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canadian_in_korea
Joined: 20 Jun 2004 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 5:22 am Post subject: |
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My husband and I did the same thing....all the paperwork is done now we have to have the ceremony. We are going to have a traditional ceremony here....most likely at lotte world (its nice to hear someone recommend it.. ) and then we will have a ceremony in Canada. Soneone also mentioned to me once that sometimes you can get married in a palace...?...Has anyone heard this? If its true...that might be nice.. |
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chiaa
Joined: 23 Aug 2003
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 5:30 am Post subject: |
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i could do without the ceremony altogether and just head to a tropical location with my honey
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That is exactly what the wife and I did.
I was just curious. No difference to me. |
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Confused Canadian

Joined: 21 Jan 2003
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 6:16 am Post subject: |
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A little out of Seoul, but my wife and I got married at the Folk Village in Yongin. We only had to pay for the entrance fee for our guests, but our wedding was open to the public, so half the people on the video are people we know, and the other half are just curious onlookers. However, with the money we received as wedding presents, the wedding pretty much paid for itself.
Glad we did it that way. Certainly a little more memorable than the wedding hall version, and all my friends and family that have seen the video tape and pictures truly enjoyed the ceremony.
However you decide to have the ceremony, best of luck.
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peppergirl
Joined: 07 Dec 2003
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 3:12 pm Post subject: |
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| A little out of Seoul, but my wife and I got married at the Folk Village in Yongin. |
Did you have a wedding reception there? We originally planned to have the wedding ceremony there, but then they told us we would have to have the wedding reception there too. The restaurant there is cheap, but it just looked too much like one of the student restaurants here at uni, so we decided against it.
We ended up having our wedding in the trade club in the world trade center (on top of the coex mall), but that was only possible because my husband works for the company that owns the whole thing. And then a week before the wedding some manager told by husband they don't allow weddings there, but that we could proceed as long as it didn't look like a wedding
We just went ahead as planned and didn't care about that manager, we were not planning to have another wedding there anyway
It was pretty nice and the people got served Chinese food at the tables (not the traditional tacky buffet), and we had a real 5 story wedding cake made by one of my husbands friends. |
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Confused Canadian

Joined: 21 Jan 2003
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Confused Canadian wrote: |
| A little out of Seoul, but my wife and I got married at the Folk Village in Yongin. |
Did you have a wedding reception there? We originally planned to have the wedding ceremony there, but then they told us we would have to have the wedding reception there too. The restaurant there is cheap, but it just looked too much like one of the student restaurants here at uni, so we decided against it. |
I don't remember if we had to or not, but we did. Yeah, the restaurant was pretty cheap-looking, but the food was okay. Pretty much the same deal as a wedding hall reception. We weren't too worried about it as we had another "reception" with our closer friends and such at another bar that night anyways. We didn't hear any complaints from my wife's family about the food or the restaurant. 'Twas a good day...
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Ody

Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: over here
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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Korea House
my father-in-law was happy we decided to go traditional. |
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Warfield
Joined: 21 Nov 2003 Location: Asan, S. Korea
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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| The Church that we were members at. Costwise, it was very inexpensive that route. Just had to fork out for the clothes, and some grub for the guests. |
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babtangee
Joined: 18 Dec 2004 Location: OMG! Charlie has me surrounded!
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 9:16 pm Post subject: |
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Dude, white guys in full han bok regalia just don't look quite right.
I had to wear mine, but only as a token gesture after the ceremony. I thought I was looking quite dapper. Then I saw the photos (and my wife's nephew told me my han bok was ugly - 'why you little...' ). Damn glad they didn't make me wear the hat - heheheheeh...
I'm sure Sistersarah's gonna look just Rosey though: I haven't seen a female caucasion in han bok actually... oh please have those pretty red dots Sarah - everyone would have to love that  |
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Swiss James

