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CustomX



Joined: 25 Aug 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

manlyboy wrote:
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sometimes u guys need to just chill and stop assuming things about people you dont even know


Be warned. Everything that gets posted here is scrutinized by know-it-all smart arses eager for an opportunity to pounce. It's kinda cool in a way. Keeps people on their toes, and produces a higher quality of discussion than other forums where everybody is nice and polite.


i will agree to a certain extent, but people also come across as a*holes when they jump all over you. they try to twist things around that you say to prove their point. i swear, some people on this board just look for an excuse to start an argument or piss somebody off
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adventureman



Joined: 18 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

indytrucks wrote:
Seriously, it makes me laugh when these "I didn't travel 3000 miles to hang around with people from my own country" types ultimately end up spending all their time trolling around Itaewon or Hongdae looking for other foreigners.

Lame.


What about bitter foreigners who put themselves on a pedestal?
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edgellskiuk



Joined: 21 Jun 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Another thread falls into the same old same old pattern of sniping at each other. Instead of being snide to each other can people offer any help to the girl?

I live in Songpa and only know Itaewon a little and have never been to Hongdae so I am as much use as a chocolate teapot on this subject. Shocked
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indytrucks



Joined: 09 Apr 2003
Location: The Shelf

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Custom X,

If you misunderstood my post, let me clarify.

My comments were not aimed at you. I was simply saying that I've met a lot of newbies here who on one hand will prattle on about how they've traveled so far to gain cultural insight and awareness and have no interest in socializing with folks from their own neck of the woods, and then on the other hand start asking for directions to Limelight after the novelty has worn off, usually about three weeks later.

That was my point. Nothing more, nothing less.

The quicker people realize that moving here is hard, and they will inevitably need companionship from like-minded people, the better.
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sparkx



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: thekimchipot.com

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I live in Songpa and only know Itaewon a little and have never been to Hongdae so I am as much use as a chocolate teapot on this subject


I lived in Song-Pa last year (Seokchon-dong specifically). You need to hit Shin-chun...a couple great bars and you'll see a fair share of foreigners.

Gullivers used to be the place to go, but Tequilla Momma was my personal fav. spot (my picture is in the collage of pics on the wall when you walk in -- see if you can spot it)
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CustomX



Joined: 25 Aug 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

indytrucks wrote:
Custom X,

If you misunderstood my post, let me clarify.

My comments were not aimed at you. I was simply saying that I've met a lot of newbies here who on one hand will prattle on about how they've traveled so far to gain cultural insight and awareness and have no interest in socializing with folks from their own neck of the woods, and then on the other hand start asking for directions to Limelight after the novelty has worn off, usually about three weeks later.

That was my point. Nothing more, nothing less.

The quicker people realize that moving here is hard, and they will inevitably need companionship from like-minded people, the better.


point taken. peace
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manlyboy



Joined: 01 Aug 2004
Location: Darwin, Northern Territory, Australia

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 11:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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point taken. peace


Oh, nice use of capitalization, idiot! Rolling Eyes What a troglodyte! Laughing I fart in your general direction and wave my private parts at your aunties!!! Ever heard of a little punctuation feature called a "period", nimrod!? Rolling Eyes And you want to be an English teacher? What a joke! Laughing You suck!


















Aaaaaah...now I feel all intellectually superior.























See how it works around here? Wink
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 11:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I figure having a few foreigner friends (or at least one good one) is pretty much a necessity for most foreigners. Helps with the adjustment (which may not fully happen ever), guarantees fluent conversation, and helps keep some sanity intact. Also it helps to be understood, to have another understand your living situation.

Did anyone really come to Korea to avoid all foreigners and spend all their time with Koreans? Did you arrive clueless about the country and its language ( like most of us I assume)

and then just figure you'd have an easy time hanging out with Koreans who spoke good English?
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kari



Joined: 30 Nov 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 11:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi there

After reading all that has been posted, i`d like to clarify! I`ve been here already for about 2 weeks, and have been looking around on a weekend to places other than foreign hang outs, as it were! But, where I live, I would like to meet people to hang out with during the week and the odd weekends, just for conversation, etc etc. So far, have been to Itaewon, and Hongdai (?) and have taken up suggestions of other places, so thanks, and might see some of you on that night out. Cheers!
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 12:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

WEll, my suggestion would be to get involved with something- Korean lessons, or a healthclub or whatever- easiest way to meet people really.
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Grotto



Joined: 21 Mar 2004

PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 1:22 am    Post subject: sigh Reply with quote

CustomX wrote:
osangrl wrote:
Its just when i FIRST got here, another Canadian is the last thing i wanted to meet.


I got tired of recruiters saying 'you'll live in a nice area with lots of foreigners.' I'm not interested in meeting a lot of foreigners when I get to Korea, otherwise, whats the point of moving 3000+ miles away?


and thats the problem with 90% of the foriegners in Korea today. They have no interest in greeting you, meeting you or associating with you in any way shape or form.

I affectionately call it the stick up the ass syndrome!

You know what? When I see another foreigner on the street I say 'hi', I smile, I wave. All too often foreigners ignore, look away, see you and move away, or pretend to have a call on their cell phones. Truly sad.

I dont want to be your best friend! I dont want to know your life story! I dont want to tell you my life story!

I just want to see some effing civility!
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jaebea



Joined: 21 Sep 2003
Location: SYD

PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 5:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

edgellskiuk wrote:
I live in Songpa and only know Itaewon a little and have never been to Hongdae so I am as much use as a chocolate teapot on this subject. :shock:


Greatest. Idea. Ever.

Chocolatey tea. My God. How come people didn't think of this earlier?

:)

Back to the OT, you should try to make it to the meet if you can. We won't bite.. at least most of us wont. I can't speak for some of the goddamn renegades on this board... :D

jae.
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Demonicat



Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry, when and where exactly is this meet and greet in hong-dae? Kari, I'm new too if you want to hang out (I live in the Myongi/hongdae area)
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 7:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jajdude wrote:
Did anyone really come to Korea to avoid all foreigners and spend all their time with Koreans? Did you arrive clueless about the country and its language ( like most of us I assume)

and then just figure you'd have an easy time hanging out with Koreans who spoke good English?



No. I learned to avoid other foreigners after I came to Korea.
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jaebea



Joined: 21 Sep 2003
Location: SYD

PostPosted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 10:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

For those interested in attending the meet, the thread is here.

jae.
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