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Who has successfully made the switch from ESL to "Other
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simone



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Now Mostly @ Home

PostPosted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 11:30 pm    Post subject: Who has successfully made the switch from ESL to "Other Reply with quote

Been in Korea pretty much continuously since 1997, except for that brief trip back to Canada to get an MBA. Was scared that my years of teaching English had rotted my brain, and that I'd barely be treading water in my classes with past-and-future accountants, wall-street types, and your general Masters of the Universe... but in fact, it wasn't so bad. I certainly had the people management skills, people asked me to help them with their presentation skills, and all in all, it was great being a student again.

When I left to go back to school, I wasn't sure if I'd come back to Korea. Keep the options open, you know? But the reverse culture shock was too much - and Canada just got on my nerves. The job opportunities were there, but they weren't appealing: A five-year short track postition at P&G or J&J, and maybe, just maybe, I could be a BRAND MANAGER of my own brand of shampoo. Yippie. It just seemed so small, being a cog in a wheel. Thought about entrepreneurship, but didnt' have the cash, so back to Korea. Glad to be back.

So here I am at the new job, IT company, International Marketing and all that. The HOURS! The INEFFICIENCY! Spend your days playing computer games, but you have to stay until 8PM? Why do 12 hour days seem necessary to demonstrate your dedication?

So, those who have made the switch - I'd love to hear how you managed it. Do you join your colleagues for lunch everyday? Do you try to keep similar hours? What silliness do you engage in just to "fit in?" I'm the only non-Korean here.. and I think the biggest difference is that when you're teaching ESL, you're MEANT to be different - you're the Native Speaker... But here, I feel totally "Wang Ta". As though I need to shape up and become more Korean, fast. Don't want to.

So, any advice? (I've already upped my goofing quotient by posting this during work hours... Smile

Simone
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periwinkle



Joined: 08 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 11:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I bought some stuff for my office- plants, a coffee maker, and a wall clock. Our dept. looks like crap compared to other depts. I figured that if I spend so much time here, I want the place to look "livable". I also occasionally bring in Dunkin Donuts or cookies that I baked. That really helped me to fit in (none of my co-workers radomly bring in food- must be a western thing)- people appreciate the efforts, even if they don't say anything. I have gone out to dinner a few times with the group, even if I didn't want to. If you don't go, or rarely go, you're not a team player, in your co-workers' books. Also, collections are made monthly for upcoming weddings, miscellaneous office expenses not covered by the company (coffee and tea are not company-provided, for example). Make sure you get in on the collections, because if you don't contribute, or complain about feeling obligated to contribute, they will REALLY resent you. Try to be approcahable, too. I spend all my extra time messing around on this site... I never used to post, but now it seems like I have an opinion on just about everything. Shocked
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simone



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Now Mostly @ Home

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 12:00 am    Post subject: Cookies helped. Reply with quote

I brought in cookies my first week. Been too tired to bake in the evenings since then.

We're out in the boonies, and even the Koreans agree that there are NO good Korean restaurants around here. Everyone eats in the crappy basement cafeteria, which they all continuously gripe about.

I've started bringing in my own lunch, which I eat at my desk. If I eat a whole bowl of rice at lunch, I need a nap. Sure, everyone else take them but I really want to avoid it if possible. No microwave in the office, though. I run down to the Super on the ground floor to heat up my tupperware containers.

Got the photos, mini bodum for REAL coffee. I've picked out the coffee drinkers and dive-bomb them with a paper cup of the good stuff when they look tired - sometimes.

It's going to get harder, though. Everyone here smokes, particularly the women. Smoke break is an institution - where I've done all my bonding. So I was upping the smoking "just to fit in", I know, terrible. Came down with bronchitis, so that's it. Quit today. It's going to stick, too. I wasn't really smoking much before I started this job, and I'll be damned if it makes me a pack-a-day for the next two years.

It's only been about a month here, so I'm sure it'll get better.

Periwinkle: How's your Korean?

Simone
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periwinkle



Joined: 08 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 12:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heh, I was going to sugest that you take up smoking!! People go to the roof here, and they'll stay up there for ages. They always go in pairs, too. Some people go maybe 10 times a day or so!!

