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The Cosmic Hum

Joined: 09 May 2003 Location: Sonic Space
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 8:43 am Post subject: |
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jazzmaster wrote: |
nicwr2002 wrote: |
Maybe she doesn't want to get married or have children. It feels like everyone thinks that the end game is to get married and have a kid. I can understand her way of thinking and more power to her. She is able to do whatever she wants without the shackles of having to change her way of life just because she's in a relationship with someone. |
Maybe so. But it's a hell of a risk if you might change your mind as you get older. |
Yeah...possibly...but not nearly the risk of getting married and having kids and then changing your mind on the matter...right? |
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World Traveler
Joined: 29 May 2009
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 9:26 am Post subject: |
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In a new working paper, Canadian economists Shawn Grover and John Helliwell show the effect of marriage on a lifetime of happiness. They find that married people are generally happier, and that the “happiness bonus” from marriage is strongest right in middle age — when you need it the most.
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Subjective well-being research has often found that marriage is positively correlated with well-being. Some have argued that this correlation may be result of happier people being more likely to marry. Others have presented evidence suggesting that the well-being benefits of marriage are short-lasting. Using data from the British Household Panel Survey, we control individual pre-marital well-being levels and find that the married are still more satisfied, suggesting a causal effect, even after full allowance is made for selection effects. Using new data from the United Kingdom's Annual Population Survey, we find that the married have a less deep U-shape in life satisfaction across age groups than do the unmarried, indicating that marriage may help ease the causes of the mid-life dip in life satisfaction and that the benefits of marriage are unlikely to be short-lived. |
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Who's Your Daddy?
Joined: 30 May 2010 Location: Victoria, Canada.
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2015 11:22 am Post subject: |
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^^ Does that take into account that bad/unhappy marriages remove themselves from the study by divorce. So the remaining pool of "married" are those that are more likely in a good marriage.
I think a big benefit of marriage is two incomes cover the cost of housing. That in itself might make life happier. |
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toonchoon

Joined: 06 Feb 2009 Location: Gangnam
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Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 9:19 pm Post subject: |
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All this talk and it's like everybody is missing the point:
25% of Koreans living along means that more and more women in their 20's are living alone, meaning that there's no curfew from parents to come home by 10pm, meaning that it's becoming much easier to [Mod Edit]
... if that wasn't already the case. |
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Weigookin74
Joined: 26 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2015 5:50 pm Post subject: |
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Now if the marts would quit selling fruit in bulk maybe they'd all be onto something. Seriously, I don't need a ton of bannanas or other things together. Let me pick off the ones I need. I'm not a family and the rest will spoil before I eat them all. Maybe if the marts learn this fact, they'll learn to be more flexible. |
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lemak
Joined: 02 Jan 2011
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Posted: Tue Mar 17, 2015 12:22 pm Post subject: |
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if you've smelled the breath of the average local on any korean public transport it doesn't surprise me no one wants to live with them. |
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jazzmaster
Joined: 30 Sep 2013
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Posted: Tue Mar 17, 2015 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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lemak wrote: |
if you've smelled the breath of the average local on any korean public transport it doesn't surprise me no one wants to live with them. |
I haven't really noticed it too much. Are they as bad as the French?
I know adjussis are famous for having a particular smell after a night out. Garlic, cigarettes, soju, and kimchi all mixed together. Not pleasant. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2015 6:11 pm Post subject: |
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World Traveler wrote: |
In a new working paper, Canadian economists Shawn Grover and John Helliwell show the effect of marriage on a lifetime of happiness. They find that married people are generally happier, and that the “happiness bonus” from marriage is strongest right in middle age — when you need it the most.
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Subjective well-being research has often found that marriage is positively correlated with well-being. Some have argued that this correlation may be result of happier people being more likely to marry. Others have presented evidence suggesting that the well-being benefits of marriage are short-lasting. Using data from the British Household Panel Survey, we control individual pre-marital well-being levels and find that the married are still more satisfied, suggesting a causal effect, even after full allowance is made for selection effects. Using new data from the United Kingdom's Annual Population Survey, we find that the married have a less deep U-shape in life satisfaction across age groups than do the unmarried, indicating that marriage may help ease the causes of the mid-life dip in life satisfaction and that the benefits of marriage are unlikely to be short-lived. |
But it could also be that happy people tend to get married instead of marriage makes people happy, though the latter can be true. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2015 6:40 pm Post subject: |
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The subjective feeling of loneliness increases risk of death by 26%, according to the new study in the journal Perspectives on Psychological Science. Social isolation—or lacking social connection—and living alone were found to be even more devastating to a person’s health than feeling lonely, respectively increasing mortality risk by 29% and 32%.
http://time.com/3747784/loneliness-mortality/ |
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Who's Your Daddy?
Joined: 30 May 2010 Location: Victoria, Canada.
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Posted: Sat Mar 21, 2015 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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ㅅㅅThat's relevant to a lot of foreigners in Korea. |
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