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Start an ESL career in your late 30's and afford retirement
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OBwannabe



Joined: 16 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 11:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I see my last post didn't take.
I did pay off some of my debt, but took on more debt after I moved back. Didn't plan well for post-Korea life as I took a few months off after my last contract thinking I'd be back to the ROK...but it was during the time off that I decided to stay in Canada. Took a couple more months to see my first paycheque and wasn't earning anything worth bragging about.

Debt sucks. I've learned my lesson in that regard.
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 12:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Weigookin74 wrote:
Think the thing to really do is find a sexy ajumma with a good job. Ha ha. Then life is set.

Go work at a host bar and maybe you'll find one: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-19570750 Surprised
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big_fella1



Joined: 08 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I reached the concusion this year that it isn't possible. To retire in 25 years I figure I will need a million dollars and ego means I would want to leave the kids something so I'll also need to own my house.

To save $1million I need to save $40,000 a year i.e. My whole annual.salary. I am not taking account of interest earned but nor am I accounting for inflation hopefully they'll balance out. I also haven't factored in wage increases as wages have been falling in both real and dollar terms for the last 5 years.

There is research predicting life expectancies have peaked and will begin to fall due to a more sedantry lifestyle. So maybe I don't need to fund 25 years of retirement.
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Unposter



Joined: 04 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 1:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think it is doable (I am doing it), but you need to have the right jobs and be a very good teacher. I don't think just anyone can do it.

You also mentioned some desire to have a family. If this is something you are serious about, you need to marry well. A good marriage can be just like a second job - it is something you have to work on.

I would also recomend marrying someone with a job. Raising a family is expensive - at least raising a family well is. You are not going to retire debt free with savings if you are raising a family on a single income as an ESL/EFL teacher even if you work your butt off.

As a single person, you can certainly do it on an ESL/EFL teacher's wage but raising a family will eat through that savings.

While I think there are jobs for older people, even people in their 60s, it is going to take real credentials, real talent and I would say even real connections to get them and keep them. Again, I don't see it as something that just anyone can do.

I would think long and hard about how much you love teaching and how much you are willing to do to hone your craft. You really think this is something you are good at, jump on it, this is your calling.

If you don't really "love" the work, it may not be what you want to devote yourself to. Because unless you are good at what you do, there are ceilings.

If you just love the lifestyle, I won't consel against doing it but you should be reasonable about it. It means you are going to play away your life until you are too old to hold a job and then "geez" it up in the "third world" somewhere.

Think hard and let us know what you think. I think your decision and your decision making process will be useful to everyone.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 3:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OBwannabe wrote:
schwa wrote:
You've lived here before. Whats with the newbie-esque questions?


You're right, I have lived there before. Five glorious years I spent in the ROK...but was starting to feel like a dinosaur at age 35, so I left.

Just can't seem to shake free of the hold Korea seems to have on me.
So I'm left wondering if I should leave the safe, steady, unfulfilling job (with benefits, pension and decent pay) for a return to Korea an uncertain, but exciting future.


I guess these sound like newbie questions, but going back to Korea with no plan of permanent return to the motherland is entirely new for me.

I appreciate your response.

Absolutely NOT. You should stay where you can get pension, benefits and decent pay. Please be rational and smart about this. Think about your future.
Korea is always best to dream about from afar. It's much more gloomy as you live here day-to-day and deal with the bs on a daily basis. Not to mention the severe risk you take putting all your chips in teaching here. After all, who knows what the ESL market will be like in Korea in 10-15 years? Koreans shift like the wind, and ESL can be out the door in an instant.
Tread carefully.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stan Rogers wrote:
I've met a number of people who left very dire financial problems in their home countries. They couldn't go bankrupt on the huge debts they had, and so they decided to leave their problems behind and start a new life in a new country.

Idiots. The Peter Pan-mentality people love to come to Korea, but their past always comes back to bite them.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 7:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge7 wrote:
Stan Rogers wrote:
I've met a number of people who left very dire financial problems in their home countries. They couldn't go bankrupt on the huge debts they had, and so they decided to leave their problems behind and start a new life in a new country.

