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prosodic



Joined: 21 Jun 2004
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 12:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Son Deureo! wrote:
prosodic wrote:
pecan wrote:
Try reading a book sometime

Every native speaker I know would use the definite article when recommending a specific book. In other words, the sentence would be "Try reading the following book sometime."



I think Pecan is insulting you worse than you realize by using the indefinite article. He's suggesting that you don't read books at all, and if that's the case, his grammatical usage is correct.

Doesn't make up for his other Konglishy mistakes, though.


Yes, I considered that but chose to ignore it.

And I agree with Pecan's point to some extent. However, I also think that Koreans who hire foreigners have a responsibility to try to understand us. I don't think it should be a one-way street where we do all the adapting.

Pecan made his point so forcefully that it almost seems like propaganda for accepting the status quo and not trying to be an agent for change in some small way. That bothers me and led me to question Pecan's motives. Since this is the internet, there is nothing stopping a hagwon owner from registering, claiming to be a teacher, and arguing that every complaint or annoyance is a non-issue and that it's the foreigner's fault for being too Western. That is all I was trying to be wary of.

I say bend and adapt, but you don't need to embrace all Korean customs immediately and wholly.

Socializing isn't a big deal and I do it gladly, but there are certain other Korean ways of thinking that I strongly resist. For example, I resist the idea that a contract is just a piece of paper to be shown to immigration. On the one hand, Koreans give lip service to the idea that "globalization" requires business reform. On the other hand, they don't make serious attempts to change the way that business is conducted. I also strongly resist the idea that the boss is always right.
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 3:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Education Ministry said yesterday it found illicit transactions involving tens of billions of won at three private universities and announced heavy penalties on the institutions. The three - Kyungbuk Foreign Language College, Daegu University of Foreign Studies and Kyonggi University - camouflaged tuition or state subsidies as funds for the foundation and also exchanged bribes during employment of professors, the ministry said. A former president of Gyonggi University, whose name was not disclosed, was found to have appropriated 5.6 billion won of school expenses for personal use, while putting 5.3 billion won worth of state subsidies into the school's foundation.
The Korea Herald
http://www.koreaherald.co.kr/SITE/data/html_dir/2004/09/03/200409030005.asp
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 3:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean society is not egalitarian: a person's status is strictly defined in relation to others. How do foreigners fit into this scheme? The simple answer is they don't. Most Koreans who travel abroad do so in group tours, which limit their interaction with the foreign environment. Korean society thus remains very inwardly focused.

Living in Korea as a foreigner requires patience and fortitude. Most foreigners have found that Koreans can be quite friendly and warm, but you should not expect to be accepted as a member of a Korean's inner circle.
http://www.voyage.gc.ca/main/pubs/korea-en.asp#Cultural

For Housing Rentals, Foreigners Easy Victims
http://times.hankooki.com/lpage/nation/200308/kt2003082818233111970.htm

Discrimination plagues migrant children
"Schools that foreign children attend will have to develop a curriculum of international understanding. An understanding of foreign countries and mutual respect will help solve the problem."
http://joongangdaily.joins.com/200404/25/200404252243110879900090409041.html

Discrimination
http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200212/200212250002.html
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ajuma



Joined: 18 Feb 2003
Location: Anywere but Seoul!!

PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 4:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Real Reality: Do you EVER have an original thought??? Nearly all of your posts have links to other sites. What do YOU think?????
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Cthulhu



Joined: 02 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 6:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Instead of killing this thread with unrelated links, Real Reality, you really need to get out and enjoy a good faculty dinner sometime.
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coolsage



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: The overcast afternoon of the soul

PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 6:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, this thread has certainly veered from my original intent: the point I was attempting to make, if not too clearly, was that having fulfilled my social obligation to the faculty dinner, it was my further obligation to show up for my classes relatively clear-headed. If my colleagues choose to drink themselves insensible and then attempt to 'teach' with a thumping hangover, then that's their call. It's not mine. And I'm not new to this; I've been teaching at Korean universities for five years. I find these social outings to be generally onerous. We have little in common, and the conversation is shallow at best ('Korea has four seasons'. 'You know how to use chopsticks?'). Yes, we need to accommodate our hosts/employers, but they too need to acquire some cultural smarts as to who we are. And, generally speaking, we as westerners separate our working lives from our social lives.
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Pyongshin Sangja



Joined: 20 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 02, 2004 7:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So get hammered on soju and start rubbing their inner thighs. They would.
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kbridger



Joined: 27 Aug 2004

PostPosted: Fri Sep 03, 2004 5:53 pm    Post subject: Pecan Reply with quote

Pecan did not say he was a Western Kingdoms guy, he said he was not Korean. Thus he could be Chinese, Japanese, Thai, etc. This would account for non-western phrases, just as surely as being Korean would. His advice is very good and I learned a lot from his point-of-view. It vastly improves my life to be able to understand different points of view and use them to solve issues unsolvable by other means.

That doesn't mean that I have to be drunk around students. Note that the Russians also have big drinking sprees. I hardly drink...one beer will get my high, but in Korea, according to the guides, all you have to say is that you are taking a medicine that doesn't allow you to drink, or some other small white lie. I like my Korean and Canadian colleagues irregardless of their drinking...they have lots of talent and competencies and knowledge that they only talk about when drinking...and they like me and my info as well, irregardless of my not being a big drinker.

Cool.
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ThePoet



Joined: 15 May 2004
Location: No longer in Korea - just lurking here

PostPosted: Sun Sep 05, 2004 7:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's a novel idea for foreign teachers here in Korea -- don't drink if you don't want to get drunk. Nobody has to get drunk going to an after-dinner party, an after after dinner party or even an after after after dinner party...simply drink coke pepsi or some other non-alcoholic drink. Its real simple -- nobody holds your mouth open and pours.

