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Should I Give Up on Korea?
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2004 11:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just remember

Foreigners Experience Difficulties in Living in Korea
http://english.donga.com/srv/service.php3?biid=2004070522448

Representatives of 50 immigration agencies specializing in helping people move to 10 countries stayed busy throughout the two-day event. For consultations on immigration to the United States and Canada, visitors waited in line for up to 30 minutes. A Korea Trade Fairs official said, "At the immigration fair held in March, we had about 9,500 visitors. More and more people seem to want to move to other countries because of their unhappiness with our education system or society."
http://joongangdaily.joins.com/200309/08/200309080122117709900090509051.html

Society
http://english.donga.com/srv/service.php3?biid=2004071323108
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inkoreaforgood



Joined: 15 Dec 2003
Location: Inchon

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 12:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you really like this country, stick it out. My first job was really rough, and between my boss and my three roommates/coworkers and living on top of the school (MADNESS), there was also the fact that I couldn't walk down the street holding my sweetie's hand either. I did the year, simply because getting a release letter from that boss seemed impossible, probably was.

Now, I have a good job, with decent money and some really good vacation time. It didn't happen overnight, but I did make it happen. There are good jobs out there, but many don't put ads up in places where you can see them. My current job ran an ad on their school's website in Korean. I was surprised they got any resumes!! Keep looking, and sorry about your luck so far. Wink
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TECO



Joined: 20 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 2:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jack,

Hope you don't think I was being cheeky with you.

I really think sometimes people just need to move on to another country as opposed to getting out of the TEFL'ing 'scene' alltogether.

Jack, fact is - Korea aint an easy place for a foreigner to live compared to some of the other societies in this region.

I also know there are foreigners who do just fine in Korea. But comparatively, and for whatever reasons, it's a harsher ride.

Have you tried getting a job where you can walk to work? I find this has taken a huge amount of stress out of my daily life.
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Homer
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 2:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tough one Jack.

Sorry about your bad experiences.

If you like it here I would give it another go.

But only if that will not make you miserable. I cannot understand why anyone would stay in any place that made them miserable when they can go to many other places that might make them happier.
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Dalton



Joined: 26 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 3:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you're getting paid then stick out your current contract.

I've worked at five schools here and none of them are perfect. They all suck one way or another. This place is best when you're saving money IMHO. I think Europe would be best for career building and quality of life. Japan is cool, Taiwan is hot.

I think you should decide what you want with respect to your career and living experience and read about some countries to figure out which one sounds like the closest fit. Write it all down. I want to save money so I'm happy here despite the crap.

Every country has it's own business/employee/employer culture. They all complain about what they don't like. I think you should know about that culture and turn a blind eye to it sometimes or always.

Think about a happy place Very Happy and go there.
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Michelle



Joined: 18 May 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 4:13 am    Post subject: Don't give up.. Reply with quote

I say, don't give up. Take a holiday, enjoy it and see if you feel like giving it another go.

If things have not improved for you even with a few years, I feel sorry for you.

Keep making sure you stand up for yourself. Don't stay with anyone who cheats you on pay or hours. But I think giving up is always a mistake.

If teaching is for you then you can continue, trying another country would be an option.

The problem here is finding a good employer. I have also found jobs where you do not have to work 30 hours and Saturdays. There are smaller schools and those that can allow you to job share. Especially with your experience, the world is your oyster.
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 4:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry to hear about the bad run Jack, as you sound like a cool cat. I'd say you have been rather unlucky. There are good jobs somewhere in this country. I've heard so many times, must be true!

Anyway, good luck! Sorry I have no real helpful things to add except a bit of encouragement. Cool
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 2:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dalton wrote:
If you're getting paid then stick out your current contract.

I've worked at five schools here and none of them are perfect. They all suck one way or another. This place is best when you're saving money IMHO. I think Europe would be best for career building and quality of life. Japan is cool, Taiwan is hot.


That's my feeling. If you get paid on time and your apartment isn't a hell hole, try to suck up the rest. I know there's stupid stuff at my work, like being told a week before the start of a new semester that I'm to write two text books or my ever changing schedule that no one seems fit to tell me about until the last minute. (I love when your students know your new schedule change before you and you find out through them.)

But I've found in my 13 year working career in North America that this sort of stuff is par for the course. People don't plan. There's evil office politics. The customers suck.

