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Why is it So Hard to Exchange Things Here? rant.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:52 am    Post subject: Why is it So Hard to Exchange Things Here? rant. Reply with quote

I buy a 13,000k box of grapes and expect good quality for that amount of money. I bought it from a mom and pop's store around the corner. I get home, take the grapes out of the bag to wash and I look down and think I see a dead leaf. Upon further inspection it's a dead, stiff freaking frog...in my bunch of grapes.

Without hesitation I go back to the store and explain everything and ask to switch out the boxes all in Korean.

She takes out the dead frog holding it like it's a cute harmless little bundle of joy and saying it's only a frog, the grapes are good, eat them. I look at her like hell nah, YOU eat them, I want different grapes! Then the guy in front of me in line who stayed for the altercation takes her side and tries convincing me harder to take the grapes back.

After a 3 minute bickering battle--most of which I barely understood--she huffed and puffed to the back and got me another box, like it was all MY fault.

On the way back I'm thinking does she really want to lose a customer over this? A box of grapes?! What's the theory behind this demanding customers suck it up and take it? I get the culture, but it's bad business practice because I guarantee that would have been the last time I ever walked in that place if she wouldn't have exchanged it.

Then the thing that had me most pissed was the ajussi buying cigarettes in front of me taking the shop keeper's side trying to convince me to keep the dirty grapes. F em both.

Thanks for listening.

And for anyone saying I should not have tried to return them, as I said up top, YOU eat them when that happens to you. I get what I pay for.
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schwa



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Yap

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 3:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Frogs are harmless. In this case a sign of a relatively natural product. I'd have accepted them as is.
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edwardcatflap



Joined: 22 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Me too. Give them a good wash, as you'd do anyway, and what's the harm?
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 4:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You guys are nasty.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 4:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I moved to Korea with $3 US and lived on frogs for a month. Mmmm - I still remember them days. Frogs are delicious. Throw a little spam on top and they can be a crunchy delight.
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kbit



Joined: 18 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 4:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know why she gave you such a hard time. She'll just put your old box of grapes sans frog back on the shelf and sell it to the next guy. It's just as likely the new grapes she gave you had frogs that were removed.
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Dave Chance



Joined: 30 May 2011

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 5:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dem's the breaks in Korea.

Face it, sometimes a foreigner isn't very high on the totem pole here.

If you were a 'respected and esteemed' member of the community in her eyes, she would have exchanged it pronto and included a little something as 'service'.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 5:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dave Chance wrote:
Dem's the breaks in Korea.

Face it, sometimes a foreigner isn't very high on the totem pole here.

If you were a 'respected and esteemed' member of the community in her eyes, she would have exchanged it pronto and included a little something as 'service'.



I hate to tell you this, but I must.

If you'd walked in there with an air of authority and started yelling at the woman while wearing your $800 suit, carrying your $800 umbrella, you would have had results immediately.

Instead, you probably walked in there in usual FT attire, maybe a sweatshirt and jeans, with your long hair and you were treated as such.

Very Happy
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heavymetalpancakes



Joined: 24 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 5:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wash the grapes. Eat them. Quit being a whiny little hipster baby. Laughing Laughing Laughing
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 6:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

heavymetalpancakes wrote:
Wash the grapes. Eat them. Quit being a whiny little hipster baby. Laughing Laughing Laughing

Furthest thing from a hipster, No.1. No. 2, as I said: YOU eat a bunch of grapes that have been wallowing in dead frog filth. If you saw it I'm sure you'd do the same thing I did. Total food turn-off. Seems like some of you guys have disgusting food habits. You probably have other dirty habits as well.
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tiger fancini



Joined: 21 Mar 2006
Location: Testicles for Eyes

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 6:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge7 wrote:
dead frog filth


Nothing a little water wouldn't cure. The pesticides and other invisible stuff on them are probably far worse.
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crescent



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: yes.

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 6:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aw.... A dead frog and you cry sour grapes.

I hope you don't eat ketchup, tomato sauce, cereal, peanut butter, jam, or sausage, because you'll be eating quite a few more dirty little dead things than you could imagine.

Quote:
Most of the time, this does not mean these foods are unsafe and in order to be on the list of these foods, the "defects" (what the FDA calls bugs and rodents) have to have been found to cause no health hazards.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/21/bugs-in-food-fda-allows_n_1370288.html

Who buys produce at little mom and pop stores expecting quality anyway?
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 6:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge there are a few holes on your deceased amphibian in your grapes story.

First you said you made your point "all in Korean" yet in numerous threads you claim you cannot speak Korean very well and cannot be bothered to learn. So you argued with her in Korean but "barely understood" the bickering battle in Korean that lasted 3 minutes? Laughing

So either your story is fabricated or you went to the story and with broken 2-word sentence Korean you tried to make your point and predictably failed.


As for the dead frog in your grapes, if it happened you could have washed the grapes in water and would have been fine. You could (and did) have gone back to the store and probably would have gotten an exchange had you been polite and had you spoken intelligible Korean (I remind you you often stated on here you cannot be bothered to learn the language beyond the survival level).

So the scene may have played out like this

Dodge: My podooo bad is with dead gaegoriii.
Ajuma: ???
Dodge: Pooooddooooo bad other podoooo jusae yo
Ajuma: ??? (in actual Korean) I will not give you another box of grapes and what is this foreigner going on about with the frog mention ???
Other K-customer: (In Korean) calm down, it is just a frog and why are you dangling a dead frog in the woman's face so aggressively?
Dodge (dangling the dead from) my podoooooo baaaadddd, you f0ing Koreans are not listening to meeeeeee.

Laughing

Good luck out there Dodge and next time, send your wife to the store.
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Ibsen



Joined: 09 Dec 2011

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 6:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not sure if everyone else is trolling, but I agree that is pretty gross... I would have taken them back too. Frogs don't really gross me out, but anything dead touching my food that ISN'T my food would bother me, even if I do wash it with water. I have to ask though, how did you not see the frog when you were buying the grapes? Whenever I buy fruit or veggies, especially from a smaller shop, I check them thoroughly to make sure they didn't put all the rotten ones on the bottom like they sometimes do.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Mon Oct 01, 2012 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I lived in Korea for 17 years and that never happened to me.
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