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Sesame
Joined: 16 Mar 2014
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 5:00 pm Post subject: 2 Thoughts/Comments Bad Girls/Boys in the Classroom |
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Just 2 things on my mind lately:
1: Do you ever tell kids to go home if they are acting up? I know their mom's are paying for the class, but if he disrupts it, he is taking away the education of the other students by making the learning environment impossible to learn in.
2: How do you handle grade 5-6 GIRLS who have the most rotten look on their faces, pull their face at you, play on their phone and don't pay attention to your class. Get in their faces and make them put the phone down running the risk of making them turn others in the class against you because we all know their sheep and will follow the leader (which most often times are the meanest girls), or say F it and teach anyway totally ignoring them and get your money.
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mysteryadam
Joined: 27 Jan 2011
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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1. Send a student home in the middle of class. Do it. Then come back here and tell us what happened. Should be fun. You might still even have a job.
2. Confiscate all phones at the beginning of class. |
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maximmm
Joined: 01 Feb 2008
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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As far as hagwons are concerned, each one is different and it all very much depends on the management. In some hagwons, they discipline the students, in other hagwons they give students a candy and discipline you.
It's always a lottery - and you have to figure out what kind of hagwon you are in. |
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SeoulNate

Joined: 04 Jun 2010 Location: Hyehwa
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 5:39 pm Post subject: |
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1. Depends on the school/academy. I used to send students out/home from time to time at an academy I worked at a few years back, but that is not the norm. Ask the school what policy they have. If they have none, start your own.
2. Take the phones at the start of class. I used to send home a note to parents that had both English and Korean on it at the start of every class when I would get a whole new class or just one new student, the parents had to sign it and I kept it on file. It read something like this:
Dear Parents,
I am your child's new English teacher. I am happy to have your student in my class and I believe that your child's English can grow in my class with a commitment on all of our parts. With that said, in order to have a healthy class for learning I need students to be on-task while they are in my class. For that reason, if students are using their cell-phones or other distracting devices/objects (toys, games, food etc.) they will be confiscated until you can be reached if they become a disturbance to my class.
Thank you for your understanding. |
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pattinsons
Joined: 28 Jun 2009
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 7:44 pm Post subject: |
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1. Most likely your school will have a issue with you sending the kids home. I agree with those who suggested you will be lucky to have a job the next day. Ask your about your school's disciplinary policies. Follow them to the letter. Some schools will look for any excuse to reprimand you. I know a number of teachers who use wall squats for discipline. Be warned however that your school might consider this physical discipline.
2. As for cellphones confiscate them at the beginning of class, and return them at the conclusion of class. A director at my first hagwon lost her job because she did not return the phones. |
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Sesame
Joined: 16 Mar 2014
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 3:46 am Post subject: |
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thanks for all the suggestions everyone. And I think I have WAY more leeway working at an after school program as opposed to a hagwon. I wouldn't send kids home if I worked at a hagwon, but at after schools I think it is a sketchy, yet last resort tactic. If parents complain you can just point the finger at the kid and his behavior. I have video recorded evidence if need be. |
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maximmm
Joined: 01 Feb 2008
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 4:47 am Post subject: |
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Sesame wrote: |
thanks for all the suggestions everyone. And I think I have WAY more leeway working at an after school program as opposed to a hagwon. I wouldn't send kids home if I worked at a hagwon, but at after schools I think it is a sketchy, yet last resort tactic. If parents complain you can just point the finger at the kid and his behavior. I have video recorded evidence if need be. |
It's a very common practice for public school teachers (this is usually done in their homerooms) to collect all phones in the morning and return them when they are about to go home. |
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beentheredonethat777
Joined: 27 Jul 2013 Location: AsiaHaven
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 7:14 am Post subject: Re: 2 Thoughts/Comments Bad Girls/Boys in the Classroom |
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Sesame wrote: |
Just 2 things on my mind lately:
1: Do you ever tell kids to go home if they are acting up? I know their mom's are paying for the class, but if he disrupts it, he is taking away the education of the other students by making the learning environment impossible to learn in.
2: How do you handle grade 5-6 GIRLS who have the most rotten look on their faces, pull their face at you, play on their phone and don't pay attention to your class. Get in their faces and make them put the phone down running the risk of making them turn others in the class against you because we all know their sheep and will follow the leader (which most often times are the meanest girls), or say F it and teach anyway totally ignoring them and get your money |
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1. I don't tell them to go home- I do tell them to leave my classroom and go tell the director they got "kicked out"!
(This results in automatic physical punishment by the director)
2. If a phone is displayed by ANY student/ for ANY reason in my class, it is taken immediately and returned THREE days later! Second offense is ONE WEEK! It started out as a rule for my class only, but the Director made it a School Rule. It is posted in every classroom and upon registering to attend our school, parents sign the paper saying they will agree with the teachers/school decision regarding any punishment necessary to improve the learning environment.(including confiscating cellphones, corporal punishment, cleaning the school, etc.)
For the most, just focus on getting paid! If you pay attention to bad students, they will act worse because they need the attention. Trust me on this one.
Collect ALL phones at the beginning of the class. Go into the backpacks, pockets, wherever they be hiding, and put them in a basket on your desk.
Tell the students you will give them back after class, if they are attentive.
This is a game changer. Most of their behaviors will change immensely.
I just realized you were teaching an afterschool program Not sure how that works! Sorry. |
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BigBuds

Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Location: Changwon
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 2:10 am Post subject: |
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As for cell phones, I have a box on my desk, that the students have to walk past to get to their desks and chairs, with cell phones written on it and all of my students know the rule that phones go into the box when they enter the classroom.
Anyone caught with a cell phone after class has started gets it taken off them and returned to them the next day, no exceptions. If it happens to be a Friday, bad luck, they get it back on Monday.
The students know the rule, the parents know the rule, and I don't care if the parents complain about it.
If they don't like the rules, go else where. There's nothing they can do to change the rules, complain away. It does help that I own the school, though, Muwahahahahahahahah  |
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drcrazy
Joined: 19 Feb 2003 Location: Pusan. Yes, that's right. Pusan NOT Busan. I ain't never been to no place called Busan
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 2:39 am Post subject: |
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Boys are supposed to be bad. Girls are supposed to be good. Send the girls home. Let the boys tear up the place. And HAVE FUN. Bring lot's of cookies too. |
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The Cosmic Hum

Joined: 09 May 2003 Location: Sonic Space
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 3:09 am Post subject: |
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drcrazy wrote: |
Boys are supposed to be bad. Girls are supposed to be good. Send the girls home. Let the boys tear up the place. And HAVE FUN. Bring lot's of cookies too. |
Girls and Boys...20 years old this past March...like a Blur...lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1Ir489EpgI
Time goes on...the stories stay pretty much the same. |
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Hokie21
Joined: 01 Mar 2011
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 5:38 am Post subject: |
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If a kid is being really bad I make them go downstairs to the directors room to inform them that they've been kicked out of class for disruptive behavior. This usually leads to a call home to the parents which is pretty scary for the average student.
Phones. Never been an issue for me as they know they must be turned off before the class begins. If you're having a problem with it then get a container and collect them before class.
If you are unable to send the kids to a director I've noticed that making them stand in the corner at the back of the room works alright as well. |
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