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maitaidads



Joined: 08 Oct 2012

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 12:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

World Traveler wrote:
workers at...restaurants with alcohol can get $20-$50+ per hour for an easy unskilled (respectable) job.


Since when does easy and unskilled mean respectable? Do you really think "workers" at restaurants that serve alcohol make $50+ an hour? Would you tell them that their job is easy and they're unskilled?

I know some "hot babes" and I know some financially successful people. Only one is both, and she got a doctorate.
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World Traveler



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 12:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are you from the U.S.? Attractive women can make a lot of money as servers, casino dealers, etc. (Pretty much any tipped position.) It's way easier for them to get in as a woman and once in they are tipped well. I personally know the young, attractive women who are making a killing. Do you not believe me?

(I think it's unfair as hell they get so much for doing so little, but I'm not stupid enough to say that in their presence. Besides, they are my friends so I don't dwell on it. I just think about ways I can make more money in the U.S. and party with them.)
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maitaidads



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 1:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am from the US, and I don't really believe you. I know servers that make a reasonable living, but we may have different ideas of what a killing constitutes. 40k? Sometimes. 60k+ for an extended period of time? No way.
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edwardcatflap



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 1:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Becoming an escort is not something most would wish to do. Same with pole dancer


And becoming a waitress is something your average 'hot babe' aspires to is it? Stop being so sexist. Your friends are not indicative of women everywhere. Like men, most women want an interesting, worthwhile career regardless of what they look like.
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Stain



Joined: 08 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry, I've been away for while and am kinda lost. Are we talking about hot female dwarf waitresses? In Korea?
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World Traveler



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

maitaidads wrote:
I am from the US, and I don't really believe you. I know servers that make a reasonable living, but we may have different ideas of what a killing constitutes. 40k? Sometimes. 60k+ for an extended period of time? No way.

They are making that money annually working part time. For the low hours they put in, that is a hell of a lot of money.
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World Traveler



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

edwardcatflap wrote:
And becoming a waitress is something your average 'hot babe' aspires to is it? Stop being so sexist. Your friends are not indicative of women everywhere. Like men, most women want an interesting, worthwhile career regardless of what they look like.

Put it this way: a woman would rather be a waitress than a dishwasher. Why? Because the job pays way more and is a lot more pleasant.

Nearly every attractive woman I've met in my life has at one point waitressed. None have washed dishes. Why did they choose waitressing? For an unskilled position with no special qualifications needed, it pays a lot. This is not me being sexist. I'm just spitting the truth. (If I were a woman, I would to the same: go for the most pleasant, highest paying job; who wouldn't?)
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 3:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Beauty, sex appeal, social skills and the arts of self-presentation have increasing value everywhere, helping to sell ideas, products and policies. Popular culture especially valorises female erotic capital: just look at unkempt boy bands and glossy girl bands. Yes, men with high levels of erotic capital do better than those who don’t. But it is beautiful and elegant women who grace the advertisements for products of all kinds, from cars to detergent—not men.

The economic benefits of being physically and socially attractive can be substantial, especially in marketing, public relations, television, advocacy in the courts, as well as for actors, singers and dancers. But it’s broader than this: people working in the better-paid parts of the private sector are more attractive than those in the public and non-profit sectors. Tall and attractive people are more likely to be employed in professional jobs, like law or banking. For the ugly and short, it gets worse. Good-looking people can earn 10 to 15 per cent more than the average-looking, who in turn can earn 10 to 15 per cent more than the plain or ugly. The tall earn more than the short; the obese have earnings 10 to 15 per cent below average. Statistical analysis shows this beauty premium is not really just about cleverly disguised differences in intelligence, social class or self-confidence. Studies of lawyers reveal that there is always a premium for attractiveness that varies in size, but is not due to employer discrimination. The most attractive can earn 12 per cent more than the unattractive, and are 20 per cent more likely to achieve partnership in their firm, because they are more effective at pulling in customers.