Joined: 26 Nov 2003 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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Dude, white guys in full han bok regalia just don't look quite right.
I had to wear mine, but only as a token gesture after the ceremony. I thought I was looking quite dapper. Then I saw the photos (and my wife's nephew told me my han bok was ugly - 'why you little...' ). Damn glad they didn't make me wear the hat - heheheheeh...
I'm sure Sistersarah's gonna look just Rosey though: I haven't seen a female caucasion in han bok actually... oh please have those pretty red dots Sarah - everyone would have to love that  |
I don't think waegukin women look right in hanbok either, although have only seen 2 or 3 try it out. Still though, you've got to do the traditional thing at a wedding. |
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Chillin' Villain

Joined: 13 Mar 2003 Location: Goo Row
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 10:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Dude, white guys in full han bok regalia just don't look quite right. |
Yeah, certainly not my thing. I'm all about cultural integration (know decent Korean, practically live in the sauna, etc, etc), but I just really am not into dressing up in the garb. I'd almost feel like I'm mocking them or something...
If I ever get hitched here (I really can't imagine it, though), I think I'm gonna just have to wear a regular (but decent) suit. Reason being, I'm not into the white-dude/hanbok thing (no offence to those who are, I just don't dig it on me), and every tux I've seen here in wedding hall ceremonies has been a hilarious joke. Like, with the weird ruffles, tails, and gloves, looking like a fairy-tale prince or something. |
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peppergirl
Joined: 07 Dec 2003
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, the restaurant was pretty cheap-looking, but the food was okay. Pretty much the same deal as a wedding hall reception. |
Well, I hadn't visited any wedding halls yet at that time, only attended weddings in Europe in fancy hotels etc. Didn't want to make your wedding look cheap or anything  |
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taegu girl
Joined: 20 Apr 2004 Location: California
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2005 12:54 pm Post subject: |
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| I personally didn't want a "wedding hall" wedding either because it seems so much like a wedding factory and had planned to have it at a church instead. those plans did not work out. However, we found a great compromise and i loved our wedding. We had it at a Teacher's wedding hall. You can only use the wedding hall if you or your future spouse have a relative that works as a public school teacher which cuts down (theoretically) on the amount of weddings each day. Each city has its own teacher's wedding hall and it is very cheap to use. Because i didn't want to feel rushed and have to have everything done (wedding, reception, etc.) done in an hour, we scheduled our wedding for the last one that day, i think around 3pm. Having the last wedding scheduled, guaranteed that we would have no one showing up early for the next wedding scheduled and no gawkers. Reception was in the same building just on another floor. As you might guess it was held in Taegu. |
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Harin

Joined: 03 May 2004 Location: Garden of Eden
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2005 1:14 pm Post subject: |
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| babtangee wrote: |
Dude, white guys in full han bok regalia just don't look quite right.
I had to wear mine, but only as a token gesture after the ceremony. I thought I was looking quite dapper. Then I saw the photos (and my wife's nephew told me my han bok was ugly - 'why you little...' ). Damn glad they didn't make me wear the hat - heheheheeh...
I'm sure Sistersarah's gonna look just Rosey though: I haven't seen a female caucasion in han bok actually... oh please have those pretty red dots Sarah - everyone would have to love that  |
I don't think waegukin women look right in hanbok either, although have only seen 2 or 3 try it out. Still though, you've got to do the traditional thing at a wedding. |
i hate to be a fashion police.....but i have to agree with swissjames.  |
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peemil

Joined: 09 Feb 2003 Location: Koowoompa
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2005 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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Congratulations on your wedding.
I haven't had a wedding but when I do I'm going to have it in a field and there's going to get pig on the spit, grits, mash and veg, tons of beer and whiskey and a bluegrass band.
It's going to be fantastic.
Now all I've got to do is find a woman who will marry me. |
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canuckistan Mod Team


Joined: 17 Jun 2003 Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2005 6:06 pm Post subject: |
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| If you don't like wedding halls, the Grand Hyatt in Seoul is a lovely hotel with nice grounds in summer--you can organize the reception/wedding you'd like whether it's big or small, and in all kinds of price ranges. |
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