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Battle over school violence policy in Gyeonggi-do
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K1020



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2012 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Corporal punishment is a quick and temporary solution to a disruption in class that causes an even bigger disruption, how is stopping a class to hit one of your students not more distracting than anything that kid could do. I guess any of my students would walk out if I hit them and I would have too.
What kind of respect do you learn from physical antagonism? Then kids should respect their bullies too and anyone else who could lay a whoopin on them? There are a lot of ways to get fear or submission out of people weaker than or subject to you but that doesn't translate to respect; sure lots of the systems and institutions we deal with are coercive but they needn't be.
C.P. is a quick fix which by threat of violence asserts dominance and submission a classic but decidedly uncooperative environment for learning and growing; many studies show it to be detrimental to child welfare. By and large, It might be an immediate answer to a disruption but it's a lazy practice by a caregiver who is either too indifferent or ill equipped to properly attend to a child acting out of turn which is, particularly in Korea where students practically live at school, part of the job. The particular practices used with students are less important, so long as they are persistent and considerate they will more than likely be effective in quieting the even the most disruptive students.
The major problem is that C.P. for many who swear by it, is a first response -the only tool their tool box, to address behavior issues and not their last resort. If a student is acting out to get attention and the attention they get is aggressive and physical (if not violent) then that is the attention they will take and eventually give. Sort term gain for long term pain. It's just not worth it.
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dairyairy



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2012 6:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When the school board leaders can agree on what should be done then, hopefully, they will issue some clear rules for schools, teachers, parents, and students. In the article, the Gyeonggi-do school board chairman is offering no leadership on the issue and seems to be undercutting any efforts from the LMB school authorities. What a mess!
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andrewchon



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Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.

PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2012 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This thread is going off the tangent. The violence that they are talking about is student-student violence, not teacher-student. As for corporal punishment being the cause, bullying happens in schools that doesn't use CP as well, so I don't buy that at all.
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Weigookin74



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2012 11:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

CP shouldn't be decided arbitrally by the teacher. Teacher sends problem student to principal or vice principal and they use CP based on a series of warnings for recurring behaviour similiar to a boss implementing warnings to correct behaviour before actually firing you. I think the old days of teachers hitting you for not writing neatly was way off base and lazy on the teacher's part.

CP ought to be allowed, but as a last resort and professionally administered. It ought to be used after time outs and other behaviour modifications. For most kids these things will work fine. But for the odd problem child, CP may be the option of last resort.

Getting rid of CP here is having an impact. We can all witness it. Though I never liked the idea of the teacher hitting the kid with the stick when they felt like it. Our own society went from one extreme to another instead of finding a professional middle ground based on common sense.
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thurst



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

if you're enough of a degenerate for it be officially documented on your transcripts then schools should know or be able to easily get the information if they so request. the idea that you shouldn't be held accountable for your actions is completely ridiculous, but i can't say i'm surprised considering "but i was drunk!" is a completely valid excuse in this country
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The Cosmic Hum



Joined: 09 May 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2012 7:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

edwardcatflap wrote:
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We've been through this before, so I don't want to rehash this too much, but in the interest of language...you seem to be using it rather loosely here...yes?
It isn't a simple fact...it isn't simple...and it isn't a fact.


Yes OK we can sit around debating the appropriate language to use to discuss the problem, like most left wing politicians do, or we can talk about solutions.


Yeah..you are quite right...and you are making valid points...but I wasn't using semantics to avoid discussing solutions...in fact I offered the one I believe is most effective.

What I don't get...is why do people think it is ok to use CP in schools at all?

For example...we don't beat employees who are late for work.
We dock their pay.
They don't like it...*beep*'em...you're fired.

Students don't want to follow the rules...detention...etc.
They don't like it...*beep*'em...suspend them.

Put CCtv in every problem class...record misconduct.
Zero tolerance for bullying...from students or teachers.
But as teachers...we have to set the standard...no CP...period.
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2012 8:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CosmicHun wrote:
we have to set the standard...no CP...period.


So...you're providing a totally unrealistic representation of life that these students will never encounter once they go out into the world?


I'm sure you've had a bar fight. I'm sure you've probably hit someone who insulted you or your gf. Why? Because thats what happens in the real world.


In the real world you don't get away with bad behaviour, someone is going to bop you on the bonce.

If you're as brazenly rude and lacking manners as the kids pumped out by the "zero consequences" school, then you are going to offend people left right and centre, without even realising it. Employers will ignore you, people will avoid you. You'll miss out on a lot in life.

There's a problem with all this do-gooder tolerance. It produces awful societies filled with horrendous social behaviour that everyone feels they have to put up with and nothing ever gets done about.

Sorry I'd much rather have nice, polite respectful people with "low self esteem" Rolling Eyes than obnoxious in-your-face societies with "high self esteem".

