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matthagwon
Joined: 28 Sep 2013 Location: Japan lite
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 4:55 pm Post subject: korean co-workers |
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So I work at a hakwon and my only co-workers are korean. They never speak to me and almost always ignore me. The only time they talk to me is when a parent complains. I feel bored most of the time and do to my working hours the epik foreigners are usually sleeping when I finish. Are there any other waygooks out there in a similar situation? ㅊ |
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PigeonFart
Joined: 27 Apr 2006
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:54 pm Post subject: |
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I was never a lone foreigner in a hogwon, but i was a lone foreigner in a public school.
Many koreans are acutely aware of their low level of English (lower than it shoud be for a TEACHER!). In korea there is something called 영어 울령증 which translated means the 'English sickness.' It means they feel embarrassed and nervous talking English because they know as soon as they speak English all the other teachers will be listening. That waygookin spotlight that we walk in will automatically be shone on whoever we talk to. If they are heard making a grammatical mistake they will lose face. Or if they don't understand what you say they will lose face. That's why most of your coworkers probably don't talk to you unless they have to. It's pathetic, but that's the way you would think too if you had never been anywhere outside Korea and had only ever interacted with other like-minded Koreans who were also raised in this extremely conformist culture.
The good thing is it's a great opporunity for you to learn Korean.
It's boring for you i understand. There's not much you can do to change their culture i'm afraid. Maybe someone else has a suggestion. |
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happiness
Joined: 04 Sep 2010
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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its all perspective.
I love that. I worked at a place with only my k-partner at a small hagwon, we hardly talked, but were very friendly when we did. Youre bored? Read a book. |
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beentheredonethat777
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: AsiaHaven
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 6:35 pm Post subject: Re: korean co-workers |
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matthagwon wrote: |
So I work at a hakwon and my only co-workers are korean. They never speak to me and almost always ignore me. The only time they talk to me is when a parent complains. I feel bored most of the time and do to my working hours the epik foreigners are usually sleeping when I finish. Are there any other waygooks out there in a similar situation? ㅊ |
This is quite common, sir! Is this your first time in Korea or second? Just curious. |
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beentheredonethat777
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: AsiaHaven
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 6:40 pm Post subject: |
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The good thing is it's a great opportunity for you to learn Korean. |
How exactly would this work? |
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matthagwon
Joined: 28 Sep 2013 Location: Japan lite
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 6:53 pm Post subject: |
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The good thing is it's a great opportunity for you to learn Korean. |
How exactly would this work? |
I do speak some hangul which my coworkers don't know about. If they find out I know some korean they might start whispering the things they say. Also I noticed a white guy speaking hangul is a target for random women. |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:00 pm Post subject: |
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I'm surprised you have enough time to get bored. I thought the whole attraction of working at a hagwan was you come in, do the job and get out ASAP.
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Also I noticed a white guy speaking hangul is a target for random women. |
Not sure what you mean by this. Are you saying the Korean women at your workplace, who have ignored you so far, will suddenly force their attentions on you if you start speaking Korean? |
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matthagwon
Joined: 28 Sep 2013 Location: Japan lite
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:30 pm Post subject: |
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edwardcatflap wrote: |
I'm surprised you have enough time to get bored. I thought the whole attraction of working at a hagwan was you come in, do the job and get out ASAP.
