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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003
Location: japan is better than korea.
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i wish dude. she's AMAZING. but she's attached and super conservative... that's why i asked her, she'd give me the most frank assessment of how challenging it could be to date a korean girl.
the korean girl i like is a hell of a lot less liberal, and totally cool... but she's still korean so i'm steppin' lightly. |
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Tiberious aka Sparkles
Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 12:56 am Post subject: |
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| Skinship (�����ë�) is a Japanese word with obvious English root origins coined in Japan, initially to describe the closeness between a mother and her child due to the physical contact of their naked skin. Contemporary use of the word includes the close relationship that develops between friends or coworkers when they share their nakedness at a public bathhouse, known as a onsen or a sento depending on the type, stripping away the social construct that would otherwise differentiate them as boss and employee or senior and junior. The earliest citation of this word appears in Nihon Kokugo Daijiten, 1971. |
The Japanese: always innovating.
Sparkles*_* |
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matthewwoodford
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Location: Location, location, location.
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 1:39 am Post subject: Re: my female korean friend said something funny. |
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i was telling her i might ask out a korean girl and was asking for dating advice and cultural differences...
her last bit of advice was "do not be in too much of a hurry to get close... you know what i mean? SKINSHIP ^**^"
"skinship". it has now been added to my vocabulary. |
Skinship, touching skin to skin, i.e. don't make out with her. They will tell you this regardless of whether the girl in question is a virgin or a playgirl. Unless the person whose advice you're asking is a friend they will just give you the conventional 'right thing to say' as not to do so would be considered ill-mannered. You have to treat each girl as an individual.
Saying that I find your idea that you have to 'go carefully' with Korean girls risible in the extreme.  |
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Derrek
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Skinship is any physical contact between two people with romantic possibilities, not necessarily sex. It includes holding hands, kissing, etc. |
And many Korean girls will engage in this just for free English lessons.
I'm not talking sex.
I'm talking about leading you on to thinking there's something there that isn't, just so you'll keep talking to her for free.
Be warned. |
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Tiberious aka Sparkles
Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 4:07 am Post subject: |
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| Derrek wrote: |
| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Skinship is any physical contact between two people with romantic possibilities, not necessarily sex. It includes holding hands, kissing, etc. |
And many Korean girls will engage in this just for free English lessons.
I'm not talking sex.
I'm talking about leading you on to thinking there's something there that isn't, just so you'll keep talking to her for free.
Be warned. |
Still not getting any, D? Sigh.
How's the all-girls high school treating you?
Sparkles*_* |
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Arthur Fonzerelli
Joined: 22 Jan 2003
Location: Suwon
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 4:14 am Post subject: |
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| Derrek wrote: |
| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Skinship is any physical contact between two people with romantic possibilities, not necessarily sex. It includes holding hands, kissing, etc. |
And many Korean girls will engage in this just for free English lessons.
I'm not talking sex.
I'm talking about leading you on to thinking there's something there that isn't, just so you'll keep talking to her for free.
Be warned. |
been hurt many times derrek? |
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uber1024
Joined: 28 Jul 2003
Location: New York City
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 4:33 am Post subject: |
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| Arthur Fonzerelli wrote: |
| been hurt many times derrek? |
You remember all of his "So I was minding my own business the other day ..." stories? They were definitely good stories. I used to check out the forum just to look for Derrek threads. |
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adventureman
Joined: 18 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 10:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Derrek wrote: |
| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Skinship is any physical contact between two people with romantic possibilities, not necessarily sex. It includes holding hands, kissing, etc. |
And many Korean girls will engage in this just for free English lessons.
I'm not talking sex.
I'm talking about leading you on to thinking there's something there that isn't, just so you'll keep talking to her for free.
Be warned. |
That kind of relationship is just a joke.
If you have gotton to know each other well enough, and feel like it has just reached the point where is she is just leading you on (i.e., after a few dates) then why not just be upfront and honest and straightforwardand with her and ask her why she is with you? |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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women will you usually advise you to do the opposite of what you need to do...they're testing you, and want to see how much you will pay for them before they let you so much as hold hands with them.
