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Deokjeok Party Island 2014 - Installment 2 (The Booze Orgy)
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radcon



Joined: 23 May 2011

PostPosted: Wed Sep 10, 2014 1:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So how was it, OP? Did you and your wife enjoy the "booze orgy."
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FDNY



Joined: 27 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Wed Sep 10, 2014 3:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

radcon wrote:
So how was it, OP? Did you and your wife enjoy the "booze orgy."


I don't remember.
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Stain



Joined: 08 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Wed Sep 10, 2014 8:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit? So what if he's organizing a get together on Chuseok? Did everybody suddenly become Puritans? Even those that might think it's not a good time, ok, that's cool, but why all the hate? Obviously, some posters weren't doing that exactly so I'm just addressing the assholes only.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Wed Sep 10, 2014 8:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stain wrote:
Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit? So what if he's organizing a get together on Chuseok? Did everybody suddenly become Puritans? Even those that might think it's not a good time, ok, that's cool, but why all the hate? Obviously, some posters weren't doing that exactly so I'm just addressing the assholes only.



I was only ribbing him, but others may have been serious.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
Location: Earth, Solar System

PostPosted: Wed Sep 10, 2014 8:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stain wrote:
Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit? So what if he's organizing a get together on Chuseok? Did everybody suddenly become Puritans? Even those that might think it's not a good time, ok, that's cool, but why all the hate? Obviously, some posters weren't doing that exactly so I'm just addressing the assholes only.


Dude kinda started it with this comment (Note, I didn't respond to this thread until this comment and only stuck to his comments)-

FDNY wrote:
Hey dude, just because your life sucks shite performing pagan rituals
and eating cold food doesn't mean everyone else is as stupid as you.


Hey, before that it's all good. Booze it up. But if you're going to call people who choose to spend time with their relatives or take their kids to see grandma "stupid", you should be able to take it as well.

If he just wants to booze it up fine, no reason to put down others.
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Stain



Joined: 08 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2014 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
Stain wrote:
Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit? So what if he's organizing a get together on Chuseok? Did everybody suddenly become Puritans? Even those that might think it's not a good time, ok, that's cool, but why all the hate? Obviously, some posters weren't doing that exactly so I'm just addressing the assholes only.



I was only ribbing him, but others may have been serious.


Actually, Died By Bear, I thought your post was an interesting question, and that he overreacted to yours.
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jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2014 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

aq8knyus wrote:
I can definitely see in a generation or two Chuseok becoming more about a free week off work than arduous family commitments.

That will be anywhere from 25-50 years. I'd say by 25 years a great reduction, and by 50-75 years only the really traditional families will keep it going. After that it will be a virtually dead tradition, with only the most ultra-conservatives making trips to their grandfather's hometown.
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Chaparrastique



Joined: 01 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2014 9:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stain wrote:
Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit?


Its jealousy from all the enslaved married people who are forced into mind-numbing chuseok obligations by their spouses.

FDNY seems to have found a way to escape to freedom occasionally, fair play to him.
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aq8knyus



Joined: 28 Jul 2010
Location: London

PostPosted: Fri Sep 12, 2014 5:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jvalmer wrote:
aq8knyus wrote:
I can definitely see in a generation or two Chuseok becoming more about a free week off work than arduous family commitments.

That will be anywhere from 25-50 years. I'd say by 25 years a great reduction, and by 50-75 years only the really traditional families will keep it going. After that it will be a virtually dead tradition, with only the most ultra-conservatives making trips to their grandfather's hometown.


I agree.

A lot of the practices belong to another age when Korea was less industrialized and lived within close proximity to one another.

It is not a bad thing, I know plenty of British traditions that have fallen by the wayside over the centuries and the sky didn't fall in or anything.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 12, 2014 6:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Chaparrastique wrote:
Stain wrote:
Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit?


Its jealousy from all the enslaved married people who are forced into mind-numbing chuseok obligations by their spouses.

FDNY seems to have found a way to escape to freedom occasionally, fair play to him.


It's not that, it's just...don't you love your family? Or at least respect the desire for your children and grandparents to spend some time together on the holidays?

(He made a good point about "alternate Chuseok" being a viable option to avoid hassle and get in a vacation)

I guess I'm saying, why can't you turn the time into something fun? Why all the negativity? Aren't you happy to see your relatives?
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northway



Joined: 05 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Fri Sep 12, 2014 8:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
Chaparrastique wrote:
Stain wrote:
Man, why are so many people giving this guy shit?


Its jealousy from all the enslaved married people who are forced into mind-numbing chuseok obligations by their spouses.

FDNY seems to have found a way to escape to freedom occasionally, fair play to him.


It's not that, it's just...don't you love your family? Or at least respect the desire for your children and grandparents to spend some time together on the holidays?

(He made a good point about "alternate Chuseok" being a viable option to avoid hassle and get in a vacation)

I guess I'm saying, why can't you turn the time into something fun? Why all the negativity? Aren't you happy to see your relatives?


I think a lot of the Korea lifers are lifers because they don't care that much about seeing their relatives. I'm not saying a majority, let alone all, but a sizable number.
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SeoulNate



Joined: 04 Jun 2010
Location: Hyehwa

PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2014 5:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Went once 6-7 years ago.

Would not go back.

Far too many idiots doing idiotic things. Don't get me wrong, I like to have a fair bit of drunken fun, but dragging sofas and other assorted furniture from the nearby pensions to the beach and lighting them on fire exceeds that limit by quite a bit.
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Chaparrastique



Joined: 01 Jan 2014

PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2014 5:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SeoulNate wrote:
I like to have a fair bit of drunken fun, but dragging sofas and other assorted furniture from the nearby pensions to the beach and lighting them on fire exceeds that limit by quite a bit.


Fun is always extreme in Korea.

When you live under such a pent-up stress-filled miserable society as this, then l"letting off steam" is more an exercise in emergency therapy.

You only have to listen to the 20 decibel laughter and screaming from all the middle-schoolers at 7pm to know that.
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Lucas



Joined: 11 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2014 7:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
I know plenty of British traditions that have fallen by the wayside over the centuries and the sky didn't fall in or anything.


2 days and counting! Laughing
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Smithington



Joined: 14 Dec 2011

PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2014 8:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

le-paul wrote:
Fucking hell, you must be right out of school?

I grew out of this kind of stuff when I was 12...


Exactly. Let's hope the OP is someone's teenage kid here, and not an actual adult with a university degree.
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