habits in a few years. It takes a generation. Go back to the 80's in Canada and you'd be shocked at how unsafe things were. Wearing seat-belts were optional until the late 80's in my province. And 16 year-old kids were legally allowed to buy cigarettes until the early 90's where I grew up.
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ttompatz



Joined: 05 Sep 2005
Location: Kwangju, South Korea

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you need a quick vacation on the streets of Manila or Deli.
Korea is a children's paradise by comparison.

Is it bad = yes.
Is it improving = yes, albeit slowly.
Is it better than it was = yes.
Is it the Litigious States of America = no.
Will it ever be = probably not (thank Ghod).

You had a bad electric cord so obviously you removed and disposed of it so that someone else won't get hurt in future?

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crescent



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: yes.

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jvalmer wrote:
How old are you?
Can't expect a country to change it's habits in a few years. It takes a generation. Go back to the 80's in Canada and you'd be shocked at how unsafe things were. Wearing seat-belts were optional until the late 80's in my province. And 16 year-old kids were legally allowed to buy cigarettes until the early 90's where I grew up.

I get a chuckle when people make these types of comparisons. First, on the issue of government mandated regulations, did you know Koreans faced a mandatory child seat law about 10 years ago, and it was met with such aggressive opposition that the whole thing was shelved. Koreans thought the government had no right to force people to buy child car seats.

Secondly, Koreans have been able to progress on a multitude of fronts in a very short time. Safety, however is one that seems to bear no value. You'd think a country experiencing such high tensions with its neighbor would have a little more thought put into safety and survival. Fire drill? What's that? Air raid drill? Yes, lets just sit in our cars for 20 minutes.


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djmarcus



Joined: 12 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 7:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think what's happening here is that S.Korea has developed so quickly over the years as far as technology that we assume other things should have developed along as well, i.e. laws, environmental concerns, dangling high-voltage wires, etc. I think Korea is trying its best to tackle issues, but there are so many to deal with. What should be priority. Not sure. But at least as I look around, there are things changing to make things better.

One example, not sure if this is along the same lines as what the OP was saying, but I recently noticed that the Bundang Sinsaegae Department store created a net to prevent people, especially small children from falling to their death. I think we all imagined that senario while gazing down at the 9 floors wondering if some kid accidentally made it through the little spaces of the guard rails. So I think it's great that this kind of mentality about safety exists on a big scale. I'm sure that over time, all other issues will get resolved eventually.
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fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 7:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Next time you should get a student to do the unplugging for you. That'll teach the school.

Last year I saw a kid on a bike get thrown in the air after getting hit by a car. The kid got up and didn't have any visible injuries so the driver drove off. The kid did call his parents on his phone so I bet something got settled. Still, it was funny seeing the driver just drive off after hitting a person.

crescent wrote:
Koreans thought the government had no right to force people to buy child car seats.


Well, I agree with them. But what's weird is that it's completely ok now for the government to force shops to close and fix prices.
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Savant



Joined: 25 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 7:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why is development being linked to common sense?

A lot of Korean parents lack common sense or lack the will to instruct their child about dangers or right and wrong.

Time and time again, you see Korean parents who don't have their eyes on their child or could care less what that child is doing.

Young children who are allowed to walk ahead/behind of the parent(s) unaccompanied; children who run about in supermarkets and restaurants; parents who cross the roads, bike paths in Yeouido and other river parks and just expect their little one to blindly follow them behind.

It's parents who don't realize the dangers and hazards of these situations and yet do nothing to change their behavior to protect their child.
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yodanole



Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: La Florida

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 8:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Litigation isn't really an important issue compared to the safety of the children, albeit comparing litigation in the US and Korea, Korea wins this fight like Bambi vs Godzilla, if only for the fact that Korea licenses so few lawyers. They don't wan't to waste their time on frivolity.

But there is a limit to how much you can or should protect children. People fret over the amount of unsupervised time Korean children have. I used to tell mom I'm going out to play and 16 hours later I probably would come home. And she knew I wasn't going to a school or a hogwan. And after I was 8, i almost always had a gun, especially if I was going out into the river or swamp. Kids are mostly smarter than we give them credit for, and PC is out of control.

Of course I agree that the most obvious precautions should be taken, but my director thinks that it is too dangerous to have floor setting fans in the classroom.

quote="ttompatz"]Sounds like you need a quick vacation on the streets of Manila or Deli.
Korea is a children's paradise by comparison.

Is it bad = yes.
Is it improving = yes, albeit slowly.
Is it better than it was = yes.
Is it the Litigious States of America = no.
Will it ever be = probably not (thank Ghod).

You had a bad electric cord so obviously you removed and disposed of it so that someone else won't get hurt in future?

.[/quote]
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goreality



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 9:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korea is a global leader in beach and swimming pool safety.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
Location: Earth, Solar System

PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 9:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

They got some things right and some things wrong. On the one hand the sidewalks by my school are all padded and there's other eyes towards safety. On the other hand I've seen designs that would be a good way to catch live game but instead are right next to running children.

I think Koreans view things the same way other parents do when it comes to sports. Koreans are kind of worryworts when it comes to sports injuries, but they let the children run wild so they aren't scared and whatnot. American parents let kids play sports where the object is to run into someone at whatever angle brings them down, but some keep their kids under FBI-level surveillance.