Don't believe or trust them!!!!!!!!! thats the best advice. |
Note: following Rapier's advice on women will probably earn you a slap across the face, if not worse.  |
Isn't he still single?  |
For a man, being married != being successful with women.
Rapier tells it straight 99 4/100th of the time. |
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Zed
Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Shakedown Street
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 10:34 pm Post subject: |
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| uberscheisse wrote: |
i wish dude. she's AMAZING. but she's attached and super conservative... that's why i asked her, she'd give me the most frank assessment of how challenging it could be to date a korean girl.
the korean girl i like is a hell of a lot less liberal, and totally cool... but she's still korean so i'm steppin' lightly. |
So your advisor is super conservative and the one you like is even less liberal? |
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Mashimaro
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: location, location
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| Posted: Sun May 30, 2004 11:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Arthur Fonzerelli wrote: |
| Derrek wrote: |
| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Skinship is any physical contact between two people with romantic possibilities, not necessarily sex. It includes holding hands, kissing, etc. |
And many Korean girls will engage in this just for free English lessons.
I'm not talking sex.
I'm talking about leading you on to thinking there's something there that isn't, just so you'll keep talking to her for free.
Be warned. |
been hurt many times derrek? |
Why do you assume Derrek must have been hurt many times or is somehow bitter. Don't be so naive to assume every girl is completely honest and is not using you. And NO luckily I have not been hurt this way myself.
I know it is hard for some people believe but some people korean girls don't like you for your sparkling wit (haha) and movie star looks (hahaha). |
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Tiberious aka Sparkles
Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Mon May 31, 2004 4:14 am Post subject: |
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| Mashimaro wrote: |
| Arthur Fonzerelli wrote: |
| Derrek wrote: |
| kangnamdragon wrote: |
| Skinship is any physical contact between two people with romantic possibilities, not necessarily sex. It includes holding hands, kissing, etc. |
And many Korean girls will engage in this just for free English lessons.
I'm not talking sex.
I'm talking about leading you on to thinking there's something there that isn't, just so you'll keep talking to her for free.
Be warned. |
been hurt many times derrek? |
Why do you assume Derrek must have been hurt many times or is somehow bitter. |
It doesn't take Dr. Phil to figure that one out. Archival evidence abounds, and it's quite sad/funny.
PS - Derrek, I'm glad you didn't really have SARS.
Sparkles*_* |
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maxxx_power
Joined: 17 Mar 2003
Location: BWAHAHAHAHA! I'M FREE!!!!!!!
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Take her hand and pull it towards your cock. Set it on your trouser snake and see her reaction.
If she keeps it there then you're good as gold, if she pulls it away it was never meant to be.
We're too old to waste our time with teases and prudes. What is this, fucking 9th grade? |
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kiwiboy_nz_99
Joined: 05 Jul 2003
Location: ...Enlightenment...
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| Posted: Mon May 31, 2004 5:34 am Post subject: |
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| I'm all for testing the waters pretty early to make sure I'm not wasting time, but that's pretty hard core Maxxx, what ever happened to leaning in for a good old fashion kiss on the pecker? |
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maxxx_power
Joined: 17 Mar 2003
Location: BWAHAHAHAHA! I'M FREE!!!!!!!
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| Posted: Mon May 31, 2004 5:39 am Post subject: |
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| kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote: |
| I'm all for testing the waters pretty early to make sure I'm not wasting time, but that's pretty hard core Maxxx, what ever happened to leaning in for a good old fashion kiss on the pecker? |
A kiss on the pecker!? Is that the mouth?
I guess you have to do whatever the situation dictates but wasting time only increases your chances of being labeled as a "friend".
I think we're old enough to be past all these dating games. If two people are actually interested in each other it should be enough just to say "Hey, let's go out for some dinner or a drink and maybe *beep* ourselves sideways afterwards."
That's just me though. I hate playing games. Or it could just be an American cultural thing. We're lazy people after all. |
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