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TO SNITCH OR NOT TO SNITCH
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Spice



Joined: 01 Jun 2012

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 4:24 am    Post subject: TO SNITCH OR NOT TO SNITCH Reply with quote

I left the situation right there - nature will take it's course

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Zackback



Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 4:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is she hot? If yes, then say nothing. If not, then get rid of her at once.
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Skippy



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would not snitch. Unless she is a direct threat to your lively hood. If she is affecting YOUR family, shelter or job, then destroy her. If not best bet is to keep it to yourself.

Still that does not mean you can express your opinion of what you think to your friend that wants to get with her.

If you really really want to get back at her. Use a cat's paw - you do not need to snitch. All you have to do is make a Korean want to make her life difficult. If a Korean knows what her opinion of Dokdo or Korean men or whatever is. Once they know some will proceed to make her life difficult. I bet her boss would like a Go Directly To Jail, do not collect $200 aka You are fired and there is nothing you can do about! card to use on her 11 month of her visa. Let other's do the dirty work for you.
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Keeper



Joined: 11 Jun 2012

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 6:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's your decision and based on what you said I have no idea what she is all about. I don't like the laws governing extra work and using those against someone would not feel right to me at all. So unless she was really hurting or scamming others I would just stay mum and stay away from her.
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WadRUG'naDoo



Joined: 15 Jun 2010
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Go ahead and snitch, man, and then let us know what happens to her. Other people's misery makes for good entertainment.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 9:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I do not see why you should turn her in.

She may be unpleasant and a tool but she is not hurting you or your life in Korea in any significant manner.
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newb



Joined: 27 Aug 2012
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 8:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe it's silly to ask whether to snitch or not snitch on Dave's.

You should go with your gut feeling and make a decision since you know the circumstances and everything about her.
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wishfullthinkng



Joined: 05 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 9:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yes. absolutely yes. people get what they deserve and if you need to be the vessel for that then by all means get rid of one more awful person here.
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Scorpion



Joined: 15 Apr 2012

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 9:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You sound like you're in grade 9. Grow up. If she's doing you no harm leave her alone. It's a very lowly impulse to want to hurt someone (to the extent of getting them fired or deported) who has done nothing more than irritate you. I just hope you don't get on someone's nerves in the future who has the goods on you. And we all have things that we've done that could get us in trouble with someone. Take the mature road - the adult road - and leave well enough alone. In fact this is good advice for all our social dealings in life. Why do harm to someone without good reason? And you certainly don't seem to have a good reason.

Leave well enough alone.


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Scorpion



Joined: 15 Apr 2012

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

wishfullthinkng wrote:
yes. absolutely yes. people get what they deserve and if you need to be the vessel for that then by all means get rid of one more awful person here.


Charming.
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dairyairy



Joined: 17 May 2012
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

She sounds like a hakwon teacher, right? You want a pissing contest with a skunk?
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young_clinton



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 7:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"As you gaze into the Abyss, the Abyss gazes back into you." Leave her alone and don't even think about the situation,
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LindaYee



Joined: 15 Dec 2011
Location: Jinhae-gu, Changwon-si, Gyeongsangnam-do

PostPosted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would not snitch. Unless she is a direct threat to your lively hood.

But if she stopped your hood being lively I would certainly snitch Smile
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transmogrifier



Joined: 02 Jan 2012
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 6:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of the signs that you have become an adult is the ability to not give a shit about people who are just generally annoying.

In other words, let her continue to be annoying - and tell her to her face if she is that bad - and you go on and live your own life.

Snitching for the petty reasons you describe above is not the done thing.
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Skippy



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 10:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LindaYee wrote:
I would not snitch. Unless she is a direct threat to your lively hood.

But if she stopped your hood being lively I would certainly snitch Smile


dang my little spelling mistake has come back to haunt me. Actually it had been bothering me.
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