Sometimes it��s easy to take things personally here in Korea. (My director is out to get me! So goes my director so goes all of Korean culture! Ta hell with this country!) However when I encounter bumps I remind myself of those 4 years at the dot.com. Oi.
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lepid gecko



Joined: 28 May 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jul 14, 2004 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jackthecat, i've asked myself the same question (many time probably), and the conclusion was, I still haven't found what i'm looking for, and i'm not even sure what that is...but korea just isn't it.
i'm determined to leave feeling positive about korea. it got me what i needed, but it's simply not a country i want to live in for any longer period of time.
so i'm sticking another 6 months and then i'm outta here.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2004 5:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So we'll see you back here, in what...another six months? Laughing

If you really mean it, my congratulations. But I've heard so many people voice the exact same sentiments as you or even worse...and they were back for another round after spending a few months home, and finding that nothing much (in terms of getting a job) had changed.

Anyway regardless, I'd like to say Good Luck!
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JacktheCat



Joined: 08 May 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2004 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:
So we'll see you back here, in what...another six months? Laughing

If you really mean it, my congratulations. But I've heard so many people voice the exact same sentiments as you or even worse...and they were back for another round after spending a few months home, and finding that nothing much (in terms of getting a job) had changed.

Anyway regardless, I'd like to say Good Luck!



Hmm. Methinks somepeople need to read the whole thread, not just the title. Confused


Anyway, thanks everyone for the words of encouragement.
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captain kirk



Joined: 29 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2004 9:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, Jack, three jobs in one year? The job I had before this one had its quirks. The job before that, too. And so on down the line and the quirkiness was the shifting, unseen mullings of the management which is unnerving and, I believe, has occured in every job I've had. I'm a product, like a gizmo, which produces results. I can be replaced with someone who appears and catches their eye as a possible supreme dollar generator. How they look, grease the bosses, their age, their nationality, their recommendations. I stay at the job realizing that my worth is transitory and dependent on who's available to take my place as well as whether I'm a functioning cog keeping the haggie pulling in the cash.
A second foreign teacher arrived and I asked him, 'so what are you doing here? Are you here to replace me or work with me?'. I had a wicked toothache that morning compounded by this guy being a love interest of the head Korean teacher, apparently. And he laughed that I was 'paranoid', bla bla. He's a guy who 'lives in his head', major in political science, not long out of Uni, and relates with people close to schmoozing. Call it survival, call it greasing here, greasing there. It's also the bosses. They have bills up the yazoo and, it seems to me, are always looking for ways to squeeze out of being behind and lacking.
From my experience the contract is for a year but it's based on whimsy, 'popular opinion', perception of your performance, and who's available in the offing. But they do want to avoid paying for a visa run too soon after hiring. To be somewhere six months is something. After six months a month notice or, in lieu of that, one month's salary is owing. That's law.
Look into the next job by visiting the school. It's a more effective way of getting a job, anyway. More of a sure thing. Hired from a distance they might not like you and you them once you get there. Whether a teacher can get along in the politics, with the bosses, other teachers, etc.
For other countries Taiwan, I've been there a year and a half, is just as 'fickle'. But hey, we're not 'teachers' in a formal situation of being unionized, having seniority, certificates, etc. The bosses either. A Korean teacher was 'singing' 'have a juice bottle courtesy of a mother's gift, teachers' and I laughed inside at the word 'teacher'. Maybe our job is more difficult and rewarding than a teacher in the formal sense. More 'on the fly' than the prestigious implications of the title 'teacher'.
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Blind Willie



Joined: 05 May 2004

PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2004 11:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had the most fucked up first year in Korea. My ass is still sore from the serious pounding I took. It was so bad, that it fucked up my second year as well.

So, why did I come back? Free rent, easy savings, and the ability to head to Japan or Taiwan at a moments notice should my current hagwon go to hell.

If you got the money to go to Japan, or a nicer nation, go for christ's sake. Stop killing yourself
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lepid gecko



Joined: 28 May 2004

PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2004 10:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:
So we'll see you back here, in what...another six months? Laughing

If you really mean it, my congratulations. But I've heard so many people voice the exact same sentiments as you or even worse...and they were back for another round after spending a few months home, and finding that nothing much (in terms of getting a job) had changed.

Anyway regardless, I'd like to say Good Luck!


Very Happy .you probably right. i guess whatever happens, i'm sure as hell not coming back to incheon.

jackthecat wrote:
Hmm. Methinks somepeople need to read the whole thread, not just the title.


this is true.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2004 1:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

JacktheCat wrote:

Hmm. Methinks somepeople need to read the whole thread, not just the title. Confused


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Hmm. Methinks some people need to brush up on their irony-detecting skills.
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