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rudyflyer



Joined: 26 Feb 2003
Location: pacing the cage

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 3:41 am    Post subject: whiny univ students Reply with quote

since the search function ain't working (I think its been garped) I'll restart the whiny univ students based on my day today.

First class at 9AM I had this girl who had 9 absences and 3 lates, univ policy states after 7 unexcused absences its an "F". I tell her that she has failed the course. Well she starts crying, I then leave the classroom to go up to our teacher workroom to hang out before my next class. She follows me up still crying, I send her out. 10 minutes later she comes back still trying to get me to change my mind pulling the Tammy Faye tear machine. I try and reason with her she won't listen another teacher basically chews her a new one about being responsible, she still won't leave. So I decide to ignore her. I go to use the computer, talk some shop with some other students yada yada, she's still there. I go to my next class, she's still there. Apparently she stayed for another 30 minutes before leaving on her own.

This afternoon I have the father of another student call and say he needs to talk to me about his child (thinking it was the moron above I feared for the worst) well the father comes and thank God it wasn't that moron. Apparently his son has been in the hospital since mid April and needed to know what needed to be done about his grade. Being the nice guy I am, I told him, I'd take his midterm grade and make that his final grade (I do it all the time for guys going into the Army). Get this, the father asks me to raise his grade!!!!!!!!! When I told him I wouldn't do anything he wouldn't take that for an answer he stuck around. Finally a TA came in and explained to him I was being nice enough to cut him a break and he left.

Finally, I had a student give me what I knew was a bogus excuse for an absence. I told the student I would not accept his excuse and his absences would count. Well get this, later in the day he went to my wife and tried to get her to take the excuse because I wouldn't. She took and the note just to get rid of him but I still didn't excuse the absence.

And I thought moving to a higher level univ I would see less of these problems Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes
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posco's trumpet



Joined: 20 Apr 2003
Location: Beneath the Underdog

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 4:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I received the following letter today (formatting and other errors retained):

Quote:

Excuse Slip

Dear Professor Posco's Trumpet,

Hello, Professor, Trumpet!
It's really great to give a bow on the letter.
There are Baseball tournament going on every year in the campus. It's called <BaekSang Baseball Tournament>. In this year, school held it from May 14th through 28th. Therefore Lunatics(representative team of social science department)had participated in the games from the start to the end since Lunatics had been to the final round. Accordingly I would like to ask you civilly to excuse our absence on May 27th. These following students were marked to be absent on the day.

Player --
    Kim Hung-jun

Manager --
    Kim Mi-so
    Ham Sun-young
    Park Hye-jin


I hope you to have a great vacation and take care with your precious life. Than You very much.


S i n c e r e l y ,
Representative of X University Amateur Baseball Team
Kim Doo-ho






In my course syllabus (which was distributed to all students), one finds

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ATTENDANCE, LATENESS AND EXCUSED ABSENCES
Attendance is required. Official departmental policy states that any student who misses more than 4 classes will fail this course.

....

You are adults. You can choose to come to class or not. I almost never excuse students from class. If you want to go to a basketball game, feel free to go—but you will not be excused. If an older student in your department demands that you do something for him/her, feel free to do it—but you will not be excused.



I can hear it now.... "but teacher, it says basketball, not baseball!."
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shawner88



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 4:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Man, a perfect opportunity to bone her, and you failed her instead?
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 4:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shawner88 wrote:
Man, a perfect opportunity to bone her, and you failed her instead?


"88" = IQ or birth year? Razz
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SuperHero



Joined: 10 Dec 2003
Location: Superhero Hideout

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 4:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
shawner88 wrote:
Man, a perfect opportunity to bone her, and you failed her instead?


"88" = IQ or birth year? Razz


Now that is funny...

sounds to me like the OP is just as whiney as the girl he had trouble with.
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ghostshadow



Joined: 27 Apr 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 4:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shawner88 wrote:
Man, a perfect opportunity to bone her, and you failed her instead?


Not sure how you expect people to take that statement. You almost sound like you've done it before....
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panthermodern



Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: Taxronto

PostPosted: Thu Jun 10, 2004 7:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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And I thought moving to a higher level univ I would see less of these problems


HA! This is why I made a choice not to take a University position.

Too much politics and B.S. ...

That's my opinion ...
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Intrepid



Joined: 13 May 2004
Location: Yongin

PostPosted: Fri Jun 11, 2004 2:51 am    Post subject: University students Reply with quote

If you want some interesting reading, pick up "The University in Ruins" by Bill Readings. It's about how the university, in the west at least, has lost a lot of its prior function of providing a broad educational base and has become a credentialling institution, or, even worse, an institution devoted to nebulous "excellence." All of which I bring up only as preface to my experience teaching undergraduates in the US, last year: they fairly arrogantly expect to pass their classes no matter the effort they put in!

Just finishing my first semester at uni here and I've had a slew of polite, obsequious letters similar to yours. Talked to the department and, sure enough, we're kindly enjoined to pass everyone. We CAN fail them, of course, if we feel that's absolutely necessary, but it's not what the regular professors do. I'll live with it...when in Seoul. I didn't fail anyone in the US--we tried our best to give everyone a 1.0 (D), but we DID fail people who never showed up, forgot to drop, etc. Those people are now contacting me, here, with medical certificates, proof of current full-time employment, etc.

The most interesting idea I've encountered is that I should give a "D" for plagiarized assignments--no matter what the extent of the plagiarism!--so as to ensure that students at least have a chance of getting HIGHER than a course final "D"!

The way I see it, Korean university can be a joke, but there are students who take it seriously, and they're the ones who will get the good grades. I hope employers here look at transcripts and note the Ds I'll be giving out next week!
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