Indeed, there is a 25 percentage point difference in average earnings between unattractive and attractive minorities. This impact can be as big as the gap between having a degree and no qualifications at all
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 4:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Researchers have consistently found that attractive people of both sexes are perceived to be more competent and intelligent. Attractive adults are noticed more and treated more favorably, and they are more often welcomed into social networks, where they receive more cooperation and help from others. They are more persuasive and sell ideas and products more successfully.

Erotic capital also translates into income. A number of studies show that, in the U.S. and Britain, there is a 10% to 20% "beauty premium" in earnings across the workforce. In jobs that involve contact with customers or clients, the returns can be even greater, adding up to hundreds of thousands of dollars in additional income over the course of a career.
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Stain



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 4:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

World Traveler wrote:
Researchers have consistently found that attractive people of both sexes are perceived to be more competent and intelligent. Attractive adults are noticed more and treated more favorably, and they are more often welcomed into social networks, where they receive more cooperation and help from others. They are more persuasive and sell ideas and products more successfully.

Erotic capital also translates into income. A number of studies show that, in the U.S. and Britain, there is a 10% to 20% "beauty premium" in earnings across the workforce. In jobs that involve contact with customers or clients, the returns can be even greater, adding up to hundreds of thousands of dollars in additional income over the course of a career.


It's true that attractive people have a leg up in the hiring process. I would say that has always been the case. But do the ideas that we sell so persuasively have any merit? Now I can understand the draw when it comes to sales type jobs, but when it concerns others that involve a specific knowledge where learning fast is extremely important, then I doubt its effectiveness. The hiring process is only the beginning. Companies are about the bottom line inevitably. And their initial failure to see beyond the external does come to haunt them down the line sometimes.
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Hokie21



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 5:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stain wrote:
Sorry, I've been away for while and am kinda lost. Are we talking about hot female dwarf waitresses? In Korea?


Giggity
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Jongno2bucheon



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 6:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

erinmack wrote:
Jongno2bucheon wrote:
Well i guess in the US he faces being told how small his pen.is is by everyone, while in Korea, he will deal with stares?


Actually, that's rarely a problem...most North American folks realize that there's zero correlation between limb length & genital size, and those who don't learn otherwise soon enough (if they have any business doing so.)

Ignorant comments like this are disheartening, but we're both used to it.


http://listverse.com/2012/12/30/top-10-methods-mistakenly-used-to-estimate-*beep*-size/

Actually, some people believe that there is a correlation between height and *beep* size. Or even race and *beep* size.

We live in a *beep* size culture. So im sure a lot of your girlfriends have asked about it, and how small it is.

Personally i was just saying that no one would really care to assume or ask about something like that in Korea. But in America, im sure you get asked about that quite a bit. American women's favorite topic of conversation is *beep* talk after all. Youve been with a black guy im sure?

Again, im just asking for the sake of satire.

My opinion is, you will make more and have more opportunities than him to make money in Korea. He can probably teach in a rural town where they are more desperate for English speakers. Of course, in a rural town, there are less upside opportunites for an English speaking woman. But in general, people in Korea in general feel sorry for disabled people in public, and will look out of curiosity, but not with a mean intention.
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wanderkind



Joined: 01 Jan 2012
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 8:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who's Your Daddy? wrote:
^^You've entered the All Spin Zone. Do you work for Arirang TV?

This is a country where baldness matters, a mustache is frowned upon, gays are openly laughed at, and kids say the word "monkey" when a black persons picture is shown (yes even if they're the US President).


On the contrary.

I was just pointing out that technology is narrowing the gap between disability and ability, and there are plenty of jobs these days that involve no face-to-face interaction of the involved parties and therefore eliminate physical appearance as a factor of employment. Which, aside from sexual orientation, all of the examples you gave fall under.
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erinmack



Joined: 18 Jan 2011
Location: Oakland, CA

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 8:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"But in America, im sure you get asked about that quite a bit. American women's favorite topic of conversation is *beep* talk after all. Youve been with a black guy im sure?"