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Also I noticed a white guy speaking hangul is a target for random women. |
Not sure what you mean by this. Are you saying the Korean women at your workplace, who have ignored you so far, will suddenly force their attentions on you if you start speaking Korean? |
Based on my experience in korea it is possible |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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Based on my experience in korea it is possible |
Best keep stum then if none of them are fanciable and meet other hagwan foreigners through facebook etc.. |
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nicwr2002
Joined: 17 Aug 2011
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Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2013 9:33 pm Post subject: |
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I met my wife working at a hagwon and I'm still here. She was the head teacher or 팀장님 for those who know Korean. She has since quit, but I'm still working here. Now that she has left, most of the new teachers and ones that didn't like my wife have now stopped talking to me. Usually they only talk to me if they have a question about something on a English test. I'm glad they don't talk to me now, since I can pretty much do what I want when I want. |
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Threequalseven
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Posted: Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:49 am Post subject: |
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edwardcatflap wrote: |
I'm surprised you have enough time to get bored. I thought the whole attraction of working at a hagwan was you come in, do the job and get out ASAP. |
I work at a hagwon, and this is definitely not the case for me. I must go to work 80 minutes before my first class, and stay for upwards of 3 hours after my last class (on a short day). If most hagwon teachers do as you describe, then it seems like I've really found myself on the shit end of the spectrum. |
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Kwangjuchicken

Joined: 01 Sep 2003 Location: I was abducted by aliens on my way to Korea and forced to be an EFL teacher on this crazy planet.
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Posted: Thu Oct 10, 2013 4:04 am Post subject: |
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What is a cow orker? Do only Korean cows have orkers? I do not think chickens have orkers, do we? Maybe this is a Korean thing and Korean chickens have orkers. |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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Posted: Thu Oct 10, 2013 4:32 am Post subject: |
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Threequalseven wrote: |
edwardcatflap wrote: |
I'm surprised you have enough time to get bored. I thought the whole attraction of working at a hagwan was you come in, do the job and get out ASAP. |
I work at a hagwon, and this is definitely not the case for me. I must go to work 80 minutes before my first class, and stay for upwards of 3 hours after my last class (on a short day). If most hagwon teachers do as you describe, then it seems like I've really found myself on the shit end of the spectrum. |
Jesus christ that sounds brutal. Im assuming youre making over 4 million since theres no WAY Id sign a hagwon contract with those kinds of hours. WoW !!!
Luckily for me I have a DREAM JOB here in Korea that pays more than a uni professor with less hours on top. My coworkers chat me up all the time, almost always the women or curious executives that want to practice their English. The women are hitting on me almost daily to flirt and ask if Im single yet. With my clean cut style (no hipster beard here), good looks, and custom designer 3 piece suits, who can blame them.  |
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matthagwon
Joined: 28 Sep 2013 Location: Japan lite
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Posted: Thu Oct 10, 2013 5:17 am Post subject: |
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Threequalseven wrote: |
edwardcatflap wrote: |
I'm surprised you have enough time to get bored. I thought the whole attraction of working at a hagwan was you come in, do the job and get out ASAP. |
I work at a hagwon, and this is definitely not the case for me. I must go to work 80 minutes before my first class, and stay for upwards of 3 hours after my last class (on a short day). If most hagwon teachers do as you describe, then it seems like I've really found myself on the shit end of the spectrum. |
I got two hour prep before class. It takes an hour max to prep so an hour a day bench warming. Once my classes are finished I leave. |
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radcon
Joined: 23 May 2011
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Posted: Thu Oct 10, 2013 5:25 am Post subject: |
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IPayInCash wrote: |
Threequalseven wrote: |
edwardcatflap wrote: |
I'm surprised you have enough time to get bored. I thought the whole attraction of working at a hagwan was you come in, do the job and get out ASAP. |
I work at a hagwon, and this is definitely not the case for me. I must go to work 80 minutes before my first class, and stay for upwards of 3 hours after my last class (on a short day). If most hagwon teachers do as you describe, then it seems like I've really found myself on the shit end of the spectrum. |
Jesus christ that sounds brutal. Im assuming youre making over 4 million since theres no WAY Id sign a hagwon contract with those kinds of hours. WoW !!!
Luckily for me I have a DREAM JOB here in Korea that pays more than a uni professor with less hours on top. My coworkers chat me up all the time, almost always the women or curious executives that want to practice their English. The women are hitting on me almost daily to flirt and ask if Im single yet. With my clean cut style (no hipster beard here), good looks, and custom designer 3 piece suits, who can blame them.  |
Your shtick is tired and lame. |
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