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a student sneezed in my face
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lepid gecko



Joined: 28 May 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 7:19 am    Post subject: a student sneezed in my face Reply with quote

..not directly in my face but about half a meter away from me in my direction. He caught my attention, knowing he was about to sneeze and then sneezed without covering his mouth or moving away. had a big grin on his face and thought it was funny. dang that made me mad. i barked and put him in the corner for the rest of the lesson. but in retrospect he seemed a bit suprised that i reacted the way i did....so what's the etiquette about sneezing in korea? i know they don't make a big thing of it, but this just seemed downright disrespectful.
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marista99



Joined: 05 Jun 2004
Location: Incheon

PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How old was the kid?
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lepid gecko



Joined: 28 May 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 7:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ahh yes, that would make a difference. he's about 12, so old enough to know better i reckon. any younger and i would've brushed it off.
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marista99



Joined: 05 Jun 2004
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 7:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like you did the right thing then. This kid is old enough to know better, and I can think of no reason why sneezing in someone's face would be any more polite in Korea than it is anywhere else.
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SweetBear



Joined: 18 May 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 3:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Used to have it happen to me all the time. Sneezing and coughing. Hey they're just kids and frankly they often aren't taught these things by their parents. You'll notice it happens in the street amongst adults. Usually a horrified look on my face and a stern warning is enough to keep them from doing it to me a second time. I wouldn't punish a kid extensively for this.
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inkoreaforgood



Joined: 15 Dec 2003
Location: Inchon

PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 3:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

KILL HIM!!!

I hate it when kids sneeze in your general direction. They DO know better, they ARE taught to cover their nose or something. Every time a child sneezes in my presence and they cover their nose, or sneeze away from me, I praise them. Good Johnny, now go get a tissue! Eeww, I hate it, that rain of germs.
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lush72



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 5:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

inkoreaforgood wrote:
They DO know better, they ARE taught to cover their nose or something.


Tell this to the ADULTS who cough and sneeze EVERY DAMN DAY on the 85, 25, 26, 142, 142-1, & 33-1 buses who feel that covering their mouth on nose is not necessarry. It is soooooooooooooooooooo gross- I really hate this pesant like behavior from "adults"
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kangnamsock



Joined: 04 Jun 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 5:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

marista99 wrote:
Sounds like you did the right thing then. This kid is old enough to know better, and I can think of no reason why sneezing in someone's face would be any more polite in Korea than it is anywhere else.


Sorry, but how long have you actually been in Korea? Being rude in one culture is not always rude here. Wiping one's nose at the table is rude here. Would that offend you?

You may think of the health concern. Koreans share food and think they all share the same germs anyway.
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Pyongshin Sangja



Joined: 20 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 8:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, sock. It is still downright foul. Throw the kid out the window.
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matthewwoodford



Joined: 01 Oct 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 10:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think it matters whether the kids know any better or not. They'll know better in future from your reaction. Let them know how disgusting their behaviour is and that you're serious and they won't do it again in a hurry.

That doesn't mean flying off the handle cos that could have just the opposite effect.
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sparkx



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 11:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a system for this problem..

If a kid coughs in my face I belch in his face
If a kid burps in my face I sneeze in his face
If a kid sneezes/belches in my face I fart in his face (bare assed w/ nose placed at the ring singularity)
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Zed



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Shakedown Street

PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 12:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The same kid would probably call you dirty if you had a cold and blew your nose on a tissue. Dirty teacher! But a middle aged man picking his nose unabashedly in the midst of a crowded kamjatang restaurant is not a problem, as sneezing on others also isn't. I wish this discrepancy could be explained to me.
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dogbert



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 12:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zed wrote:
The same kid would probably call you dirty if you had a cold and blew your nose on a tissue. Dirty teacher! But a middle aged man picking his nose unabashedly in the midst of a crowded kamjatang restaurant is not a problem, as sneezing on others also isn't. I wish this discrepancy could be explained to me.


That's simple, Zed. By blowing your nose into a tissue, you are selfishly hiding your mucus and keeping others from sharing in your enjoyment of the mucus. For the production and expulsion of mucus is a public act meant to be relished and enjoyed by all.
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Zed



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 12:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Relish" is good. Now I get it.
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wylde



Joined: 14 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 2:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

dogbert wrote:
Zed wrote:
The same kid would probably call you dirty if you had a cold and blew your nose on a tissue. Dirty teacher! But a middle aged man picking his nose unabashedly in the midst of a crowded kamjatang restaurant is not a problem, as sneezing on others also isn't. I wish this discrepancy could be explained to me.


That's simple, Zed. By blowing your nose into a tissue, you are selfishly hiding your mucus and keeping others from sharing in your enjoyment of the mucus. For the production and expulsion of mucus is a public act meant to be relished and enjoyed by all.


you're a funny boy dogbert Laughing

it happens to me all the time...

as dirty as it is, I handle it. i have 22 classes of 35 kids for only 1 hour a week... there isn't time to work on manners..

on the side here... when i am counting papers to hand out, i usually lick my finger a little with my tongue to get some grip.. 1/2 the class lets out a big 'oooooowww', dirty...

i get really angry i say 'lets all spit on our spoons and put them in the same bowl together and eat the food from that bowl'.. or i open the window and say ' look out here, thats dirty'.. or i walk over to the bin and cough up a big greenie and drop it into the bin with the other loogies (like 1/2 the class does) and say... 'now, thats dirty'.

they're in their little bubble world and who are we to burst it?
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