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ja2dared
Joined: 24 Nov 2011 Location: United States
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 7:01 am Post subject: Fired for PREGNANCY!? |
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Hey all,
I need some help from you legal experts out there(or anyone that might of gone through this before)
I have 2 friends(married) that are coming up on their 6 month mark on teaching here in Korea. They found out a couple of months ago that they were expecting their first baby(due in late January)one month before the end of their contract. The school seemed to have no problem with the situation until last week when they said that they would both be let go at the end of the month.
Reasons given:
1. Being pregnant makes the school look bad(Don't understand that one at all)
2. She would not have the energy to teach and interact with the children that she has now(understand a little bit.. but still stupid reasoning)
Questions:
1. Is this legal? Nowhere in the contract does it say pregnancy is not allowed, but the school is saying that it makes them look bad(which is in the contract)
2. What course of action should be taken?
3. Even if the wife does get fired, and for some weird reason it is legal, would it be legal to fire the husband too? He's still able and willing to work, and would like to stay here through the completion of the contract.
Any help would be appreciated! |
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War Eagle
Joined: 15 Feb 2009
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 8:27 am Post subject: |
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It's illegal to fire someone because they are pregnant. But, really, what are they going to do? Stay in the country without pay while they hire a lawyer to fight for their right to stay and work for 2.(something) a month? In the meantime pay for rent, utilities, etc. My guess would be if they recently came to Korea for work, chances are they don't have that kind of money saved to stay and fight it.
Besides, who would want to work for a hagwon that doesn't want you there? It's bad enough when they DO want you.
Cut their losses and go home I say. Sorry, not trying to be an ass, just realistic.
They have my sympathy though. The situation sucks. |
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YTMND
Joined: 16 Jan 2012 Location: You're the man now dog!!
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 8:41 am Post subject: |
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If a husband and wife can make more money at home then I would go home. If they can afford having one person work while they other stays home, that's an option.
Do they think the husband will be finished before the wife has "the final solution"? The 3 could come back to Korea, and if that wasn't part of the plan, then going back home may not be a bad headstart.
You really need to ask these 2 what they want. Do they want to stay in Korea with a baby or go back home after it is born? |
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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beentheredonethat777
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: AsiaHaven
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 3:05 pm Post subject: Re: Fired for PREGNANCY!? |
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Questions:
1. Is this legal? Nowhere in the contract does it say pregnancy is not allowed, but the school is saying that it makes them look bad(which is in the contract) |
^^. For some inexplicable reason, many schools carry the mindset that a foreign teacher should not become pregnant while employed at/by their school. Is this legal? Yes. Before the sixth month mark, you can be fired /let go with or without a reason/for any reason without any repercussions. The law says they must tell you at least 30 days in advance/or give 30 days of pay instead. Since notification was given, and is within the time frame, I think
its legal.
Actually, they could use ANY excuse they want to let them go. Schools want able-bodied, healthy, disease free, foreigners who can give 100% at all times. They are looking ahead to the future. Maternity leave, prenatal doctor visits. spousal leave, etc. etc. and the list goes on. Since my stay in Korea I have heard of about seven women who were terminated by public/private schools for becoming pregnant. Yes, they were married and had worked for the schools a while and had good relationships with their bosses. I also know of one girl who was single, pregnant, and told her students and DIDN'T get fired and was allowed to finish her contract. But she only had two months left on it. (NONE of these cases were in recent years, so I can't actually refer you to these individuals for personal replies.)
By the way, some contracts used to state that becoming pregnant makes the contract NULL and VOID.
2. What course of action should be taken?
^^.
There is no COURSE of action. Except to try to find a another school to work at and do not under ANY circumstance, reveal a pregnancy. Conceal the matter and wear loose fitting clothes. I remember someone sharing this advice a few years ago on this forum. Never tell anyone, especially a co-teacher you are pregnant. Wait until your water breaks!
