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erinmack



Joined: 18 Jan 2011
Location: Oakland, CA

PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 10:04 pm    Post subject: Teaching with dwarfism? Reply with quote

Hi, my partner & I are thinking of coming to South Korea to teach English, but we are concerned that his dwarfism will prove to be a barrier to employment. He has a less-common form of dwarfism that doesn't result in "different" facial features, so his disability wouldn't be apparent from a photograph, but we are concerned that if he discloses his condition in an application, job prospects will be minimal. Asides: he is 29, caucasian, CELTA-certified w/a master's degree.

FYI, I am a 38 year old caucasian female, non-disabled, dual citizenship (Ireland/US), UC Berkeley educated but only have a B.A., & am not TESL-certified. I'm also concerned about my age posing a barrier to employment, but since I'm right on the cusp I don't think it'll be a huge problem if I'm flexible on location.

What are his chances of finding a position? What are our chances of both finding a position in the same city, provided we're open to any location? Would it be better for us to apply together or separately? It would be nice to live together, but if we were placed in nearby schools that would also be acceptable.

Any advice is appreciated, thanks - and for those that would advise against working in Korea, in which countries do you think someone with a noticeable disability would be regarded more favorably by potential recruiters?
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Lucas



Joined: 11 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 10:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Hi, my partner & I are thinking of coming to South Korea to teach English, but we are concerned that his dwarfism will prove to be a barrier to employment. He has a less-common form of dwarfism that doesn't result in "different" facial features, so his disability wouldn't be apparent from a photograph, but we are concerned that if he discloses his condition in an application, job prospects will be minimal. Asides: he is 29, caucasian, CELTA-certified w/a master's degree.

FYI, I am a 38 year old caucasian female, non-disabled, dual citizenship (Ireland/US), UC Berkeley educated but only have a B.A., & am not TESL-certified. I'm also concerned about my age posing a barrier to employment, but since I'm right on the cusp I don't think it'll be a huge problem if I'm flexible on location.

What are his chances of finding a position? What are our chances of both finding a position in the same city, provided we're open to any location? Would it be better for us to apply together or separately? It would be nice to live together, but if we were placed in nearby schools that would also be acceptable.

Any advice is appreciated, thanks - and for those that would advise against working in Korea, in which countries do you think someone with a noticeable disability would be regarded more favorably by potential recruiters?


The photo is important, but how tall is he?

http://www.theminiman.co.uk/ I saw a documentary where some guys were making 200-300 pounds for an evening’s work.

I'd follow the money!

Apply via EPIK, and do not mention it. He has no disability that could stop him from doing the job - but be aware that Korea is not an easy place to work for some, and I'd imagine that it would be x1000 worse for your partner. Things like reaching to point at TV, hand out work, trampled by kids!

Or, although he is a guy, working with Kindergartners could be a possibility?
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Scorpion



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP, age is not a problem but I think your partner's dwarfism will be. This is a culture that puts immense importance on the superficialities of appearance. In fact, it is the most important factor here in getting employed. Many Westerners can't find a job here simply because their skin is too dark, they have facial hair, or don't comform somehow to what their notion of an 'ideal' Westerner should look like. Korea is a very closed-minded society that has yet to embrace the rights and sensitivities of others. Racism, xenophobia, homophobia, and dislike of anything 'other' is strong here. They still have comedy shows here where the entertainers put on 'black face' and dance around denigrating black people. I think your partner would have a stressful time in Korea. And to be honest, even if he was hired from abroad, once he arrived and his dwarfism was noticed the school would soon invent "complaints from parents" or criticisms of his teaching style to get rid of him. Do not confuse Korea's economic development with progress in the field of morality and human inclusiveness. The latter trails far, far behind the former. This is not America, Canada or Western Europe, and it won't be for a very long time.

I'm sorry to offer this advice, but I don't think Korea would be right for you. Your partner will not be treated with respect, and this will be hard for you to endure. May I suggest you look for work elsewhere. Until Korea matures, culturally and morally, I cannot recommend this place to a person with dwarfism. Maybe others will disagree, but I doubt it.

Anyway, I wish you both the very best of luck in your job search.
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Lucas



Joined: 11 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 11:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Apply via EPIK, and do not mention it. He has no disability that could stop him from doing the job - but be aware that Korea is not an easy place to work for some, and I'd imagine that it would be x1000 worse for your partner. Things like reaching to point at TV, hand out work, trampled by kids!

Or, although he is a guy, working with Kindergartners could be a possibility?


I thought after I posted this. EPIK requires everyone to fill out an application form, part of that you have to put your height and weight.

So they would know anyway.

As the other poster said - even IF he got a job, he would get ALOT of attention.

It would take someone with IMMENSE inner strength to deal with it.

I wasn't being a !@#$ when I suggested Kindergarten teaching btw, IF you can find an open minded recruiter/place, this COULD work out.