In this way you can be sociable - schmooze and joke and tell stories just like the rest of them -- you endear yourself to them, but you don't have a hangover to worry about the next day

So simple, even I could think of it.

Poet
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sparkx



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 05, 2004 7:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Poet wrote:
Here's a novel idea for foreign teachers here in Korea -- don't drink if you don't want to get drunk. Nobody has to get drunk going to an after-dinner party, an after after dinner party or even an after after after dinner party...simply drink coke pepsi or some other non-alcoholic drink. Its real simple -- nobody holds your mouth open and pours.

In this way you can be sociable - schmooze and joke and tell stories just like the rest of them -- you endear yourself to them, but you don't have a hangover to worry about the next day

So simple, even I could think of it.

Poet


Are you for real? As someone who has to attend these type of dinners on a regular basis, I can say with 100% honesty, that it would probably be better not to attend at all than to reject a glass of soju that is handed to you by a boss (and this will inevitably happen)

I've seen every approach imaginable --

"I'm allergic to alcohol."
"Yes so am I...my face get so red...here drink up!"

"I'm an athlete and I never drink"
"Ahhh I see...soju is good for stamina...here drink up!"

"I lost my kidneys and liver in a horrible pole vaulting accident. If I drink, I may die."
"ohhh I see....soju is good for health...make you stronger...here drink up!"

Only once did I see someone walk away soju free and thats when the person lost their temper and told the korean manager, "I TOLD YOU...I DON't WANNA DRINK!" and after that the person was treated like a fricken leper.



prodosic wrote:
Yes, I considered that but chose to ignore it.

And I agree with Pecan's point to some extent. However, I also think that Koreans who hire foreigners have a responsibility to try to understand us. I don't think it should be a one-way street where we do all the adapting.


Wiser words have never been spoken.

I've mentioned this before...If i go overseas for business the koreans DEMAND that we eat korean food each and every meal. When foreigners from overseas come here the Koreans DEMAND that they eat Korean food and respect/adapt to the culture. Sometimes I feel like my head will explode having to be around such ignorance.
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Zyzyfer



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 05, 2004 11:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sparkx wrote:
"I'm allergic to alcohol."
"Yes so am I...my face get so red...here drink up!"


While I actually agree with Poet (if you're firm up front that you don't want booze, it's very possible to get through the night without having to drink), that comment is funny and reminds me of what happened to one of my coworkers.

We were having a faculty dinner and beer and soju were on the table. This guy was allergic to alcohol and could only drink like a single glass of beer in a night lest his nuts explode or something. He managed to dodge bullets for a little while with his lone glass of beer that he barely touched, but the director eventually got liquored up on soju and made everyone do company poktanju rounds. Everyone insisted that this guy drink had to drink a glass of it (in one shot) and they actually gave him the glass and expected him to seriously chug it. I finally just took the glass and downed it myself to spare him further agony.
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Sep 06, 2004 4:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sparkx wrote,
"Are you for real? As someone who has to attend these type of dinners on a regular basis, I can say with 100% honesty, that it would probably be better not to attend at all than to reject a glass of soju that is handed to you by a boss (and this will inevitably happen) ... If i go overseas for business the koreans DEMAND that we eat korean food each and every meal. When foreigners from overseas come here the Koreans DEMAND that they eat Korean food and respect/adapt to the culture. Sometimes I feel like my head will explode having to be around such ignorance."

EXACTLY

Drunken Misconduct Abroad Gives Rise to the 'Ugly Korean'
Late last year, the Korean Embassy in Manila sent an official request asking Korean Air and Asiana to "excercise self-restraint in serving alcohol to passengers." This is because heavy-drinking Korean passengers were causing disturbances on planes. A guide for a travel agency specializing in tours to Bangkok, Thailand, said, "There are quite a few male tourists who, when riding buses, drink from start to finish and scream boisterously."

Koreans who were doing missionary work in the Philippines were barred from leaving Korea and kept in the an Immigration Department confinement cell when counterfeit immigration stamps were discovered in their passports.
Chosun Ilbo
http://english.chosun.com/w21data/html/news/200402/200402200009.html

'Drinking Is Leading Killer of Middle-Aged Korean Men'
Citing a 2001 survey conducted by the Korea Drinking Culture and Alcohol Research, Kim said that men in their 40s and 50s drank more frequently than other age groups, with one out of four men drinking more than four times a week. About half of them, or 52.1 percent of respondents in their 40s and 46.9 percent of survey participants in their 50s, said that they consumed too much alcohol at one time or another. Considering Korea's excessive drinking culture, Kim argued, about 20,000 people are estimated to die from drinking-related causes every year, including drunk driving, as well as stomach cancer, liver cancer and other ailments.
Korea Times
http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/lpage/nation/200212/kt2002121317183211980.htm
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manlyboy



Joined: 01 Aug 2004
Location: Darwin, Northern Territory, Australia

PostPosted: Mon Sep 06, 2004 4:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Drunken Misconduct Abroad Gives Rise to the 'Ugly Korean'
Late last year, the Korean Embassy in Manila sent an official request asking Korean Air and Asiana to "excercise self-restraint in serving alcohol to passengers." This is because heavy-drinking Korean passengers were causing disturbances on planes. A guide for a travel agency specializing in tours to Bangkok, Thailand, said, "There are quite a few male tourists who, when riding buses, drink from start to finish and scream boisterously."


Hey. Sounds like the cultural divide between Koreans and Australians is shrinking!
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