3. Even if the wife does get fired, and for some weird reason it is legal, would it be legal to fire the husband too? He's still able and willing to work, and would like to stay here through the completion of the contract.
^^. Another, yet sad, reality in the Korean workplace. Yes, it's legal and to save face, it would just be better to get rid of both the "guilty" parties. That way, no one will have to give an account/avoid the unpleasantness of firing one's spouse and looking at the other one every day.
This is a classic example of why I always recommend couples to work at different schools.
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Any help would be appreciated! |
The only help I could have given was do not TELL ANYONE, but of course it's a little too late for that advice. Sorry.
For all women please [/quote]read: NEVER reveal a pregnancy until the baby's about to come forth. You will more than likely get FIRED! There are several threads on other ESL forums about this matter. It's been a while since I have read about it here though. Remember, this is KOREA.
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 4:49 pm Post subject: Re: Fired for PREGNANCY!? |
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beentheredonethat777 wrote: |
For all women please read: NEVER reveal a pregnancy until the baby's about to come forth. You will more than likely get FIRED! There are several threads on other ESL forums about this matter. It's been a while since I have read about it here though. Remember, this is KOREA. |
Someone needs to tell this caveman what women's stomachs look like when they're pregnant. What do you suggest she say to everyone when she has a giant hump in her stomach? Once again the MEN of Dave's telling the women how to act in an ignorant manner.  |
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sirius black
Joined: 04 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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If this was in the west, I'd lead the march on the school. The school's point of view isn't a shock. If it happened to a Korean teacher, one, there are laws against it and two, its normal for a married Korean woman to have a baby while on the job.
I'd love it if the pregnant foreign teacher could stay. Its messed up actually. I think the school should have been more accommodating but we know what Korea is like for foreign teachers. The schools worry (often overly so) about their reputation. Foreigners have a bad reputation socially. Drunks. Petty criminals. Party animals, etc.
Getting pregnant is a huge risk to take. It may have been accidental but the school's reaction isn't surprising. Plus, what if there are complications with the pregnancy? Missed days, etc. The answer 'treat her as you would a female Korean teacher' is right in theory but not in practice because we're not seen the same.
The lesson is NOT to give schools a reason. Sometimes impossible depending on the situation (unavoidable medical condition, etc.) but mostly its avoidable. Pregnancy is one such thing that is avoidable. Again, accidental pregnancies can happen and this may be the case. I know I sound unsympathetic. I'm not. I just think its naïve to expect flowers and congrats from the school (I'm being sarcastic) them being neutral at best about the situation.
I've known one pregnant person in my time here and another from a rumor. Both told their school when they were starting to show and decided to go back.
Some of us expect the same rights, etiquette, etc. as back home and forget we are NOT back home and we are NOT citizens. I doubt many Koreans would take a sympathetic view. Some may even view it along the lines as when immigrants come to our countries and get pregnant. NOT saying its the same, I am saying its possible to viewed that way generally by Koreans.
Best of luck to the OPs friends. |
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sirius black
Joined: 04 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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If this was in the west, I'd lead the march on the school. The school's point of view isn't a shock. If it happened to a Korean teacher, one, there are laws against it and two, its normal for a married Korean woman to have a baby while on the job.
I'd love it if the pregnant foreign teacher could stay. Its messed up actually. I think the school should have been more accommodating but we know what Korea is like for foreign teachers. The schools worry (often overly so) about their reputation. Foreigners have a bad reputation socially. Drunks. Petty criminals. Party animals, etc.
Getting pregnant is a huge risk to take. It may have been accidental but the school's reaction isn't surprising. Plus, what if there are complications with the pregnancy? Missed days, etc. The answer 'treat her as you would a female Korean teacher' is right in theory but not in practice because we're not seen the same.