Idiots. The Peter Pan-mentality people love to come to Korea, but their past always comes back to bite them.


+1 for the above comment.

As for what others say, Koreans can change their mind in an instant. That's why you have to live frugally and focus on getting your debts down as quickly as possible. Getting new credentials are great and all, but for those of us with huge debts, that's all but impossible. I see Unis advertising wanting MA Tesol but paying 2.0 million won a month? Is taking on extra debt to get one of these on to of what we already have really worth it?

Family? Ouch! So, expensive. Better meet a woman with a good job or whose parents have cash or something. High debt is stressful, but I know I will someday have a great credit rating much better than those that just decide to not pay their debts. Student loans don't just disappear and you're not going to be here forever. This market will be different in 10 to 15 years, even if there is an economic recovery.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge7 wrote:
OBwannabe wrote:
schwa wrote:
You've lived here before. Whats with the newbie-esque questions?


You're right, I have lived there before. Five glorious years I spent in the ROK...but was starting to feel like a dinosaur at age 35, so I left.

Just can't seem to shake free of the hold Korea seems to have on me.
So I'm left wondering if I should leave the safe, steady, unfulfilling job (with benefits, pension and decent pay) for a return to Korea an uncertain, but exciting future.


I guess these sound like newbie questions, but going back to Korea with no plan of permanent return to the motherland is entirely new for me.

I appreciate your response.

Absolutely NOT. You should stay where you can get pension, benefits and decent pay. Please be rational and smart about this. Think about your future.
Korea is always best to dream about from afar. It's much more gloomy as you live here day-to-day and deal with the bs on a daily basis. Not to mention the severe risk you take putting all your chips in teaching here. After all, who knows what the ESL market will be like in Korea in 10-15 years? Koreans shift like the wind, and ESL can be out the door in an instant.
Tread carefully.


BTW: You do get pension here. Just don't cash it out when you leave. Leave it there and collect it every month in your sixties.
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 8:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge7 wrote:
OBwannabe wrote:
schwa wrote:
You've lived here before. Whats with the newbie-esque questions?


You're right, I have lived there before. Five glorious years I spent in the ROK...but was starting to feel like a dinosaur at age 35, so I left.

Just can't seem to shake free of the hold Korea seems to have on me.
So I'm left wondering if I should leave the safe, steady, unfulfilling job (with benefits, pension and decent pay) for a return to Korea an uncertain, but exciting future.


I guess these sound like newbie questions, but going back to Korea with no plan of permanent return to the motherland is entirely new for me.

I appreciate your response.

Absolutely NOT. You should stay where you can get pension, benefits and decent pay. Please be rational and smart about this. Think about your future.
Korea is always best to dream about from afar. It's much more gloomy as you live here day-to-day and deal with the bs on a daily basis. Not to mention the severe risk you take putting all your chips in teaching here. After all, who knows what the ESL market will be like in Korea in 10-15 years? Koreans shift like the wind, and ESL can be out the door in an instant.
Tread carefully.


I think the bolded is lost on a lot of people. Yeah, you can skate by on your BA from X State College and your F6 making pretty good money for the time being, but how long is that money going to be there? Those who plan to stick around better have something to separate themselves from the crowd, whether that be an advanced degree, an education degree, or an ability to ace tests (and thus teach test prep). I think there are going to be a lot of guys who married Korean girls thinking they'd be set for life who get a rude awakening at some point.
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youtuber



Joined: 13 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 9:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OBwannabe wrote:
schwa wrote:
You've lived here before. Whats with the newbie-esque questions?


You're right, I have lived there before. Five glorious years I spent in the ROK...but was starting to feel like a dinosaur at age 35, so I left.

Just can't seem to shake free of the hold Korea seems to have on me.
So I'm left wondering if I should leave the safe, steady, unfulfilling job (with benefits, pension and decent pay) for a return to Korea an uncertain, but exciting future.

I guess these sound like newbie questions, but going back to Korea with no plan of permanent return to the motherland is entirely new for me.

