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KorJen
Joined: 15 Mar 2005
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 7:43 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks for all the advice. I am a bit of a hard a** already but the kids really refuse to act appropriately. Even if i raise my voice and send them out of class. they dont care. I sent letters home, the parents dont care. My co-teacher is ineffective, and i tried to punish a class the other day for not doing their homework and she came in and told them all to leave. totally overriding my authority.
I have been teaching in this country for 3 years but have never had these kinds of problems. Its really ridiculous. I certainly don't want to have a hand in raising brats, that's a definite. I'll try some other techniques, like the ones mentioned and i'll let you know how it goes.
thanks again. |
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Picture Perfect
Joined: 29 Jun 2005
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 8:25 pm Post subject: I'd suggest using a big................ |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 8:32 pm Post subject: |
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| KorJen wrote: |
Thanks for all the advice. I am a bit of a hard a** already but the kids really refuse to act appropriately. Even if i raise my voice and send them out of class. they dont care. I sent letters home, the parents dont care. My co-teacher is ineffective, and i tried to punish a class the other day for not doing their homework and she came in and told them all to leave. totally overriding my authority.
I have been teaching in this country for 3 years but have never had these kinds of problems. Its really ridiculous. I certainly don't want to have a hand in raising brats, that's a definite. I'll try some other techniques, like the ones mentioned and i'll let you know how it goes.
thanks again. |
Sounds like it's time to start typing up that letter of resignation and serving 30 days notice. A school and co-teacher like that don't deserve to have a FT with three years experience. I still can't believe a public school would let things get to that point. It sounds like your co-teacher could use a dose of the big stick, not the kids. What are the Korean teachers' classes like? |
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joe_doufu

Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
| ... if you let this *beep* continue, you're only producing scores if not hundreds of little Korean brats who will continue to treat foreigners with the utmost disrespect and will have to be much more harshly corrected at some point in the future ... |
Replace "scores if not hundreds" with "tens of millions" and "little" with "big" (okay, okay, "medium sized") and I think you might be on to something! |
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joe_doufu

Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:10 pm Post subject: i have just one class |
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In my hagwon schedule of I guess about 10 different groups, I only have one class of 5th graders that is a nightmare. We implemented new books yesterday, which i thought would be great. An earlier class of 5th graders LOVED the new book, "Fifty Fifty (intro)" because it lets them walk around the room and interview classmates, etc. Very cool book.
But then came the nightmare class. They're starting the same book, but they are such a bunch of cynics, they wouldn't give it the 30 seconds of attention it'd take to see that it was a fun book. There are one or two who tell me in no uncertain terms that they HATE english (surprisingly they're pretty good at speaking it) and they refuse to participate. It's a problem because the students who WOULD enjoy my classes see me yelling and arguing with the rotten kids, and they too decide they don't like me or English.
All in all, I think I'm pretty lucky that it's only one class, three times a week. A lot of you have it worse, I gather. |
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Ekuboko
Joined: 22 Dec 2004 Location: ex-Gyeonggi
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:18 pm Post subject: |
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I think one of the contributing factors is the 'quality' of teachers in Korean schools these days.
I remarked to some teachers at my school about how I've noticed there are NO young male teachers, only old ones who are at least 50. The other two thirds of the staff at my school are female. Earlier in the semester we had one relieving teacher, who was a younger, single male - very popular in an all-girls school!
Anyway the teachers I have spoken with say that these days, most of the places at teacher's college are taken by females, because they're getting the better grades. They seem to look upon teaching as a secure job, but they don't necessarily consider the various responsibilities of being a teacher, nor do they necessarily have the skills to be a good disciplinarian in a teacher role.
I don't 'team teach' in my school, but from what I've heard from friends who do, a lot of the newer, younger female teachers just can't cut it when it comes to controlling and effectively disciplining their students. Of course it's a bit rough having to do so with 35-50 little bug*ers in the same room, but good grades to get into teacher's college does not automatically equate to GOOD teacher. |
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Freezer Burn

Joined: 11 Apr 2005 Location: Busan
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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Take the leader of the pack out of the class with his desk into the hall and make him sit there and write lines, huge sentences too.
If the co-teacher says anything you can reply that it is still english, and since he is disrupting the class all too often he can have his lesson out here.
Go and walk past your class when they have a Korean teacher and watch the difference, they dont accept bulsh*t in their classes, why should you.
Yelling and screaming is only effective if they understand what you mean, I know that if some Korean starts yelling at me on the street I laugh because I have no clue what they are saying, Be forceful without yelling.
I taught 60 in a class at a time, 26 classes, and only about 17 classes were ok to teach, the rest I HATED, dreaded teaching them, and it showed in the tests at the end of the year, they were the worst performers in the tests.
If the co-worker overrides you again, throw her out of your class. |
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The Lemon

