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randall020105



Joined: 08 Apr 2008
Location: the land of morning confusion...

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:37 pm    Post subject: Re: Disrespectful 6th Graders Reply with quote

orbit720 wrote:
I've tried intensives but they act like they don't care.


Did you mean incentives?

well... let me say this...

I had an English note typed out and DIRECTLY translated into Korean which read something like

"... your child is misbehaving and wasting everybody's time...bla bla bla... please sign this to acknowledge you are aware of this and allow me to discipline him in a fitting manner... bla bla bla..."

you see where this is going?

there are a few others... let's see how this helps you first.

R.
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luckylady



Joined: 30 Jan 2012
Location: u.s. of occupied territories

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

soyoungmikey wrote:
Maybe you have a class that has lower levels, problems at home etc. There are many ways to address the problem. If a teacher can't stop and reflect to see if they could be responsible for some of the behaviors in a unruly class then he/she is NOT a teacher.



what a crock Laughing

teachers are not the answer to bad parenting - nor are we responsible for irresponsible behavior.
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transmogrifier



Joined: 02 Jan 2012
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 6:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

luckylady wrote:
soyoungmikey wrote:
Maybe you have a class that has lower levels, problems at home etc. There are many ways to address the problem. If a teacher can't stop and reflect to see if they could be responsible for some of the behaviors in a unruly class then he/she is NOT a teacher.



what a crock Laughing

teachers are not the answer to bad parenting - nor are we responsible for irresponsible behavior.


It's both, actually. Shitty parents = shitty kids (and thus shitty students), but shitty teacher = shitty students. You can't really distinguish the two at first glance.

But of course the shitty parents will blame the teachers and the shitty teachers will blame the parents.

Truth is, if you are not a shitty teacher, it's your job to make sure that you are doing everything possible to produce a productive learning environment. If you haven't done this, but instead your first reaction was to throw your hands up in the air and blame the parents, something you can't control, then perhaps teaching isn't for you.

I've seen shitty kids behave in NZ high school classes with teachers who knew what they were doing with regards to classroom management, and act like terrors with teachers who didn't.
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David Gerrington



Joined: 20 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 6:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

soyoungmikey wrote:
luckylady wrote:
soyoungmikey wrote:
Discipline problems are often due to ineffective classroom instruction: lack of interesting activities, English that is not authentic, instructions which are not simple and clear, not having enough varied activities, etc. I think it's time to hit the methodology books and think about what you can do as a teacher to get them to learn. It's always easy to point the finger at your students but it's difficult to say am I doing what I should be doing.

Hope this helps you to reflect on your teaching practice.


one must wonder if you are even a teacher with such a statement. Surprised



One must wonder if you have even gone to school for education or done any type of TESOL/CELTA certification/degree. Discipline is a teacher's responsibility; KT or NET. It's that simple. Yes, discipline issues can be a reflection on the teacher, like it or not, and losing a whole class can be a signal of this. Losing a few students well that's normal, but if the OP can't control the entire class it is a sign of something amiss. Even if the OP doesn't have problems with other classes does this make the OP a good teacher, have good lessons? Not necessarily. Maybe you have a class that has lower levels, problems at home etc. There are many ways to address the problem. If a teacher can't stop and reflect to see if they could be responsible for some of the behaviors in a unruly class then he/she is NOT a teacher.


'One must wonder'.

You sound like a condescending tool.
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andrewchon



Joined: 16 Nov 2008
Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 7:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP, identify the ring leaders and banish them back to their home room. Refuse them entry into classroom in lessons afterwards. If they refuse to leave, then send the whole class back to their homeroom. Once the classroom-cancer is gone, the rest of the pin-heads will fall in line.
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joeteacher



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 8:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've had classes like you OP, here's what worked for me:

-Divide the class into two teams. They are a team for the whole class. If they break a class rule, minus a point. If they answer a question well, read out loud, etc. then then get a point. If you have a computer, use the website Barry Fun English (they have a good little score board).

-Making them compete really gets them focused on the class and thus their behavior improves.

-The winning team gets a sticker or stamp. At the end of the month or sememster, the one with the most gets a prize. Give out extra stickers/stamps for the student of the day or whatever.

-Be consistent. Be fair.

-Don't be a buddy but try to build individual relationships with each student before and after class. Showing a little interest goes a long way.
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luckylady



Joined: 30 Jan 2012
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 9:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

David Gerrington wrote:


'One must wonder'.