My Korean is passable, but I don't use it here, because there are plenty of foreigners in my company, and many of the people in my dept. have a pretty good grasp of English (many studied and lived overseas), so I'm lucky. If I were you, I'd study Korean if the people you work with are really low level English speakers.
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sistersarah



Joined: 03 Jan 2004
Location: hiding out

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 1:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i don't teach anymore. i work in an office environment. i have good days and bad, times when i feel like i fit in and times when i feel like a freak. in general, my co-workers mean well, although they often have no idea how to approach me. some of them really get worked up about it. a few of them have no problem.

one thing that really bothered me was when a bunch of the women decided to start bringing their lunches to work. so everyone brings a side dish and they all share. looked like a great idea to me, but i didn't get an invitation. they've seen me eat korean food a million times, but still. i let that go and now go out with a few other co-workers every day. whatever.

we don't go out very often and it usually isn't organized. maybe 6 or 7 will go out for sam gyeop sal and noraebang. i usually go and eat some meat, shoot some soju and they say how much they wish they could speak better english and we take some pictures together. they're sweet, but they're re really young and don't have experience with foreigners. that's fine.

i wish i could say i had time to play computer games and read daves, but my schedule is pretty tight and i usually don't have time for a break in the afternoons. although, my co-workers seem to have more time, like for taking naps, socializing (sometimes very loudly), surfing the net, etc.

the thing i like about it is the flexibility. if i need to take a friday off, i'll just stay late on wed or thurs. if i sleep in and come in and hour late, i just stay another hour. my boss told me he doesn't really care about my exact hours, as long as the work gets done.

i don't know. it's not all i thought it would be, but when i get down about it, i just think.....hey, you're not teaching. not that i hated teaching, but it's good to be getting some different experience and i didn't feel like taking the chance at another teaching position.

sorry for the ramble!

sarah
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bobbyhanlon



Joined: 09 Nov 2003
Location: 서울

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 2:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i managed it, and to be honest i feel a lot more comfortable in my new working environment than in my days as a hakwon jockey. i suppose i was very lucky- since our company is full of gyopos, english is the main language spoken in our office.
my job is kinda strange- i'm trading american stocks, at night, from an office in seoul. thankfully this is my 'training period' so we'll hopefully be plying our trade on the korean market next year, and working normal hours. the most difficult part was getting used to working at night, and the havoc this played with my social life, sleep patterns etc. also the changeover from easy street hakwon life wasn't easy, but as ridiculous as it sounds, a hard day's work can sometimes make you feel good.
all in all i'm so glad i made this move... i'm more involved in regular korean society now, so i understand this place a lot more, and have made many more good friends as a result. also (sad to say, but true) you get so much more respect from people if you're not an english teacher.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 3:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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scared that my years of teaching English had rotted my brain



I find that a very strange thing to say. Teaching is a very creative and demanding endeavor. By no means am I saying it is for everyone because it isn't. But it certainly doesn't rot the brain.
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simone



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Now Mostly @ Home

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 3:48 pm    Post subject: ESL Brain Rot Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
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scared that my years of teaching English had rotted my brain



I find that a very strange thing to say. Teaching is a very creative and demanding endeavor. By no means am I saying it is for everyone because it isn't. But it certainly doesn't rot the brain.


I just never had a real vocation for teaching. I know what it means to have one - I'd say about 80% of my family are teachers, the other group in nursing. The odd military career, but everyone is in the public sector.

I was at a uni for four years. Same damned lesson plan 10 times a week. Different books some times, but because all four Native teachers were using the same exam, with NO GRADE CURVING, we had to make a point of standardizing our lessons as much as possible. Because I was the only one with a CELTA, I generally made very CELTA-style lesson plans for everyone, and they used it or not. That was the only mental stimulation. The rest was classroom management.

It was almost a personal challenge to me to see how hungover I could be on Friday and still teach the lesson as effectively as on Tuesday. Not good.

For people who really get something out of teaching, GREAT! We need more folks like you. I just wasn't 100% there, passionately, heart and soul, yada yada yada. What I'm doing now, in theory, is quite close to what I'd ideally want to be doing, but I'm just having issues of settling in.

Simone
Feeling the isolation more since I quit smoking this week.
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billybrobby



Joined: 09 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 4:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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So here I am at the new job, IT company, International Marketing and all that. The HOURS! The INEFFICIENCY! Spend your days playing computer games, but you have to stay until 8PM? Why do 12 hour days seem necessary to demonstrate your dedication?


