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Trip
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 7:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Captain Corea could school 99% of fellow expats about Korean culture and customs. |
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asdfghjkl
Joined: 21 Jun 2011
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Trip wrote: |
| Captain Corea could school 99% of fellow expats about Korean culture and customs. |
Are you his Korean wife? |
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cj1976
Joined: 26 Oct 2005
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I hate to go all Urban Myth on you, but where are the stats or any hard evidence that this is a consensus view? My wife is Korean and her family are all Korean, last time I checked, I don't think they would like it if someone stole their umbrella - especially when it is raining outside. Nor would they knowingly take someone else's as if it was a communal right. However, they might accidentally take one in a moment of soju-induced confusion - as I have in the past. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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| cj1976 wrote: |
| I hate to go all Urban Myth on you, but where are the stats or any hard evidence that this is a consensus view... |
Careful...it's a slippery slope. Once you start the pursuit of the truth backed up by hard facts as opposed to spouting hot air...you may not be able to let it go.
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Zyzyfer

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 9:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Haha alphabet soup is in rare form today! |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 9:26 pm Post subject: |
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Just a little historical tidbit.
In the past, there would umbrellas at subway stations that people could use freely, on the condition they returned the umbrella at another subway station anywhere in the network. So you might find your umbrella at another business in a few months.
So it could be some oldie taking your umbrella, or then again, some *beep* just stole it... |
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b-class rambler
Joined: 25 Mar 2009
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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Anyone who's also lived in Japan will know that the same phenomenon exists there too. There, it's fairly well known that whilst theft is relatively rare generally, bicycles and umbrellas are kinda seen as fair game to some extent, at least.
People will say that they didn't "steal" it, just simply "used" it when it was necessary and that it's one of those situations that evens itself out overall in the end. In other words, I forgot mine so I'll take yours, but you'll take someone else's and so will they and there'll probably be a least a couple of umbrellas there which are now ownerless as they were forgotten ages ago.
As a far as I can see, it's pretty much exactly the same in Korea.
So I think there is a little bit of a cultural aspect to this. Not that that is an adequate justification for me and it is something I don't like. However, it's not that difficult an issue to deal with. Just try and keep it with you or take a crappy one that no-one would want.
To be honest, even though I'd much prefer never to have anyone pinch my umbrella here, it's an increased risk compared to my home country that I can live with, as I also know that the relative theft risk to my car, my wallet, my phone, my sat nav and lots of other things I would be really pissed off about having stolen is very small. |
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asdfghjkl
Joined: 21 Jun 2011
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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| jvalmer wrote: |
Just a little historical tidbit.
In the past, there would umbrellas at subway stations that people could use freely, on the condition they returned the umbrella at another subway station anywhere in the network. So you might find your umbrella at another business in a few months.
So it could be some oldie taking your umbrella, or then again, some *beep* just stole it... |
I am glad that somebody here has some perspective. Every Ryan Hamburger thinks he is an expert on everything in Korea right down to umbrella sharing because he took Asian Studies 201 back at Louisiana state, but some of us here have actually been around. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 11:40 pm Post subject: |
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| I will refrain from commenting on the loser poster who said it's OK to steal umbrellas, but I've lost more umbrellas than I can count. I've had one umbrella taken but it was a crappy one anyway. |
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asdfghjkl
Joined: 21 Jun 2011
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:10 am Post subject: |
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| Yaya wrote: |
| I will refrain from commenting on the loser poster who said it's OK to steal umbrellas, but I've lost more umbrellas than I can count. I've had one umbrella taken but it was a crappy one anyway. |
Well actually, half of your comment was about "the loser poster," so you have not refrained from commenting on that person. Moreover, eslcafe.com is a forum for professionals, so please refrain from using ad hominem attacks against people; I believe it is against the rules here, anyway.
I assume that the "loser" you are referencing is me. Just because you disagree with my point of view does not make me a loser. I would hate to see how you interact with people from different cultures if your reaction to others' differences is to call them names. Maybe I don't like a food you eat or the way you tie your shoes, but I wouldn't call you a "loser" over either of those things. |
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Scott in Incheon
Joined: 30 Aug 2004
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:47 am Post subject: |
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| Every Ryan Hamburger thinks he is an expert on everything in Korea right down to umbrella sharing because he took Asian Studies 201 back at Louisiana state, but some of us here have actually been around. |
Isn't this just a long way of saying 'loser'.... |
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The Cosmic Hum

Joined: 09 May 2003 Location: Sonic Space
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:57 am Post subject: |
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| The whole fact that you'd even call it stealing shows your cultural bias. This is completely lost on you guys and probably not something that a lot of foreigners can understand, so I don't even see the point in trying to explain myself if you can't overcome your prejudices. |
^ = saying 'loser'.
But it's ok...no worries.
Only a loser would take that troll of a post seriously.
Now calling someone a 'thief'...well those are fighting words.
Oh wait...you are a thief...damn. |
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Wangddaddy
Joined: 06 Jan 2007
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:59 am Post subject: |
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I've had my umbrella stolen maybe once or twice (and "swapped" once) during my roughly 10 years here. None of those times were when I put it in the bin at a store. I, too, feel that I can trust Koreans to not steal my stuff.
A few weeks ago, I left my umbrella outside a convenience store near Cheonho Station, in Seoul. It was still there the following Monday evening when I went to get it.
I wonder if style might have something to do with it. My umbrellas tend to be neither cheap nor expensive, but they are usually black or dark blue stick umbrellas with straight handles. They're not the most convenient things. |
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asdfghjkl
Joined: 21 Jun 2011
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:22 am Post subject: |
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| Every Ryan Hamburger thinks he is an expert on everything in Korea right down to umbrella sharing because he took Asian Studies 201 back at Louisiana state, but some of us here have actually been around. |
Isn't this just a long way of saying 'loser'.... |
It certainly is not!
I see how it is here. You guys are all just bullying me because you are friends of Yaya or somebody else who disagrees with me. Well, grow up, I say! |
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The Cosmic Hum

Joined: 09 May 2003 Location: Sonic Space
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:55 am Post subject: |
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| asdfghjkl wrote: |
| Scott in Incheon wrote: |
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| Every Ryan Hamburger thinks he is an expert on everything in Korea right down to umbrella sharing because he took Asian Studies 201 back at Louisiana state, but some of us here have actually been around. |
Isn't this just a long way of saying 'loser'.... |
It certainly is not!
I see how it is here. You guys are all just bullying me because you are friends of Yaya or somebody else who disagrees with me. Well, grow up, I say! |
ahh...The Floating World...lol |
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