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koreakk



Joined: 08 Mar 2012

PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 5:05 pm    Post subject: Noisy, Korean Neighbor Reply with quote

For the past week, my Korean neighbor has been moving furniture around, talking/laughing loudly, and letting bottles fall on their floor between the hours of 11pm-4am. I live right below this person, so I hear everything. Especially moving the furniture around, as it shakes my whole apartment! It's driving me crazy!

How can I ask this person nicely, in Korean, to keep the noise down?
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 5:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To be honest... Koreans wouldn't normally ask someone to keep the noise down.

They'd bear it for some time. Then, they'd go to the Kyyongbi-Ajjoshi and ask them to do something about it.

Rarely will a Korean go up and confront a neighbour.


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So as to your question - nearly any phrase that you learn, no matter how polite, it may run you afoul of the goal you are trying to achieve.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 5:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

First point to your watch and make sleeping gesture. He should understand body language. If that doesn't work, get your boss or co teacher to call the building owner about the noise. If that don't work, bang on the ceiling and scream out the window "Shut up". If that don't work, scream out your door through the building to shut up. Call 112 and the GPS system will find you. Sometimes people have no common sense and you gotta lay down the law. (But if you go that route, make sure your fighting skills are up to date. I don't suggest using it, but if the guy's a defensive jerk who swings at you because he sees it as his obnoxious right to make a lot of noise, then be prepared. This can happen in the West too, by the way, with college student neighbors or living in a poor rough area.)

Other options are to take the noise or move to a newer and nicer building.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Captain Corea wrote:
To be honest... Koreans wouldn't normally ask someone to keep the noise down.

They'd bear it for some time. Then, they'd go to the Kyyongbi-Ajjoshi and ask them to do something about it.

Rarely will a Korean go up and confront a neighbour.


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So as to your question - nearly any phrase that you learn, no matter how polite, it may run you afoul of the goal you are trying to achieve.


Just to make the point, if it's a cheap old building, you'll have a certain class of people living there and a landlord who won't do much. Hence, my previous post. But, try it as an option.
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fezmond



Joined: 27 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 7:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have two students (I think) who live below me and are playing the guitar 'til 2 am most nights. We ask the landlord to sort it out and it works for a while. However, the gits get brash again and start wailing when they're drunk. To be fair they can play pretty well but it's annoying. We just keep telling the landlord.

Make his/her life hell with complaints and they'll sort it out with the offenders.
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sligo



Joined: 15 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 4:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Turn up the sub woofer, put heavy bass music on playlist, put subwoofder on the floor, go out all night, wait for their complaints, then strike a deal to respect each other.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 6:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sligo wrote:
Turn up the sub woofer, put heavy bass music on playlist, put subwoofder on the floor, go out all night, wait for their complaints, then strike a deal to respect each other.


Maybe, this is the best way to go....
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highstreet



Joined: 13 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 7:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd ask first before resorting to childish tactics. My neighbor asked me to turn my tv down the first week I moved in. I honestly didn't think it was loud, thin walls I suppose.
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PigeonFart



Joined: 27 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Use google images to make a poster showing people making noise....
http://www.hillingdon.gov.uk/media/image/4/5/ASB-TV-man-web.jpg

Then use MS Word to add a big red 'forbidden' circle.

Then write the times 00:00 - 08:00 underneath to imply not making noise during these hours. Place it on his door, or in his letter box.

If you don't know how to make your own poster (using the 'print screen button' and 'crop' function, then just google a similar image).

This is a good first step (and non-confrontational way). Don't write any words (korean or english), just put images. The next step if the noise persists would be the same picture, but then add a sentance. Gradual increments like this can have a good psychological effect. Subtle but effective.
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nautilus



Joined: 26 Nov 2005
Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 9:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

highstreet wrote:
I'd ask first before resorting to childish tactics.


Exactly.

Just ask them to keep it down. Politely. Works wonders. How are they supposed to know otherwise?
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3DR



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 5:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've found talking to the neighbors here does absolutely nothing. There are some girls next to me who I guess work at a bar every night because they come home anywhere from 3-6am, stay up for a few hours (right before I wake up for work), then sleep all day.

I've confronted them many times, told the nightguard, but it still happens. So I just bounce my basketball on the wall, which quiets them down for about 2 days, then they are back at it.

I was tempted to blast my music all day while I'm at work, but I haven't been pissed off that much yet and it could make things worse.
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fustiancorduroy



Joined: 12 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 7:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

3DR wrote:
I've found talking to the neighbors here does absolutely nothing. There are some girls next to me who I guess work at a bar every night because they come home anywhere from 3-6am, stay up for a few hours (right before I wake up for work), then sleep all day.

I've confronted them many times, told the nightguard, but it still happens. So I just bounce my basketball on the wall, which quiets them down for about 2 days, then they are back at it.

I was tempted to blast my music all day while I'm at work, but I haven't been pissed off that much yet and it could make things worse.


I'm just curious how most people on here speak to their neighbors. Do you guys just speak English and hope they will understand or do you actually know enough Korean to explain your concerns?

Regarding noise, I'm fortunate that:

A) My apartment has good sound insulation (I've never been able to hear other people talking in the apartments around mine. The most I've heard is the muffled sounds of running by the child who lives in the apartment above mine during the day when I'm sitting in silence. I also have two sets of windows with double-pane glass throughout, keeping the sounds from the outside from coming in.)
B) My neighbors are older, mature, reasonably well-off and responsible (All the other tenants in my building are middle-class couples with children.)

So I don't have too many issues with noise.
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Unibrow



Joined: 20 Aug 2012

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 8:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's not really my neighbors but how the hell do I get the apple truck guy to avoid my apartment?
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joeteacher



Joined: 11 Jul 2007

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 8:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unibrow wrote:
It's not really my neighbors but how the hell do I get the apple truck guy to avoid my apartment?


I'd like to know too. This is by far my biggest pet peeve about living in Korea. The apple guy comes later but I've got a fish guy that starts before 7am. He wakes me up every morning (weekends, Christmas), I've wished for horrible things to happen to him.


Regarding OP..What did you end up doing?
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3DR



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 10:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fustiancorduroy wrote:
3DR wrote:
I've found talking to the neighbors here does absolutely nothing. There are some girls next to me who I guess work at a bar every night because they come home anywhere from 3-6am, stay up for a few hours (right before I wake up for work), then sleep all day.

I've confronted them many times, told the nightguard, but it still happens. So I just bounce my basketball on the wall, which quiets them down for about 2 days, then they are back at it.

I was tempted to blast my music all day while I'm at work, but I haven't been pissed off that much yet and it could make things worse.


I'm just curious how most people on here speak to their neighbors. Do you guys just speak English and hope they will understand or do you actually know enough Korean to explain your concerns?

Regarding noise, I'm fortunate that:

A) My apartment has good sound insulation (I've never been able to hear other people talking in the apartments around mine. The most I've heard is the muffled sounds of running by the child who lives in the apartment above mine during the day when I'm sitting in silence. I also have two sets of windows with double-pane glass throughout, keeping the sounds from the outside from coming in.)
B) My neighbors are older, mature, reasonably well-off and responsible (All the other tenants in my building are middle-class couples with children.)

So I don't have too many issues with noise.


No I know enough Korean to explain politely what the problem is.
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