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edwardcatflap



Joined: 22 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Tue Apr 30, 2013 9:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wonder how easy it'd be to get a job in Korea with a degree in 'Fat Studies.' Laughing
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No_hite_pls



Joined: 05 Mar 2007
Location: Don't hate me because I'm right

PostPosted: Tue May 07, 2013 11:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

edwardcatflap wrote:
I wonder how easy it'd be to get a job in Korea with a degree in 'Fat Studies.' Laughing


Laughing
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sparkles98356



Joined: 19 Feb 2013

PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 2:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I haven't even read the entire thread, but after reading the replies on the first page I just can't help myself. What is wrong with guys on this forum? Admittedly I've only been here just shy of two months, but I have seen PLENTY of western women who are not overweight, never mind obese. I am one of 4 foreign females working at my school and only one could be called even slightly chubby. I've seen more than enough overweight foreign men and I also see plenty of fat Korean people (both male and female).

I'm 5'10 and weigh between 130 and 135 lbs. I wear a UK size 8 (I think that's a US size 4) and fit Korean ladies free size just fine (obviously the length can be a problem, but that's another subject).

You guys must be blind if you seriously think the vast majority of western females here are overweight or obese. I have friends who have been here much longer than me and none of them are anything bigger than a UK size 12, which I think is a US size 8. Even if they were larger, what's the big issue?

OP, you'll probably be fine. As I said, I've seen plenty of overweight foreign men here and they obviously managed to get a job.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 7:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sparkles98356 wrote:
Admittedly I've only been here just shy of two months




sparkles98356 wrote:
You guys must be blind if you seriously think the vast majority of western females here are overweight or obese.


lol, newbs are annoying. You've been here for 2 freaking months. Many of us have been here 3, 4, 5 years or longer. We know what we're talking about.

Western women here are fat sloppy pigs compared to 90% of Korean women. Facts and facts.
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toby99



Joined: 28 Aug 2009
Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea

PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 12:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think the 'overweight western woman' thing is mostly a canard. Foreigners stand out. If I see a western woman walking around some random town, I'll notice immediately if she's packing pounds. I'll remember them more. Just how it is.

I've met a good number of decent-looking western dames here (though not many 'stunners'). But the heavy-set folks stand out in the mind, guys and gals. I feel bad for them and a little embarrassed about their lack of personal care and self-respect.

My Korean gf is a bit on the heavy side compared to her countrymen, but I like curves. Great dinner dumper that you don't often see on Koreans, and a nice rack. So not every waygook is opposed to curves. I like the combo of the Korean personality plus western curves, hence my selection. Another fella in my building dates only white cancuks. Won't get tangled up with a Korean belle ever again. Different strokes for different folks.

Many dudes hate the strong personalities of western women but like the curves.
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Reset



Joined: 06 Jul 2011
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 1:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've seen

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toby99



Joined: 28 Aug 2009
Location: Dong-Incheon-by-the-sea, South Korea

PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 2:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Reset wrote:
I've seen far more overweight white men here than women.
Rarely do I see a foreign male that is the least bit attractive.
Most white guys in Korea fail to put any effort into how they look/dress here in Korea....


Damn. Hope you like Korean dudes.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2013 6:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge7 wrote:
Western women here are fat sloppy pigs compared to 90% of Korean women. Facts and facts.



" I've seen horrors...horrors that you've seen. But you have no right to call them fat slippy sloppers. You have a right to free speech. You have a right to do that...But you have no right to judge fatties.

It's impossible for words to describe what is necessary to those who do not know what horror means.

Fat. Fat has a face...And you must make a friend of fat. Fat and moral terror are your friends. If they are not then they are enemies to be feared. They are truly enemies. I remember when I was with Special Fat burners...Seems a thousand centuries ago...We went into a fat camp to help the 'problem' obese children.

We left the camp after we had run them the children a few hundred yards , and this old man came running after us and he was crying. He couldn't see. We went back there and they had come and given off every kid a milky way. There they were in a pile...A pile of little fat kids eating candy bars. And I remember...I...I...I cried...


I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want
to forget. And then I realized...like I was shot...Like I was shot with a diamond...a diamond bullet right through my forehead...And I thought:


My God...the genius of that. The genius. The will to do that. Perfect, genuine, complete, crystalline, pure. And then I realized they were
stronger than we. Because they could stand that these were not little fatty kids...These were men...trained cadres...these men who ate slovenly with
their hearts, who had families, who had fat parents, who were filled with love...but they had the strength...the strength...to do that. If I had ten
divisions of those kids our troubles in Korea would be over very quickly. You have to have kids who are moral...and at the same time who are able to utilize their primordal instincts to eat without feeling...without passion...without judgement...without judgement. Because it's judgement that defeats us. "
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augustine



Joined: 08 Sep 2012
Location: México

PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2013 7:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ms. Sparkles, this site is mostly a 'good old boys' hub for older gentlemen who are somewhat deficient at using/understanding the internet in its entirety.

