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intergalactic



Joined: 19 May 2003
Location: Brisbane

PostPosted: Fri Apr 30, 2004 6:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hey Corp,
I remember the 'no epidurals in Korea' story too! I have been telling everyone at home about it! Did we both misunderstand you?
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 30, 2004 4:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sonofthedarkstranger wrote:
Corp,

OK, I thought I remembered you saying once that the doctor or nurse said "no epidurals in Korea," but then ended up letting you have one. I guess my memory is inaccurate or I misunderstood.


Yeah, the nurse resisted giving me an epidural. She was like, "blah blah blah" to my husband, and my husband looked at me and told me she was saying they didn't have what I was asking for, and I was like, "Are you crazy? This is not rural Africa, I am damn sure they have epidurals!" (meanwhile I was vomiting) Then when I semi-assaulted the nurse she ran off and talked to my doctor (I presume) and shortly thereafter the needle arrived. Oh, and it was only 70,000 won, well worth it incidentally.
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yangban



Joined: 29 Mar 2004
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PostPosted: Sat May 01, 2004 6:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I thought it would be absolutely ok to have a baby in Korea, in case I ever became pregnant. Kids are born here all the time, they are everywhere! There are OBGYNs everywhere. But then, one of my coworkers had a miscarraige, and another said that it is quite common. Then, that same coworker's friend died in childbirth. Very sad. That still would not convince not to have a baby here, but it gave me some issues to think about. Nothing is ever that simple. I've been in the hospital, and it wasn't fun with Korean doctors who were cold, but spoke ok English and nurses who were nice, but no English. I decided I would rather be at home, in my own country, but I don't think I would mind having a baby here as long as it was in a place I were comfortable in. As parents, for whatever reason people decide whether or not to have babies here, that should be respected. People should be able to focus on becoming a parent, not on other things, like people gawking, pointing or bringing in others to watch a foreigner getting treatment. That happened to me, I was just in for pneumonia!
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peppergirl



Joined: 07 Dec 2003

PostPosted: Sat May 01, 2004 8:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yangban wrote:
But then, one of my coworkers had a miscarraige, and another said that it is quite common.


It is common everywhere, not only in Korea. People usually don't go around telling the world.
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