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toby99
Joined: 28 Aug 2009 Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Apr 30, 2013 1:53 pm Post subject: |
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| AsiaESLbound wrote: |
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| augustine wrote: |
| Died By Bear wrote: |
| Don't sell your car numb nuts, you're going to need it when you get back home penniless because someone shafted you on your hogwan pay. |
What are you doing, dude? You're 40 and begging for any hagwon job available? Do yourself a favor and get a real job, whatever it takes, in your home country. Don't create a future setback for yourself unless you're qualified. I don't understand this attitude. |
lol. This is right on the money. You must be in really rough shape if you're praying the gods to get a job out in buttram Jeollanamdo for the equivalent of 1800 bucks a month and a shoebox apt. Pull it together, dude. |
Of course. We all were in need of a job before taking one since you don't just automatically have money in the bank unless inheriting something. 1800 bucks a month with full benefits is nothing to be ashamed of nor criticize. It's nearly impossible in the Midwest these days to get that and then affordable rooms aren't available anywhere in the states to allow mobility. Since many of you discourage more people coming to Korea, you guys just aren't happy with what you signed up for over there or are trying to protect your interests in that job market for you know you'd be lucky to get a part time $8 an hour gig back home. You also won't make the market any better for yourselves through discouraging people from coming to Korea since university career services all across the land educate so many grads on doing ESL as a more interesting and rewarding choice over a low paying job that offers too little to even afford minimally living in the states without roommates. ESL may not be good as a long term career, but you can't focus on long term if you don't have your bases covered from now through next year. If you stay unemployed and refuse to take risks, you will never rise out of a funk nor enjoy life in any meaningful capacity as it was meant to be.
If you find yourself unhappy as responses and attitudes of many foreigners in Korea indicate, go home and get a job as you told me to do or try another country. There's nothing wrong or shameful about wanting a hogwan job and wishing to leave the USA as our ancestors left Europe for it was crap 200 years ago. This is not a high flying market for white collar careers so accept what you can get. |
There's nothing wrong with the entry level ESL job for a fresh college grad or 20-something, but if you're in your 40's and 50's and still struggling to get that same entry level position, you should take a careful look at your life plans.
There are plenty of ESL jobs in Korea and elsewhere that pay much, much more than 1.8. It might be a good idea to aim for those, no? Do you have any ESL experience? A master's degree? What have you been doing with yourself for the past dozen years? |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Tue Apr 30, 2013 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Dodge7 wrote: |
| wow OP you are pretty desperate to come over here and be laughed at and have "HELLOs!" hurled your way by little boys and girls in and around town. |
Alpha problems. |
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toby99
Joined: 28 Aug 2009 Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Apr 30, 2013 2:46 pm Post subject: |
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Well, if you've tried you best for over half a year and haven't gotten anything, and you don't have a problem starting at the bottom of the barrel at 40, then you probably should sell your car and fly over. It would be easier to get a job on the ground.
For something less drastic, have you thought about applying for a personal loan? You might aim for $4000-$5000 and then plan on living off that until you find something. That should last you at least 2-3 weeks, longer if you don't blow it partying. If you can't find anything on the ground in that time, you are probably screwed.
edit: Remember to get a fresh FBI background check and everything before coming, as your old one will be expired here. Apply yesterday. |
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Threequalseven
Joined: 08 May 2012
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Posted: Tue Apr 30, 2013 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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I don't know what planet people like Dodge7, augustine, and toby99 are living on.
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Seriously? Where is this magical land of readily available $40,000+ jobs back home? These comments sound like they're from privileged, suburban, trust-fund college freshmen who have no clue how the real world works. From my experience back in the USA (where I'm assuming the OP is from), people are struggling to even get a job at Subway, let alone a "real job." Did you folks even go to college? Is poverty in America just a coincidence to you? Declining real wages, rising inequality, job outsourcing by the millions... These things mean nothing?
I was actually applauding this guy's decision to return to Korea, something few people would do at his age, as a way to make it through this ass-backwards economy. I'm shocked at some of these people's reactions. |
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Dodge7
Joined: 21 Oct 2011
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Posted: Tue Apr 30, 2013 11:01 pm Post subject: |
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| crescent wrote: |
| Dodge7 wrote: |
| wow OP you are pretty desperate to come over here and be laughed at and have "HELLOs!" hurled your way by little boys and girls in and around town. |
Alpha problems. |
you are right I am Alpha Dog around my area. When kids do it they never do it again because I grab them up by their shirt around their necks and get the point. |
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young_clinton
Joined: 09 Sep 2009
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 12:30 am Post subject: |
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| Dodge7 wrote: |
| have "HELLOs!" hurled your way by little boys and girls in and around town. |
So you don't want the boys and girls to say Hello to you? 
