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Blind Willie
Joined: 05 May 2004
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 12:38 am Post subject: |
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Given the context of our topic, here's the line that should run through everyone's minds: "Will this offend people of a given race if I make this statement? I don't know, and I don't want to come across as a bigot, so I better keep my yap shut until I do."
It seems pretty simple. |
so if it offends someone it's racist and if it doesn't offend them it's a generalisation? one man's meat is another man's poison.... |
Here, let me type it real slow for you:
If you're not certain, it's best to not say anything.
After this point, I don't know if I can make it any easier for you without using hand puppets and an easy-to-hum song.
Last edited by Blind Willie on Sun Mar 06, 2005 3:55 am; edited 1 time in total |
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korian
Joined: 26 Feb 2004
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 12:43 am Post subject: |
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as always, not on topic, not offering anything, smug, ignorant, pointless.
and you didn't answer, how do you know i'm a sock if you joined after i, the so called sock, joined? wouldn't you know who i was originally to konw i was a sock? and wouldn't that be hard if you joined after the sock joined? |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 1:05 am Post subject: |
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Race is a social construction, so it's pretty hard to tell sometimes. I can't really see how making derogatory generalisations about, say, 'Canadians' ('Canadians are whining Americans with high taxes and healthcare') could be construed as racism because I can't conceive of a Canadian 'race'. Maybe others cold. I mean could.
If anyone's stupid enough to get offended about a generalisation - accurate or not - about the politically territory in which he was born I feel a bit sorry for him. |
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indiercj

Joined: 30 Jan 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 3:18 am Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
Race is a social construction, so it's pretty hard to tell sometimes. I can't really see how making derogatory generalisations about, say, 'Canadians' ('Canadians are whining Americans with high taxes and healthcare') could be construed as racism because I can't conceive of a Canadian 'race'. Maybe others cold. I mean could.
If anyone's stupid enough to get offended about a generalisation - accurate or not - about the politically territory in which he was born I feel a bit sorry for him. |
So you don't get offended? Where are you from? |
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Maugrim
Joined: 10 Nov 2003
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 3:42 am Post subject: |
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Interesting that somebody should raise this question now, as I was wondering exactly what constitutes racism just the other day.
My dictionary says that racism is:
1: the prejudice that members of one race are intrinsically superior to members of other races 2: discriminatory or abusive behavior towards members of another race
That definition would seem to leave a lot of leeway for making broad generalizations about a race without being "racist". Just so long as you're not imputing whatever frailties you perceive in a people to intrinsic flaws in their genetic makeup (a proposition that is scientifically unsound anyway. Genetically speaking all humans are very similar).
I think that a better term for what we're discussing here is "ethnocentrism". That is:
1. Belief in the superiority of one's own ethnic group. 2. Overriding concern with race.
It still includes race, but also covers all the other things that comprise a culture. I highly doubt that any one on this board would say nasty things about a Canadian born in Toronto who just happens to be of Korean heritage.
None of this, of course, solves our original problem of deciding when the line has been crossed between generalization/satire in to racism.
My handy rule of thumb: It's generalization/satire to say, "Canadians are all pot smoking lumberjacks who blame the Americans for everything". It's ethnocentrism to meet a Canadian and assume that this Canadian, in particular, is a pot smoking lumberjack who blames the Americans for everything, without even having talked to him.
Ethnocentrism is, by my reckoning, determined by the perception of the person who is the putative ethnocentrist, not the perception of the offended. |
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Blind Willie
Joined: 05 May 2004
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 4:03 am Post subject: |
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funny, I was just thinking the same thing about this pissing contest you started up for no particular reason.
Accept what I said or dont. Regardless, you're continuing to waste my time.
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| and wouldn't that be hard if you joined after the sock joined? |
No, because I've been here years. This is a recent account. And I didn't answer this because it doesnt relate.
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| I think that a better term for what we're discussing here is "ethnocentrism". |
I agree, much better. |
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Konundrum
Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Boston
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 4:53 am Post subject: |
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| I actually agree with Willie's first comment about keeping yer yap shut...atleast until you've thought of a more eloquent way to express your idea. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 4:55 am Post subject: |
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I'd like to introduce another word to the discussion: bigotry.
A bigot is someone who uses negative generalizations (negative stereotypes) to categorize and define as 'other' a member of a group for the purpose of criticism and discrimination.
A (white) Canadian can't be considered a racist because he says (white) Americans are bombastic. He can be and is a bigot. It would not be bigotry if he said, "I ran into the most bombastic guy in the bar the other night. I couldn't get away from him fast enough." The difference should be clear. In one instance the guy is negatively labelling an entire population, in the other he is only describing his perception of one particular person. The first case is bigotry. The second is just discerning.
Racism is a subset of bigotry. It uses skin color as the identifying characteristic for explaining behavior, as one poster mentioned. The use of nationality, religion and social class are other subsets of bigotry. I think we see a great deal of bigotry on this board. I don't think we see any racism.