I appreciate your response.


For the average westerner in Korea, I don't see any future. Not with all of the cutbacks and the flood of yanks coming in. On top of that, all of the racism and ridiculous policies that exclude non-Koreans don't make Korea a viable place to stay in the long-term. I would stick with your job in the west or find something else at home that is fulfilling. You can always visit Korea - you don't need to be IN Korea. You will thank yourself later.

If anything, China is where the future is at. But that is a whole other kettle of raw fish.
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JustinC



Joined: 10 Mar 2012
Location: We Are The World!

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 11:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP I think you're just craving the expat life, not Korea in particular. You could come out here and be in a job for years or it all may get cancelled at the end of the next school year.

Or it could be a midlife crisis.
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Who's Your Daddy?



Joined: 30 May 2010
Location: Victoria, Canada.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I find unposters info solid.

I came here single and saved and worked a lot. Now I am married with kids. The only way I'd be comfortable in retirement is if I worked my ass off, but once you have kids, it becomes almost impossible. Not only will your wife resent your working all the time, you won't see your child much, and you'll be too tired to do it.

I was make over 5 Mil a month for years no problem. After marriage I went up to 6. After the baby came, I couldn't do it, I'm below 4 now. But with kids, that isn't sufficient savings.

Also the excitement of Korea disappears. Initially it is an adventure. Also, at least in my case, I'm tired of teaching. There aren't many other careers here.

Finally. The glass ceiling is low here. After 5 years you can be at the best position in your city. Then where's your aspiration for your life? What can you set yourself as a goal?

So although I've liked living here, you do really hit a wall, both in terms of a career in ESL, and alternative careers.

A little off-topic, but I'd also say the standard of health care here is inferior. Back home you hear of people getting heart bi-passes, here they're just dead. When you get into your 60s you don't want to be in Korea.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess best advice, I'd give anyone is to come over and live very frugally. Pay things down as quickly as possible and start saving. Then focus on having a life, upgrading credentials, jumping to another country, or planning another career home if this all crashes. Point is to have a plan B. So long as EPIK doesn't crash in the next one to two years, I shouldn't get caught with my pants down. But, who knows what's going to happen in 2013? There's talk of a double dip recession in 2013 with the so called US 'fiscal cliff' failings. That means even more young 22 years flooding the market. Anyhow, be prepared....
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No_hite_pls



Joined: 05 Mar 2007
Location: Don't hate me because I'm right

PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who's Your Daddy? wrote:
. The only way I'd be comfortable in retirement is if I worked my ass off, but once you have kids, it becomes almost impossible. Not only will your wife resent your working all the time, you won't see your child much, and you'll be too tired to do it.

I was make over 5 Mil a month for years no problem. After marriage I went up to 6. After the baby came, I couldn't do it, I'm below 4 now. But with kids, that isn't sufficient savings.


I think you are glorifying back home too much. I worked for an engineering firm in the states. My boss had a master's degree with over 20 years experience. He was stilling making under 60,000 USD in a very expensive area.

Life is hard in America too. Don't believe the Hollywood movies. You will have to work your ass off and still may not make it. My father worked 60 + hours a week in the states for thirty years and hated his life.

You right about health care here, I don't want to be here in my old age.
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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you're going to stay long-term, marry a K-girl and start your own hogwan.

There are waygooks in Korea who have become very wealthy off the hogwan biz.

I would not recommend staying in Korea long-term as a worker bee, albeit in a hogwan, public school or uni (most wind up in Uni's).

As the foreigner, you're always going to be on the bottom of the totem pole in any Korean work environment, and you generally won't make much money unless you game your schedule to maximize privates.


Sure, there are a couple exceptions, but they represent the 0.01 percent.

Also, Tompatz said you can be 'middle class.'.

That's sorta true... middle class by Korean terms, but you won't be middle class by western terms.

It would be nearer the truth to say you'll be lower middle class in actual reality.

But, at the end of the day, if you have no options back home, then even if you're just the ESL grunt at some uni, you're still doing better than the call center worker back home in the US.
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