Do you even have any evidence that your policy has produced a better society?
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2012 3:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Cosmic Hum wrote:
edwardcatflap wrote:
Quote:
We've been through this before, so I don't want to rehash this too much, but in the interest of language...you seem to be using it rather loosely here...yes?
It isn't a simple fact...it isn't simple...and it isn't a fact.


Yes OK we can sit around debating the appropriate language to use to discuss the problem, like most left wing politicians do, or we can talk about solutions.


Yeah..you are quite right...and you are making valid points...but I wasn't using semantics to avoid discussing solutions...in fact I offered the one I believe is most effective.

What I don't get...is why do people think it is ok to use CP in schools at all?

For example...we don't beat employees who are late for work.
We dock their pay.
They don't like it...*beep*'em...you're fired.

Students don't want to follow the rules...detention...etc.
They don't like it...*beep*'em...suspend them.

Put CCtv in every problem class...record misconduct.
Zero tolerance for bullying...from students or teachers.
But as teachers...we have to set the standard...no CP...period.


Students aren't paid, hence why we don't dock their pay or anything similar.

Detention and suspension mean nothing to a student who doesn't care about academics. Especially if their buddies are in detention or suspended as well.

CCTV doesn't stop people from robbing liquor stores. Why will it stop misconduct? Is some discipline officer suddenly going to run into the room if they see some kid acting up? There's going to be 50 false alarms for every incident.

Bullying is not the same as CP. One is aggressive. The other is reactionary.

CP should be one of many options. It is not always the best option. Often it is the worst option. But in some cases with some students it is what works. Some students are undeterred by other punishments and will do whatever they want. Not every student is the same, so one shouldn't fail to use certain measures for certain students.

Let's be real, for most people the way they talk to some 5 foot 4 nerdy guy is completely different to some 6 foot 4 musclehead guy with tattoos. Same goes for children.

So is your belief that violence is ineffective for ALL students based on fact or ideology? What in the human condition, experience, and history has proven that violence isn't a massive deterrent to bad behaviors?
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Julius wrote:
CosmicHun wrote:
we have to set the standard...no CP...period.


So...you're providing a totally unrealistic representation of life that these students will never encounter once they go out into the world?


I'm sure you've had a bar fight. I'm sure you've probably hit someone who insulted you or your gf. Why? Because thats what happens in the real world.


In the real world you don't get away with bad behaviour, someone is going to bop you on the bonce.

If you're as brazenly rude and lacking manners as the kids pumped out by the "zero consequences" school, then you are going to offend people left right and centre, without even realising it. Employers will ignore you, people will avoid you. You'll miss out on a lot in life.

There's a problem with all this do-gooder tolerance. It produces awful societies filled with horrendous social behaviour that everyone feels they have to put up with and nothing ever gets done about.

Sorry I'd much rather have nice, polite respectful people with "low self esteem" Rolling Eyes than obnoxious in-your-face societies with "high self esteem".

Do you even have any evidence that your policy has produced a better society?


Well said, sir!!! Preach it brother!!! Couldn't have said it better myself.
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fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Julius wrote:
There's a problem with all this do-gooder tolerance. It produces awful societies filled with horrendous social behaviour that everyone feels they have to put up with and nothing ever gets done about.


That's funny considering how much you rag on Koreans yet Korean schools until recently were notorious for their liberal use of corporal punishment.
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The Cosmic Hum



Joined: 09 May 2003
Location: Sonic Space

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 12:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Julius wrote:
CosmicHun wrote:
we have to set the standard...no CP...period.


So...you're providing a totally unrealistic representation of life that these students will never encounter once they go out into the world?


I'm sure you've had a bar fight. I'm sure you've probably hit someone who insulted you or your gf. Why? Because thats what happens in the real world.


In the real world you don't get away with bad behaviour, someone is going to bop you on the bonce.


LOL...this post is a riot...thanks for the laughs...really.

To produce responses that asinine, and yet come off as sounding like you actually believed they had anything to do with my post...truly commendable.
If one didn't think you were being totally facetious, one would think you were a complete dunce.
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The Cosmic Hum



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 12:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
The Cosmic Hum wrote:
edwardcatflap wrote:
Quote:
We've been through this before, so I don't want to rehash this too much, but in the interest of language...you seem to be using it rather loosely here...yes?
It isn't a simple fact...it isn't simple...and it isn't a fact.


Yes OK we can sit around debating the appropriate language to use to discuss the problem, like most left wing politicians do, or we can talk about solutions.


Yeah..you are quite right...and you are making valid points...but I wasn't using semantics to avoid discussing solutions...in fact I offered the one I believe is most effective.

What I don't get...is why do people think it is ok to use CP in schools at all?

For example...we don't beat employees who are late for work.
We dock their pay.
They don't like it...*beep*'em...you're fired.

Students don't want to follow the rules...detention...etc.
They don't like it...*beep*'em...suspend them.

Put CCtv in every problem class...record misconduct.
Zero tolerance for bullying...from students or teachers.
But as teachers...we have to set the standard...no CP...period.


