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itiswhatitis



Joined: 08 Aug 2011

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 6:39 am    Post subject: Career changes in 30's..... Reply with quote

Native speakers here have the advantage of coming from wealthy countries where there will always be areas of work that are in demand.

Something to ponder.....

The % of people who "climb the corporate ladder" are no doubt in the minority (even in the minority amongst those with degrees).

Do I stand alone?.........What's wrong with traveling, learning foreign languages, self improvement and distance/online education and starting a career a bit later in life?

Some realities:

-You will not be able to get into a respectable MBA program (although you may be able to take an executive MBA).

-You may have to take orders from someone younger than you (if that is even a problem).

-You may have a mortgage at an older age than most

-You may have to buckle down and save for RRSP's more than most during your shorter career

Living abroad has expanded my reality. I wouldn't say that teaching abroad in itself has necessarily opened new doors for me but it has made me ponder more ambitious goals that I wold not have had the confidence to consider before.

Thoughts/personal experiences...???....
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Harpeau



Joined: 01 Feb 2003
Location: Coquitlam, BC

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 7:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I see it as living a different kind of life. I am so grateful that I've travelled to over 26 different countries around the world. That wealth of experience means so much to me. I hope to travel further afield in the future. Being an expat is awesome! Avoiding these polar vortex over here in cyberia makes it all worth it for me! I love what I am doing and am a happy man- doing a combination of counseling, life coaching , lecturing, teaching guitar, singing the blues, acting, etc., making decent coin and am mostly my own boss...what more could a person ask for? Very Happy
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Leon



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 7:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why can't you get into a respectable MBA program? I am currently in a top graduate program after teaching English, and there are several other students here with similar experiences.
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Ginormousaurus



Joined: 27 Jul 2006
Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 7:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Many of your points ring true for me. I left Korea after living there for nearly 7 years. I didn't really consider it a career change because I never really considered teaching ESL as my career. Although, in hindsight, I suppose it was. The time really slipped by.

So now here I am. I'll be 33 when I finish school next year and actually begin my real career. There will certainly be people younger than me who will always have seniority over me. I plan to buy a house shortly after graduation, and I'm sure I'll still be paying a mortgage as I near retirement. I will definitely have to save for retirement more aggresively than someone who started saving 10 years earlier.

Despite all that, I'm still very happy with my life choices. Moving to Korea was the best thing I had ever done. Had I not gone to Korea, I would have started "a real career" much sooner and many of the above mentioned issues would not exist for me. But on the other hand, I would have missed out on all things that have shaped the man I have become. And without that, it's unlikely I would have chosen to undertake the degree I'm currently working on. I would have ended up working in a mental hospital like my parents and grandparents and never really leaving my small town life.

What sort of career change do you have in mind? I know you were interested in taking some distance math courses.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 9:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ginormousaurus wrote:
Many of your points ring true for me. I left Korea after living there for nearly 7 years. I didn't really consider it a career change because I never really considered teaching ESL as my career. Although, in hindsight, I suppose it was. The time really slipped by.

So now here I am. I'll be 33 when I finish school next year and actually begin my real career. There will certainly be people younger than me who will always have seniority over me. I plan to buy a house shortly after graduation, and I'm sure I'll still be paying a mortgage as I near retirement. I will definitely have to save for retirement more aggresively than someone who started saving 10 years earlier.

Despite all that, I'm still very happy with my life choices. Moving to Korea was the best thing I had ever done. Had I not gone to Korea, I would have started "a real career" much sooner and many of the above mentioned issues would not exist for me. But on the other hand, I would have missed out on all things that have shaped the man I have become. And without that, it's unlikely I would have chosen to undertake the degree I'm currently working on. I would have ended up working in a mental hospital like my parents and grandparents and never really leaving my small town life.

What sort of career change do you have in mind? I know you were interested in taking some distance math courses.


Interesting perspective, but how many of those years would you have spent paying off your student loans and credit card debts, while building your career? You'd still have them, I suspect. Also, being in debt and cash poor makes it hard to move to a big city where the rents are high and the jobs are actually ocated.

Now, you should be debt free and have a nest egg to finance a new start. Because you will burn through cash setting yourself up. Rent, damage deposit, etc. You may have had to take on some new debt for grad school, but you should still be in a better position than you would have been had you have stayed.
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nate1983



Joined: 30 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 9:29 am    Post subject: Re: Career changes in 30's..... Reply with quote

itiswhatitis wrote:
Native speakers here have the advantage of coming from wealthy countries where there will always be areas of work that are in demand.

Something to ponder.....

The % of people who "climb the corporate ladder" are no doubt in the minority (even in the minority amongst those with degrees).

Do I stand alone?.........What's wrong with traveling, learning foreign languages, self improvement and distance/online education and starting a career a bit later in life?

Some realities:

-You will not be able to get into a respectable MBA program (although you may be able to take an executive MBA).

-You may have to take orders from someone younger than you (if that is even a problem).