You sound like a condescending tool.


suppose you'd know, huh? someone hit a nerve eh? maybe you found out being a good teacher was a just a wee bit harder than you imagined it to be...

yeah, I know the type - you thought teaching would be a walk in the park and then lo and behold found out it's actually real work Surprised
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David Gerrington



Joined: 20 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 11:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

luckylady wrote:
David Gerrington wrote:


'One must wonder'.

You sound like a condescending tool.


suppose you'd know, huh? someone hit a nerve eh? maybe you found out being a good teacher was a just a wee bit harder than you imagined it to be...

yeah, I know the type - you thought teaching would be a walk in the park and then lo and behold found out it's actually real work Surprised


I know, right.
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soyoungmikey



Joined: 29 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 12:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

transmogrifier wrote:
luckylady wrote:
soyoungmikey wrote:
Maybe you have a class that has lower levels, problems at home etc. There are many ways to address the problem. If a teacher can't stop and reflect to see if they could be responsible for some of the behaviors in a unruly class then he/she is NOT a teacher.



what a crock Laughing

teachers are not the answer to bad parenting - nor are we responsible for irresponsible behavior.


It's both, actually. Shitty parents = shitty kids (and thus shitty students), but shitty teacher = shitty students. You can't really distinguish the two at first glance.

But of course the shitty parents will blame the teachers and the shitty teachers will blame the parents.

Truth is, if you are not a shitty teacher, it's your job to make sure that you are doing everything possible to produce a productive learning environment. If you haven't done this, but instead your first reaction was to throw your hands up in the air and blame the parents, something you can't control, then perhaps teaching isn't for you.

I've seen shitty kids behave in NZ high school classes with teachers who knew what they were doing with regards to classroom management, and act like terrors with teachers who didn't.


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thomas pars



Joined: 29 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 2:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I worked at a PS last year.

With base salary and overtime after school classes I would clear 2.7 on less than 30 hours a week. 4 weeks vacation. And summer and winter camps = 1000 bucks for showing up and teaching pop songs.

But you couldn't pay me enough to work in another one.

Sending students to their homeroom teachers, the stamp idea, the letters, none of it is going to work. Sorry to tell you that.

Find yourself a nice little hagwon where the students and more importantly the parents care about education, and you'll find yourself actually liking Korean kids and teaching again.

Good luck.
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bobbybigfoot



Joined: 05 May 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is NOTHING more valuable than a Korean Co-teacher who actually knows what she's doing. If so, then you will have ZERO discipline issues. And I mean zero.

The problem is that these teachers are few and far between.

I've taught with one teacher for 4 years and she has yet to have a SINGLE misbehaved student.

I've taught with others who ROUTINELY have misbehaved kids.

This is not "luck of the draw" ... a good teacher STOPS any deviant behaviour the moment it begins. And she does it ruthlessly. And everyone knows how to behave, and then the entire class behaves in that way.
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JustinC



Joined: 10 Mar 2012
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bobbybigfoot wrote:
There is NOTHING more valuable than a Korean Co-teacher who actually knows what she's doing. If so, then you will have ZERO discipline issues. And I mean zero.

The problem is that these teachers are few and far between.

I've taught with one teacher for 4 years and she has yet to have a SINGLE misbehaved student.

I've taught with others who ROUTINELY have misbehaved kids.

This is not "luck of the draw" ... a good teacher STOPS any deviant behaviour the moment it begins. And she does it ruthlessly. And everyone knows how to behave, and then the entire class behaves in that way.


I hear ya'! My co-teachers all have excellent class-management skills and rule the classroom hard but fair. They give me feedback on my lessons and we talk about how we can improve, but with the kids they know who is boss (and it isn't them).
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nautilus



Joined: 26 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:37 am    Post subject: Re: Disrespectful 6th Graders Reply with quote

orbit720 wrote:
they have tried to help with the problem but in the end they have said it is my responsibility to fix the class.


Ultimately you should be able to take the worst cases to the principal or deputy who should be able to lay down the law.

What they have basically done is throw you into an impossible situation and then prefer to blame you.. rather than risk losing students by disciplining them.