Actually, none of my friends have asked - I guess I just hang out with smart & progressive women who wouldn't make such ignorant assumptions. Suffice to say, I've been around the block a few times & I'm pretty content - and actually, one of the two black guys I've been with had the smallest *beep* I'd ever seen. Seems like you're the one who's preoccupied with wangs, however. (Wow, we've really digressed, haven't we?)

As for all the folks debating whether "ugly" women come to Korea because they couldn't get hired in the service industry in the US, I just had to laugh. Firstly, not everyone's cut out for waitressing and the like personality-wise. Secondly, even many women who are genetically gifted may not be up for dressing like glambots 24/7. I'm slenderish & have a pretty face but enjoy presenting androgynously (short hair, no makeup, boyish clothes) - casinos certainly aren't tripping over themselves to hire me, but in my late teens when I aspired more to normative femininity, I waitressed briefly - and absolutely hated it. I was a substitute teacher for 3 years & got every kind of verbal abuse in the book, meanwhile, but I'd still do it again in a heartbeat before I'd ever work in food service.

My two cents - I'm pretty much done with this conversation if it's going to devolve to this level, but if anyone wants to suggest other countries we're all ears. I appreciated the Japan feedback - how about Vietnam? I assume Taiwan would be similar given Hess' insistence on a full body shot, but maybe mainland China (though far less lucrative) is more open given their very high need for teachers.

For those who asked about reaching the chalkboard, he manages. We had a row of milk crates zip-tied together by our kitchen counter, & they did the trick just fine - I imagine something similar could be easily rigged in a school that was more eager to accommodate someone than exclude them. It sounds like that school may be difficult to come by in Korea, however.
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Jongno2bucheon



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2014 12:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

erinmack wrote:
"But in America, im sure you get asked about that quite a bit. American women's favorite topic of conversation is *beep* talk after all. Youve been with a black guy im sure?"

Actually, none of my friends have asked - I guess I just hang out with smart & progressive women who wouldn't make such ignorant assumptions. Suffice to say, I've been around the block a few times & I'm pretty content - and actually, one of the two black guys I've been with had the smallest *beep* I'd ever seen. Seems like you're the one who's preoccupied with wangs, however. (Wow, we've really digressed, haven't we?)

As for all the folks debating whether "ugly" women come to Korea because they couldn't get hired in the service industry in the US, I just had to laugh. Firstly, not everyone's cut out for waitressing and the like personality-wise. Secondly, even many women who are genetically gifted may not be up for dressing like glambots 24/7. I'm slenderish & have a pretty face but enjoy presenting androgynously (short hair, no makeup, boyish clothes) - casinos certainly aren't tripping over themselves to hire me, but in my late teens when I aspired more to normative femininity, I waitressed briefly - and absolutely hated it. I was a substitute teacher for 3 years & got every kind of verbal abuse in the book, meanwhile, but I'd still do it again in a heartbeat before I'd ever work in food service.

My two cents - I'm pretty much done with this conversation if it's going to devolve to this level, but if anyone wants to suggest other countries we're all ears. I appreciated the Japan feedback - how about Vietnam? I assume Taiwan would be similar given Hess' insistence on a full body shot, but maybe mainland China (though far less lucrative) is more open given their very high need for teachers.

For those who asked about reaching the chalkboard, he manages. We had a row of milk crates zip-tied together by our kitchen counter, & they did the trick just fine - I imagine something similar could be easily rigged in a school that was more eager to accommodate someone than exclude them. It sounds like that school may be difficult to come by in Korea, however.


I just dont understand why its an ignorant assumption.

Height and *beep* size is believed to be correlated. Some people say the same about race and *beep* size. So everyone who thinks *beep* size is correlated to height or race is ignorant?

Yes we have digressed... There are certainly aspects of American culture that I miss quite dearly.

My personal opinion is to tell him to suck it up and finish law school and represent midget actors in Hollywood. They make tons in acting movies. Im sure they need representation. But since he is disillusioned with law school now you have to teach english across the world? Give me a break, tell the fella to suck it up.


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