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with this: "Koreans are a kimchi-loving group of people". While there are individual exceptions, it is true of most members of that ethnic group. But more importantly, there is no attempt to criticize or accuse anyone of anything bad. My second example is different: "You can't trust Kim. He's a kimchi-eating Korean". Kim is untrustworthy because he is Korean is an unfair generalization/stereotype. 'Kimchi-eating' is used to be insulting, on top of the accusation of untrustworthiness.
One of the most common and easy to spot cases we see all too much here is the Canada vs US thing. It may start out as a discussion of a particular government policy, but within minutes it descends into generalizations about group character for the purposes of insult. There was an example in the OP. Something about the British liking self-deprecating humor and Americans being bombastic. There is nothing negative about self-deprecating humor, so whether it is accurate or not, no harm is done. To label Americans as bombastic is negative, and therefore insulting. It cannot be true. No group of 285 million people have the same characteristic.
I'm reminded of two of the most common questions I'm asked by people I meet here. "What do you think of Korean food?" I can answer this one honestly without any problem. I can list the foods I enjoy eating. I don't have to mention the ones I don't like. No one's feelings are hurt. But the other question is frustrating. "What do you think of Korean women (or Korean people)?" The questioner wants me to generalize about people and I hate that. I usually say, "Which woman?" If that doesn't work, I mention something about how some are very shy and the young women seem to study Italian fashion magazines...and try to change the subject. [Besides that, I hate it when someone fishes for compliments.]
If the OP really has problems distinguishing between generalizations and racism, a good policy might be to only make positive generalizations about groups of people and restrict negative comments to individual people. |
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Gwangjuboy
Joined: 08 Jul 2003 Location: England
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 5:08 am Post subject: |
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| Blind Willie wrote: |
Accept what I said or dont. Regardless, you're continuing to waste my time. |
If someone is wasting your time shouldn't you just keep your "yap" shut? |
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Blind Willie
Joined: 05 May 2004
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 5:42 am Post subject: |
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| Gwangjuboy wrote: |
| If someone is wasting your time shouldn't you just keep your "yap" shut? |
Ooo...! Give yourself a high-five, you cheeky monkey, you.
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| If the OP really has problems distinguishing between generalizations and racism, a good policy might be to only make positive generalizations about groups of people and restrict negative comments to individual people. |
Sounds sensible.
It'll never fly in internet ex-pat land. |
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Len8
Joined: 12 Feb 2003 Location: Kyungju
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 5:49 am Post subject: |
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| Patronage can be a form of racism too. Treating someone as though he can't comprehend someone elseses culture, offering help condescendingly, acting superior and almighty because you think you are more capable than someone else. |
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superhal
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 5:52 am Post subject: |
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my personal opinion:
prejudice: a judgement made out of ignorance, usually without any first hand knowledge, and often using the most minute, illogical things to support it. lots of examples here, do i need to make them?
observation: a judgement from first-hand knowledge over a reasonable length of time. for example: all americans are secretly racist and will often act outraged at the mere hint that they are. another example: american women will attack any observation made about american women as sexist, regardless of the truth behind it.
the test i use is whenever one comes up is to ask: how do you know? if they can't say or they say "oh, everybody knows it," it's prejudice. if they point to a survey, research study, or poll, it's an observation. |
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captain kirk
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 6:17 am Post subject: |
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It takes a special mental poise to avoid letting certain Korean bigots get to one, then start being a bigot back. En masse, scattershotish. It's not a question of 'who started it' to such a person. Who may not have perfect equilibrium all the time.
For example a Korean drunk guy who keeps saying 'Korea number one' holding up his thumb because he's faced with a foreigner. I mean, WTF. A bigot would think, ah, that's racist Korea while a more balanced foreigner would think, haha, that's hilarious. And dong chim the guy. |
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Paji eh Wong

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 7:48 am Post subject: |
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| Blind Willie wrote: |
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| Would you like to share with the group where that line might be? |
Given the context of our topic, here's the line that should run through everyone's minds: "Will this offend people of a given race if I make this statement? I don't know, and I don't want to come across as a bigot, so I better keep my yap shut until I do."
It seems pretty simple.
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From your first post, I thought you were refering to some sort of objective line that we all know about. Call me Mr Literal. A few years ago I would have agreed with you about not offending people. These days, I prefer a bit of honesty. If someone's an asshole, I prefer them being an public asshole. It saves time later. |
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Blind Willie
Joined: 05 May 2004
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Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 8:09 am Post subject: |
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| Paji eh Wong wrote: |
| From your first post, I thought you were refering to some sort of objective line that we all know about. Call me Mr Literal. |
Well, I do believe that there is a sort of "survival line" if you like to call it, that sits in the middle of our minds that tells us "DONT DO THIS!" The sort of thing that tells you not to go into a redneck bar and start going: "Sweet jesus, them Bush supporters sure are a bunch of easily manipulated troglodytes, dont you agree boys? Gay marriage 4 evah!"
Obviously this is a lousy example because it's true, but I think we all know when we're about to utter something stupid. We either do it through ignorance or because we simply don't care.
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| A few years ago I would have agreed with you about not offending people. These days, I prefer a bit of honesty. If someone's an *beep*, I prefer them being an public *beep*. It saves time later. |
There's the important word--> "Someone"
Don't you agree? |
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