Luckylady wrote:
does not prepare the students for a foreign teacher by discussing with them ahead of time why the NET is even in their classroom, why they must attend English class or even why they should respect the NET at all.


or worse still, they encourage a lack of respect/ negative image of outsiders and foreign culture.
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nero



Joined: 11 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 5:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

transmogrifier wrote:
luckylady wrote:
soyoungmikey wrote:
Maybe you have a class that has lower levels, problems at home etc. There are many ways to address the problem. If a teacher can't stop and reflect to see if they could be responsible for some of the behaviors in a unruly class then he/she is NOT a teacher.



what a crock Laughing

teachers are not the answer to bad parenting - nor are we responsible for irresponsible behavior.


It's both, actually. Shitty parents = shitty kids (and thus shitty students), but shitty teacher = shitty students. You can't really distinguish the two at first glance.

But of course the shitty parents will blame the teachers and the shitty teachers will blame the parents.

Truth is, if you are not a shitty teacher, it's your job to make sure that you are doing everything possible to produce a productive learning environment. If you haven't done this, but instead your first reaction was to throw your hands up in the air and blame the parents, something you can't control, then perhaps teaching isn't for you.

I've seen shitty kids behave in NZ high school classes with teachers who knew what they were doing with regards to classroom management, and act like terrors with teachers who didn't.


This. Unfortunately you will have to become 'that' person. It is hard. Okay, your responsibility?
Make your own rules. With out being too crazy (focus on the rewards than the punishments) get rid of the poison. You will reduce it down to a few students. some are too smart (or think they are) some are not dealing well with English. Play some games that are based on chance rather than skill set using paper rock scissors eg: 2 lines, they both have to say the vocab word or sentence and when they can both correctly pronounce it they p.r.s for the winner. it gets lower level ability student involved and possible winners. (this pisses off my better students but they have their revenge later on in the activity races). Make appropriate teams.
Use the clock system even if you have to finish early to install it. ("you've wasted my time...i'll waste your time..) if they talk add another minute. Let them know where they stand. You are a good guy - but won't put up with bad behaviour.
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Threequalseven



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know this topic has been buried for a while, but I have the exact same problem as the OP. However, the main difference is that I teach at a hagwon, so it's just me in the classroom. Also, my classroom is very small, so moving the kids around doesn't really work. (I've tried.)

My problem is that from Monday though Thursday, I have a "special class" which is made up of 5th and 6th grade students including the director's kid and the secretary's kid. It's "special" because these kids are supposed to be the best and brightest (but really it's just because their parents decided to shell out the extra dough). I'm supposed to teach from a discussion book that's way too complicated for them. In addition, they need to write an essay for me every day. This is in addition to their lab and their main class. So by the time they come to me, they've already been in academy for almost 2 hours.

My typical class starts with me finding out who finished their essays, and sending the rest of the kids out to the hallway to finish. Then, I have to correct all the essays as quickly as possible. This process usually takes the first 15 minutes out of the class. The students are usually just talking during this time. Once I finish, I'm supposed to make students read passages, answer questions, and have debates out of the book. Yet, the entire time, the whole class talks in Korean. There are two boys and four girls, and the two boys don't care at all. One of the boys left the class for a month but then came back, and the class was quite a bit better when he was gone. So I know he enables the other students. Anyway, if I have one person read a paragraph, the other students will talk through the whole thing. The same thing happens when I ask questions from the book. Just today, I asked one student (the enabler), "What's the answer to number four?" multiple times, and he just ignored me and continued talking to the girl across from him. Aside from totally freaking out, there's almost nothing I can do to reign in these kids. And I can understand why. There's no punishment for them if they don't pay attention, no worksheets or anything in the class (just discussion), and they really don't even need to do their essays. So they basically treat it as chill-out talk time. Yet I'm supposed to teach them from this book, but unlike the OP, there's no consequences if I don't. I could literally let them talk the whole time and nothing would happen to me, but I don't do that because then I'd be essentially "giving in" to the students.

I teach 25 different sets of students every week, and there are only three classes that are as bad as this one. However, I only have the other two once a week, so it's more manageable than this one. Oh! And one more thing. I had my co-teacher who teaches this class on Friday came in during one of my classes, and of course, they were perfect angels. So I'm convinced that they just don't have any respect for me. I've tried almost everything in the book, but nothing seems to work. Rewards don't work because they don't care, writing in the book doesn't work because their parents don't check, rearranging the class doesn't work because it's too small. The only thing I haven't tried is the air conditioner trick. The only problem there is they all wear their jackets to class anyway, so I don't know if they would get very cold.

What do other people do in this situation? I really don't think it's me. I think it's because I'm the foreigner, and I can't talk to the bad students' parents like my co-teacher can, so there's no reason for them to behave.
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