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mercury

Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Location: Pusan
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 4:21 am Post subject: Toilet paper on the table............ |
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Had dinner with two female students, they took me to eat kimchi chegai, well, sure, I know most places use rolls of toilet paper on the table instead of napkins, but since these were kind of "high class" girls who had lived in Europe, I pretended to act really surprised and angry when I saw the T.P! Their reaction..................
The "princess" turned red and walked over to our table, picked up the half used roll, and actually HID IT! She put it behind some cushions on the floor!  |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 4:25 am Post subject: |
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I know of one restaurant that has toilet roll despensers, exactly like you'd find in the bathroom, on the wall beside every table. If they were as keen about putting it in the toilet.... |
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mercury

Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Location: Pusan
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 4:51 am Post subject: |
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Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
I know of one restaurant that has toilet roll despensers, exactly like you'd find in the bathroom, on the wall beside every table. If they were as keen about putting it in the toilet.... |
Ha ha, it actually sounds like a good idea, I could see some huge BBQ restaurant in Texas having the same, (just for laughs though)! |
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jaykimf
Joined: 24 Apr 2004
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 3:39 pm Post subject: Re: Toilet paper on the table............ |
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mercury wrote: |
Had dinner with two female students, they took me to eat kimchi chegai, well, sure, I know most places use rolls of toilet paper on the table instead of napkins, but since these were kind of "high class" girls who had lived in Europe, I pretended to act really surprised and angry when I saw the T.P! Their reaction..................
The "princess" turned red and walked over to our table, picked up the half used roll, and actually HID IT! She put it behind some cushions on the floor!  |
You don't have to pretend to be an asshole, you are one. |
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itaewonguy

Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2005 11:52 pm Post subject: Re: Toilet paper on the table............ |
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mercury wrote: |
Had dinner with two female students, they took me to eat kimchi chegai, well, sure, I know most places use rolls of toilet paper on the table instead of napkins, but since these were kind of "high class" girls who had lived in Europe, I pretended to act really surprised and angry when I saw the T.P! Their reaction..................
The "princess" turned red and walked over to our table, picked up the half used roll, and actually HID IT! She put it behind some cushions on the floor!  |
and the point of this is was?
dude you are in korea! so what they had been to europe! what the *beep* does that mean!!! ???
they are koreans dude!! |
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Reflections
Joined: 04 Jan 2005
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 12:22 am Post subject: |
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Good point Itaewon guy, this is Korea not Europe. I always try and remember that when I see a toilet roll perched in front of me while I am trying to digest my food.
But I remember one instance when I asked for tissue to wipe my hands and the ajumma went in to the adjacent toilet (that was in full view of my table) and proceeded to swipe the roll of the dispenser. Was bordering on unhygenic to say the least.
But, when Koreans, especially Korean males try and lecture me about the superiority of Korean culture - l always point out that bit about the toilet roll on the table. They never can provide me with an adequate retort.
What a dellusional world Koreans live in - the hub of Asia, yeah right>
Come to think of it, this issue of "the toilet roll on the dinner table" is proof that Korean culture is low, especially in comparison to Japan.... |
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matthewwoodford

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Location: Location, location, location.
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 1:35 am Post subject: |
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It's just tissue paper. |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 1:52 am Post subject: |
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Toilet paper on the table here has a bit of history. Disposable paper of any sort was very scarce here even a generation ago. When toilet paper first became available (well within the memory of middleaged Koreans) it was expensive & even a bit of a status symbol to offer your guests at the dinner table.
We tend to associate it exclusively with the bathroom but Koreans dont. Any squeamishness you feel is your own cultural conditioning. |
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kangnamdragon

Joined: 17 Jan 2003 Location: Kangnam, Seoul, Korea
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 1:54 am Post subject: |
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If it's on the table, it's not toilet paper. It is easy way to dispense something one may use to wipe one's fingers. |
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Pyongshin Sangja

Joined: 20 Apr 2003 Location: I love baby!
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 1:55 am Post subject: |
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Shut up. Have you ever been to Japan? You think Japanese people fart perfume? |
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mercury

Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Location: Pusan
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 2:13 am Post subject: Re: Toilet paper on the table............ |
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jaykimf wrote: |
mercury wrote: |
Had dinner with two female students, they took me to eat kimchi chegai, well, sure, I know most places use rolls of toilet paper on the table instead of napkins, but since these were kind of "high class" girls who had lived in Europe, I pretended to act really surprised and angry when I saw the T.P! Their reaction..................
The "princess" turned red and walked over to our table, picked up the half used roll, and actually HID IT! She put it behind some cushions on the floor!  |
You don't have to pretend to be an *beep*, you are one. |
Calm down Mr.Kim, not all of the posts are an "attack" on you and your culture, just because you are a Korean American, you seem to feel the responsibility to "defend" the honor of Korea. It is actually pretty funny! |
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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 4:06 am Post subject: |
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It's so normal here, and in some other countries, one doesn't notice it anymore. But I remember on a TV show years ago, before ever seeing Asia, a sociologist guy pointed out that most Americans/westerners would find it weird. He did a little experiment where he invited people to his home for dinner, a nice free meal, and when the good food was served he promptly put out a rool of TP and said "Oh here are the napkins." It was funny. The reactions were funny. When I saw it I thought it was weird too. Now after a while in Asia it seems perfectly fine to me. |
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Daechidong Waygookin

Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 4:35 am Post subject: Re: Toilet paper on the table............ |
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mercury wrote: |
jaykimf wrote: |
mercury wrote: |
Had dinner with two female students, they took me to eat kimchi chegai, well, sure, I know most places use rolls of toilet paper on the table instead of napkins, but since these were kind of "high class" girls who had lived in Europe, I pretended to act really surprised and angry when I saw the T.P! Their reaction..................
The "princess" turned red and walked over to our table, picked up the half used roll, and actually HID IT! She put it behind some cushions on the floor!  |
You don't have to pretend to be an *beep*, you are one. |
Calm down Mr.Kim, not all of the posts are an "attack" on you and your culture, just because you are a Korean American, you seem to feel the responsibility to "defend" the honor of Korea. It is actually pretty funny! |
No, jaykimf is right. You are a moron. A moron for not noticing that Korea is NOT in Europe and that European etiquette does not apply. Did you think you were in Europe? And anyway, what makes Europe better than Korea? |
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indytrucks

Joined: 09 Apr 2003 Location: The Shelf
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 4:42 am Post subject: |
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For Chrissakes, it was toilet roll. Not that dissimilar to a napkin. Everyone just shut the hell up.
Now, if it was used toilet roll ... |
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mercury

Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Location: Pusan
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 5:15 am Post subject: Re: Toilet paper on the table............ |
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Daechidong Waygookin wrote: |
mercury wrote: |
jaykimf wrote: |
mercury wrote: |
Had dinner with two female students, they took me to eat kimchi chegai, well, sure, I know most places use rolls of toilet paper on the table instead of napkins, but since these were kind of "high class" girls who had lived in Europe, I pretended to act really surprised and angry when I saw the T.P! Their reaction..................
The "princess" turned red and walked over to our table, picked up the half used roll, and actually HID IT! She put it behind some cushions on the floor!  |
You don't have to pretend to be an *beep*, you are one. |
Calm down Mr.Kim, not all of the posts are an "attack" on you and your culture, just because you are a Korean American, you seem to feel the responsibility to "defend" the honor of Korea. It is actually pretty funny! |
No, jaykimf is right. You are a moron. A moron for not noticing that Korea is NOT in Europe and that European etiquette does not apply. Did you think you were in Europe? And anyway, what makes Europe better than Korea? |
Ha ha, context.........that is the clue here.........context.
You must put everything in context. Now these were not just typical Korean girls, no way, Les belles filles, young Korean women who ignored people who did not speak French, yes, they were rich, and everything was about Europe, Canada........no way! The states, barbarians! Story after story of them going to local bars, dressed in their mini skirts, and turning down any guy who did not speak French. Mais moi, je parle Le Francais, tres mal, mais ca va, je peut comprendre tout les chose They told me they would never date a teacher here, especially a hogwan teacher. They were convinced that Europe was the answer. And.........they were convinced that they we the elite. And then they took me to the restaurant, their restaurant, a place where they would often go, their own habitat, and the toilet paper was like a light that would expose the true nature of La belle fille sans merci...........oui, I took a chance, and it was FUN! |
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