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sligo
Joined: 15 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 1:08 am Post subject: why dont Koreans like the window seat? |
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I just got on a bus and the only available seats are next to the window. Whatismore when one tries to take a window seat the aisle occupant merely moves their leg a short distance and expects you to squeeze past. Why not move over to the window, or stand up so the other person can get by? Squeezing through a 20cm gap is most indignant. |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 1:14 am Post subject: |
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I think it could be a few factors...
-ppl know that getting past someone can be a pain, so they pick the isle seat.
-the window seat can get sort of hot from the sun. I know on really sunny days, the old folks all fill up the shady side of the bus first.
-you're worrying too much about other people. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 1:18 am Post subject: Re: why dont Koreans like the window seat? |
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sligo wrote: |
I just got on a bus and the only available seats are next to the window. Whatismore when one tries to take a window seat the aisle occupant merely moves their leg a short distance and expects you to squeeze past. Why not move over to the window, or stand up so the other person can get by? Squeezing through a 20cm gap is most indignant. |
They do not want you to sit by them. |
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transmogrifier
Joined: 02 Jan 2012 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 1:30 am Post subject: |
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I like the aisle seat so I can get out easily when my stop arrives, rather than clambering over someone else. Same for an airplane - I always request an aisle seat. |
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Nolos
Joined: 23 Oct 2011
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 2:00 am Post subject: |
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Yeah it's because they don't want anyone to sit next to them. It is a passive-aggressive move, and also it makes it easier for them to get up and leave when it's their turn to get off. I know I do it now and no one dares step over my legs to sit next to me  |
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optik404

Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 3:39 am Post subject: |
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So you don't like sitting next to the window but you expect other people to like it? |
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Nolos
Joined: 23 Oct 2011
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 4:04 am Post subject: |
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optik404 wrote: |
So you don't like sitting next to the window but you expect other people to like it? |
Actually I prefer the window and I do sit by the window when they bus isn't that full. But when the seats start filling up I move to aisle. |
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maximmm
Joined: 01 Feb 2008
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 10:36 am Post subject: |
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We need some apologists in these recent threads, because it seems that the number of 'why do Koreans .....?' threads is going out of control. |
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tatertot

Joined: 21 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Jun 15, 2013 9:12 pm Post subject: |
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It's not a Korean thing, it's just a bus-rider thing. I'm back in Seattle, and lots of people are doing it here, too. I think there are two reasons people sit in the aisle seat rather than the window seat:
1) So that people won't sit next to them. It is more inconvenient to squeeze by somebody than to just sit in an empty aisle seat, so sitting in the aisle seat makes it more likely that you will have an empty seat next to you for the duration of your trip.
2) As others have said, it is easier to exit the bus from an aisle seat, as well.
I find this behavior obnoxious, so I often specifically sit next to these people (squeezing by the aisle-seater and getting the window seat for myself) rather than sitting in an easy aisle seat in order to "pay back" some small inconvenience to them. |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Sun Jun 16, 2013 12:03 am Post subject: |
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All the local buses in my town have single seats down either side, sometimes with lots of standees. I note a nice consistent etiquette of surrendering seats to elders or parents with young children. Its a very polite environment.
A few of these buses have double seats at the back. I've never seen anyone refuse a seatmate. I've never noticed Koreans reluctant to sit next to me.
Many Koreans given the choice dont like to sit next to a sunny window.
Intercity & express buses assign seat numbers.
Squeezing past an aisle passenger to a window seat shouldnt be a big deal, unless you are big.
I like Korean bus culture. I ride them daily. They run on time & are cheap & user-friendly. |
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Ginormousaurus

Joined: 27 Jul 2006 Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit
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Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 9:47 am Post subject: |
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It's almost as if the OP had never ridden a bus before going to Korea. |
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le-paul

Joined: 07 Apr 2009 Location: dans la chambre
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Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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schwa wrote: |
All the local buses in my town have single seats down either side, sometimes with lots of standees. I note a nice consistent etiquette of surrendering seats to elders or parents with young children. Its a very polite environment.
A few of these buses have double seats at the back. I've never seen anyone refuse a seatmate. I've never noticed Koreans reluctant to sit next to me.
Many Koreans given the choice dont like to sit next to a sunny window.
Intercity & express buses assign seat numbers.
Squeezing past an aisle passenger to a window seat shouldnt be a big deal, unless you are big.
I like Korean bus culture. I ride them daily. They run on time & are cheap & user-friendly. |
that seems to be the exact opposite to my experiences.
Ive been fixing my bike for the past 3 weeks so ive been riding the bus. id say the bus hasnt been on time once. Some days its 25 minutes late. When i get on, i usually have the seat next to me to myself until every other seat has been filled. On the intercity buses no one cares if they get the aisle or window because as soon as they get on, they close the curtains so they can kakao talk for 1 hour. You are probably right about the sun thing. |
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atwood
Joined: 26 Dec 2009
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Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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schwa wrote: |
All the local buses in my town have single seats down either side, sometimes with lots of standees. I note a nice consistent etiquette of surrendering seats to elders or parents with young children. Its a very polite environment.
A few of these buses have double seats at the back. I've never seen anyone refuse a seatmate. I've never noticed Koreans reluctant to sit next to me.
Many Koreans given the choice dont like to sit next to a sunny window.
Intercity & express buses assign seat numbers.
Squeezing past an aisle passenger to a window seat shouldnt be a big deal, unless you are big.
I like Korean bus culture. I ride them daily. They run on time & are cheap & user-friendly. |
Where is "my town"? It sounds nice, unlike where I live in Korea. |
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Threequalseven
Joined: 08 May 2012
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Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 12:55 am Post subject: |
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Nolos wrote: |
optik404 wrote: |
So you don't like sitting next to the window but you expect other people to like it? |
Actually I prefer the window and I do sit by the window when they bus isn't that full. But when the seats start filling up I move to aisle. |
That's kind of a d--- move, don't you think? Are people supposed to stand when there are still empty seats available? In my hometown back in the states, myself and others would do the exact opposite. If someone was sat in the aisle seat, they'd move over once the bus started to fill up... unless of course their stop was coming up. I understand that Korea is different though, and people here are supposed to disregard others as much as possible. |
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optik404

Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 1:39 am Post subject: |
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Why is it a dick move to sit on the aisle seat? Have you seen how the bus drivers drive. Every time I'm in the window seat that has the tire bump, I feel like I'm going to end up falling on the person next to me when I get up. |
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