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The Great Toad
Joined: 12 Jun 2004
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...I think Adventure should try to be more like me : noble wise kindly humble inhumanly strong (I'd do 20 set reps on the college squat machines with the whole rack) benevolent, and humble.
Adventureman seems to have forgotten the basic rule of being buddies with Korean ladies - you have to seem interested in them and remind them of a romantic movie star romance where the guys infatuated - but you can not make them think you are just there for a short term luv thang. Then again I agree that wasting your time on a pamper me princess is tedious and cannot be lasting - unless you want to diaper her all life as the wife. So to some extent I agree with Rapier.
And I can personally attest to the long term devotion of Adventure man - Truth is when he and I were staying in Seoul at the KO- TOSOL Conference we were practically kidnapped by two incredibly charmingly ample and questionably virtued Canadian lasses - they kept making not so subtle hints about our hotel- but Adventureman merely give one a affectionate and delicate kiss on the neck while I in my nobility merely lightly touched one on her milky white Winter proof shoulder. So my point is Adventureman is not the sort of cad who'd be in for just one night. |
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canuckistan
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Joined: 17 Jun 2003
Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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Just because a girl is a 'good girl' with you doesnt mean she wont put out on the first date for another guy. How does that make you feel?
As for my personal experience with dating girls... lets say ive made about 2000+ street approaches and these days I get the number about 95% of the time. Of those I have to pick and choose which ones I actually date because I dont have time for them all, and then there is the fact that I have a girlfriend. Be careful of the advice you might get on this board, especially the female advice - nothing they say will help you get laid.
Shakuhachi - 100+ club
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Your words about women on these boards have more often than not betrayed you as immature, callous and superficial. Maybe it's just the internet, but you don't seem to realize how much of a scumbag you come off as. Seriously. It's painful to see a guy so emotionally undeveloped where women are concerned. The above betrays you as a significant health risk as well. I predict a long, unsatisfying life of relationship failures until you start seeing women as more than personal "scores" who should "put out."
With or without the girlfriend/booze. |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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I know shakuhachi personally; he is a very good friend of mine IRL.
You're entitled to your publicly-stated opinion, of course, as member or moderator, but I think your assessment of him is completely incorrect. |
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shakuhachi
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: Sydney
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 5:07 pm Post subject: |
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Your words about women on these boards have more often than not betrayed you as immature, callous and superficial. Maybe it's just the internet, but you don't seem to realize how much of a scumbag you come off as. Seriously. It's painful to see a guy so emotionally undeveloped where women are concerned. The above betrays you as a significant health risk as well. I predict a long, unsatisfying life of relationship failures until you start seeing women as more than personal "scores" who should "put out."
With or without the girlfriend/booze. |
Sounds like a case of player hating to me. Rather than trying to pin negative labels on me, you should ask yourself why you feel so threatened by people like me. |
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canuckistan
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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Your words about women on these boards have more often than not betrayed you as immature, callous and superficial. Maybe it's just the internet, but you don't seem to realize how much of a scumbag you come off as. Seriously. It's painful to see a guy so emotionally undeveloped where women are concerned. The above betrays you as a significant health risk as well. I predict a long, unsatisfying life of relationship failures until you start seeing women as more than personal "scores" who should "put out."
With or without the girlfriend/booze. |
Sounds like a case of player hating to me. Rather than trying to pin negative labels on me, you should ask yourself why you feel so threatened by people like me. |
I don't feel threatened by you, I feel sorry for you. But I probably pity your girlfriend and the health risk you bring to her more. |
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Gollum
Joined: 04 Sep 2003
Location: Japan
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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Your words about women on these boards have more often than not betrayed you as immature, callous and superficial. Maybe it's just the internet, but you don't seem to realize how much of a scumbag you come off as. Seriously. It's painful to see a guy so emotionally undeveloped where women are concerned. The above betrays you as a significant health risk as well. I predict a long, unsatisfying life of relationship failures until you start seeing women as more than personal "scores" who should "put out."
With or without the girlfriend/booze. |
Sounds like a case of player hating to me. Rather than trying to pin negative labels on me, you should ask yourself why you feel so threatened by people like me. |
I don't feel threatened by you, I feel sorry for you. But I probably pity your girlfriend and the health risk you bring to her more. |
Are you 100% sure he's not wearing at least 4 condoms while having sex?