Students aren't paid, hence why we don't dock their pay or anything similar.

Detention and suspension mean nothing to a student who doesn't care about academics. Especially if their buddies are in detention or suspended as well.

CCTV doesn't stop people from robbing liquor stores. Why will it stop misconduct? Is some discipline officer suddenly going to run into the room if they see some kid acting up? There's going to be 50 false alarms for every incident.

Bullying is not the same as CP. One is aggressive. The other is reactionary.

CP should be one of many options. It is not always the best option. Often it is the worst option. But in some cases with some students it is what works. Some students are undeterred by other punishments and will do whatever they want. Not every student is the same, so one shouldn't fail to use certain measures for certain students.

Let's be real, for most people the way they talk to some 5 foot 4 nerdy guy is completely different to some 6 foot 4 musclehead guy with tattoos. Same goes for children.

So is your belief that violence is ineffective for ALL students based on fact or ideology? What in the human condition, experience, and history has proven that violence isn't a massive deterrent to bad behaviors?



LOL...etc.
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fermentation wrote:
Julius wrote:
There's a problem with all this do-gooder tolerance. It produces awful societies filled with horrendous social behaviour that everyone feels they have to put up with and nothing ever gets done about.


That's funny considering how much you rag on Koreans yet Korean schools until recently were notorious for their liberal use of corporal punishment.


It depends on how it is wielded.

Corporal punishment should not be dealt in anger, it should follow a properly safeguarded system.
I don't agree with teachers going berserk out of frustration. Neither do I agree with punching, slapping or other potentially dangerous or harmful forms of assault.

Teachers should be allowed to hit kids on the hand with a ruler or love=stick. Beyond that, miscreants should be sent to the head master and his deputy to recieve either the paddle or the cane. This is not physically harmful or dangerous btw.

And it depends on what behaviours you are seeking to enforce.

Yes, korea has a large index of behaviours that are objectionable to western norms. Its simply a cultural difference that Korea punishes students for different offences than the west does.

CosmicHun wrote:
you were a complete dunce


Obviously you never recieved discipline as a child, which is why you have grown into an insecure adult who feels the need to disrespect others.
A simple smack at the age of 8 could probably have turned your life around.

Your abusive post has been reported to the authorities.
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The Cosmic Hum



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Location: Sonic Space

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 9:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Julius wrote:
1- So...you're providing a totally unrealistic representation of life that these students will never encounter once they go out into the world?


2- I'm sure you've had a bar fight. I'm sure you've probably hit someone who insulted you or your gf. Why? Because thats what happens in the real world.


3- In the real world you don't get away with bad behaviour, someone is going to bop you on the bonce.


ok...you were serious...how terribly sad for you.
Numbers added.
1- I provided a perfectly realistic representation of life...people have jobs in the real world.
They get reprimanded or fired for breaking the rules. They don't get beaten.
Do they get beaten in your 'real world'?

Points 2 & 3 have nothing whatever to do with my post.

2- Also in the real world, people who get into bar fights also get sued, get assault charges...face criminal records...time served...etc.
Does society condone fighting and hitting people in bars in the real world?

3- People who go around 'bopping people on the bonce' often get sued, get assault charges...face criminal records...time served...etc.
Does society condone 'bopping people on the bonce'?

Your real world is not the same as most people's real world...which is why I was hoping your points were made in jest.


As for this drivel...
Quote:
Obviously you never recieved discipline as a child, which is why you have grown into an insecure adult who feels the need to disrespect others.
A simple smack at the age of 8 could probably have turned your life around.

Let's see how this turns around.
Obviously you were beaten about the head too often as a child, which is why you have grown into a sadistic adult who feels entitled to beat little children.
A simple hug around the age of 8 could probably have turned your life around.Rolling Eyes
Quote:
Teachers should be allowed to hit kids on the hand with a ruler or love=stick. Beyond that, miscreants should be sent to the head master and his deputy to recieve either the paddle or the cane. This is not physically harmful or dangerous btw.

Unbelievable. Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 2:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Quote:
Teachers should be allowed to hit kids on the hand with a ruler or love=stick. Beyond that, miscreants should be sent to the head master and his deputy to recieve either the paddle or the cane. This is not physically harmful or dangerous btw.

Unbelievable.


That's why CP will never be re-introduced in the UK for one as, although the vast majority of people who were punished in this way while at school were not damaged in any way (long term - no I don't have stats on this, i'm using common sense) the practice would open up the doors for all sorts of legal claims for permanent psychological damage and the like by parents seeing an opportunity for easy cash.

Here's a story about another teacher fired for daring to lay a finger on one of these poor victims of low self esteem. As a caveat, i'm am by no means 'a Daily Mail reader' but let's face it this sort of nonsense happens and you'll never read about it in the Guardian

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2202127/Teacher-sacked-grabbing-abusive-boy-16-hurled-banana-milkshake-him.html
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