Personally I subscribe to Justin Halpern's Dad's view when it comes to kid safety and supervision "There's chips in the cabinet... Stay away from knives and fire. Okay, I've done my part. I'm going to bed."
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JustinC



Joined: 10 Mar 2012
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 10:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korea is actually taking a different (and often pragmatic) approach to child safety. A couple of examples;

Child car seats are not proven to save enough lives to justify making them mandatory. As long as kids are belted up and not on a lap in the front seat they stand almost an equal chance of surviving a crash as if a $200 seat.
Swimming pools kill 1 in 10,000 children (guns 1 in a million), some rough concrete will graze your knee and teach you about taking control of your actions (as will barbed wire unless you're extremely unlucky).

Those people flying through red lights are irresponsible but so are the nanny-state, super-concious, paranoid parents who drive their kids everywhere and wrap them in cotton wool. How will they ever learn about personal responsibility and taking risks when the most risky action they will take is choosing rock, paper or scissors?

goreality is spot on; I was at a water park on Saturday and you had to wear a life jacket to use the 'rapid river' (which wasn't rapid and was only 1m deep), even if you're a 6 foot plus adult !

I'm not taking away anything from the shocking (phnar phnar) experience you had today though, Smithington, but haven't you been accidentally electrocuted before? It happens pretty often in my experience and is just another thing life throws at you. The skin's resistance is about 5,000 to 15,000 ohms. If you get a shock from static electricity, the voltage involved can be in the millions of Volts range (mega-Volts), but the momentary current is millionths of Amperes (micro-Amps). Makes you jump, but that�s all. Unless you get shocked whilst standing in a puddle in bare feet and don't release your grip immediately you should be OK from it.
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crescent



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 10:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JustinC wrote:
Child car seats are not proven to save enough lives to justify making them mandatory. As long as kids are belted up and not on a lap in the front seat they stand almost an equal chance of surviving a crash as if a $200 seat.
Swimming pools kill 1 in 10,000 children (guns 1 in a million), some rough concrete will graze your knee and teach you about taking control of your actions (as will barbed wire unless you're extremely unlucky).

Those people flying through red lights are irresponsible but so are the nanny-state, super-concious, paranoid parents who drive their kids everywhere and wrap them in cotton wool. How will they ever learn about personal responsibility and taking risks when the most risky action they will take is choosing rock, paper or scissors?

Except, have you paid attention to the fact that children here are OFTEN not belted up? Have you noticed how many fathers take their kids to schools on scooters and only the father wears a helmet? I see it literally every single morning. I'm pretty sure helmets are mandatory and Korea has one of the highest accident rates in the developed world.

Do you really think that super-protective parents harm their child's sense of personal responsibility? Didn't hurt me. Albeit it such overbearing care does have its negatives, but it don't think your comparison is a good one. You think it's better for children to learn such lessons from the broken leg they earned by not looking for traffic? What does a coma teach them?
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comm



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 10:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

goreality wrote:
Korea is a global leader in beach and swimming pool safety.

Sure, there are MORE pedestrian deaths per capita in South Korea (4.61/100,000) than there are firearms-related homicides per capita in the United States (4.14/100,000)... But they do have a solid lead in "fan death awareness"
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noobteacher



Joined: 27 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Mon Jun 25, 2012 1:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

crescent wrote:

Except, have you paid attention to the fact that children here are OFTEN not belted up? Have you noticed how many fathers take their kids to schools on scooters and only the father wears a helmet? I see it literally every single morning. I'm pretty sure helmets are mandatory and Korea has one of the highest accident rates in the developed world.

Do you really think that super-protective parents harm their child's sense of personal responsibility? Didn't hurt me. Albeit it such overbearing care does have its negatives, but it don't think your comparison is a good one. You think it's better for children to learn such lessons from the broken leg they earned by not looking for traffic? What does a coma teach them?

Exactly! The car seat example is quite inaccurate (for Korea anyway) and JustinC has clearly never paid attention to the cars on the road. I am driver and almost everyday I see children in cars propped up on dashboards, standing on the laps of passengers, hanging out windows, sitting in the middle section between the front and rear seats of a car, etc. With the ridiculous asinine drivers here and the high potential for car accidents, it terrifies me to see how irresponsible these parents are. It would be one thing if the children were old enough to know how dangerous it is, but the majority of these children are babies and toddlers who should be protected by their parents instead of actually being put in harm's way.

I agree with others that kids should be allowed to be kids and get scraped up or fall off their bikes or whatever, that is a normal part of growing up, but there are also many areas of safety that, as were mentioned before, come from an extreme lack of common sense on the part of many Korean parents.
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Adventurer



Joined: 28 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 25, 2012 1:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Savant wrote:
Why is development being linked to common sense?

A lot of Korean parents lack common sense or lack the will to instruct their child about dangers or right and wrong.

Time and time again, you see Korean parents who don't have their eyes on their child or could care less what that child is doing.

Young children who are allowed to walk ahead/behind of the parent(s) unaccompanied; children who run about in supermarkets and restaurants; parents who cross the roads, bike paths in Yeouido and other river parks and just expect their little one to blindly follow them behind.

It's parents who don't realize the dangers and hazards of these situations and yet do nothing to change their behavior to protect their child.


I feel bad when I see people simply just allowing their dogs run around when their dogs could be hit by a car. I remember when I was at some rose festival at my university, and there was an announcement about someone looking for their child. What happens is that the parents simply expect the child to follow when children are very curious and often get fixed on something of interest, but the parents don't seem to get that because they're focused on themselves. You have to supervise your children, but some don't. I remember a parent running for a bus in a dangerous way while not holding her children. I found that scary.
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