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Keepongoing · Joined: 13 Feb 2003 Location: Korea

of course repect is on the top of the list and being sincere- that goes without saying.

Do you like men to come up to your table?

Do you like cliches?

Do you appreciate it when a man is a little nervous, or do you want a man who seems self-assured and confident? If it is confidence, how do you know it isn't the alcohol talking?

Can you tell what a man's "real agenda" is? I am not stating that all men have the same agenda! Some may honest just want to chat, while others may have a plan that goes a bit beyond that.

Do you think "bars" are good places to meet men?

What do you dislike?

Can you give us any advice?

I guess I have just exposed my naivety. I am getting a little bored with the bar scene.

I know obout these courses that claim to teach you how to talk to women but I don't want to be bothered to learn those techniques. I rather just evolve.

chronicpride · Joined: 16 Jan 2003

Sounds like you're about ready for school. Twisted Evil

peppermint · Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 1:42 am Post subject:

Confidence is generally appealing, though sometimes a little nerves are okay. Remember, we're just women. We won't kill you and bury you behind the bar if you do something stupid. (just don't knock a colored drink onto a white top) Razz

Generally being just a little more confident and outgoing than normal, while still being yourself is best.

margaret · Joined: 14 Oct 2003

I've been attached for 16 years but I still remember what I liked and didn't like when meeting men who were trying to pick me up. I liked it when men talked to me like a person--a friend-- and I hated it when they came across with sexual innuendos and heay flirting right away. I lived in Spain for a while and didn't like any of the Spanish men I met. My favorites were the Japanese men who talked to me like a fellow traveler instead of someone they were counting the minutes before getting into bed with. To me a little nervousness can be more appealing than arrogance.
I think I have pretty good intuition about someone's intentions.
Margare

little mixed girl · Joined: 11 Jun 2003 Location: shin hyesung's bed~

i don't really go to bars, but i hate guys that approach me with variations on the same thing...usually trying to tell me that i look nice or trying to talk about something random while i'm at work.

i say no cheesy lines, don't be horny, and don't try and get too close too soon.
and if it seems like she's not interested, don't keep pressing her.
if she likes you then she'll try to find something to talk with you about.

The Man known as The Man · Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 1:49 pm Post subject:

mindmetoo · Joined: 02 Feb 2004

My female friend was in Itaewon and some guy tried to pick her up with the line "hello foreign girl!"

whatthefunk · Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Location: Dont have a clue

Find common interests and then youre set.

crazylemongirl · Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...

A wise man once said that the trick with dealing with chicks it to not treat them like a place to insert your DNA.

Plutocracy · Joined: 01 Feb 2005

SuperFly · Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse

canuckistan · Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2005 7:17 pm Post subject:

Grotto · Joined: 21 Mar 2004

A long time ago I had this buddy who never failed to score at the bar. His method was simple and direct.

He would simply walk up to a woman he liked and say "wanna fxck"? Admittedly he got his faced slapped on more than one occasion and was often told to eff off and other uncomplementary things. But he would just shrug it off and walk away to the next chick at the bar and ask her the same thing.

Never failed for him. He would leave with a different chick every time he wanted one. He was no looker either.

The moral of this story is: "Remember fellas sometimes the chick is just looking for a quick lay just as much as the guy" Cool

Swiss James · Joined: 26 Nov 2003 Location: Shanghai

I like to pull up to the sidewalk next to my intended, pop the motorised hood on my Kompressor- make a little teeth-sucking noise and say

"No names yeah?"

John Henry · Joined: 24 Sep 2004

I can not post the secrets on a public board. However, women have "The Rules", and men have their own little deal.

OK, just one little insight. Attractive women get hit on ALL OF THE TIME. Even the beasts get hit on more than they want. Don't be that guy. Try breaking her balls a bit, and NOT acting like she's doing you a favor by listening to you talk. You gotta be able to walk away like it's no big deal, cuz in the end, it's not. There are tons more where that one came from.

wussie = bad