The lesson is NOT to give schools a reason. Sometimes impossible depending on the situation (unavoidable medical condition, etc.) but mostly its avoidable. Pregnancy is one such thing that is avoidable. Again, accidental pregnancies can happen and this may be the case. I know I sound unsympathetic. I'm not. I just think its naïve to expect flowers and congrats from the school (I'm being sarcastic) them being neutral at best about the situation.
I've known one pregnant person in my time here and another from a rumor. Both told their school when they were starting to show and decided to go back.
Some of us expect the same rights, etiquette, etc. as back home and forget we are NOT back home and we are NOT citizens. I doubt many Koreans would take a sympathetic view. Some may even view it along the lines as when immigrants come to our countries and get pregnant. NOT saying its the same, I am saying its possible to viewed that way generally by Koreans.
Best of luck to the OPs friends. |
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Stan Rogers
Joined: 20 Aug 2010
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 8:32 pm Post subject: |
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I knew a female teacher at a university who took maternity leave for a semester. When she came back the school demanded she make up all the classes she didn't teach while on leave. The school expected her to teach double the hours of her collegues for 1 semester. She refused to do it and was fired. |
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beentheredonethat777
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: AsiaHaven
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 9:55 pm Post subject: Re: Fired for PREGNANCY!? |
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[? Once again the MEN of Dave's telling the women how to act in an ignorant manner. [/size][/quote]
^^. Do you know something I don't know?  |
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12ax7
Joined: 07 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 10:04 pm Post subject: |
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Stan Rogers wrote: |
I knew a female teacher at a university who took maternity leave for a semester. When she came back the school demanded she make up all the classes she didn't teach while on leave. The school expected her to teach double the hours of her collegues for 1 semester. She refused to do it and was fired. |
I totally believe it. According to the law, husbands are allowed, if I recall correctly, 7 days of leave after their wives give birth. Never asked for those 7 days. I knew I would have been asked to make up the classes. |
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beentheredonethat777
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: AsiaHaven
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 10:15 pm Post subject: Re: Fired for PREGNANCY!? |
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beentheredonethat777 wrote: |
[ Once again the MEN of Dave's telling the women how to act in an ignorant manner. :roll
^^. Do you know something I don't know?::  |
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YTMND
Joined: 16 Jan 2012 Location: You're the man now dog!!
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Posted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 11:27 pm Post subject: Re: Fired for PREGNANCY!? |
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beentheredonethat777 wrote: |
beentheredonethat777 wrote: |
[ Once again the MEN of Dave's telling the women how to act in an ignorant manner. :roll
^^. Do you know something I don't know?::  |
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Well, this is 2 way fight against a dying ESL breed.
Men want rights just like women. If you are pregnant as a woman, then when do I as a male get time off too for getting my "wife" pregnant?
Korea has cut teachers 12 months, they have cut lunches in GEPIK, now you expect them to pay for maternity/paternity rock and roll rigamarole costs?
Not gonna happen. Women, if you sign a contract for 12 months, that means you have 3-4 months (later the safer) then you can get pregnant. If you get pregnant earlier, you cause the Korean Adam to eat the apple.
I am only sayin. It ain't biblical girl to let the snake in your garden till you are of age and 4 months mature into ESL teaching. You did this on yourself.
Peace out homie. |
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Seoulman69
Joined: 14 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sun Aug 18, 2013 2:13 am Post subject: |
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I knew a female teacher at a university who took maternity leave for a semester. When she came back the school demanded she make up all the classes she didn't teach while on leave. The school expected her to teach double the hours of her collegues for 1 semester. She refused to do it and was fired. |
Which uni was that? I'm a big believer in naming and shaming these places. |
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NYC_Gal 2.0

Joined: 10 Dec 2010
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Posted: Sun Aug 18, 2013 3:40 am Post subject: |
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I think that men who are pregnant should totally get paternity leave.
Joking aside, though, for future reference, Koreans are used to fat westerners. If you get pregnant, just complain about being fat until after you've worked there for at least 6 months. |
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