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lush72



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: I am Penalty Kick!

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 3:58 pm    Post subject: Thanks Daves people! Reply with quote

So I had to take out a few guys who never came to Korea before. I will probably have to do it tonight as well. I can truly say that reading this board helped me last night. All those apologist posts helped me counter some severe critisism of Korea and Koreans. Some was legit- we were sitting next to 7 ladies who were loud, rude and inconsiderate. Screaming, whining, and yelling (totally normal here) was the order of the day and these guys were flabbergasted. They moaned about how rude Koreans are, how dirty Seoul is, you know, the usual things businesspeople moan about their first time here. I think I did a good job of explaining or minimizing most of their complaints, and thats from reading this board. Obviously I cant say, "yeah this place is a hole" or "my company is just as corrupt as the government is!" And thanks to Daves, I didnt have to! Thanks guys!! Very Happy
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Ody



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: over here

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 4:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i like you lush. you got layers.
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kangnamdragon



Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 4:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

good for you. Part of my job in the real world is being able to understand both cultures and explain them to both cultures.
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Swiss James



Joined: 26 Nov 2003
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 5:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Part of my job in the real world is to act as a buffer between the bizarre and often ridiculous demands of the Koreans, and the people back at home slowly shaking their heads at the latest from those crazy asians.

A little understanding goes a long way I find- glad it's working out for you Lush
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lush72



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: I am Penalty Kick!

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am totally serious, it has helped reading things here. Some of the stuff they cried about was insane, like why cant these people speak better English at the hotel!?! Shocked I said that it may have something to do with the fact that we are in KOREA....

Anyway I just talked to some work people- these guys were probably 10% legit moaning and 90% venting because they signed a terrible deal (for them that is) - Anyone who does any sort of trading here should know that the Koreans are fierce negotiators, as it is in every biz book about Korea. Rolling Eyes
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sparkx



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: thekimchipot.com

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 6:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Great points Lush. I've been in the exact same situation and have also turned to the sacred scripture of Dave's. I flip to H on my mental roll-o-dex and begin quoting Homer when confronted with these complaints. The great thing is that it��s pre-packaged and ready to distribute without me having to actually internalize the dilemma (that��s when frustration sets in).

More times than not I'm entertaining business associates who are here for conferences or training, so they're here with an open mind looking to have a good time. When there's a complaint, its usually 100% justified. When that happens I just turn to them, shrug my shoulders and say, "I know man, its all fucked up."
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 6:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Prepare a pamphlet with relevant information.
Include a nice article like the one below. (No more complaints)

Foreigners Experience Difficulties in Living in Korea
An official in the International Cooperation Division of Seoul City admitted, "The same complaints regarding visas, transportation, education, and environment are raised every year without being solved, due to the lack of cooperation from government agencies involved and their passive attitudes."
http://english.donga.com/srv/service.php3?biid=2004070522448

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Swiss James



Joined: 26 Nov 2003
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 6:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seoul Official wrote:
The same complaints regarding visas, transportation, education, and environment are raised every year


This guy should come on Dave's, we get the same complaints 5 times a day from Real Reality.
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Dr. Buck



Joined: 02 Mar 2003
Location: Land of the Morning Clam

PostPosted: Mon Jul 05, 2004 6:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lush,
What you need to do is feed the foreign negotiating team with information that concerns the deal they were brokering and have them pay you a sweet kickback.

It's the Korean way, all the way. I wouldn't expect anything less. Might as well capitalize on your unique position and profit from it. Don't play the part of an Uncle Tom/Kim apologist--you're way to cool and smart for that.
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Blind Willie



Joined: 05 May 2004

PostPosted: Tue Jul 06, 2004 4:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Swiss James wrote:
we get the same complaints 5 times a day from Real Reality.

But ramping is an effective manner for psychotics to use when attacking their victims
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Homer
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 06, 2004 4:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good for you Lush... Very Happy

I also have to deal with both cultures as I do quite a bit of consulting on the side for Canadian (and sometimes American) companies wishing to do business here.

Sparx, the pre-packaged stuff works well doesn't it? Laughing
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kangnamdragon



Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jul 06, 2004 4:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wonder if lush quoted Homer....... Idea

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Homer
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 06, 2004 4:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Didn't even know I was being quoted... Laughing
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kangnamdragon



Joined: 17 Jan 2003
Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jul 06, 2004 4:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sparkx wrote:
Great points Lush. I've been in the exact same situation and have also turned to the sacred scripture of Dave's. I flip to H on my mental roll-o-dex and begin quoting Homer when confronted with these complaints. ."
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posco's trumpet



Joined: 20 Apr 2003
Location: Beneath the Underdog

PostPosted: Tue Jul 06, 2004 6:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dupe, naif or rube?
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