GOD, i can relate. the korean work ethic is often impressive, but half of it is just show. it has nothing to do with accomplishing anything, its just a penance they pay to the company for the priviledge of working there. it may be culturally arrogant, but give me 5 americans working 40 hours a week and i'll accomplish what 10 koreans working 60 hours a week couldn't do.
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sparkx



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: thekimchipot.com

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 4:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hated teaching with every fiber of my being. Now that i'm out of it I feel a much greater sense of accomplishment which I honestly never felt as a hogwan jockey. Korea as a whole is MUCH MUCH easier to deal with now that i'm free from that life (for me anyways).

I love dealing with tangible things now - talking with overseas distributors and hammering out ideas and plans and then watching them come to fruition. Creating an entire International Program and getting feedback from all corners of the globe...these days, thats the stuff that winds my clock. I honestly like being the only foreigner here in a major Korean company. I either dog it and no one cares or i am given 100% creative control to complete some major project all on my own with no one breathing down my neck.

I also love the fact that i have a hand in almost everything that happens here from marketing and training to courseware development and PR.

bobbyhanlon wrote:
i'm more involved in regular korean society now, so i understand this place a lot more, and have made many more good friends as a result.


I'm the complete opposite. When i was teaching I made some great friends, many of whom ill keep in touch with my entire life. At my present job, I have zero interested in hanging out with the salarymen I work with in my free time...not to mention the fact that i'm often exposed to the nasty underbelly of 'the salaryman social life' which has really tainted my opinon of people here - sad but true. I've seen/heard of some shit that would dry your eye balls out.
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eamo



Joined: 08 Mar 2003
Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 5:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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i'm often exposed to the nasty underbelly of 'the salaryman social life' which has really tainted my opinon of people here - sad but true. I've seen/heard of some *beep* that would dry your eye balls out.


After saying that you're obliged to elaborate.
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Derrek



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 8:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

eamo wrote:
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i'm often exposed to the nasty underbelly of 'the salaryman social life' which has really tainted my opinon of people here - sad but true. I've seen/heard of some *beep* that would dry your eye balls out.


After saying that you're obliged to elaborate.


I second that. Very Happy
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simone



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Now Mostly @ Home

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Derrek wrote:
eamo wrote:
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I've seen/heard of some *beep* that would dry your eye balls out.


After saying that you're obliged to elaborate.


I second that. Very Happy



Okay fellas, I'm sure there are a ton of threads that can be picked up about room salon trips and nights of extended debauchery. Fortunately, as a chick, I can get out of a lot of the soju fests. I just need more wholesome substitutes to "build those relationships".

Has anyone tried to do any kind of language exchange with co-workers? I was thinking about that, but there's no way I'm coming in early, or staying later for it. I thought about lunch hour, but I can't make someone else give up their time in the crappy basement cafeteria.

I'm good with the work, but it just kind of sucks to spend my whole day speaking only to: My husband in the evening, and my one co-worker who basically acts as an intermediary between me and the rest of the office.

Second full day non-smoking. Went to the gym before work, felt great. Not going back. Mentioned to my co-worker's boss, (two up from me) that I quit smoking the other day, and his response: "Why?" Aren't women in Korea supposed to not smoke?

Ah well. Back to work.

Simone
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JongnoGuru



Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 8:37 pm    Post subject: Re: Who has successfully made the switch from ESL to "O Reply with quote

The thread title makes ESL sound like the Gilligan's Island of career choices. But after reading the OP, it sounds like Korea is Simone's Gilligan's Island of places to live in the world. You were an English teacher here for years. Scared that might have given you brain rot, you returned to Canada and got an MBA. You didn't like the jobs you were offered, so what do you do? You went to Korea. Again. Confused Off in the boonies, where all the women employees smoke (that one's just bizzare, but what hell do I know about the Korean boonies), with no good Korean restaurants and a crappy basement cafeteria. Oh yes, and you're feeling "totally 'Wang Ta'," as though you need to shape up and become more Korean, fast, but you don't want to.

Um... I know we're all the masters of our own destiny to some degree, but seriously, I must be missing a crucial piece of this puzzle.


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Len8



Joined: 12 Feb 2003
Location: Kyungju

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 8:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Most Korean office workers go to English hogwons in the morning and the afternoons after work. Maybe they have Korean hogwon classes in the mornings and the afternoons. Ok just joking.

The Korean Herald English Bulletin has people advertising for language exchange get to-gethers. The Bulletin also advertises free Korean classes as well.

For you guys not working in the ESL industry how did you get your Visas. What's the status there?
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