That being said, your two months of observational experience means absolutely nothing. There are a lot of dorky dudes in Korea, that's for sure. But, men are more prone to be willing to travel and take on new experiences abroad. If you're an attractive, white western girl, there's very little incentive for you to uproot yourself from the large, potential bidders of male providers. That's just the way it is.

However, no homo, I'm surprised by the amount of decent looking western guys I see with unattractive Korean women. I never stray far from Itaewon and that's where I live, but it's still surprising, since you often hear a lot about how guys stay here for the women. Personally speaking though, I don't think I can ever go back to dating white women. Say what you will about that.
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salutbonjour



Joined: 22 Jan 2013

PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2013 3:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

augustine wrote:
However, no homo, I'm surprised by the amount of decent looking western guys I see with unattractive Korean women.


That's because a certain type of Korean women is pretty unnatractive to Koreans, yet pretty okay in the West (slightly bigger face, slightly smaller eyes). They can either settle for lower class Korean, a western superstar English teacher or get 30k worth of surgery. The second option is easy enough.

Actually I tend to rarely see obese people, then I go to Itaewon and it chock full of lardies. Though there seems to be more lardy women than men, both fully deserve our condescension.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2013 3:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

salutbonjour wrote:
augustine wrote:
However, no homo, I'm surprised by the amount of decent looking western guys I see with unattractive Korean women.


That's because a certain type of Korean women is pretty unnatractive to Koreans, yet pretty okay in the West (slightly bigger face, slightly smaller eyes). They can either settle for lower class Korean, a western superstar English teacher or get 30k worth of surgery. The second option is easy enough.

Actually I tend to rarely see obese people, then I go to Itaewon and it chock full of lardies. Though there seems to be more lardy women than men, both fully deserve our condescension.

That made me lol
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midnightpariah



Joined: 15 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2013 7:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodge7 wrote:
sparkles98356 wrote:
Admittedly I've only been here just shy of two months




sparkles98356 wrote:
You guys must be blind if you seriously think the vast majority of western females here are overweight or obese.


lol, newbs are annoying. You've been here for 2 freaking months. Many of us have been here 3, 4, 5 years or longer. We know what we're talking about.

Western women here are fat sloppy pigs compared to 90% of Korean women. Facts and facts.


Christ you're rude. Is it because western women won't date you?
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Bariko



Joined: 21 Aug 2012

PostPosted: Tue May 14, 2013 1:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jumping back on the original topic for a minute. OP, you'll take some crap. Kids will call you fat and "Teacher Pig". Thick skin is super useful, and if your kids are good, they don't want to be malicious and will stop if they know it's upsetting. If your kids are bastards... that's a different situation.

I'm a big guy. Hovered around 180 lbs (5'10 or so) until I did my first stint of ESL in China, when I bumped up to around 240 or 250 lbs due to constant restaurants and drinking. I've since bounced between those two (thanks in large part to my sister who I watched drop like 50 lbs with sheer will), but I'm at the higher end of that range now and I admit my biggest problem is definitely my diet. I've gotta learn how to eat healthy in Korea.

On the plus side, my school offers to pay for any teacher's gym membership, so I have no excuses anymore!
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Tue May 14, 2013 3:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

midnightpariah wrote:
Dodge7 wrote:
sparkles98356 wrote:
Admittedly I've only been here just shy of two months




sparkles98356 wrote:
You guys must be blind if you seriously think the vast majority of western females here are overweight or obese.


lol, newbs are annoying. You've been here for 2 freaking months. Many of us have been here 3, 4, 5 years or longer. We know what we're talking about.

Western women here are fat sloppy pigs compared to 90% of Korean women. Facts and facts.


Christ you're rude. Is it because western women won't date you?

I'm married. And why would I have bothered to date any western fattie when there were more thinner and attractive Korean women around?
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edwardcatflap



Joined: 22 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Tue May 14, 2013 4:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I'm married. And why would I have bothered to date any western fattie when there were more thinner and attractive Korean women around?


Dodge, I have to side with the women on this one. Your attitude really does suggest you were knocked back a few times in the States and still have a chip on your shoulder about it. Ladies can be wonderful people and company no matter how they look. If you don't find some of them physically attractive fair enough. If they come onto you, let them down gently, otherwise there's no need to bring the subject up.
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