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Double bagging increases the risk of one slipping off during the act, and believe me- that's not fun. |
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kermo
Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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Your words about women on these boards have more often than not betrayed you as immature, callous and superficial. Maybe it's just the internet, but you don't seem to realize how much of a scumbag you come off as. Seriously. It's painful to see a guy so emotionally undeveloped where women are concerned. The above betrays you as a significant health risk as well. I predict a long, unsatisfying life of relationship failures until you start seeing women as more than personal "scores" who should "put out."
With or without the girlfriend/booze. |
Sounds like a case of player hating to me. Rather than trying to pin negative labels on me, you should ask yourself why you feel so threatened by people like me. |
I'll tell you why I feel threatened by people like you: it's because if I were to accidentally have too much too drink, I'd have no guarantee that you wouldn't take my feeble retching as an invitation to shag.
On most subjects, you don't offend me, but the fact that you continue to boast about the ludicrously criminal "Korean Story" makes me ill. |
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little mixed girl
Joined: 11 Jun 2003
Location: shin hyesung's bed~
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 8:12 pm Post subject: |
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If you are not having sex by the third date, then I suggest you dump her. Dont be shy and tell her the reason why. You should also be looking at making about 10 street approaches a day, at least 4 days a week. Follow this advice and I dont think we will be hearing about this again (except for a post like 'How do you juggle girls?')
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woah dude. i REALLY hope that you're joking around..  |
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 8:21 pm Post subject: |
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Shakuhachi is one of those guys that got tired of playing womens power games fruitlessly and has finally turned the tables on them...nice work...but he also comes across as a bit angry somehow.
A good relationship/understanding based on knowing someone for a long time is definitely the best thing, and ultimately you have to let your guard down a bit if you are going to go anywhere worthwhile with it.
He has some good ideas: practising street/subway approaches is definitely worthwhile. If you're thick skinned enough to live through the initial battery of rejections you'll eventually become a master at the repertoire..you will have options. It does involve having enough free time to date all these women and a good grasp of Korean though.
Forget the ublove/dating websites, they aren't the place to find someone compatible. |
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Swiss James
Joined: 26 Nov 2003
Location: Shanghai
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Shakuhachi seems like one very specific type of guy: the kind that wants sex, and nothing but sex.
Relationships are a way to get sex. Dates are a way to get sex. Alcohol is a tool used to extricate sex. Women are the holders of the sex key. Women you can't have sex with are worthless. So on ad infinitum
What's right for him isn't necessarily right for everyone. |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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I don't think anyone is arguing that "women you can't have sex with are worthless".
But there is something pitiful about a guy who is stuck on the "friends" ladder and keeps whining because he's not getting any (likely because some posh is hogging all the available quim). |
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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| But there is something pitiful about a guy who is stuck on the "friends" ladder and keeps whining because he's not getting any (likely because some posh is hogging all the available quim). |
Theres also something meaningless about the other extreme: a guy who has multiple "quim" every week but is afraid to ever be emotionally involved.
Balance is everything, I think.. |
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cellphone
Joined: 18 Feb 2004
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 9:09 pm Post subject: |
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| canuckistan wrote: |
| Your words about women on these boards have more often than not betrayed you as immature, callous and superficial. Maybe it's just the internet, but you don't seem to realize how much of a scumbag you come off as. Seriously. It's painful to see a guy so emotionally undeveloped where women are concerned. |
Didn't the ladies have men banned or silenced in their "luncheon" threads? I bet other female related threads would be the same.
What is ridiculous is women who click into a thread for guy talk and become righteous do-gooders, slanderous, and disrupt the conversation with off-topic judgements. |
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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| rapier wrote: |
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| But there is something pitiful about a guy who is stuck on the "friends" ladder and keeps whining because he's not getting any (likely because some posh is hogging all the available quim). |
Theres also something meaningless about the other extreme: a guy who has multiple "quim" every week but is afraid to ever be emotionally involved.
Balance is everything, I think.. |
Of the two, which is preferable? It's a no-brainer.
Frequent sex with different partners does not necessarily equal lack of emotional involvement. |
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