Joined: 11 Jan 2003
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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| I know that if some Korean starts yelling at me on the street I laugh because I have no clue what they are saying, Be forceful without yelling. |
Wisdom there. The "hard-ass" act might be entertainment for the kids, many of whom have no concept of right and wrong: "let's see how far we can push the teacher today!!" (hm. seen that around here.)
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| If the co-worker overrides you again, throw her out of your class. |
I'd speak with the co-worker later, privately, but never in front of students. The fact that the students perceive a schism between the local and foreign teacher is already causing trouble - don't make it worse. Even if you hate each other and totally disagree with the discipline philosophies of each other, as far as the kids go, it's a united front.
And just because the co-worker is acting unprofessionally doesn't mean the foreign teacher should, too. |
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rumpolestitskin
Joined: 12 Jun 2005
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 10:34 pm Post subject: |
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The solution is a two fold.
1st Get the class quite
When their bad give all the kids worksheets. a crossword or something thats generic. so that you can have it to hand for every class.
2nd Bin Huggin'
Get the ring leader on his knee's at the front of the class. Draw a stick man huggin' a bin. Them bring the bin to him to hug. Make sure he does a good job of it. Then draw a heart next to the stick man you just drew and do a kissing gesture. There's no way that the kid will ever kiss the bin, but the other kids think it's funny. Qudos for you with the good/better kids, slight humiliation for him being as he's in front of the whole class.
Next lesson when he decideds to instigate trouble, fetch the bin from the back of the class and put it by your desk. If he persists move it halfway between your desk and his. still persisting, put it next to him. no resolve? get him a huggin' |
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deessell

Joined: 08 Jun 2005
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 10:42 pm Post subject: |
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Two words
LOVE STICK!!!!!!!Get one fast. You don't have to hit the students, but I make a pretty big bang on the desk.
Also try isolating the trouble maker. Make him/her sit next to you. Make him/her give out the hand outs. He is now your personal slave. Give him attention. I have recruited most of my trouble makers now and they are on my side. There are only a few left to deal with. I don't have a co teacher and I'm a female teacher in a co -ed high school.
Good luck and remember there are students who do want to learn but fun time is over!! |
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Freezer Burn

Joined: 11 Apr 2005 Location: Busan
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 12:30 am Post subject: |
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| Freezer Burn wrote: |
| I know that if some Korean starts yelling at me on the street I laugh because I have no clue what they are saying, Be forceful without yelling. |
Wisdom there. The "hard-ass" act might be entertainment for the kids, many of whom have no concept of right and wrong: "let's see how far we can push the teacher today!!" (hm. seen that around here.)
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| If the co-worker overrides you again, throw her out of your class. |
I'd speak with the co-worker later, privately, but never in front of students. The fact that the students perceive a schism between the local and foreign teacher is already causing trouble - don't make it worse. Even if you hate each other and totally disagree with the discipline philosophies of each other, as far as the kids go, it's a united front.
Do you really believe that Korean teachers see you as an equal.
They come in and undermind you at every step, you can act professional all you want, but if she is not going to be professional and treat you like a collegue, then you have to let her know that you can't act this way in front of my class and that means letting the children know that you are the boss, and you are the one the children listen to, there is too much 'us vs them' in public schools, here and in China.
If a Korean teacher comes in and cottles and student thats just been disciplined, or brings a student back into class after you have pegged him out, it changes the students perception of you to be underminded by a K teacher, and you lose your power.
And just because the co-worker is acting unprofessionally doesn't mean the foreign teacher should, too. |
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The Lemon

Joined: 11 Jan 2003
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 1:04 am Post subject: |
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| Do you really believe that Korean teachers see you as an equal. |
No, but who cares what they think? If you feel slighted, stand up for yourself to them - in private.
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No doubt. Tell them in no uncertain terms that you won't be treated that way in front of your students.
But don't undermine them in front of theirs, either. Outline the problem as you see it and try to find solutions. If they're not taking you seriously, then take a cue from that about your future prospects.
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| you can act professional all you want, but if she is not going to be professional and treat you like a collegue, then you have to let her know that you can't act this way in front of my class |
Yup. But in private. Not getting satisfaction? Go to the principal. Still not solved? Leave, on good terms if possible. But leave. Seriously. It WILL NOT GET BETTER IF YOU GET IN A POWER STRUGGLE IN FRONT OF THE STUDENTS. YOU WILL LOSE. It's not your fault. There are impossible teaching situations out there and you may well be in one.
Nothing they do gives you the right to act unprofessionally.
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| If a Korean teacher comes in and cottles and student thats just been disciplined |
I got roped into doing a kids camp three years ago, and watched the Korean assistants treat 13 year old boys like little babies. It was sickening, and I certainly know what you're talking about. We foreign teachers went to battlestations with the Korean assistants several times in those two weeks over this kind of thing - in private, though.
They asked for post-program reports from us, and I said on mine that the kids camp had ruined several friendships between Korean and Western colleagues because of this difference in discipline attitudes that the camp exposed. The end result of that two-week exercise is that the school never again held a "kids camp". (Mission successful!) |
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guangho

Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Location: a spot full of deception, stupidity, and public micturation and thus unfit for longterm residency
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 2:10 am Post subject: |
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| I don't know what bugs me more- that they behave badly or don't bother trying. I was grading exams last week and time after time I saw blank pages. I mean blank- zero, zip zilch. No effort whatsoever. At least thirty to forty percent of the students handed in blank tests. |
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Alias

Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 2:41 am Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
| And one more thing - if you let this *beep* continue, you're only producing scores if not hundreds of little Korean brats who will continue to treat foreigners with the utmost disrespect and will have to be much more harshly corrected at some point in the future to set them straight. |
This cannot be done in your typical Hagwon environment. |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 4:59 am Post subject: |
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| Just throw the kid out. Don't let him try to sway you otherwise. Don't let him come back in. |
First go with the sticker system. Three strikes, no Astroboy sticker at the end of class. Make sure you write their name and strike count on the board. This way they can track their progress.
If that doesn't work then kick them out of the class, making them stand against the wall with a paper writing lines. |
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