-You may have a mortgage at an older age than most

-You may have to buckle down and save for RRSP's more than most during your shorter career

Living abroad has expanded my reality. I wouldn't say that teaching abroad in itself has necessarily opened new doors for me but it has made me ponder more ambitious goals that I wold not have had the confidence to consider before.

Thoughts/personal experiences...???....


Obviously nothing is wrong with that. In fact, I think everyone who has the opportunity should live/teach English abroad for a year or two (or longer, especially if you're able to make a career out of it for yourself).

As someone who began my "corporate career" at 27 after teaching English in Korea, some of your points ring true for me. I definitely have less in my retirement account than I would if I'd been saving since I was 22, and have had younger people in more senior positions to me, although I have been able to see a pretty quick career progression. I recently got a mortgage (had to tap into my retirement account for the down payment) and yeah I'll probably pay it off when I'm at a more advanced age. If your goal is to go back to school for a top MBA, that door is not necessarily shut if you can spin a good story - I recently applied to a few schools, and just a few days ago got my second invitation to interview (at Yale, first was Wharton).

The reality is that in the west (and probably everywhere), society doesn't place as much value on these "life experiences" as it should. There's certainly something to be said for developing hard, marketable skills, but over a career of 30 or 40 years a couple years is just a drop in the bucket and you could bring skills and a perspective that others don't have.
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Ginormousaurus



Joined: 27 Jul 2006
Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 9:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Weigookin74 wrote:
Ginormousaurus wrote:
Many of your points ring true for me. I left Korea after living there for nearly 7 years. I didn't really consider it a career change because I never really considered teaching ESL as my career. Although, in hindsight, I suppose it was. The time really slipped by.

So now here I am. I'll be 33 when I finish school next year and actually begin my real career. There will certainly be people younger than me who will always have seniority over me. I plan to buy a house shortly after graduation, and I'm sure I'll still be paying a mortgage as I near retirement. I will definitely have to save for retirement more aggresively than someone who started saving 10 years earlier.

Despite all that, I'm still very happy with my life choices. Moving to Korea was the best thing I had ever done. Had I not gone to Korea, I would have started "a real career" much sooner and many of the above mentioned issues would not exist for me. But on the other hand, I would have missed out on all things that have shaped the man I have become. And without that, it's unlikely I would have chosen to undertake the degree I'm currently working on. I would have ended up working in a mental hospital like my parents and grandparents and never really leaving my small town life.

What sort of career change do you have in mind? I know you were interested in taking some distance math courses.


Interesting perspective, but how many of those years would you have spent paying off your student loans and credit card debts, while building your career? You'd still have them, I suspect. Also, being in debt and cash poor makes it hard to move to a big city where the rents are high and the jobs are actually ocated.

Now, you should be debt free and have a nest egg to finance a new start. Because you will burn through cash setting yourself up. Rent, damage deposit, etc. You may have had to take on some new debt for grad school, but you should still be in a better position than you would have been had you have stayed.


I was debt free when I left Korea. Now...not so much. Life is expensive after you've become accustomed to a certain quality of life and the government has been all too accomodating when it comes to lending me money. I also had to support my wife who didn't have a work visa for a while. Also, I'm not in grad school either. I'm doing an engineering degree and basically had to start all over at the beginning. This was very daunting and meant taking a distance math course while still in Korea to prepare me for what I was getting myself into. The next few years were spent in a math and physics-induced haze. But...I can see the light at the end of the tunnel!

I'm definitely better off that I left when I did. It was at the height of the financial crisis. I figured it was as good a time as any to go back to school. My hope was that by the time I was finished, the economy would be stronger and I'd be well-positioned to start a new career. Indeed that is how things are going.
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Wed Jan 22, 2014 7:22 pm    Post subject: Re: Career changes in 30's..... Reply with quote

nate1983 wrote:
itiswhatitis wrote:
Native speakers here have the advantage of coming from wealthy countries where there will always be areas of work that are in demand.

Something to ponder.....

The % of people who "climb the corporate ladder" are no doubt in the minority (even in the minority amongst those with degrees).

Do I stand alone?.........What's wrong with traveling, learning foreign languages, self improvement and distance/online education and starting a career a bit later in life?

Some realities:

-You will not be able to get into a respectable MBA program (although you may be able to take an executive MBA).

-You may have to take orders from someone younger than you (if that is even a problem).

-You may have a mortgage at an older age than most

-You may have to buckle down and save for RRSP's more than most during your shorter career

Living abroad has expanded my reality. I wouldn't say that teaching abroad in itself has necessarily opened new doors for me but it has made me ponder more ambitious goals that I wold not have had the confidence to consider before.

Thoughts/personal experiences...???....


Obviously nothing is wrong with that. In fact, I think everyone who has the opportunity should live/teach English abroad for a year or two (or longer, especially if you're able to make a career out of it for yourself).

As someone who began my "corporate career" at 27 after te