BUT it would depend on his enthusiasm for teaching small kids. They're not for everyone!
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wishfullthinkng



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 11:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i would normally say that no one should listen to scorpion but this time he pretty much hit the nail on the head. those who are not outwardly "beautiful" generally do not fare well in korea in many arenas of life, finding a job and being treated well at an acquired job included.

you might get someone who will chime in with a "hey but i'm not good looking but i get treated well here!" but those are the ones that get talked about behind their backs.
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BigBuds



Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 2:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scorpion wrote:
OP, age is not a problem but I think your partner's dwarfism will be. This is a culture that puts immense importance on the superficialities of appearance. In fact, it is the most important factor here in getting employed. Many Westerners can't find a job here simply because their skin is too dark, they have facial hair, or don't comform somehow to what their notion of an 'ideal' Westerner should look like. Korea is a very closed-minded society that has yet to embrace the rights and sensitivities of others. Racism, xenophobia, homophobia, and dislike of anything 'other' is strong here. They still have comedy shows here where the entertainers put on 'black face' and dance around denigrating black people. I think your partner would have a stressful time in Korea. And to be honest, even if he was hired from abroad, once he arrived and his dwarfism was noticed the school would soon invent "complaints from parents" or criticisms of his teaching style to get rid of him. Do not confuse Korea's economic development with progress in the field of morality and human inclusiveness. The latter trails far, far behind the former. This is not America, Canada or Western Europe, and it won't be for a very long time.

I'm sorry to offer this advice, but I don't think Korea would be right for you. Your partner will not be treated with respect, and this will be hard for you to endure. May I suggest you look for work elsewhere. Until Korea matures, culturally and morally, I cannot recommend this place to a person with dwarfism. Maybe others will disagree, but I doubt it.

Anyway, I wish you both the very best of luck in your job search.


After almost 13 years of living here I, unfortunately, have to say this is pretty spot on.
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Chaparrastique



Joined: 01 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scorpion wrote:
Many Westerners can't find a job here simply because their skin is too dark,


And the west is totally different?

Quote:
Black unemployment rate is consistently twice that of whites
August 21, 2013

blacks are “the last to be hired in a good economy, and when there’s a downturn, they’re the first to be released.”

http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2013/08/21/through-good-times-and-bad-black-unemployment-is-consistently-double-that-of-whites/


I doubt western employers trip over themselves to employ dwarfs either.
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Rutherford



Joined: 31 Jul 2007

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

People will tell you Koreans don't hire black, fat, old or ugly people but you will meet black, fat, old, and ugly people happily working here.

Your partner will have a harder time here than some others. That's probably not a surprise to him. He will get a lot of awkward stares and comments but if he's okay with that then why not give it a try?

He's very qualified, and with an MA can apply for uni jobs once he's in country. You went to Berkeley, and Koreans love name brand degrees. Give it a shot.
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schwa



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Yap

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If he can get hired & start teaching & impress his students & colleagues with his personality & smarts, it would be a win for everyone involved. Tough odds though.
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Hokie21



Joined: 01 Mar 2011

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 5:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know everyone says that appearance is so important in getting hired.....but if that is the case then how come 75% of the foreign female teachers I've come across are fat and/or hideous?
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Chaparrastique



Joined: 01 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 6:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lucas wrote:
Apply via EPIK, and do not mention it.


Deception like that will just enrage the school surely?
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andrewchon



Joined: 16 Nov 2008
Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 6:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Chaparrastique wrote:
Lucas wrote:
Apply via EPIK, and do not mention it.


Deception like that will just enrage the school surely?


No, public schools are obligated to not discriminate against disabilities. Most schools have some brain-damaged kids as students. Hiring a short man is not a problem for them.
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EZE



Joined: 05 May 2012

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 7:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He'll need to have thick skin. If he's under 4', I imagine he'll be ridiculed something awful on a daily basis and students in the 12 to 15 age group would be totally out of control. I agree with the person suggesting kindergarten classes, since the younger kids tend to be a lot more polite and plus they're shorter so the dwarfism may not seem as noticeable to them.
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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 8:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I disagree with the above.

Obviously he can't lie on his application.

But if the guy has an ultra thick skin, and has a great personality, i mean super great, then he could probably do it.

If he's a "funny" guy, and he has some charm, the Koreans will probably like him.

Koreans aren't as evil as they're made out to be on Daves.
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Lucas



Joined: 11 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Chaparrastique wrote:
Lucas wrote:
Apply via EPIK, and do not mention it.


Deception like that will just enrage the school surely?


No, public schools are obligated to not discriminate against disabilities. Most schools have some brain-damaged kids as students. Hiring a short man is not a problem for them.


Like I said in a poster after my initial one, on the EPIK application form you MUST state your height and weight as part of the process.

So he wouldn't be cheating, if the person processing the application does not notice the fact that he says he's 50cm tall and 40KG or whatever they're the ones who aren’t doing their jobs properly.

They will, of course notice it and he would then (hopefully be judged on his merits).

You never know, someone reading here on Daves could actually work for EPIK - Cool

And as another person said, not all Korean's are evil!

OP, I'd recommend applying for rural EPIK if you do apply. I think you stand a chance of having a better year if you work in a small school, with small class sizes and a more 'family' type of atmosphere.

Also, you said you'd be coming over as a couple. You do realise that living together could be difficult, and you could be placed apart don't you?

You could jump through all of the hurdles together and then be placed over an hour away from each other (or even further!)
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