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newb
Joined: 27 Aug 2012 Location: Korea
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 12:34 am Post subject: |
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ESL jobs must be losers' job since lots of ESLers are ragging on it.
Op do as you please. You should be mature enough to make a decision on your own. |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 4:21 am Post subject: |
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| Dodge7 wrote: |
| crescent wrote: |
| Dodge7 wrote: |
| wow OP you are pretty desperate to come over here and be laughed at and have "HELLOs!" hurled your way by little boys and girls in and around town. |
Alpha problems. |
you are right I am Alpha Dog around my area. When kids do it they never do it again because I grab them up by their shirt around their necks and get the point. |
Hey, as long as you believe it.
Hah, the image of a grown man in his thirties, chasing down and roughing up little kids is certainly a great one. That is if you can actually catch em! Oh, that H bomb!
Sorry for the highjack! Couldn't resist. On with the thread! |
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toby99
Joined: 28 Aug 2009 Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 5:52 am Post subject: |
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It's got nothing to do with the fact it's an ESL gig. It's the fact that the dude is within stone's throw of retirement and strongly considering selling what I presume is his only possession to fly over and *try* to get a job that he has no guarantee of getting.
He's been applying online for six months and came up empty; what if he falls on his face here? I'd like to think he would have an easier time on the ground, but, as another poster mentioned, it sounds like there's more going on here with this guy's background than just age (because 40 really ain't that old- I know plenty of teachers in their 40s, 50s, and even a few 60s here).
The sooner he becomes honest with himself about the skeletons in his closet- whatever they may be- the better for himself. I wish him well.
edit: And the fact that he's looking for an entry level job at his age isn't anything to laugh about; I know the economy is tough. Still, I have to think there are better options: the job pays, what, $24K a year (at best) with benefits? The average starting salary in the states for a fresh college grad, at least from reputable schools, is over $30K. I know with housing, no car/insurance payments the ESL gig is nice, but I've gotta wonder why he can't find anything that pays a bit better at his stage in life. Assuming he graduated college at 22, he's had 18 years of life experience since then. Has he done anything to better himself during that time? |
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Threequalseven
Joined: 08 May 2012
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 7:55 am Post subject: |
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| The average starting salary in the states for a fresh college grad, at least from reputable schools, is over $30K. I know with housing, no car/insurance payments the ESL gig is nice, but I've gotta wonder why he can't find anything that pays a bit better at his stage in life. |
That $30,000 figure seems like something out of yesteryear. I have to think that all the medical, law, and business students throw the curve a bit... especially in big cities like New York, San Fran, and so on. With the exception of one of my friends who got a free ride and free housing throughout uni, the college grad I know with the best job is making $17/hour as a graphic designer. And, he only got his 2-year degree. I remember being back home joking with other graduates, who earned respectable degrees, about the false promise of $30k/year. If you wonder why he can't find anything that pays better at his age, then you've successfully detached yourself from the majority of Americans. Even my parents are looking for better work, and neither of them are making over $30k/year.
Anyway, I wouldn't say 40 is a stone's throw away from retirement. 50 perhaps. But at 40, you still have about 25 years of work left in ya, and tossing $1,000 each month toward retirement by working here probably doesn't sound that bad. That's why I see no reason to bash this guy. The only advice I could give is if he does have a few years experience, he could possibly find even better work in China... or at least something less cookie-cutter. Also, if you're smart about it, there are always other ways to make money while you're here.
That said, I still don't see the point in ruthlessly attacking this guy. I've worked with some fellas well older than him at a pizza shop back home, and they had no hope of retirement. So this guy's in relatively good shape from what I can tell.
P.S. I'm from the Midwest, too. I know what I'm talking about. Sometimes you're just from the Midwest. |
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bucheon bum
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 8:30 am Post subject: |
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| Threequalseven wrote: |
| toby99 wrote: |
| The average starting salary in the states for a fresh college grad, at least from reputable schools, is over $30K. I know with housing, no car/insurance payments the ESL gig is nice, but I've gotta wonder why he can't find anything that pays a bit better at his stage in life. |
That $30,000 figure seems like something out of yesteryear. I have to think that all the medical, law, and business students throw the curve a bit... especially in big cities like New York, San Fran, and so on. With the exception of one of my friends who got a free ride and free housing throughout uni, the college grad I know with the best job is making $17/hour as a graphic designer. And, he only got his 2-year degree. I remember being back home joking with other graduates, who earned respectable degrees, about the false promise of $30k/year. If you wonder why he can't find anything that pays better at his age, then you've successfully detached yourself from the majority of Americans. Even my parents are looking for better work, and neither of them are making over $30k/year.
