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Are Whites Treated Preferentially in Korea? |
I think they (we) are, and it makes me uncomfortable when I as a white person am treated preferentially. |
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I think they (we) are, and I love it and will take advantage of it. |
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I don't think we (they) are, and I've been in Korea for a while (say over 6 months). |
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I don't think we (they) are, and I just got here. |
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lpcool
Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Location: Seoul, Korea
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 1:13 am Post subject: Are Whites Treated Preferentially? |
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Are whites treated preferentially in Korea? Do you know of any instances confirming/disconfirming this? What do you make of them?
The poll options are not thorough, obviously, because it'll of course "depend on the situation." I'm referring more to the tendency as a whole in this culture...
On a related note:
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=4007&highlight=
Suggestions for more poll options will be appreciated...
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sillywilly

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Canada.
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 1:28 am Post subject: |
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Ive experienced both.. I have noticed favoritism though. Liek going into a crowded bank and being served first..
My son, on the other hand, gets free gifts and special services on a regular basis. |
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The Donkey

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Location: Somewhere drinking, smoking and using foul language
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 1:44 am Post subject: |
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Yeah, being a white NA guy I have been treated well compared to Japanese, Midle Easterners, other SE Asianers and Blacks. Still get the short end of the stick though.
I never knew what racism felt like until I came to Korea. Overall, I feel it is a pretty racist society. There are some shinning stars in the bunch, as there are anywhere. But I'll be damned if I feel like I am welcomed in this country. |
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whatthefunk

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Location: Dont have a clue
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 1:50 am Post subject: |
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I agree. Even the small 'favors' you get in resturants and stuff are done so in a racist way...they give you special treatment because you are different. Even though its not necessarily always negative racism, its still racism and it doesn't make me feel welcome anywhere. |
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Alias

Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 2:22 am Post subject: |
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Of course we get preferential treatment. I certainly do. Just this weekend while I was walking down the street , a Korean man came up to me and offered me a job at his English School. Christ he didn't talk to me more than 40 seconds. Just saw that I was white and could speak English. Back home I couldn't kill for a job. |
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Dan

Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Sunny Glendale, CA
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 3:15 am Post subject: |
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sorry if i can't feel sympathetic to anyone complaining that they got preferential treatment, which is still racist, because they are white.
guess what, its WAAAAAAAAAY better than getting $hitty treatment because you aren't white anywhere else in the world. |
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whatthefunk

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Location: Dont have a clue
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 3:23 am Post subject: |
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That is true, but it is still very annoying to be treated differently just becasue you aren't korean. |
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FierceInvalid

Joined: 16 Mar 2003
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 4:52 am Post subject: |
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I agree with Dan, I can't in good conscience complain about getting preferential treatment as a white person, no matter the grounds...I can't imagine what an African American for example might think of that complaint. Besides, the good treatment being done condescendingly I think is probably in people's heads more than anything. When an ajumma at a restaurant asks if you want a fork or something she's just trying to help, but I can imagine lots of foreigners here freaking out about how she's assuming you're stupid or something.
It does go both ways, though...not that long ago a guy I met for five minutes literally invited me to move in with him as kind of a homestay kind of thing (he's got a couple of kids, learn English, blah, blah) but I can imagine his reaction if I tried to date his daughter (after she came of age of course...) |
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bignate

Joined: 30 Apr 2003 Location: Hell's Ditch
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 10:38 am Post subject: |
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Why do you think they usually ask for pictures when they are accepting new teachers?
I have actually had a hagwon supervisor, go over names and ask me if they sounded white.
I have also seen the owner of said hagwon throw out resumes of those who even looked too tan, and choose non-graduate white teachers over qualified "non-white" teachers.
Sad, sad indeed |
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William Beckerson Guest
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 7:42 pm Post subject: |
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Yes.
Take advantage of it while they're still figuring out how we're all using them. |
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Butterfly
Joined: 02 Mar 2003 Location: Kuwait
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2003 11:18 pm Post subject: |
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whatthefunk wrote: |
I agree. Even the small 'favors' you get in resturants and stuff are done so in a racist way...they give you special treatment because you are different. Even though its not necessarily always negative racism, its still racism and it doesn't make me feel welcome anywhere. |
There's just no pleasing some people is there ? Well, perhaps they want you to feel welcome and comfortable being sensitive to the fact that you are out of your natural environment. Perhaps they enjoy your company because it's a nice change for them to have someone from a different country in their establishment. Did it cross your mind that they might feel embarrassed about not being able to speak English, and are trying to compensate for it in some way?
All explanations which have been given to me by Korean people.
If all Koreans were asked to read and understand your post, then exactly how are they be supposed to react and behave according to the judgements of mr. whatthefunk, given that the vast majority of them don't speak English?
Ignore the fact that they are honored and excited about having a foreigner in their establishment?
Pretend they speak English?
It seems some people are genuinely victims of racism, some are never victims of racism, however here we have a new category of individual who is very rarely a victim of racism, however, prefers to perceive it nomatter how people behave towards him. Someone who perceives harm when there is none. I despair. |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Wed May 07, 2003 4:41 am Post subject: |
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Ok,
I'm with donkey on the whole 'I never knew what racism felt like until I came to Korea' thing... it's a lot more overt here ie. the whole 'members only' thing that you see in stores, the stares etc. which is something I don't like... Having your korean co-worker laugh at another new zealander because his grand parent was non-white wasn't cool... but I choose to politley explain why I didn't think that was cool and moved on.
But having said that I think we, as english speakers primarly of european descent, have it lot easier here than people who speak different languages/look different in our home countries... as most racism in this country tends to benefit us.
As far as day to day living goes I don't think it's something to worry about... For instance the subways have signs and maps in english, that to me is a welcoming part of korea. They realise that your unlikely to be able to string more than two words together and wanna cut you some slack. I think some of our home counties could learn a thing or two about that. New Zealands offically bilingual yet won't see many signs in english and maori unless it's a government or maori organisation. Yet the koreans cut me way more slack here.
Big stuff like people not getting hired for being 'dark' is a worry.... but there's little you can do about.
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indiercj

Joined: 30 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed May 07, 2003 8:06 am Post subject: |
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There is no doubt in my mind that we Koreans are racists whether with ill-intention or without. The only time i experience this is when i walk my dog. He's half yorkshir terrier and half maltese. Every people on the streets regardless of age ask what breed he is. It makes me really uncomfortable to see the disapointment on their faces the moment after i tell them he is actually a mixed breed. They just can't appreciate one little cute dog without asking what he is, whether he is "pure". 
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William Beckerson Guest
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Posted: Wed May 07, 2003 7:53 pm Post subject: |
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Like most things here, dogs, and children are status symbols.
"Mrs. Oh! What a cute puppy! How much did you pay for him?"
"He was more expensive than my son, but at least I didnt have to sleep with my husband to get him." |
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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2003 3:00 am Post subject: |
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Without question this is a very racist society. It is so ignorant and unfamilar with the rest of the planet, the people cannot help their ignorance when they spend their lives in this little closet of the world. I feel bad for them but then again I realize at least half the planet is in a similar deal. |
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