Anyway, I wouldn't say 40 is a stone's throw away from retirement. 50 perhaps. But at 40, you still have about 25 years of work left in ya, and tossing $1,000 each month toward retirement by working here probably doesn't sound that bad. That's why I see no reason to bash this guy. The only advice I could give is if he does have a few years experience, he could possibly find even better work in China... or at least something less cookie-cutter. Also, if you're smart about it, there are always other ways to make money while you're here.
That said, I still don't see the point in ruthlessly attacking this guy. I've worked with some fellas well older than him at a pizza shop back home, and they had no hope of retirement. So this guy's in relatively good shape from what I can tell.
P.S. I'm from the Midwest, too. I know what I'm talking about. Sometimes you're just from the Midwest. |
While I agree with your general point, I think you might be going a little overboard. It's pretty easy to get a job paying $14.40/hour or more (which is what $30K/year breaks down to) if you have some job experience and a degree. Hell, in some places that's the starting wage at wal-mart. A friend's sister just started there in w. texas making about that much. Of course getting a full 40 hours/week and benefits is another story... Retail chains are masters of giving employees 30-38 hours each week and not giving them benefits.
And of course $30K in many places in the States won't go very far. I'd take a hogwon salary over $30K anyday in most large metro areas in the US. |
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toby99
Joined: 28 Aug 2009 Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea
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Posted: Wed May 01, 2013 10:09 am Post subject: |
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The 30K referenced earlier is actually well below the average pay, at least in the States. Sometimes, the problem isn't "the economy", it's you. And I guess I hang in different circles than some of you. All my friends back home from college are homeowners, make in the high five-figures to six figures, and are enjoying life. But, anyway, here's the 2013 data:
"The typical salary ranges from $36,988 for humanities and social sciences graduates to $61,913 for those who emerged with an engineering degree.
Computer science majors were a close second to their engineering classmates with an average salary of $59,221. "
http://money.cnn.com/2013/01/10/pf/college/graduate-salaries/index.html |
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AsiaESLbound
Joined: 07 Jan 2010 Location: Truck Stop Missouri
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 3:03 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for the interesting responses, debate, and discussion for I wanted to see what you guys had to say since there's no one in my small Missouri town I can talk with since they don't know anything about what I need to know more about. To fill you in, I went to rural Missouri last year to be with my mom during her last days which was a chapter I finished a couple months ago so it's time to move on and put myself out in the world instead of bumming around in hickville where I could never fit in, be accepted, enjoy myself, and be adequately employed as they know right off the bat I'm not one of them and the economy is horribly limited.
I'm still here helping a very sick disabled old friend get around where there's no transit to hopefully get him on social security benefits and find him and his wife livable affordable housing in Columbia, MO where there's much better everything. I'm boarding with them in an extra room and need to finish getting them moved and re-set up before I can move on to Korea or on one of our coastal areas where it's all happening. I know I have to take risks just as before and then rough it for a while in working to re-establish.
I don't have any skeletons other than bad credit due to lack of income in past year though I fear that can restrict access to employment and housing in the US. Just like times before, it's time to take risks in making a move, rough it out, and move forward while exploring as many options as possible in a metro with strong industry, plenty of survival jobs, good transit, and affordable rooming. |
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toby99
Joined: 28 Aug 2009 Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 4:59 am Post subject: |
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Sounds like you have the right attitude and perspective. If you're really hard up for cash and want to get started ASAP, I'd sell your car and move to China. You'd probably have an easier time getting a job online.
Do a year in China, get some basic financial footing, then jump over to Korea. |
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World Traveler
Joined: 29 May 2009
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Posted: Thu May 02, 2013 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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| "The typical salary ranges from $36,988 for humanities and social sciences graduates to $61,913 for those who emerged with an engineering degree. |
And those are first year starting salaries. Each year raises make the amount of money earned go up.
http://education-portal.com/articles/How_Much_More_Do_College_Graduates_Earn_Than_Non-College_Graduates.html
Typical salary for a male (for white males it is even higher) whose highest level of educational attainment is a high school diploma: roughly 40k per year. For a male who finished college: slightly over 65k per year. |
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